Chapter 19 As a woman, don't you want to hear the reputation of being cruel (1)

Strictly speaking, none of those women who have realized their wishes and lived a comfortable life are cruel, but they are all good at disguising.Let's get rid of serials!Serials Who Dominate Women Older and more discerning people will understand why television is called "the box for dummies."In the past, I simply thought that watching TV would waste time and make people neglect studying and reading, so there is such a name.However, watching TV has a greater harm than wasting time, and that is the cultivation of "values ​​​​that choose unhappiness." This is because the purpose of making television shows is to be accessible to all.In this world, there are far fewer happy, wealthy, and successful people than there are unhappy, unrich, and unsuccessful people.The reason why they can achieve such a life is because they have a correct outlook on life, which is very different from those who are always unhappy, poor, and have no sense of accomplishment.However, the values ​​of these few people cannot be recognized by the majority and cannot be resonated with.Therefore, TV programs can only be lowered to cater to the tastes of the public, and only in this way can they be accepted by the majority.The problem is that the serial dramas that women especially like to watch are the easiest to influence people's values ​​unconsciously.Different types of serial dramas have already set their own value models.

"A woman should marry a man with similar conditions to her own, and live a normal life." After a little processing of the values ​​of the mothers of the previous generation, serial dramas were born continuously.Therefore, no matter how outstanding and progressive women appear in the play, they will eventually fall into traditional values.What is worrying is that girls learn about this colorful world through serial dramas, and when they actually step into the sinister society, they find that this world is far from the beautiful world in their impressions, so they will continue to act unreasonably Wrong choice.It is no coincidence that most women who can successfully control their own lives do not like to watch TV, especially worthless serials.

In order to create a better life, women should go beyond the value of "accepting fate" in serial dramas, because serial dramas are not a portrayal of our lives.Will the heroine definitely give birth to the child of her boyfriend who broke up with her?In order to express a rich sense of drama, serial dramas will skillfully arrange quite tense plots.Putting in unbelievable plots and convincing the audience through complex plot arrangements is the content of the series. Therefore, there are often these plots in serial dramas: a woman who was originally a feminist gave birth to a child of a broken-up boyfriend, and the two reunited ten years later; the agreed lifelong partner turned out to be the father’s illegitimate daughter; A lover turns out to be an enemy who kills a loved one.We can't blame the writers for being absurdly messed up, as the series itself is.The problem is audiences who are assimilated by the values ​​in these serials.In the series, people who are poor but get rich overnight will always face catastrophe afterwards; people who are kind-hearted suddenly change their personalities, and after a period of time they will go bankrupt due to some factors, and then recall the past period of poverty despite being poor. But a very warm day.The typical tragic characters in these series think that caterpillars only eat leaves, and even the dream of becoming a rich man will come to naught, but real life is not like this.Moreover, the women in the series who marry because the man's conditions are good will end in misfortune.If you marry a man with good conditions and live a happy life, it must be because the woman didn't know in advance that the person she was dating was rich, or she had no greed for his wealth.Watching these images repeatedly, women will feel disgusted with choosing a rich partner over time.

Of course, no woman wants to marry someone with poor conditions, but at least women will fall into the fallacy, thinking that as long as they are kind-hearted and patient, good men will come to their door automatically after all, and they will be like in the TV series. There is a perfect ending like the heroine in the movie.The resistance that makes single women hesitate to marry usually comes from the mother-in-law.Nine times out of ten, there will be evil mother-in-laws who oppose the marriage, and most of them will make things difficult for the daughter-in-law after marriage.The behavior of these mother-in-laws is so tricky and terrible that many single girls dare not step into the grave of marriage without authorization.However, the series only shows the evil deeds of the mother-in-law, and does not raise doubts or comments on the improper family system.The audience will naturally sympathize with the daughter-in-law who is suffering, but dare not resist in the slightest. On the contrary, they accept the value of tolerating the mother-in-law.Girls who watch this type of series may subconsciously accept the erroneous notion that "patience is a woman's virtue".Although serial dramas have instilled many wrong values ​​in people, the most serious one is to instill in women the idea that "love is all of life".