Chapter 23 Part Two: Reflections on "Famous School Complex" About Love

Dear Lianlian: I know you will often crawl to the Internet, climb to my electronic diary, and share the mood of my life.You are the youngest guest here, right? Although you never leave a single word, you are using your perspective to read my thoughts, which is enough.You know, this online diary is not only a record of my own experience (it can make the past years traceable, this kind of fun is not in the present, but a beautiful mood to re-experience when I don’t intend to look back), at the same time it is also I share the bridges with my dear friends, so even when I am busy, even if I want to be lazy, I will still stick to it.Whenever we think of the expectations and care of our loved ones, we are extra diligent.

In the UK, I often receive emails from you and various cute e-cards.Reading those innocent words of yours, I can't help but giggle.Sometimes, when people around me saw it, they would ask me with a weird smile: "It's your boyfriend, I can't hide your happiness." And I would tell them proudly: "No, it's my sister. What!" Today is the last day of 2003, so I will give you today's diary as a New Year's gift.Post the letter here, will there be some surprises when you come? Do you still remember that summer afternoon, we sat face to face, drank cool drinks, and shared little stories with each other.Before that, I had always regarded you as a child who didn't know much about the world, after all, you were eight years younger than me.After people become adults, they often forget that they were once a child, and forget the state of mind when they were children.So when you told me about life and love, I was so surprised. You are still a child, how can you be so sensible?Do you know, I am so grateful for that conversation, in the trance of time and space, I seem to have returned to my sixteen years old, and the you in front of me overlapped with the precocious and sensitive self back then.In that wonderful afternoon, I talked with you and my former self.

When a boy writes to you, your parents always worry about it.They ask me to "educate" you with insinuations, but I just won't give you shit about puppy love.The first is because of "do unto others as you would not have them do to you", when I am flattered by my puppy love, this is what bothers me the most; Your mom and dad played together in nursery, held hands in high school, and that led to the red carpet and the old married couple.You know where your name comes from, don't you?Love, a simple word contains your parents' deep attachment to each other.How blessed you were to be born into such a deep love.

I just want to tell you that liking is a natural emotion, beautiful and simple.But it takes time and a more mature heart to determine a love.Time is a wonderful thing, it will let you know what you really want and what is just a beautiful illusion.We live in an age of impatience, and people become impatient because of fear of loss; because of impatience, we tend to lose many of the best things.Loving someone can be your own mood; love is the career of two people.Love also requires preparation, the more you prepare, the more you will gain. One day, you meet a boy you like (maybe he has already appeared:) Try to keep your love in your heart and let it nourish your growth.Yes, this kind of waiting will take you a lot of time, but what makes a relationship beautiful and unique is that we take time for it.It is precisely because of the time spent that it becomes valuable and irreplaceable.This kind of waiting is not negative, because you are not waiting for a person, but waiting for a more mature self.

One day, you really grow up, and you are really sure that the person you liked at the time is still in your heart.Then, the ends of the earth are not too far away, you can walk up to him generously and tell him in a firm but gentle voice: "Hi, I like you."