Chapter 30 Section VIII

20 Zhou Zhou and I have returned to the original life track, men farming and women weaving, complementing each other, safe and sound. During the day, stick to their respective jobs, take advantage of the public in their spare time, and make a few phone calls.Ma Jie said, from the tone of my voice when Zhou Zhou and I called, we knew that our relationship was extraordinary.If the voice on the phone is particularly loud, it must be the initial stage of love. They don't know each other yet, they are eager to express themselves, and they want to show themselves to each other unreservedly.If the voice becomes quieter, it means that you have entered the stage of whispering, and everyone is talking in private, which shows how close the relationship is, but this is not the highest stage of love. People can't do this at all, and Zhou Zhou and I are developing in this direction.

After work, whoever wants to cook can do it, and when neither of us wants to, just take a bite outside. Every time after eating, Zhou Zhou doesn’t compete with me for the role of paying the bill, but he always orders one when ordering. specials.A woman knows what it means to save money for a man. After dinner, Zhou Zhou and I walked hand in hand for 30 minutes, consuming 100 calories and keeping our body from being bloated.Sometimes when I stroll to the "31" ice cream shop, I go in and buy two balls for Zhou Zhou. Zhou Zhou likes chocolate, so he wants one ball every time. I say, like you, you have to come here at least 31 times to eat enough. Thirty one.Zhou Zhou said it was useless, and when he had a big appetite, he would buy three balls, so that he could eat all thirty kinds of balls thirty times.Every time Zhou Zhou ate it, I watched indifferently. When I ate ice cream and had diarrhea, I would not eat it easily until I became constipated.When I got out of the ice cream shop, I grabbed Zhou Zhou and said, don't move.Then eat the ice cream left on her mouth, and then take the opportunity to kiss her on the mouth.After eating, I licked my lips and said, don't grab the toilet with me tomorrow.

In the evening, when we watch TV together, Zhou Zhou will suddenly hold his mobile phone and say, look, the current time is 22:22.I said what's the matter, Zhou Zhou said, four little ducks. On weekends, Zhou Zhou washes my clothes and I stand on the ground. Watching Zhou Zhou stepping on a stool to dry clothes on the balcony, I can’t help but think of Zhou Zhou washing my clothes when I was in school. After washing, I hang them in the dormitory. arrive.The building manager asked him to take it off, but Zhou Zhou didn't. He asked why.The building manager said that there are regulations on dormitory management, and Zhou Zhou said that the regulations are that men are not allowed to enter the female dormitory, not to mention that men's clothes are also not allowed to enter.The building leader said that men’s clothes hanging in the girls’ dormitory are so decent. Zhou Zhou said that washing clothes for his father should also be banned? Respecting the old and loving the young have always been the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. Is it wrong for me to carry it forward? Building leader not talking anymore.Fortunately, all I washed was underwear. When I waited for Zhou Zhou in front of the girls' building, I didn't let the building manager see it. If it was a coat, the building manager might grab me and come to Zhou Zhou to question: "Didn't you say it was for your dad? Your dad is so tender!"

After going through this kind of life for a few days, we began to consider whether we could develop in the direction of marriage. Love is a process of repeated struggles, just like our new democratic revolution and socialist construction, which are constantly tossing and tossing between the contradictions between the enemy and ourselves and the internal contradictions among people, and finally break out of the encirclement and achieve today's great victory.In the constant struggle between the encirclement and suppression of love and the anti-encirclement and suppression, Zhou Zhou and I came and went in wind and rain, trekking through mountains and rivers, crossing mountains and ridges, like going through a long march, and finally we can join forces victoriously.

In fact, I don't want to get married, it's not that I don't want to take responsibility. A man should take on all kinds of responsibilities from the day he doesn't pee on the kang. I just feel that getting married will increase the burden of the family and reduce personal freedom.All restrictions on freedom bore me.And judging from the current situation, the relationship between Zhou Zhou and I Too many unstable factors, not suitable for marriage.Zhou Zhou is only temporarily returning to China for work, and he may return at some point. The two places are separated, which is not suitable for a loving couple.And my postgraduate entrance examination has not yet resulted, and I have great hopes of passing the entrance examination. Some people can take care of their children in class, but I can't think of my wife when I am in class.

Waiting at home, and the postgraduate subsidy is at most enough to feed myself, and it is difficult to eat well, let alone support a family. But Zhou Zhou said that if you really want to get married, these are not problems.She has been working abroad for three years, so she can apply not to go out. If she has to be sent out, she can quit this job and change companies.And even if I am admitted to graduate school, I don't need to worry about my livelihood. Zhou Zhou's salary is enough for two for human use.I said, but I feel sorry for you earning money by yourself and spending it by two people.Zhou Zhou said, what's the matter, I'll be happy if you earn a lot of money after graduation and spend it on me.

