Chapter 40 You dabble in what others do
No matter what others say, the way others see you is the best portrayal of your life.Instead of always complaining that others only value appearance, you should also consider how to make yourself look more decent.Pursuing beauty beyond measure is deceit and vanity, but it is also an excellent life strategy if it is an effort to manage yourself.If a person can't do anything, it will appear lazy and unlucky.Sports or musical instruments, at least one or two must be available, this is a good way to improve your own value.If you want to make yourself more valuable, then you have to dabble a little bit in what others know.Learn to play a musical instrument, or learn the skateboard that young people are familiar with nowadays, or learn the popular ballroom dance, in short, you must develop an interest that can pass your free time.In the past, if you danced well, others would say "you can dance instead of reading", but now you can only say that you are capable.In today's world, those who are proficient in one skill are often proficient in everything.Moreover, people with a lot of skills can talk freely with anyone, so it is easy to deal with people from all walks of life.
Who would deny that people who can play golf have a better chance of contacting "people who can play golf"? .People with more skills have more opportunities to meet people from all walks of life and thus get in touch with a wider world.The self-confidence not to lose to anyone is also the capital of life.If you are not born noble, you should learn what others know.For those children from rich families, it is trivial to be able to ride a horse and play the violin, but for children growing up in low-income families, it is already worthwhile for their parents to squeeze out money from their living expenses to buy an electronic piano. happy thing.Living a mediocre and busy life gives people a very uninteresting feeling.People who have never skateboarded before, if they go to a skateboarding venue because of a party, when others are having fun, they have to learn step by step from walking, how hard it is.Going to a KTV party will also make you more and more stage fright in front of colleagues who are constantly singing new songs.Of course, if you just sit at home and watch TV to pass the time, it won't take much effort.However, twentysomethings are not supposed to live like this. "In your twenties, you should win by quantity." You should go outside, see more people, and experience more things.
If the current life is hard to pass, then the future life will be even more so.In order not to hit a wall everywhere in life, what should be learned should be learned earlier.In the process of learning, you can also cultivate your desire to conquer and self-confidence, and bring vitality to your life.Not having time is just an excuse after all.Time is something that can be squeezed out if you want to.It looks busy now, but in fact, the older you get, the busier you get, and the slower you learn new things.If time is your excuse, you will not learn anything well.If money is an issue, you can earn it by working part-time.In today's world, it is difficult to find a job. No one would laugh at a person in his twenties working in a convenience store.
Instead of spending money on other places in order to lose weight, it is better to work to earn money, exercise your body, and use the money to learn what you want to learn.Anyway, it's better than being "glaucoma" after the age of thirty and hanging around the house doing nothing.It would be even better if you could ask your family for some money in your twenties.Today, people who can invest are called capable.Whether it's part-time work or investing in something, in short, you must have the desire to learn.You should be living such a rich life in your twenties.