Chapter 11 Wang Jing

She wants to perform, I want to compete, in a hurry, and there is too little time to really exchange feelings together. It can be said that I am basically not interested in music, and I know nothing about literature and art.I remember one time when Chen Haosu invited me to see the performance of the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe. I had to go because of affection, but I fell asleep on the rostrum. The sound of snoring was transmitted through the loudspeaker on the rostrum. I am in a hurry.And Wang Jing is an opera singer of the Song and Dance Troupe of the General Political Department. We are separated by mountains and rivers, and we never met each other. If we didn't go to Hunan to participate in an event, we would never have known each other.

On the eve of the Spring Festival in 1990, Hunan TV Station wanted to invite some celebrities from Beijing to their Spring Festival Gala. They found me through a deputy director of the Training Bureau from Hunan.I didn't want to participate in such activities at all. The director asked me to show him some face, and said that it would take only two days to fly back and forth. I had no choice but to agree. At that time, I was very well-known and qualified, and when I was on business trips, I would always come to the gate of the building to pick me up.Before departure, I suddenly received a call, asking me to go to the gate of the training bureau to get on the bus.The building where I live is still some distance away from the gate, and the weather in January is cold, and I always have a car and heating when I travel on business, and I never wear cotton-padded clothes.He said Wang Jing, an actress from the General Political Department, wanted to go with me, and he agreed to wait for her at the gate.I was not very happy when I heard it, but I had no choice but to carry my bag and brave the cold wind to the gate.We sat in the car and waited for a long time, but Wang Jing didn't come. We couldn't wait any longer and went directly to the airport.I was holding back my anger, but I had nowhere to vent it.

When I walked into the airport hall, someone came to me and said that Wang Jing was over there, did you go to meet her? I saw a woman over there from a distance, dressed very fashionable, and I thought to myself who is Wang Jing?I have been waiting for her for a long time just now, why should I go to see her now?So I said she would like to see me and asked her to come, but it was impossible for me to go.After the man left me, he walked towards Wang Jing. Later, after listening to Wang Jing, he also asked her, "Nie Weiping is here, do you want to see her?"She also thought I was nothing, why did she come to visit him?At that time, we were all on airs, but nothing happened.But then I knew she was Wang Jing.

In fact, there are not many real celebrities in this performance, only Sun Zhengping, Hao Aimin, Huang Zhihong and Jing Gangshan who later became famous. Maybe Wang Jing and I were the most famous people on that flight, the so-called "big names", so we arrived In Changsha, we specially arranged a high-end car for the two of us, and the others all took big sedan chairs.I didn't know at first, but I sat in the car when they asked me to get in. After waiting for a long time, I asked the driver why he didn't drive. The driver said that Wang Jing didn't come and I had to wait for her.I said why do I have to wait for her, she can take another car.The driver said that the leader had to let her take this car.I was even more uncomfortable listening to it.I only take a bag when I go out, and I carry it with me. She is an actress, and she brought a lot of boxes, costumes and so on.When she saw me sitting in the back row, she sat next to the driver in the front row without saying hello. We didn't say a word along the way.

During the meal, the organizer arranged her next to me again. At this time, we only talked a few words, but not much, just socializing.Now if you ask Wang Jing if she drinks alcohol, she will definitely say no.At that time, when people asked her, she said drink, so they toasted her one after another.She can drink quite well, which caught my attention.I have a good capacity for alcohol, so I just wanted to take this opportunity to get her drunk, make her make a fool of myself, and vent my pent-up resentment. I started pouring her down with all my might, and naturally talked a lot, but I didn't drink her down after drinking it, which was really beyond my expectation.I told her that she could continue to drink when she was free in the evening, but I insisted on putting her down, and she actually agreed.That's how we got to know each other, but we didn't have much contact.

The most important thing was that there was no plane back, so I, Sun Zhengping, Hao Aimin, and Wang Jing took a soft sleeper box. We had nothing to do all day and all night, so we chatted together, became acquainted with each other, and left each other's phone calls. After returning to Beijing, she called me and asked me to go to karaoke.I've never been to karaoke before, this is the first time, in a karaoke parlor near Dongdan.She doesn't sing, I can't sing, we ordered some wine and chatted while drinking.I feel that she has a crush on me, no matter how stupid I am, I will never be so stupid that I don’t feel anything at all, besides, my relationship with Xiao Kong was on the verge of collapse, not to mention Wang Jing, any girl came to me , I will associate with her.

