Chapter 52 Chapter Twelve

I see, that's his home.There is her home, and I saw it too.What is she doing?The third row leader looked out of the car window intently.He couldn't see their home.They don't have a home yet.Soldiers who became families were still homeless and jobless.The chariot flew south.The second platoon leader thought about his newly married wife, and was worried about her thin body. At 1.66 meters, she weighed only ninety catties, and she seemed to fall when the wind blew.At the same time, he felt guilty for his predation of the jungle.Her home was also gone.What is she doing?In the last night, I really wronged her, I'm so sorry.They talked for more than four years, but the marriage was too hasty.When it comes to war, everyone joins in the fun.Life and death are uncertain, why do you have to find another one first?He felt that he should not marry, but he did anyway.Married people were everywhere in the army, not to mention the guest houses, even the vegetable fields, pig sheds, warehouses, and workshops, all the houses were full.Newly married and old married, those with certificates and those without certificates, all live together.He gave up the house to the newly married soldier and mobilized her to go back. She cried and said nothing to leave.Their honeymoon is only half a month away, and this farewell is "the king is going to die", he can't persuade him.She was really wronged, she lived in the company's large conference room, and there was no stove.In the evening, the deputy of the fourth class became the groom again, and there was no place to find a house, so he could make do in the conference room.A pair of corners on opposite corners.The last night, like a dormitory, I'm really embarrassed.The deputy of the fourth class is the first night of the newlyweds.Is there any way, once the lights go out, please be quiet.After finishing the work, I gradually felt cold.No matter how tight the cover is, it is still cold.can't sleep.Even if it wasn't cold, I couldn't sleep.Can't sleep and can't whisper.Listen over there, they didn't fall asleep either.I don't know how long he endured it, and he said: "The deputy of the fourth class." "Here!" All four of them were happy. "Is it cold?" "It's really cold." "Can't sleep?" "Can't sleep." "The moon outside is pretty bright." "It's pretty bright." "It's really cold." "It's pretty cold." It's dark." "It's better to be dark." "It's better to be bright." "What, we'll be fully exposed when it's bright." "Just get up and chat for a while." "Let's talk." "Hey, wait Turn on the light later, we haven’t put on our clothes yet.” The light was turned on, and in the large meeting room, there were two pairs at opposite corners, wearing clothes and quilts, and the four chatted.

At the group wedding in the regiment, the bride’s representative spoke the most vigorously. She said that soldiers are the cutest people. It is useless to talk about understanding and trust, and getting married right now is the most practical action.The audience applauded her. In the collective wedding of that regiment, the bride’s family representative was a girl from Shandong Province in Tang Dynasty. While reading a speech of understanding and support, a sentence popped up suddenly, the earthquake did not kill her, and this time she went to the front line again, and burst into tears. When people spoke, the brides wiped their tears one by one.

The cooking squad leader of the company is interesting. He was engaged to his original partner in 1983. When he talked about the war woman, he blew it up. As a result, a brave girl came out of his hometown. up.Originally, the girl just wanted to fight the injustice and comfort the old man, but the instructor deliberately used words to provoke him, saying that you can't get married now, and you will be troubled if you get married.As soon as the girl heard it, she said it was over, so that he could go to the front line with peace of mind.On the third day, the wedding was held in the company.I heard that the girl was called Sha Zhihong.

While talking, the two couples became emotional again.The platoon leader had to leave at dawn; the fourth squad mate was still on their wedding night.Turned off the light again, with light hands and feet.What is this called?He really doesn't care about anything when he fights.The second platoon leader sighed.I really wronged her, that last night.The chariot was still flying south. A political commissar of the regiment said that in order to let everyone go to the front line with peace of mind, we organized a group wedding for 16 couples. The chief officials at all levels in the regiment participated, took pictures, distributed souvenirs, and made the momentum great. I was so touched that I will never forget it in my life.We have a lot of veterans, all of whom are twenty-two or twenty-three years old. After two years of fighting, they will all become poor households.There are 109 people over the age of 24 who have no partners.Let's figure out a way, and catch any signs of it.Some girls just come to the army to see their targets.Seeing the atmosphere of this scene, we also get married.After finishing it in the regiment, it was done in the battalion and the company. A total of more than 60 pairs were organized.We just want to tell people through these things that despite the war, there are still more marriages, fewer blowing lights, more understanding, and less understanding. We just want to tell everyone that you are still the most lovable people.

