Chapter 45 The first chapter life experience

If you are willing to give up, you will gain if you give up, and if you give up, you will gain greatly.Give up face to get truth; give up power to get leisure; give up tobacco and alcohol to get health; the less things a company does, the better it can do; the fewer friends to make, the closer friendship can be; be willing to be willing to subordinates Only by giving can you get the respect of your subordinates; only by being willing to speak sweetly to your girlfriend can you win your girlfriend's heart. Misfortune is where blessings rest, and blessings are where misfortune lies.Great success is watered by great pain.Big setbacks are preparations for big successes.Xiaoping did not have three falls, so it is impossible to become the chief designer.Those who win the lottery often live unhappy lives afterwards.Throughout a person's life, total happiness = total pain.We need a normal heart.When you get happiness, don't forget that there is just as much pain waiting for you later.

What is wealth?If you don't need to bow to others, you will be expensive; if you don't need to reach out to others, you will be rich.Therefore, you cannot judge your status by your status, nor your wealth by your wealth.Officials who fawn on leaders are not nobles; rich people who borrow a lot are not rich.The real wealthy people are often among the common people, and the frequent visitors in the media are often three types of people: neither rich nor expensive, rich but not expensive, and expensive but not rich. Oppositionists who always come out to criticize are generally hated.When I first started my business, I was always upset when I was picked on and offended, but I didn’t say anything about it.As I grow older, I gradually realize the many advantages of the opposition: 1. The opposition is generally pure and simple; 2. The opposition picks faults from the silence and negligence of the majority. Problems that are not easy to spot / no reason not to be kind to someone with that ability.

My friend is a child with a master's degree from a prestigious university. He works for a commercial bank in Guangdong. He works 6 days a week, and Sundays are sometimes occupied. The monthly salary is about 3,500 yuan.His classmate is employed in a certain bureau in the same city, and his monthly income is about 7,500 yuan.The child complained, and I comforted him: 1. Be content; 2. Be regular in everything, and the rewards for your efforts are generally not bad. After a few years, your classmates may envy you in turn. Knowing that young people have done wrong, pointing it out many times but not listening, then wait for the result.Failure is a lesson that must be learned in growth. Without personal experience of failure, it is difficult to correct yourself.Momentum is the capital of young people, and self-confidence is the wealth of young people. The young people who are more worthy of expectation are those who have not lost their momentum after a fall, but are more balanced and comprehensive.