Chapter 25 Section VI

When dealing with students, Ye Qisun is a strict teacher and also a father and brother.His habits and ways of treating students made him a unique landscape that stood out against the background of the old masters of Tsinghua University.Many people will mention an important reason when recalling Master Ye's habits, that is, Ye Qisun has been living a single life, according to the Chinese concept, this is a person without a "home".Therefore, he regards Tsinghua University, the School of Science, and the Department of Physics as his home.And the students, teachers, staff, and everyone here are his relatives.

Regarding Ye Qisun's personal issues, due to the long history, most of the relevant materials are lost.However, based on the small amount of information that the author has, it can still be proved that Ye Qisun should have had his own love, and should have had a successful marriage and family life. In Tsinghua Garden, Wu Mi and Chen Yinke had a close relationship with him.From Wu Mi's diary, we can roughly find clues about Ye Qisun's emotional life. In a small talk, when it came to who might become a "crazy" person in the Tsinghua University, Chen Yinke came to the following conclusion after precise quantification: the possibility of Chen Da is 95%, and the possibility of Wu Mi is 70% , while Chen Yinke himself is 50%.Chen's basis is probably due to the theory of "character determination".Indeed, if it is said that character determines destiny, it can also be copied here, and character also determines marriage and love.

Chen Yinke did not measure Ye Qisun's "crazy value". If it is determined by personality, it is estimated that Ye Dang is under Chen, at most no more than 30%. Discussions on topics such as marriage and love began as early as when several of them were studying abroad.Chen Yinke is an ancient and misty type, and he often has some high-level remarks, which make Wu Mi, Ye Qisun and others talk endlessly.For example, he despises marriage, thinking that men should focus on their careers, and marriage between a man and a woman is the smallest thing in all things. In terms of its function, it is nothing more than passing on the rest of the energy by passing on the family.He also seems to have done a good job of researching women, and often grades them according to his own set of estimates.For example, he always judges the woman Wu Mi likes very rationally, often giving "failure" or "medium" grades, which makes Wu Mi very unhappy, and even says that Chen Shi lacks "moral feelings".

Among Ye, Wu and Chen, Wu Mi got married the earliest.Compared to Ye and Chen, Wu Mi is someone who has experienced it.In Wu Mi's diary, there are at least two incidents of introducing a partner to a friend—to Chen Yinke: Saturday, November 5, 1927 Negative.wind.At 11 o'clock in the morning, Ms. Zhong Lingyu came with her nephew Yanjun.Chen Yinkexuan also came from Tsinghua University.That is to say, a banquet is held in the house, (four are like spring, four yuan.) Wine is provided for entertainment.At one and a half, everyone dispersed.Today's banquet is to introduce Zhong and Chen to meet each other.Mi once told Chen about his intentions, but Zhong Zechu didn't know...

Introduce to Ye Qisun: Wednesday October 10, 1928 clear.It is National Day.Mi is writing in the room. In the afternoon, Zhuan came and called his family to play here.At four o'clock, Aunt Chen, Zhirun, Zhijie, Yine and Wang Yutang came. 6-7 Set up a banquet in the room (2.50) (Editor's note: Wu Mi often uses this method to record expenses in his diary, 2.50 means two and a half yuan spent).He also invited Ye Qisun to sit here, and Gai planned to introduce Ye and Wang Yutang as friends. Talk with Ye Qisun from 7-9 in the evening.All the female guests live in the west living room.Mi went to stay in winter house...

Regarding this blind date, Ye Qisun's attitude was not recorded in Wu Mi's diary.The woman named Wang Yutang had appeared several times before. Thursday, April 5, 1928 half cloudy.It was Ching Ming Festival, and the school began to have spring break. Starting today, the North China Sports Conference ball games will be held in Tsinghua University.There are a lot of people who come to watch, and there are like clouds of scholars and women, who are very prosperous for a while.Girls' sports was first seen in China's Wushang Department, and it was also the first time in Tsinghua University.Therefore, it is particularly lively and interesting.In addition, the weather is fine, the garden flowers are blooming, the spring scenery is like strong wine, and the middle-aged people want to get drunk, and the participants are very happy.In public and private places in the school, the guests are almost full, and the cars and horses are noisy.And everywhere in the school, there are girls in long clothes or suits with haircuts and long hair, and there are groups of girls competing for beauty.

