Chapter 53 The love of my life: Lin Fengjiao

Back then, there was a magazine in Hong Kong called "Silver World". Once, the editor, Ms. Wang Anni, called me and said she wanted to show me some photos she had taken.I went to the World Garden in Sha Tin to find her, and when I walked in, I saw two girls sitting there, one was Wang Anni and the other was Lin Fengjiao.At that time, I felt that this girl looked so pure, and there was a feeling of astonishment. Qin Xianglin is my brother, because of his relationship, I also watched the movie played by Lin Fengjiao.Later, I had the opportunity to go to Taiwan, so I called her: "You said that if I come to Taiwan, you will treat me to dinner as a landlord." She said yes, let's go if we want to eat.

I still brought a large group of brothers with me habitually, and she also brought her sister along.Although I said that I wanted her to be a landlord, but I brought so many people, so I told her that I invited this meal, and she didn't object, so I asked everyone to order food.When I was young, I was very particular about pomp.I remember that a long time ago, I told everyone that I don’t like fish and I’m afraid of fishy fish. Later, the brothers in the family class took this as a ban. Every time I went out to eat, I told people that I don’t like fish, so don’t order fish .Seeing seafood around, I hurriedly said, hurry up, take it to the side, my elder brother doesn't like it.Over time, I also enjoyed this sense of panache myself, and I really believed that I just didn't eat fish.

When ordering food, my brothers told her that our eldest brother doesn't eat fish.She said, why not eat fish?The fish here is delicious!Let me help you.Wow, a group of brothers feel very happy.A group of people were buzzing together, and the meal was over in no time.During the meal, I didn't seem to talk much, but it's strange that after the meal, all my brothers had a particularly good impression of her.Everyone told me next to me, brother, she is so beautiful and a nice person.I deliberately said, yes, she is chasing me.It was so childish back then. Later, I went out to eat a few times.In the process of getting along with her, I gradually discovered that she is different.Her personality is very gentle and approachable, she does not have the airs of a star, she does not like extravagant clothes or decorations, and usually dresses very plainly.Even though I've always acted rough, she didn't care and always got my way and made me feel comfortable.She never corrected my pronunciation, grammar, or manners, and when she went out to eat, she often went to less fancy places and ate the same things as me.I like to hang out with my friends, and she is by my side, watching a group of old men drink and play cards in the bar, and she is very happy by the side.She laughs no matter what I say.

All of these make me feel that I can be myself, and her appreciation of me is not because I am a star, but because of me.I never asked her why she likes me, but sometimes I often think in my heart, how could she like me?But she didn't seem to refuse. Once during a meal, she mentioned that she was filming a movie, and there was an action scene the next day. She had no experience and didn't know how to protect herself, so I asked me to give her some advice.I asked her, where are you shooting tomorrow?She told me the location.I said yes, I'll bring you something tomorrow.The next day, I showed up at Lin Fengjiao's set with the whole family-making team.Everyone was shocked.

It's kind of my way of chasing girls.By then I was already on the offensive.During that time, I was filming in Hong Kong, and she was filming in Taiwan. When I was free, I went to visit her class, brought her something to eat, and sometimes asked her to visit my class. The two of them had a clear understanding of each other. a feeling of.It was very funny once, she came to my studio, we two found a place to chat, it was a big sun that day, I deliberately stood under the sun by myself, let her hide in a shaded place, but when the work was over, I was fine, she blushed Injured, and then the whole body hurts.

At the same time, various gossip reports in the media followed.A lot of people don't like me being with her.She is a well-loved actress with a very positive image, but I am a rough person who made it through kung fu, and I don't seem to be trustworthy.Many people think that I am not a good match for her.What is even more frightening is that a Japanese media published a piece of news that I was married, causing two Japanese movie fans to commit suicide one after another for me.This made things serious, and I began to worry that these rumors would continue to hurt Lin Fengjiao and the fans.Looking back now, if the media environment at that time was as developed as it is now, we might have separated long ago.

