Chapter 47 Everyone knows how to comfort themselves

After the mood sinks to the bottom, you should start to forget the pain and actively comfort yourself.You will feel that you don't want to do anything in a mess, and there is no mood to comfort yourself.In fact, it is not so, close your eyes and think about it carefully, there are many things that can make you happy, and you know these methods better than anyone else.Buying a cup of fragrant coffee, finding a favorite movie, or picking out high-quality and cheap accessories on the side of the road, etc. These seemingly small things can make you feel happy.Even if you are reluctant at first, as long as you stick to it, your mood will improve.Also make good use of your friends.When it comes to comforting friends, everyone will think of the scene of sitting together and drinking to relieve their sorrows. However, anyone with experience will know that drinking does not actually help much if you want to get out of the predicament.It's more effective to hang out with friends and have fun than this bad method.Just be sure to call the kind of friend who makes you happy just being together.When you reach out to others and wait for comfort, you may feel neglected instead, making your mood worse; but even friends may sometimes not be able to put themselves in your shoes, and take the initiative to care about you.Coaxing an angry partner with your heart can make the other person feel better.If you haven't lost your enthusiasm, it will, with careful self-soothing, regain it.Comfort yourself with your heart, and always remind yourself that this world is a happy place.Those who can comfort themselves are the ones who can control the world.