Chapter 18 Chapter 18 There is something I want to share with my young friends

The time has come to stand, and looking back now, I have only one advantage left in this person, and that is kindness.I have been in the world for too long, and it is unlikely to be born. The only thing that can save me is to enter the world and not to be in the world.The years of my career have taken me through various phases of pain, as well as some small profits.But in today's society, making money is not the most difficult thing, the most difficult thing is not to lose yourself, and those things that you think are noble or pure, even though you have been trying to maintain yourself for so many years, not to let yourself get lost in this society , trying to maintain his individuality, but the price he paid was too great.The time has come to stand, and looking back now, I have only one advantage left in this person, and that is kindness.I have been in the world for too long, and it is unlikely to be born. The only thing that can save me is to enter the world and not to be in the world.

I've always been more self-disciplined and organized, and I still am.I am working in Cambodia now, and I am leading a team to work hard in a foreign country, and I live almost the same life every day.It feels very solid. I run to work every morning. After arriving at the company, I learn 15 English words and 5 Korean words. Then the company holds a morning meeting. After that, I deal with the unfinished orders from last night and approve the bills.I want to keep healthy, an apple, a banana and a pot of honey tea to get me through the morning. I will translate an English article at noon, and write a short Korean article in the afternoon. I do this every day, and I have formed a habit over time. If I don’t practice for a day, I feel that something is missing.

Before I get off work, I have to summarize the day's inventory and smooth out the management relationship.Then take 30 minutes to watch Yu Shiwei's lecture, and then review the words learned in the morning. After returning home, soak your feet in hot water, then run for 20 minutes, learn financial knowledge, follow Southeast Asian news, and plan the company's work plan for the next day. Make a few phone calls before going to bed at night to harass a few Koreans practicing Korean, and find some excuses to make more phone calls during the day to harass American experienced English, haha.

When a customer canceled an order for a $110,000 cabinet in Cambodia, what he faced was not only compensation, but also how to solve the problem. The Spanish customer did not want the goods, but the east was not bright and the west was bright. South American customers were very impressed with this product. Interest, although this is just dabbling in the shipping industry, but many times, higher horizons improve the direction of your thinking! Sunny December 10, 2011 Now my life has gradually stabilized and my work is on the right track. I am basically satisfied with the results of my hard work over the years.When I went back to my hometown, I occasionally attended a class reunion. They said that I was the most successful one in the group, and I didn't argue with it, just laughed it off.They don't see what I've done.

I remembered a TV series played by Zhang Guoli I watched before. There was a dialogue between the poor and the rich. The rich said, don’t look at me as rich now. When I first arrived in the south, I slept in a bridge hole and drank plain water. Mo, still persevere, can you do this?The poor said, I can't do it. When I think about myself, it’s similar, but the only difference is that I don’t think I’m rich yet, but I’m doing pretty well compared to my starting point. I remember reading a story before, saying that three groups of people were sent to three villages 30 kilometers away. The people in the first group were not allowed to know the name of the village, nor how far the distance was. They were only told to follow the guide.As a result, as soon as we walked a few kilometers, some people began to complain, and after less than half the distance, some people couldn't persist. Everyone complained why they had to go so far and when they would reach the end. Some people even sat on the side of the road and refused to go. gone.

People in the second group know the name of the village and the total distance of the journey, but there are no milestones on the roadside, so they can only estimate the time and distance of the journey based on experience.Halfway through, most people feel very tired, but they don't know how far they have walked, and more experienced people will tell everyone that they have walked about half of the distance.So, everyone cheered up again, and continued to move forward surrounded by crowds.When the whole journey was coming to an end, everyone began to feel depressed and exhausted, and the distance seemed to be far away.So again and again, although they finally reached the finish line, everyone had to spend a lot of time cheering each other up and raising their spirits.

People in the third group not only know the name of the village and the distance, but also there is a milestone every kilometer beside the road, and people look at the milestones while walking.Every time they complete a distance, they feel that they are one step closer to their goal.Even if they felt tired during the journey, their mood was always high, and they felt that they had completed a new task every once in a while, so they reached their destination quickly. Over the years, I have met many people. They all have their own goals for success. Many people are ambitious at the beginning, but often because they have a long way to go, they can’t stick to it. They even feel that The end point is daunting, and in the end I gave up.

In fact, success is a gradual process, and I found that the mistake made by many people around me is to hope that it can be accomplished overnight, and they always fantasize that doing things can be done once and for all.In fact, how can things be so easy to handle?My experience is to divide the goals into stages, break them into parts, reduce the difficulty of the tasks, and complete them one by one. In this way, you will feel a sense of accomplishment every time you complete a stage, and you will be able to complete them all in the end. Life in Cambodia may seem lonely to others, but I feel fulfilled.Some of my old classmates said I had a high IQ, and some said I had a high EQ, but I think it's all nonsense.I know myself best. I have average IQ and EQ. Whoever fantasizes about achieving success by relying on IQ and EQ, and whoever still fantasizes that it can be achieved overnight, will never succeed.