Chapter 51 Post-practical point of view wins the moment...

As a business manager, no one wants to win. Winning can represent value, and becoming a winner is almost every operator's pursuit of day and night dreams, and it is also the standard for each operator to evaluate himself. In fact, there are winners and there must be losers. For their own value recognition, the loser must deliberately beat the winner to become a winner. At this time, the original winner may become a loser. This kind of winning and losing, winning and losing, has become the best portrayal of human society for thousands of years. When human beings fail in pursuit, although it may bring a lot of pain and inconvenience to real life, but at this time the heart is relatively peaceful.Now that I have lost, I can often admit it, and I feel less uneasy.

Xiang Yu's portrayal before committing suicide in Wujiang River, although he has a bit of a resentful tone, but his state of mind when facing death is much calmer. He was able to start the efficient killing game at the last moment, and brought his personal combat art to the peak , more or less due to the effect of his peace of mind that he vowed to die. But the winner, in his heart, may not be so lucky. In sports competitions, winners are most likely to suffer setbacks under the pressure of too much focus on gains and losses. In fact, any winner is full of anxiety. In a Chinese proverb, "a big tree attracts the wind, which is to describe the real challenges faced by the winners."

Because the winner may be retaliated as a loser, and the winner is most afraid of becoming a loser, this makes the winner guilty.The heart is full of uneasiness. The more people win, the more restless they are. The more restless they are, the more they want to win, but the more they can't afford to lose. Therefore, the pressure is greater and the mood is more painful. After defeating Xiang Yu, Liu Bang faced this challenge. Even if he can let go, it does not mean that there is no pressure. The group of people who live on the winners are often more unable to afford to lose. They will oppress the winners to continue to win. Their means of protecting the results are often better than the winners themselves. Even more tragic.

Liu Bang had to control Han Xin. Even if Liu Bang trusted Han Xin, the people around him would not welcome Han Xin. Zhang Liang understood this truth, so after he succeeded, he seldom offered any ideas, all he wanted to do was impress Zhang Liang's wisdom with Chisongzi, so that he would know how to get along with winners. Although Han Xin is good at strategy, his strategy is a tool to win the winner, so he cannot compete with "the winner itself. All historical data show that Han Xin did not have any malice towards Liu Bang. He never wanted to betray Liu Bang, nor did he want to defeat Liu Bang."

But Han Xin still couldn't understand the "winning and losing" level. His heart was full of thoughts of wanting to win, so he continued to take the initiative to create Liu Bang's anxiety. Although he didn't want to really win Liu Bang, he proved his value by creating Liu Bang's anxiety. But also because of this, he slowly pushed himself to the edge of danger. No matter in terms of rewarding meritorious officials, enfeoffing princes of the Liu family, establishing court etiquette, and explaining the reasons for his victory, Liu Bang's performance after winning was not as free and easy and humane as he was during the struggle between Chu and Han.He obviously became more and more restless and restless, and these restlessness and restlessness also made his thoughts stronger and his desires higher.The more he wins, the more he can't afford to lose. A struggle between him and his original partners had to start under this mentality.

People who win more and have more power tend to be more restless and miserable, and worst of all, this pain cannot be shown because they have to act more like a "winner." Winners who can see through the "win-lose barrier", face possible losses and setbacks, accept all possibilities calmly, forget about the anxiety of losing and setbacks, and only then can they truly enjoy the joy and fun of winners.