It was at that stage that one day she told me that she was pregnant.I just said, I want this child.She said, well, for your words, I will give birth to him.At that time, although I looked calm, I was actually a little confused and didn't know what to do.The fake news of the marriage has already caused movie fans to commit suicide. If the pregnancy is exposed, I don’t know what will happen again.I went to ask my godfather He Guanchang for his opinion, and he suggested that I let Lin Fengjiao go to the United States first, and then talk about it after giving birth to the child.I discussed with her, she did not refuse.At that time, when she was very popular, she suddenly turned down all the dramas and flew to the United States.I was filming at the time, and only my agent flew there with her to settle her down. When the agent came back, she was left alone with no one to take care of her.

I have been working throughout her pregnancy and have not been to the US once.I didn't fly to America until she was about to give birth.To give birth to a child, you have to fill in a form. She said, if a son can be born, there is a father's name on the form.I said yes, so how do I do it?My agent said, let’s get married first. We found a pastor, and it was in a coffee shop on the top floor in Los Angeles. There were a lot of people outside like a tea restaurant, and everyone was having lunch.When we got to a small private room, it was still very noisy, and we could still hear the people in the next seat talking.The pastor was there to help us officiate the ceremony.Do you want to?Both of them nodded, and the ceremony was completed, which was very perfunctory.

That night, she was admitted to the hospital.I also followed into the hospital to accompany her.I waited for half the night and nothing happened. I felt very sleepy due to jet lag, so I called a friend and said that you were here with me, and I went back to sleep first. When I got home, I couldn't sleep.My agent and I decided on a name.I once thought that a man is not rich without a flower name, and a horse is not fat without weeds. How can we give him a famous name?I think about it a lot.I thought of two Chen, called Chen Chen, or Chen Dian, and a little bit of Dian.Just click a dot on the name, or call it Chen Ji, so that even if the teacher is punished to write the name in the future, the writing will be very fast.My agent told me that these are not names that you think of and cannot be registered.Then I don't know what to call it.Later, I asked my father, and only then did I get the name of my ancestors.As for the English name, Peter, David, I talked a lot about it, but I didn’t think it was good.Then I thought, why not just use the J and C in my Jackie Chan, so I took Jaycee, which has both J and C.

Just thinking about it, I received a call from my friend from the hospital, and gave birth!I hurried to the hospital, and as soon as I got there, I saw that it was Fang Zuming. Babies are ugly when they are born, and I don’t feel anything when I look at them, and I don’t care much about what a boy looks like. I first check to see if his bones are “double bones”.Like most people, I have a "single bone", but others say I have a "double bone", which means that my bones are very thick.Those who practice martial arts must have thick bones.When I saw that he had "double bones", I was very happy.At that moment, looking at the two bones, and then looking at the child, very inadvertently shed two tears.My agent was crying too.I also never imagined that today's Jackie Chan has a child of his own.After shedding tears, he laughed again.