The boys followed and surrounded them, chatting and laughing.It is very similar to the situation in Florence, where women and girls go out in splendid attire and splendid attire, as recorded in Vitanuova, written by Dante.Mi also forgets about herself and goes around happily with the crowd.In the four days, I haven't read books and managed affairs. At 9:30 a.m. that day, Mrs. Chen, Mrs. Junyan, cousin Zhirun, and Zhirun's classmates (Girls No. 2 Middle School of Jingshi University) Wan Zhihong, Wan Zhixian, and Wang Yanlun came. On 10-11, I accompanied him to the stadium to watch the game, and met Zhu Binyuan. From 11 to 12, return to the room, and make preparations for everyone to stay in the west living room at night.

At noon, entertain people (as above).Yu Xiaoqiao Restaurant. From 1 to 2 in the afternoon, I met Yang Kaixiu, a classmate of Zhirun's, very beautiful, and his younger brother, You XX, etc., all of whom were classmates and female companions, and guided around the school.At four o'clock, Mrs. Chen, don't go.Mi was sent to the gate, returned to the room to rest and have dinner. At 7 o'clock in the evening, I went to Winter, talked, and stayed in his house.Zhirun and her female classmates Wang Baohe (very cute) and Wang Yutang live in Yun, the west living room. Friday, April 6, 1928

clear.In the winter house in the morning, after having a Western-style breakfast, I returned to the west living room at 9:30.When I met Huang Yusheng, we talked for a while.After a while, Xinyi, Xueshu, Lingyu, and Yanjun came back. 10-12 to accompany everyone to watch the game.Met Mrs. Zhao Yuanren and Ms. Pan Linghua. At noon, feast on Xinyi and Zhirun at Xiaoqiao Restaurant.Back to rest in the room.The second guide toured around the school. 2-5 spectator ball (team ball). At 5 o'clock in the afternoon, send Lingyu and Yanjun back to the city.When the movement is over, all parties are scattered.Mi Sui feasted on Xinyi, Xueshu, Zhirun, Wang Baohe, and Wang Yutang at the Xiaoqiao Food Club... In the evening, Ye Qisun came...

Saturday, April 7, 1928 clear.In the morning, I still have breakfast in the winter house. Back to the west living room at 8:30.Daoxinyi, Xueshu, Zhirun, Wang Baohe, and Wang Yutang visited Guan Chicken and Duck Factory, Chengzhi Primary School, Electric Lamp Field, Sales Commune and other places.And fluttering butterflies, playing swings for the show. 10-12 Watching the ball game (basketball game for girls) meets Yang Guangbi... Sunday, April 8, 1928 clear.Morning wind.Get up in the morning and drink tea.Back to the room at half past eight.That is to say, go to the research room of the library and read the notebook of Samuel Butler. 10-12 watching the game, I met Wang Desheng, a student from Northeastern University, and two others.

