Chapter 64 Use marriage for your dreams

Don't think that one person can be successful, I had the worst idea in my early twenties, I thought that marriage is a monster that eats women's dreams.I thought that there would be no corner in this world that could accommodate a married woman.However, I later discovered that there are many women who are more energetic after marriage.Marriage constrains a woman, but it can also be good for career development if you can meet a good partner.Lingyin has always wanted to obtain a qualification certificate that interests her.However, this was a difficult exam to pass, so she failed repeatedly.Until the time of graduation, she failed the exam and finally found a job in a company.As soon as she found a job, she felt that her dream was getting farther and farther away from herself.After several years of this, she got married.The husband is a nice person, and his annual salary is also very high.Suzune finally ended her company life and returned to her studies.People around said: "Your husband's salary is so high, you can work until you have a child, and then become a full-time housewife, why bother to get married and start studying?" However, it didn't take long for her to pass her dream I passed the exam and found a job I like, and now I live more happily.Although she was married, she still studied hard to obtain the qualification certificate. People said that she passed the exam because she was married. "No matter what you do, investment is very important. In fact, I also want to study hard before I get married, but, no matter in terms of time or material, my conditions do not allow it. My parents think that I have graduated from university Now, I should make money to support my family. I can only take the little money left, and I want to attend lectures, but I can’t take expensive courses, and I don’t have money to buy good books.

However, the situation changed completely after marriage, and my husband became my backup army.I can invest in tuition and book fees without any burden. At the same time, I regard this investment as an investment for my family, and I feel at ease.If I hadn't been married, I might still be doing that job I don't like! "A husband who is financially capable and considerate is the most powerful backer for a wife. Parents already hope to get something in return from their children, so having a backer is great. Regardless of the method and process, in short, dreams will come true after marriage. There are many women in China. Even if the husband is not fully supportive, at least marriage can bring you a sense of financial and spiritual stability, which is a great help to women. Therefore, enthusiastic and dreamy twenties, there is no It is necessary to insist on being single on the grounds of affecting work. If you don’t give up on your dreams and can persist in working hard for them, then the power of marriage will make you a happy professional woman. Of course, those who are married and have children It is very difficult for a woman to go to work. However, career and family are two different fields, so family life is not as unbearable as people imagine. When learning, if you can use it interchangeably The right brain and left brain will reduce your fatigue and be more conducive to concentrating for a long time.

Because the energy used by the left brain and the right brain in learning is different, therefore, although it is always in a learning state, it is actually equivalent to letting the other half of the brain rest.The same goes for family and career.A good marriage is not the grave of life, but an opportunity to realize dreams together with capable companions.