At that time Lin Fengjiao was still in the ward, I didn't spend much time with her, I just asked my friend to take good care of her, and I went back to Hong Kong to continue filming. I was born in martial arts, and my friends around me are also martial arts. We all have painful emotional experiences, and when we get together to chat, we will hear various stories.For example, when I came back from filming a movie, I lost everything at home, including money, passbooks, and furniture. They were all "looted" by my girlfriend, and everyone disappeared.At that time, even the famous director Luo Wei was cheated by women, but he was the one who made Bruce Lee popular!One day when he returned to Hong Kong after filming, he found that the house and money were gone. His girlfriend at the time secretly transferred all the money away. Before leaving, he wrote a check for 500,000 yuan and threw it to him. What an insult!He yelled at the woman, tore the 500,000 yuan to pieces, and threw it in her face, "I don't want a dime!" As a result, the woman turned around and walked away with a smile.When talking about this incident, he cried very sadly with us. "How can a woman be so bad?" At that time, we were a group of men, and when we heard that the hard-earned money we had exchanged our lives for was cheated, we also felt that there were so many bad women.Sometimes when discussing me, they would say, Lin Fengjiao got pregnant just to tie you up, she must have planned it long ago.After hearing these words too much, I also began to wonder if she had any purpose with me, and I was a little defensive against her psychologically.The money I earn is squandered by myself, and I give her a fixed household every month, so that she and her son have a car, a house and money to spend, but I never give all the money to her.If she divorces, she won't be able to share my money.You see how bad and stupid I was at that time, always trying to transfer property.Looking back now, it’s very naive. Why didn’t I think that her career was booming at that time, and she herself was very rich, so why would she want my money?She is willing to be with me because she really loves me.But the environment around me was like that at the time, and I was involuntarily affected by it, so I didn't think about it at all.It's like sometimes girls get together to scold their boyfriends or husbands, and after scolding, they also think that men are so bad. All along, no matter how I treat her, the way she behaves has never changed.Sometimes I even naively want to find a reason to divorce her so that I can regain my freedom, but she has done nothing wrong for so many years, so I have a reason to divorce her.She is so kind to the children, so responsible to the family, and does not interfere with my work. Until I made that terrible mistake. At that time, the reports in the media were like an explosion. I wanted to call her, but I didn't know what to say.I can't explain it.This mistake is not something I can make up for by saying I'm sorry.I have no way to make it up.Then I thought, no need to explain, just divorce.I made such a big mistake, I must be getting a divorce.When I thought of this, I suddenly felt relieved, because I didn't need to explain.I just need to make a phone call, as long as she confronts me on the phone, saying why you are like this, I will directly say divorce, and then hang up, "the best of both worlds". I call her. "Hello", the other party's voice is very calm. "Hey, did you see the newspaper?" She said "yes" and was silent.When she was silent, I couldn't speak anymore.What I thought at the time was, you scolded me, why didn't you scold me?But she didn't make any sound.Then I could just keep talking and say, "I...don't know...how to explain it." "You don't need to explain. You don't want to hurt others, and you don't want others to hurt us. Now any time, as long as you need me and your son to stand up, we can stand up right away. I know you are annoying now. Leave me alone , I'm fine, you go to your business first." Halfway through her speech, I was in tears.I didn't say anything more and hung up the phone.After hanging up, I saw a second Jackie Chan standing in front of me and said to myself, you are such a bastard.For so many years, you have defended others like this, but they are so sincere for you. At that moment, my attitude toward her made a 180-degree turn in my heart.I felt so bad, so bad.I am really sorry for her. After two days, I went home.She opened the door, saw me, said Hi, without any expression, and went back to the kitchen to continue cooking.Ask me what I want to eat, I can't tell what I want to eat, so I just stand beside her, I don't know what to say, after standing for a while, I go back to the living room and sit down, waiting, she is busy all the time, until The son came back from school.He still looked like a fool, looked at me, said Hi, and then threw his schoolbag upstairs.I haven't seen him for so long, and he didn't come to give me a hug when he came back, and he didn't say anything more.The whole house is so big that I am left alone in the living room. I went to the kitchen, called her out, and called my son from upstairs, and we all sat together. I said, can we have our first family meeting for the first time in many years.I said, I made an unforgivable mistake, I don't know how to explain it, and I don't want to explain it, thank you for your understanding and understanding.I know you are going to be under a lot of pressure, now and in the future, so let me start by saying sorry.When I said this, my son kept looking at me, Miss Lin kept crying, and my son kept patting my mother's back with his hands, and then I didn't dare to continue talking.I said, this family meeting is over.Then stand up, "Let's go eat". While I was talking, she remained silent.It was the only time the three of us talked about it, and it was never brought up again. After that, I immediately asked a lawyer to change my will and give her all my property and everything.In later life, I respected her more and more in all aspects, and understood her more and more.At that time, I also began to realize that I should learn more about her world. I have always