Chapter 161 The pain of life and death in the eyes of a 15-year-old boy (3)

However, when I look closely, he is a record of life. The central event of the record is not the disease, nor the struggle against the disease, nor the struggle against death, but the record of his growth process.I just mentioned that Ziyou still grew up during the course of more than a year of illness, his body was still growing, his life process was still going on, his mental growth was not at all ill, and he had everything he should have in his youth. Many students who go to school are even more vigorous. This is the first point I want to emphasize.Second, being able to express yourself, but expressing yourself is not so easy, we often have some ready-made

There are more sets of phrases waiting for us when we are sick, such as fighting against death. The story has been told thousands of times, and it will make people cry every time.What is the set of words?I said in the article commemorating Wang Xiaobo, "I was 11 years old at the time, and the reporter asked me how I felt about winning the Outstanding Young Pioneers Award today. My answer was that all this should be attributed to the party and the people." As soon as you hand it over, you will drill into that set of words, and it will be the same when writing a diary.But Ziyou didn't. He didn't even focus on the illness, nor did he focus on the struggle against the illness. Instead, he wrote film reviews and wrote about his comings and goings with his female classmates, which was full of interest.This is the second level of meaning I want to express.With this point, with such a vibrant thing, after the vitality is naturally revealed, his writing advantages are obvious. When I interviewed him that time, I specifically cited the example of Xin Qiji. Because you have no experience.But when you are old and have already known all the sorrows, you can stop talking, and the weather will be cold for a long time.So what is my conclusion, this book is noteworthy, and what is noteworthy is not that he is a 15-year-old boy, not that he is a child with cancer.It is more because of his good writing. This is my final conclusion. I especially want to recommend the article "You Zai You Zai".

Xu Xiao: Let me say a few words, I have a predestined relationship with Ziyou. A week before his illness, a friend invited Liu Hong and his son to watch a play with my son, and we met. Two days later, I heard that Ziyou fell ill. I was in a very special state of mind at the time. I didn't go to see him when he was first ill. Why?I'm kind of scared, I'm kind of scared of dealing with a 14-year-old kid who's sick.Later, after Ziyou’s operation, my son and I saw him, and what shocked me was that Ziyou’s chatter was lively. At first, I thought, this is a child who doesn’t understand what he is facing. Later, after talking a lot, I found that he is not I don't understand, this is his attitude towards life.He enjoys life. For example, when he is undergoing surgery or undergoing various examinations, when he is in pain, he not only refuses to let the doctor give him anesthesia, but also takes a mirror to look at himself, his wound, and see what the doctor said. Then I slowly realized that what he wanted was such a legendary life. This is because he has a playful and detached attitude towards life. Next, I know that Ziyou loves to write, but I don’t know how well he writes. After watching "You Zai You Zai", I was really shocked. Before watching this, I first watched "Niu Niu and Niu Niu, which made my heart ache". I was already shocked. I said he was so talented Rational, yet so passionate, very personal, but not just for personal emotional things, he has a very good sense of proportion, whether you agree with his point of view or disagree with his point of view, you are all for it. His writing is amazing, his attitude is amazing, that is, his attitude towards this matter is amazing.Next I watched "You Zai You Zai", I said that this is Jia Baoyu, who wrote those girls vividly, clear, natural, and pure, which is very good, and I can't help but make you not feel sorry for such children.Last week, I heard Liu Hong tell me that Ziyou had a little mood swings, so I hurried to the hospital to see him. He suddenly felt a little boring, and in short, he was a little depressed. I thought, he might be growing up. In the process, he has to face his own reality slowly, and he will encounter many problems. In short, we really hope, and I especially want to encourage him to write. When we saw him for the first time, we told Liu Hong that we should let him I wrote a book to record the process of his life. At that time, I thought, a child out of school, a boy recovering from illness, let him have something to support his life, otherwise, how would he live?He was happy to see children of the same age. In fact, I thought of Ziyou very simply at that time. Now Ziyou tells me that he has become much deeper than a year ago. I think no matter what, he still A child will face many problems.Liu Hong, as a mother, is a mother. We all face teenage children and know the difficulties. I think Liu Hong and Ziyou have a feeling of two in one, that is, the two of them are inseparable. , may make all mothers envious, that is, Ziyou’s appreciation of his mother is very enviable. Anyway, as a mother, I am particularly envious. He will pay attention to what his mother wears, he will pay attention to his mother’s appearance, and pay attention to him. Mom's writing, for example, an article written by Liu Hong, he will give some opinions, Ziyou will guide her little by little, which books you should read, it seems to be her teacher, in short, it is special I envy them, but I think their future road is also very difficult, I just wish their mother and son can go as smoothly as possible.