Chapter 36 3. A woman with confidence and tenderness is the most beautiful

At work, Dong Mingzhu does not consider herself a person with a particularly strong sense of femininity.For Dong Mingzhu, there is no tenderness at work, and female leaders do not rely on "affinity" to solve problems.The system is iron discipline, just like an army fighting a war, you cannot use tenderness to solve problems on the battlefield.Only a strict system and discipline can produce an efficient work style. "Someone asked me, is it because you are a woman that you are more likely to use affinity to move others? Later I told them, it was wrong. If an entrepreneur can use affinity to change the facts today, then all women can be cadres." On the contrary, I think that a female cadre should not be different from a male in management." Dong Mingzhu said.The "Desperate Saburo" and "China's Ashin" in the home appliance industry are described by colleagues in the market as "after the peach blossoms, no grass will grow."In her own words: "Going out to sell air conditioners, and closing the door is also selling air conditioners. In the future, I will still sell air conditioners. The more air conditioners I sell, the happier I will be."

"My sense of satisfaction comes from overcoming another difficulty today, not from wearing a new dress today." In contrast to her principled personality, Dong Mingzhu has a stubborn and stubborn style in her clothes. , she barely wears the business attire that marks a successful woman.Dong Mingzhu loves to wear beautiful clothes, but never has a professional attire. "Why do you wear a white-collar suit? I like free and beautiful clothes." Dong Mingzhu refused to accept that she was not feminine. "I am forced by the environment now. You say I can't be free? You really don't know me. If I retire, I will be able to arrange my life well." In the imagination of many people, Dong Mingzhu The image has been fixed, a very strong, masculine woman.But after meeting her in person, I feel that she is not like the person in my mind. The first sentence is often: Are you Dong Mingzhu?They suddenly find each other very feminine, especially when not talking about work.In fact, Dong Mingzhu is an ordinary woman in essence, who loves beauty just like other women.Dong Mingzhu loves to dress up, and loves beautiful clothes like all women.Even if she is not good at fashion, she does not necessarily have experience in aesthetics.She feels that beige suits her.One of her hobbies turned out to be embroidery!She said that she used to embroider the curtains and tablecloths in her Nanjing home.No matter what TV series, she would watch them when she has free time, and then happily tell others that she likes "Blue Life and Death".She never wanted to talk about her family, but she was very willing to talk about her son.The wallpaper pattern of her mobile phone is a group photo with her son.

Dong Mingzhu's office has a photo of her playing in the water by the stream, in a dark blue striped skirt with off-shoulder, white sneakers, squatting on the stone in the stream, splashing water, smiling like a flower.For her who likes to wear beautiful clothes, such a wonderful and leisurely time is really precious.Dong Mingzhu loves beauty and likes to hear others praise her beauty.Someone once told her openly, half-truthfully, that she was the ugliest.Dong Mingzhu told him that she is the ugliest among her brothers and sisters, but she looks the most beautiful on the outside, because people who talk to her can get happiness, and a person who can bring happiness to others is the most beautiful.Many reporters were shocked by her noble and elegant image when interviewing Dong Mingzhu.According to Dong Mingzhu's employees, Dong Mingzhu is so beautiful every day.Some unconvinced people in the business field specially bought air tickets to see what kind of person Dong Mingzhu is. When they saw her, they couldn't help but praise: "Why are you so beautiful?" Confident women are the most beautiful.Jews often teach their children to build a strong self in their hearts, constantly telling themselves that they are great and perfect, smart and beautiful.Like others, Dong Mingzhu also needs to maintain this kind of self-confidence.She used to be a shy girl when she was a child, but as she got older, especially after participating in the Shang Hai fight, she became more and more confident in her principles and beliefs. Similarly, she also attached great importance to her own image and care.Although as a company executive, Dong Mingzhu likes to dress up very much. On the camera and at the venue, her clothes are not the same every time.In the male-dominated home appliance industry, Dong Mingzhu will be distinguished from the people around her who are all dressed in suits and shoes wherever they go.When she has very little free time, her hobby is shopping and visiting discount stores, finding a wide variety of colorful objects, and scanning the goods when she sees what she likes.She put a lot of photo frames on her desk, all of which are beautiful photos of herself, and they are often changed.However, she is very aware of where these things really are in her own life.If life is a tree, then cosmetics and clothing are not even a branch, but a corner or a point on a branch, which is not worth mentioning.For Dong Mingzhu now, the most important thing is the enterprise. If she leaves the enterprise, she will have no value.The years are cruel, and the passage of time has added fine wrinkles to Dong Mingzhu's face.She originally came to Zhuhai to enjoy the tranquility of a seaside city, but she ended up working endless overtime and traveling outside.Maybe a peaceful life is at your fingertips, but in the end we ignore it. When we are far away, we have already put on our red dancing shoes and are running around. This is often the case in life.People are always going to be old, and there is no difference between getting old early and getting old late.At the age of knowing her destiny, Dong Mingzhu has gradually become less fond of looking in the mirror. In the past, people praised her as "beautiful", but now she is only willing to say "spiritual", but she is still very happy, without regrets, or timidity.She herself said: "Everyone will encounter difficulties in their life, but the nature of the problem is different. Others say 'be a man with your tail between your legs', but I don't even have a tail, so what kind of clip is there!" The ground is beautiful, and confidently greets the arrival of the next scene.After so many years of hard work, Dong Mingzhu's character can still make people feel the lingering spirit of looking at the sword with the light on. The wind and rain in the sales field for many years are just the rain and pear blossoms at night, which has become her talking point with a smile.In the real world, she is just a virtuous mother, a well-planned president, and an outstanding woman who can win big sales cases under the watchful eyes of strong opponents.Being able to reach this state is only due to the self-confidence in her heart that she has never let go of since she was sensible.Retail tycoon Huang Guangyu has been a leader in China's home appliance industry for many years, but there is a woman he has not settled for three years.This woman is so tough that home appliance tycoons privately admire: "This woman is too ruthless, and the road she walks does not grow grass." Dong Mingzhu, who is daunting, wears the hat of "Iron Lady" like this, and is ruthless in the air-conditioning industry. 17 years.