lived in my own world, and I took the family team Tian Nanhai to fight from east to west. Today I did a big blast and survived. Everyone is very happy. The next day is another drama, which never stops .In the past, she didn't dare to come to visit the set when filming. She dared to come only when I asked her to come.I didn't want her to see me doing those dangerous scenes on set. "Dragon Brother Tiger Brother" I had such a serious accident that I almost died. She didn't know the news until a week after the brain surgery.She called to ask why I didn't tell her, and I said angrily, "Don't worry about me. I'll have the surgery, and if you know it, will you let me avoid the operation? Can it guarantee the success of the operation? No! In this case Why should I worry you? I'm a big man, if I die, I'll die, and I'll be fine." She cried on the other end of the phone.I was not happy to hear her cry, and said: "Why are you crying? Do you want me to report to you every day that my hand is cut today, and my leg is broken tomorrow. I work so hard. Is that so? This is because the son is acting like a baby with his mother. If I could, I wouldn't tell you that." Then one day, I asked my son what he wanted to be when he grew up. Dad hoped that he would study hard in college. He said, "I don't want to study." "What do you want to do if you don't study?" He said to his mother, "I want to enter the film industry. "I said: "Okay! You finish college first." He said that after finishing his studies, he would enter the film industry.That night, I suddenly heard someone crying in the toilet.Go in and see it's her. "What did I do wrong again, why are you crying?" She said, "Didn't you hear what your son said this morning?" "What did you say?" I had already forgotten. "He said he was going to be in the movie business!" I said, "That's great!" Wow, she cried even harder. "Why do you cry when you enter the movie industry?" She said, "Because of the movie industry, I don't have a husband anymore, and if my son makes movies, I don't even have a son." I had to say: "Silly girl, no of." She and I made a rule very early on, don't get angry because of some trivial things in life, and speak out if you are dissatisfied.Usually when I’m not filming, as long as I’m at home, I’ll make an appointment with her. We have a meeting once a week. In fact, we’re just chatting and telling what she doesn’t like about me and what I don’t like about her.The two of us were sitting on the balcony, and she would say, what's going on this week, what should you do, and when it's my turn, I can't say a single one.By the next week, I was still like this, unable to say anything. Over the years, she has never left me.Gradually as people become more and more mature, they no longer care so much about what they have, but are more willing to give things away. I donated half of my fortune to the foundation 15 years ago.Everything in the will is written for everyone.This is also something I learned from society. I saw so many wealthy family members sue for their property, the rich and the poor. I absolutely cannot accept that my family has become like that. Suing the company, this is absolutely not acceptable, so I wrote everything clearly very early on. After 30 years of filming, Lin Fengjiao showed her face in "Zodiac" for about a second. I begged her for a year to shoot this scene.It turned out that she refused to act no matter what, thinking that Xiying is Xiying, which cannot be violated, and she is unwilling to be on camera again.Finally one day, I invited her to the studio to watch some of the clips I shot, and she was very distressed when she saw me hurt inside. As a director, it may be the last time I performed those dangerous actions, she was moved by me and reluctantly agreed. In order for her to act comfortably, I also moved the entire set from Beijing to my own studio in Hong Kong.On the day of filming, she didn't show up on the set until the afternoon.In order to prevent her from going back on her word, I made an agreement with all the staff in advance, as long as I said to try it, it would be a real shot.When I saw her coming, I said, "Come, come, let's try the scene." She walked around, and after she finished I said, "Okay, the filming is over!"Originally, she insisted on only showing her back, but I played a clever trick. When she came over, I deliberately hugged her and kissed her, and turned her face to the camera. The screen in seconds. In the past, I flew around the world most of the time. Even if I was in Hong Kong, I would be full of various things, and I couldn't be with her and my son all the time.If someone asks me, do you regret it now?I regretted it, but maybe it was just as well.If you haven't gone through this process, you don't know. Loss and gain, success and failure, all have their reasons.If I had been with her every day at that time, the two of us might have separated long ago.Now Lin Fengjiao often tells others that the stock she invested in is the best.Recalling that I have been with her for so many years, I was a rough person at the beginning, and then I have come all the way to today, because of her dedication to me without any regrets, so that I can achieve today's results without any worries.I was discriminated against when I was a child, and I grew up poor. When I finally got the opportunity, I was eager to succeed, and I was eager to present one good work after another to the world to prove my worth. I once said that I am sorry for many people, but I am sorry for my family.When I was young, I was selfish, didn't know how to consider others, and was easily influenced by the noises around me, but she let me go outside to explore the world.What she has done for me to this day has made me respect her even more.I am not a good husband, not a good father, but I am responsible for their mother and child.Over the years, many loving couples have divorced. The two of us are still together today through ups and downs. Many times we are happier than ordinary couples. I dare not say that my marriage with Lin Fengjiao is the most perfect, but at least we have come all the way to the present, cherishing each other more and more, we are forever family.