An order to participate in the war made nearly 800 officers and soldiers of the group army into bridegrooms. The honeymoon of eight hundred newlyweds can be long or short, the long one is less than a month, and the short one is ten days or eight days a week.Reconnaissance staff officer Qi Hualin was recalled to the army by telegram on the third day of his marriage. When he passed Xi'an, his wife, father-in-law and mother-in-law all went to the station to see him off.On the platform, she cried and said that she was afraid and always dreamed of the Tangshan earthquake.Staff Officer Qi is an orphan from the earthquake, a sixth-grade family member, his parents, younger brother and two younger sisters all died that time, and he was the only one left.Before driving, the old mother-in-law said, alas, our mother and I will die together, and the old man is the Korean battlefield on the third day of our marriage.Zhang Jianguo, the instructor of the engineering company, rushed back to his hometown in Henan at eight o'clock in the evening, took his fiancee to the county government by bicycle, knocked on the secretary's door, and went through the formalities. A ten-hour honeymoon.

The 800 honeymoons add up to less than 300 full-term months. The troops participating in the war had two assaults: the assault was more married, and the fiancée assault was more blowing lanterns. The group army had 800 bridegrooms and more than 2,000 "lantern blowers". In war zones, such stories can be heard everywhere, and political cadres at all levels seem to pay special attention to this point, and have accurate statistics on them, and then tell you a few tortuous or touching or outrageous examples.The surprise marriage on the front line shows the just nature and mass base of our war, the understanding and support of the people in the rear, and the cutest soldiers in the 1980s; and the numerous lantern-blowing soldiers who were born and died fighting on the front line, it shows that contemporary soldiers serve the country with heavy burdens , It shows the noble sentiments of the new generation of soldiers, and it shows that they are more lovely.

There are 25 soldiers in the No. 19 position, with an average age of 22 years. None of them are married, and they call themselves the "Bachelors' position."Originally, there were five or six other people on the bachelor's camp who had a partner. When it came to fighting, especially when they entered the battlefield, they would blow out lights one by one. In the end, only Li Guangcai was left.The bachelors all regard her as the only hope for the whole team, but Li Guangcai himself is very proud on the one hand, and at the same time feels a little sorry for everyone.The subject was his middle school classmate, who worked at the Second Automobile Factory.She wanted to see him before the troops left, but he didn't let her come.She wrote to say that the real man is on the front line, and I will support you in the rear.Li Guangcai wrote her a letter after taking up the position. He didn't say that it was the most dangerous position in the front of the whole regiment. During the time when the friendly troops defended this position, on average, one casualty a day. on tenterhooks;.But Li Guangcai wrote a letter to tell his classmates about the situation in the position, and it finally reached her ears.Li Guangcai had been looking forward to letters from the very beginning, and after two months of waiting, her first letter finally arrived.The letter said that you are lovely people, there are more good girls waiting for you, don't worry about breaking up with us.This letter is like a sap not only to Li Guangcai, but to all bachelors.The bachelor position is sad: we are out on the 19th.The bachelor position is angry: Go back to the goddamn brother and find her to settle the score for you.It's all blown up, this time the bachelor position is truly a hardcore bachelor.No more worries, let's get old, bachelors will fuck hard when they come, always want to have a good time.But Li Guangcai still wrote to her, and she told him that she was married during the Spring Festival, and she worked in the factory, so he congratulated her.Although this move drew unanimous condemnation from the bachelors, Li Guangcai said, after all, we fell in love once.

