Chapter 50 Make friends with naive people

"Childish" has the meaning of "immature thinking and behavior" in the dictionary.Just like the meaning in the dictionary, it would be a very rude thing to evaluate an adult's language and behavior as "childish".From the standpoint of the person being evaluated, this is tantamount to scolding oneself.Some people like to use this word habitually.No matter what they look at, if they are a little dissatisfied, they will easily evaluate it as "childish".It is a pity that almost none of these people who like to call others childish have mature personalities.

I think this is because the more mature and older people are, the more careful they are not to use words that demean others.Those who like to call others childish especially like to use childishness to judge positive people.For them, the non-childish thing is racking their brains to belittle someone they don't like.If you want to have a better life, then simply ignore the accusations of these people, become a "naive" person, and make more friends with the same "naive" people.These "naive" people tend to imagine this world as a pure and bright place like a fairy tale.This is not because they are ignorant of the difficulties and dangers of the world, nor is it because their thinking level is low. When you have a dialogue with them, you will find that the more such people, the more broad-minded they are.They understand that such an attitude towards life can make the world more conducive to survival.People with this "childish behavior" value system, unlike those who don't consider other people's emotions and are ignorant, don't feel unpleasant at all.In the final analysis, isn't the essence of happiness as happy as a child, but close to childishness?In this world, there are many kinds of happiness that can be obtained without the "cool" praise.Stay with people who understand these principles more, and you will become a childish but happy person yourself.Because, no matter when, happiness is contagious to each other.