At noon, guide Zhirun and others to visit the gymnasium and library.Yan Zhirun, Wang Baohe, Wang Yutang, and Kang Xizhi (also her female classmate) were at Xiaoqiao Restaurant.Meet Hu Guangmo and his family. From 1 to 3 in the afternoon, I rode a donkey with Zhirun and other four people to visit Yenching University, and returned on foot.Invite everyone to the sales commune, and enter the freezing point (food, entertainment, transportation, etc., a total of fifteen yuan).Return to the west living room for a false bed alone.At four o'clock, Zhirun, Wang and Wang come, don't go out in full dress... 7-8 visit to Ye Qisun... From Wu Mi's diary, we can know that Ye Qisun and Wang Yutang met in the spring of 1928.For 4 consecutive days, Wang Yutang stayed with Zhirun in Wu Mi's apartment in Tsinghua University.Her identity is a student of the girls' high school attached to Beijing Normal University, and she is about the same age as Wu Mi's cousin Zhi Run, about 18 to 20 years old.During these four days, Ye Qisun appeared twice in Wu Mi's diary, especially on the evening of April 6, when Ye Qisun visited at night, and he must have met Wang Yutang in the west living room.According to Wu Mi's behavior style, if Wang Yutang's condition is not good, he will not introduce it to his friends. Besides, it has been half a year since Wang and Ye Chu saw Wu Mi match someone up. If you have not yet developed to the point of matchmaking, you need to imagine to fill it.Although Ye Qisun's celibacy had already appeared when he was studying in the United States, it was mainly due to the environment. He was in a foreign country, and the learning tasks were heavy. Moreover, his goals were ambitious, so he had no room for rest.So he missed the opportunity to talk about love time and time again. However, Ye Qisun can be said to have achieved great success at this time, and it is the best time to solve lifelong events. For some reason, the marriage between Ye Qisun and Wang Yutang failed. Was it Wang Yutang who disagreed?This guess does not seem to hold water.Wang Yutang and Wu Mi's cousin Zhirun are close friends in the boudoir. Since Wu Mi wants to propose marriage to Ye and Wang, it is impossible not to discuss with his cousin Zhirun at this time, and it is impossible for Zhirun not to disclose to Wang Yutang.Perhaps Wang Yutang first met Ye Jun in the spring sports meeting, and he was moved by Ye Jun's elegance, so it is unknown to take the initiative to introduce the object. The problem most likely lies with Ye Qisun. According to the historical data and information available, it is definitely not the first time, nor will it be the last time, that Wang Yutang's marriage proposal is like this.When interviewing Ye Qisun's nephew, Mr. Ye Minghan, he revealed that when he was in college, someone introduced his uncle to someone, and many of his uncle's friends and students went to watch the fun, and made good-natured jokes and so on.Ye Qisun does not seem to reject the object of introduction.However, as the years passed, he seemed to take it more and more lightly, but when it came, he didn't refuse it, and only used it as a reason and excuse to invite a few close friends to have a meal, lively and happy And, to show my respect for this matter.But as the ceremony became more intense and more distant from the real part of the marriage, and eventually, it faded into obscurity and the matter of starting a family was put on hold more permanently. In Tsinghua Garden, Jin Yuelin (named Longsun), Mr. Chen (named Daisun) and Ye Qisun were known as the "Three Grandchildren of Tsinghua University". At this time, the "three grandchildren" were all unmarried youths.Jin Yuelin never married because of his love for Lin Hui, and Chen Daisun had a lofty heart and never married. So, what caused Ye Qisun to die alone? Mr. Yu Hao once wrote in his article "My Understanding of Ye Qisun, a generation of teacher Ye Qisun": "The first thing is that Master Ye will not marry for life, regard the country as his family, and regard students as his children. Master Ye is completely different from ordinary people. Similarly, there was once a beloved woman who didn't want to have a happy home full of love. He did not have the poison of feudal thought, respected women, and sympathized with women; Knowing how powerful it is, he stopped the last step of love and sacrificed his love and family for the sake of the woman's life-long situation in his youth. When he was in his prime and old age, difficulties and work made him no longer have time to take care of his marriage and family. I have truly dedicated all the love in my heart to the country, to the people, to the students, and to all patriotic causes." (See "A Generation of Teacher Ye Qisun", p. 330) Mr. Yu Hao basically outlined the "internal" and "external" reasons why Ye Qisun was so single.There are two points that need to be added: First, Mr. Ye Qisun is a shy person by nature.This kind of personality makes his understanding of women basically in a state of ignorance and chaos, and he is always watching this magical and mysterious land from a distance.Another reason is that he is deeply influenced by friends around him. Chen Yinke's views on marriage and love at Harvard University, he himself has a repulsive attitude towards some classmates who indulge in sensuality and don't care about state affairs, and Wu Mi is in the siege of marriage. Embarrassment and embarrassment are like a mirror to Ye, all of which make him fearful and terrible about marriage, enough to make him stop in front of marriage and love. However, in the 10th issue of "Duku" magazine