In the past 17 years, Gree Air Conditioner led by her has been the leader of China's air conditioner industry for 12 consecutive years.Being the old Dalian for 12 years has further deepened Dong Mingzhu's "iron fist" character symbol.In fact, every strong person also has a soft corner in his heart. As a woman, Dong Mingzhu is no exception, but she has been misunderstood by the world for many years.Because behind her domineering and sticking to principles, not only the nature of beauty, but also the tenderness that women are born with.She loves beauty, likes to hear others praise her beauty, and thinks tenderness is her true side.As a mother, like any ordinary mother, she can't help crying when talking about her children.The iron lady, who is considered ruthless in people's eyes, fully interprets the warmth of women in Hunan.The story of her donating 60,000 yuan to help left-behind children in Hunan is still circulating in the streets.Zhang Weimin is from Hengnan County, Hengyang City, Hunan Province. In 2003, both he and his wife were laid off, and their monthly subsidy was only 300 yuan.Last year he came to Guangdong to work.Soon, a bad news came from his hometown that his 6-year-old daughter Zhang Guanqun was diagnosed with leukemia. He paid 60,000 yuan for the manuscript, and entrusted Qingyuan Red Cross Society to send the donation to Zhang Weimin and his wife, so that Zhang Guanqun, a child who was in urgent need of chemotherapy, could be treated in time.According to a person from the Qingyuan Red Cross Society, Dong Mingzhu is very concerned about and supports leukemia students and children, and has donated more than 300,000 yuan for the treatment of leukemia patients.For the education of rural children, Dong Mingzhu also spared no effort.

In August 2006, Dong Mingzhu went to the Pinglang Town Primary School in Duyun City, Qiannanzhou, a relatively remote place in Guizhou Province, and donated her 300,000 yuan of manuscript fees, so that rural children can have a good learning environment and receive a good education .Because he refused his brother to help the dealer get goods, his brother and Dong Mingzhu turned against each other for more than ten years.Almost all the media will mention this matter when interviewing Dong Mingzhu.Moreover, almost all the media's comments on this matter are that Dong Mingzhu sticks to principles and is impartial.Dong Mingzhu said in front of the media more than once: If my brother can understand me after I retire, I will still recognize him as my brother.Every time I see this sentence, I seem to feel Dong Mingzhu's helplessness and guilt.Of course I believe that Dong Mingzhu is selfless, but is she really so selfless that she has no feelings?Obviously not.Dong Mingzhu repeated in front of the media again and again: As long as her brother can understand her, she will still recognize her brother.Whether this is conveying her feeling of guilt to her brother, we don't know.But we can guess that the original brother-sister relationship between Dong Mingzhu and her brother is not indifferent, otherwise the brother would not come to her house excitedly to ask for goods.One side is family affection, and the other is the principle of being a human being. Faced with a dilemma, although Dong Mingzhu finally made the move of "giving up love for righteousness", can she really ignore family love?I'm afraid not.No one would believe that Dong Mingzhu, who is domineering, self-righteous, and "cannibalizes people without spit out bones" in marketing, is affectionately called "Sister Dong" in Gree Factory. "She is fierce on the surface - she wants to help you in her heart, but she is relentless in her mouth." A dealer said.Dong Mingzhu is definitely not a saint, nor has he reached the state of "all six things are empty".We can only guess that for the needs of work and for the sake of firm belief, this woman quietly hides her feminine side in a corner of her heart, and will not reveal it easily.It is also true that Dong Mingzhu's inadvertent tenderness will make everyone feel excited and excited.It's just that, due to work, she magnified her domineering side too much, while hiding her tender side too much.This brilliant woman has gained many things that ordinary people can't get, and also lost many things that ordinary people can enjoy.Perhaps, as Dong Mingzhu's immediate boss and long-term partner, Zhu Jianghong's evaluation is more convincing: "She is a good person, but her mouth is not forgiving." evaluate.Some people say that if one personality is too prominent in a person, it will cover up other personalities.We don't know whether Dong Mingzhu conforms to this conclusion, but we know that behind Dong Mingzhu's domineering is her tenderness like water and the nature of women who love beauty.Dong Mingzhu's favorite thing is reading, and she has wanted to live the life of the characters in the novel since she was a child. "The people in the book are people, and we are also people, why can't we live like the book!" Dong Mingzhu is so simple, she believes in love, life and freedom, and she already has these in her life. "Everything I do is to prove my ability. I think if we can be like Japan and South Korea, where everyone dedicates themselves to work and work hard for a national spirit, the country will be prosperous and strong. "

Some people say that a person's ideological realm determines the height he can reach on the journey of life.Dong Mingzhu often said that she only wanted to get a good reputation after retirement, and this was her pursuit.No reality seems to be able to hinder this confident and tender woman, who has a different charm.