Chapter 18 Chapter Eighteen

About men (1) I am a woman who likes men, I love the mystery of flirting, the heartbeat of love, and lovemaking.I just hope that the man who is with me will give me joy and happiness. If there is love in this package, that would be great.I also like to study men, write small articles, and make fun of them.The success of the article certainly made me a little proud.I have also written a few articles about men, and I put them here, maybe I can make up for the offended readers by my refusal to talk about privacy.The man is divided into two parts, the upper half and the lower half.The first half is self-cultivation, and the second half is essence.

Most of the time a woman marries a man because of his upper body, and she likes to be a well-bred husband.It's easy to know the top half of a man, and sometimes a business card can tell the story, or a passbook.A careful woman will also pay attention to some details, such as what brand the suit is, which school the diploma is from, how many square meters the house has, and so on. The lower half of a man is the essence. The so-called essence refers to a person's true qualities and qualities.True color is what is inside him, hidden inside it is not easy to see, but it determines whether a man is kind, peaceful, fair, romantic, gentle, or vicious, twisted, selfish, mean, and violent.A woman who can see the true colors of a man is not something you can meet every day.

If ethos is internal, then quality is determined through a person's behavior toward other people.His mannerisms and conduct are all determined by his qualities, including making love.Society teaches women not to have sex with men unless they are married. It really hurts women.I have a friend, we all call him "Brother Xu", when he was dating, he often asked his girlfriend to sleep with him, he said: "How can you wait until you get married, if you don't make love to me, how can you understand me? Isn't it too rash for you to marry me without knowing me! "As a result, he was often slapped in the face. And I think brother Xu is one of the few men who is more sincere.

A friend of mine, a man, went to study in the United States in the early 1980s. He was overly "exposed" in the first year there. He tried everything he hadn't done in China.Once he and a group of American classmates took "medicine mushrooms", which is a kind of hallucination drug that American Indians take during rituals. After taking it, he began to imagine that his upper half and lower half were separated. Half of it followed the Red Army to Jinggangshan, and the second half ran away with an American girl.This means that his appearance is revolutionary, but his essence is more petty bourgeois.

We women should pay more attention to the lower half of a man, this is the most fundamental thing.If the second half doesn't work, the first half will definitely not be much better.The children-loving men B, Q and Mr. X always get together. I knew B and Q once they followed X to join in the fun.Once you enter Mr. B's house, it's like going to kindergarten, where five children are "making trouble in heaven" in a three-bedroom apartment. B's wife is a well-known folk musician. She was in the recording studio that night, and she didn't know what time she would get home. The wives of Q and X are both French and work overtime in the company.Among the five lively "little monkeys" were children from each of their families, as well as two children from B's relatives.To be honest, seeing so many children makes my scalp numb, and I feel a little regretful, afraid that these three gentlemen will leave me alone to watch the children.

After entering the door, he began to prepare dinner. Mr. B was sweating profusely in the kitchen cooking, and Q ran downstairs (B lives on the sixth floor!) and brought up a case of beer, panting from exhaustion. X immediately entered the role of the king of children, called five children aside, and somersaulted on his lap side by side. These children seemed to be familiar with this game and had a good time.I am alone in the living room watching TV. When the meal is ready, B, Q, and X invite five children to eat, each with a small bowl, and the three fathers go back and forth to add food to several children.The children were coaxed by X to play games in another room after eating, probably enough tossing before the meal, and the five little ancestors calmed down after eating.

At this time, B brings out several plates of wine from the kitchen, Q and X each hold a bottle of beer, B does not drink, and opens a bottle of Coke.It was only after I chatted with them that these three men didn't have to work, and they had more time than ordinary people, and they were more free.But their wives are busy every day.These three men started to house the house and take care of the children. mpanel(1); I watched them arrange children's entertainment, meals and rest naturally this evening.From their expressions, I seem to think that they are very happy, especially when they are with their children, when the child calls "Daddy", their eyes light up.Three people rushed to play with the child.

But when I talked to them, I found that they were quite painful.They are afraid that people will laugh at them for being worthless, so it is better for their own women to earn more money outside, especially Q and X. Of course, foreign wives earn several times more than any Chinese white-collar workers in foreign companies. It is really not easy to find a man who loves his family so much nowadays.Watching them bring up their children, I realized that the way a man loves children is very attractive, and it seems to be the kind of feeling that gold does not change.