Chapter 15 Reject misfortune and choose happiness (2)

Whenever you use the word "satisfaction" in your life, you should change it to "grateful".In Hermann Hesse's "Demian", there is a story about a bird breaking out of its shell and flying to the god Abraxas.If a life wants to be born, another world needs to be destroyed. This kind of "you can't have both" choice is not limited to the story of a bird.The same is true in our life. All good things, no matter how big or small, are realized in the process of destroying, leaving, and abandoning the old.Happiness is not static, it is dynamic and active.So, in order to be happy, we need courage and decisive ability.The happy woman is not, as we think, without courage and judgment, merely by luck.There is no such lucky woman in the world.The attributes of happiness are not loud and flamboyant, therefore, happy women seem to be quiet and patient.However, we must know that in order to maintain the peace of this life, they quietly change in places we can't see, so as to create their own happiness.