The most painful thing for frontline officers and soldiers is blowing out lamps.What the men on the battlefield hate the most is the heartless girl.Even enemies don't seem to cause them that much pain, even enemies don't seem to make them so angry. Blowing the lamp refers to the termination of a relationship, and usually one party is still hot, and the other party is already unfeeling.As long as there is a place to fall in love, there will be a phenomenon of blowing lights.In the troops participating in the war, there are more and more concentrated blowing lamps.But the word blowing lamps is undoubtedly a very Chinese word. The social psychological content it contains and the cultural and ethical background it embodies are all Chinese.

Blowing the lamp itself has great uncertainty.Love relationship is not as clear as marriage can be based on evidence, and moreover, the love process is very prone to repetitions. A word of light and a letter of light may be the starting point of separation, or it may be just a small twist or a big joke.There will definitely be many discounts in the statistics of how many lantern blowers, and of course there are certain ones, such as telling the past tense partner at the same time that I owe the lantern letter, I have married or will be married to my husband on a certain day in the month, Some took leave before going to war to go home and get married, but she has become someone else's wife.We have met more than one such tragic soldier, and they are all lantern blowers.Unless our warriors have the indomitable and admirable chivalry, and then win her back from the rivals in love, as they go forward in the battlefield, I am invincible.It's a pity that the Chinese don't like this.Chinese men don't have that kind of spirit.We will swear at women.

Among the Lantern Blowers, the deeper the relationship, the more painful it is, and at the same time, the more understanding and understanding each other, the less hatred.On the other hand, the comrades in the same trench were annoyed because of him, swearing at her a little bit, and saying all kinds of harsh and unpleasant things.Those heartless girls have become the biggest remittance objects of the men on the battlefield.All the difficulties, hardships, dangers, misfortunes, etc. encountered on the battlefield are vented to them fiercely, and perhaps a kind of psychological balance can be obtained from them.We always vent and show power to the weak.We often curse what should not be cursed, but keep silent about what should be cursed.Those who are newly married don't see "sorrow pressing their stomachs", but they are so angry when they blow out the lamp.And in this grievance, people always feel some historical requirements of small production such as male superiority and female inferiority.We always think that divorce includes blowing the lamp - being dumped, kicked off - a failure in life, a depreciation of personality, a stain on career, in short, it is an extremely embarrassing thing.Faced with this dilemma, we always resort to setting up morality courts and conducting trials in absentia.

Since the moderate increase in the divorce rate is a common phenomenon in modern society, the increase in blowing lamps is also a proper meaning of the question.In particular, women are the most proposing, which seems to be a kind of progress.Compared with marrying a chicken and following the chicken, marrying a dog following the dog, and comparing with the order of the parents and the matchmaker, this is all progress.Life is about choices.Women also have the right to choose.Soldiers have no choice on the battlefield, so do they have the right to deprive girls of their future life choices?Aren't we fighting in the front just to make the rear happier?Here is a blown light letter—— Regardless of the psychology and motivation of the letter writer, at least this method is relatively civilized. Progress and regression go hand in hand.Among the many lamp blows, there are indeed many emotional factors of right and wrong at work.Although there will be no love that is completely dominated by emotions, love is different from transactions after all.No matter how thorough the commercialization is, it is impossible for human beings to evolve or degenerate to that point.Liu Zhenggui, a soldier of a certain reconnaissance company, died in an accident, and a letter arrived the next day, which was torn apart and found to be a blown light letter.The deputy instructor sent the ashes to the martyr's hometown, and the girl blowing the lantern came after hearing the news, crying so sadly, and finally proposed that she should get a pension as a survivor of the martyr.The deputy instructor announced the letter of blowing lights on the spot to make him run away in embarrassment.Fortunately, there are not many such people.Some comrades pondered this kind of psychology and wrote a few sentences.And put it on the theater report— This is also a generalization.The soldiers, especially the lantern blowers, were relieved to see it.Relieving Qi is also just a dose of spiritual victory.Those who really have deep feelings will never be broken, and those who can't stand the test blowing out the lights may be a blessing in disguise, and one more chance to choose may not be bad.