Chapter 31 Sincerity is more effective than bribery

If you simply think that having more friends means you have connections, then those who do public relations or marketing work should be the most connected people.However, that is not the case in reality, and there is a trick to proving whether a person is connected or not.Roughly speaking, the only thing these people have in common is that they really treat people.With excellent communication skills and a solid tongue, you can make many people "acquainted", but you may not be able to find many "noble people". Airi is a sociable girl, she can always make friends around her happy with her humorous eloquence, and she can also be kind and warm to people she doesn't know well, so people often have a good impression of her.However, upon closer inspection, one oddity emerges.There are always many people around Aili, but there is no one who really has a deep friendship with her.

Therefore, at every critical moment, she always seemed very lonely.It was only later that I learned that Ai Li has a bad habit of inconsistency.One of Airi's acquaintances said that Airi once secretly dated her boyfriend, which made her very angry.Another person said that Aili said in front of people that he could ask her for help, but later slandered her because of a little personal interest, and the two finally broke up.Those who wanted to approach Aili back then were all stabbed in the back by her, so all their friends stayed away from her, only those who were not far or close to her were still around her.I don't know if it's because of this, but Airi often says that she is lonely.

It's the same now, although Airi seems to have many friends on the surface, but in fact there are no close friends.There are countless books on the market that teach you how to be good at relationships.But the secret to this plethora of friends is to treat your friends with sincerity.Don't think that the other person will have a good impression of you just because of the meal you invited.It's better to write down what the other person likes, and it will be more effective if you have the opportunity to give a small gift.No one would dislike such a friend when other people even wrote down my likes and dislikes.

However, don't forget that understanding others with hard work and sincerity is more important than a meal or a small gift.First of all, let others have a good impression of you, and then work hard to convey this kind of intention, so that no matter how stupid the method is, the other party can understand your sincerity.If there is no sincerity in this kind of favor, then reading hundreds of books is nothing more than reading a bunch of useless words.Don't try to use tricks to find real friends.Even the dullest person has the ability to feel the sincerity, and no one will stay by your side because of your small skills.