in 2009, an author signed by Sasu disclosed a little-known love story of Ye Qisun under the title "Ye Qisun: Half Life Fame, Half Life Frustrations", providing support for the above judgment. evidence to the contrary. The article reads: But another rumor about Ye Qisun makes it difficult for me to tell the truth from the fake. That is, Mr. Ye Qisun never married because of a failure in a love.It is said that he and a colleague fell in love with a girl at the same time, so they made a gentleman's agreement, and the girl's red hydrangea was thrown to his opponent.In this regard, the husband was indifferent to his feelings and devoted himself to studying for a lifetime. This incident is a bit unbelievable, because Mr. Ye is so outstanding-a scholarly family, a Ph.D. from Harvard University, and the first head of the Department of Physics at Tsinghua University.Outstanding achievements, lofty integrity, handsome and refined appearance, such an outstanding person, who can be Mr. Ye's rival in love?Which girl is willing to give up Mr. Ye? It is said that this woman was the school belle of Peking Women's Normal University at that time——Wang Ticheng.And Mr. Ye's rival in love is Mr. Zhou Peiyuan, who is called the third most handsome in the Department of Mathematics, Physics and Chemistry of the Chinese Academy of Sciences.I didn't believe this statement at first, however, the old gentleman who told me about it had worked with Mr. Zhou and Mr. Ye. He is 75 years old this year and ranks among the top 10 physicists in our country today. Bit, speaking has always been very reliable. What is even more reliable is that the old gentleman talked about the reasons for Mr. Ye's defeat, which seemed quite logical. It is said that after the gentlemen's agreement between Ye and Zhou, Ms. Wang Dichen will make her own choice.As a result, although Mr. Ye is the head of the department and his salary is higher than that of Mr. Zhou who is a professor, Ms. Wang Dichen finally chose Mr. Zhou.There are two reasons for this, according to insiders: one is that Mr. Ye has a slight stutter, so he cherishes words like gold when communicating, and his expressions are not so clear.Isn't Mr. Ye a professor?Stuttering how to become a professor?This is actually not surprising at all. Several scientific workers I have met have a little stutter in their lives, but they talk freely on the podium, which seems to be nothing more than the three words "not nervous". Few people are not nervous when they are in a relationship, and the professor is no different. The other is that Ms. Wang Ticheng has always preferred to find a taller partner.Zhou Peiyuan happened to be tall, big and handsome, while Mr. Ye Qisun was handsome but not tall enough, so... The authenticity of this matter is still unknown. However, Mr. Zhou and his wife are indeed model couples in Chinese academic circles. If Mr. Ye has a spirit, he should feel gratified for them. The story disclosed by Mr. Sasu made Ye Qisun's originally plain emotional rumors suddenly steep and tortuous.The article is convincing. It is said that it is a 75-year-old person who "can rank among the top 10 physicists in our country today", which makes people unbelievable.However, among the "Three Grandchildren of Tsinghua University", there are already stories about Jin Yuelin, Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin. Lin Huiyin chose Liang Sicheng, so that Jin Yuelin never married; Cheng, Wang Dicheng chose Zhou Peiyuan, and Chen Daisun never married.Unexpectedly, the person involved in this poignant love story is not Daisun but Qisun. If this is the case, Ye Qisun's chapter on marriage and love will have to be rewritten. So the author entrusted Mr. Zhang Kecheng, who is familiar with Tsinghua University, to inquire. If this statement is true, he will start the interview immediately.Mr. Zhang Kecheng is the son of Zhang Wei, the former vice president of Tsinghua University, and Ms. Lu Shijia, a famous aerodynamicist. He is a person who is enthusiastic about Tsinghua's public welfare.He replied that he had discussed this matter with Zhou Peiyuan's youngest daughter Zhou Ruping not long ago, Zhou Ruping categorically denied this.Zhang Kecheng said that the protagonist of this story is Chen Daisun, who somehow became Ye Qisun decades later.Zhang Kecheng also deliberately sent a photo of him and his father visiting Wang Ticheng 10 years ago.The Wang Dichen in the photo is more than seventy years old, but she is still recognizable, which proves that she was indeed a beauty back then.Zhang Kecheng said that she was called one of the "eight beauties" of the Women's Normal University, not the "school beauty" as mentioned in the article.What is even more embarrassing is that when I was inquiring about this historical case, the old man Wang Dichen had just passed away 3 days ago, so the author's questions could no longer be inquired about.The author has sorted out the information from several sources, and believes that no one is authoritative, and only the old man Wang Dichen, the person involved, has the weight of his words.Judging from the information disclosed in "Wu Mi's Diary", the female student named Wang Yutang was also a student of the Women's Normal University, and Wang and Wang were sometimes easily confused based on oral records. Moreover, there were many female students at that time except herself There are words and numbers in addition to the name-but these questions cannot be answered by anyone other than the person concerned.Therefore, this public case can only continue to remain in doubt, leaving it to others to crack it...