During the Spring Festival, a friend held a party at home and invited me and Xiao Kong to participate.I hope that Wang Jing can also participate, but I can't let Xiao Kong know that I invited him, so I asked Fu Liang to get a car to pick Wang Jing up.The feeling of being a woman is really strong. At that time, many people from the literary and art circles were invited, and Wang Jing and I hardly spoke that night. Xiao Kong still felt the relationship between me and Wang Jing. Since then, Wang Jing has often come to the Sports Commission to see me, and she is not afraid of others' comments.When I go to her place, I always hide and hide, and I dare not make it public. The collar of my winter coat is turned up, my head is lowered, and I never dare to walk with my head up.At that time, she still lived in Tongzilou, and there were so many people, I felt it was very dangerous, so I didn't go there many times, mainly because she came to see me.Later, people talked about it a lot, maybe it was a rebellious psychology, but they didn't care anymore.

In March 1990, it was the tenth anniversary of my marriage with Kong Xiangming. She insisted that I hold a commemorative event for her. She said that we could break up after doing this one last time.As a husband and wife for ten years, I can't shirk her desire to satisfy her, which is not too much.The ceremony that day was very grand, and many friends from all walks of life went there, probably hundreds of people attended.Wang Jing and her brother Wang Gang also went that day.At that time, my marriage with Xiao Kong was over. It can be said that it was a "farewell party", but many friends who attended the party did not know it.

The next thing I have said before, after Kong Xiangming and I divorced, I married Wang Jing immediately, because time was imminent.Not long after, Wang Jing's due date arrived, and she responded. Her girlfriend Yang Ying and I sent her to Tongren Hospital, and then went to the Xinqiao Restaurant next to the hospital to drink and wait while Yang Ying kept checking back and forth for news. . While waiting, a service lady poured a glass of drink on me inexplicably. At this moment, Yang Ying told me that Wang Jing gave birth to a son. , hurried to the hospital.I just like my son, and I told Yang Ying when I was drinking, if you give birth to a daughter, you can go see her by yourself.Later, Wang Gang named our son Nie Yunqing.

Yun Qing was not as smart as Yun Cong when she was a child. When she was six years old, she learned arithmetic and broke her fingers. I was so angry that I said, why are you so stupid, are you still my son?Wang Jing always complained that I didn't teach him well. I didn't teach him well, but how can I teach him? I can't teach children to a certain level, and when I teach him, I get anxious and want to beat him , really angry!Of course, I still like him very much, but I think he is a bit stupid, maybe it is "deep love, great responsibility"! When Yun Qing was six years old, we planned to send him to school.I used to be from Beijing Primary School, and I hoped that he could go to Beijing Primary School, but our hukou was not within the enrollment range of Beijing Primary School, so I went to the principal of Beijing Primary School and asked him if he could accept my son in this situation.The principal said yes, but you have to pass the exam.He also told me that it is not good to go to school at the age of six. According to their experience, children who are too early are inferior to others in all aspects of development. This will easily affect the child's self-esteem and is not conducive to the healthy growth of the child.Under the persuasion of the principal, I made up my mind not to let my child go to school.

In the second year, I personally took my son to apply for Beijing Primary School. During the exam, like other parents, I stood and waited in the playground outside the exam room. In June, the weather was already very hot, and I felt overwhelmed after standing for a while. .Later a teacher found me and called me to sit inside.The exam lasted for several hours. Looking at the parents who were still standing outside, I felt that being a parent was not easy.After the exam, I saw that the teacher's comments on his son were not very good, saying that he didn't pay attention to the lecture, and he sang during the teacher's lecture.But he was admitted later, and I didn't find anyone.Afterwards, I thought, such an evaluation, if it is an ordinary child, I am afraid that it will be eliminated. Because it is my son, I went there again that day, which may have played a certain role.Actually I haven't approached anyone for this. Wang Jing and I usually have a relatively peaceful daily life, but there are very few real emotional exchanges, and she seldom cares about me in life. She has never helped me pack my business trips, and I have to do it myself. In the past, the small holes were already arranged for me, and when to wear and which to wear was explained clearly in advance.Now I often make mistakes myself. I didn’t bring what I should have brought, and I brought a lot of what I shouldn’t. I’m so tired.In chess, she was even less helpful to me. She never asked me whether I won or lost the game, and she didn't care. All she cared about was her own affairs.Financially, I am the breadwinner for the family. She said how much she needed, and I took it back. I didn't know how much she earned, and I didn't ask.In addition, she never followed me when I went out, and I rarely participated in her activities, except when I went out to eat or play somewhere, she only went when I needed to take the children.Because I can't take care of the child, I can't control him. Even so, I am still very responsible to Wang Jing. In 1991, she wanted to hold a solo concert. She couldn’t do it with her own strength. First of all, she couldn’t do it financially, such as venue rent, band, publicity, clothing, etc. , needs about 600,000 yuan.I gave her great support through my friends, and invited Chairman Ngapoi, Rong Gaotang and other leaders to attend her concert. After the performance, Yunqing and I came to the stage with flowers to congratulate.The concert was very grand and successful at the Poly Building. Although there are various unsatisfactory aspects in my marriage with Wang Jing, I am afraid that like most other marriages, it is neither the best nor the worst.