Since these problems can be overcome, there is no reason not to get married, "Unless you don't love me." Zhou Zhou said.I thought about it, sooner or later I have to get married, and if I get married early, it’s not interesting to hang around for a few more years. The classmates around me, except those who are still in school, are almost all in pairs, so I slapped my thigh: "Knot! Tomorrow It's over!" As soon as I told my parents about my plan, my mother jumped up from the chair, doing something that is difficult for people in their fifties to complete: "When did you find me a daughter-in-law? Could it be that the sky really fell into the sky?" Next sister Lin!"

I said to my mother: "I will be a mother-in-law soon, don't make a fuss, be prudent!" My dad said to me: "Have you thought about it?" I said, "I didn't think I would tell you guys." My dad said: "Actually, you are not young anymore. When your grandfather was your age, he had two children, and he has already escaped from the exploitation of capitalists and started to exploit others." I heard that my grandfather started The apprentice, within a few years, has his own business. Compared with him, I really failed. In the end, the parents said: "Then we won't say anything, and someday we will take the girl home to have a look."

The attitude of Zhou Zhou's parents is similar to that of my parents, "The child grows up and has his own ideas, which cannot be controlled by the parents." I met both parents, and the evaluation I got from Zhou Zhou's parents was: "This child is very good, but a little shy, it's good to be shy, and there is not so much nonsense." When I went to Zhou Zhou's house for dinner, I kept my head down and ate. Her parents gave me a large bowl of food, so as not to be considered a waste of food, I couldn’t tell talk.And Zhou Zhou came to my house for dinner and helped my mother wash the dishes, leaving a good impression.My parents' evaluation of Zhou Zhou is: "This girl is not bad, but it's a bit wasteful to be worthy of our son." After listening to their discussion, I began to wonder if I was born to them, why did my elbows turn outward.

Then there is the issue of wedding photos. My original intention is: "Don't take photos. Happiness is what you feel in your heart, not for others to see. It's not that those divorced couples haven't taken photos." Moreover, the handsome men and women in the photos are all made out, with real appearances. Terrible, as long as you are willing to spend money, you can take pictures like Marilyn Monroe or the Queen Mother (for women over 60 years old).The make-up artist applies rouge and powder on the face with more than half a catty of rouge, which can easily change a person's appearance drastically, and then the photographer intentionally overexposes when shooting, even if he is darker than Li Kui or has freckles on his face, as long as it is like this Take a picture, it must be whiter than Snow White, and finally use the computer to post-processing, draw a stroke on the single eyelid, it becomes a double eyelid, and then wipe off the bloody mouth to make a small cherry mouth, and then put the sky into the sky The nose is painted with two pieces of flesh color and changed into an aquiline nose so that outsiders cannot see the nostrils.Some people want to make their breasts taller. They can zoom in on the computer to enlarge the egg to the size of a washbasin. If the image quality is not considered, it is also possible to put it in the size of a bathtub.Some people want to be tall and tall, just do a vertical stretch, but pay attention to the deformation of the mouth, don't be self-defeating, and change the mouth that originally grew horizontally into vertical growth.In short, with a bit of tweaking, a person who is too ugly to look at can also be photographed as beautiful as a fairy.It’s too unrealistic. I have been educated in Marxism-Leninism since I was a child. How could I make such leftist mistakes.

But Zhou Zhou wants to record the happiest moment in his life and keep it as a memory for himself. When he gets old, he will hold the wedding photo decades ago with his wrinkled hands and say to his little grandson: " Look, your grandma was pretty when she was young, and there is this handsome guy next to me, he is your toothless grandpa." This is a kind of warmth and happiness. I took a step back and said yes, I can take a photo, so that I will never have a photo when I change the monthly pass in the future, but the grandson is fine. I don’t want a child. I am afraid that the grandson will not have a chance to be born. If you have to have a grandson, you can ask others to owe us Money, the ones who owe money are all grandsons.A creditor is always thinking about those who owe him money, just like a grandfather is always thinking about his grandson. Zhou Zhou asked why I didn’t want children. I said that I was unhappy enough in my life, and I couldn’t let there be another unhappy person in the world, and I didn’t want to be laughed at by my children when I got old.Nietzsche said: "Father and son—in order to successfully have a son again, a father has many things to do." This is precisely impossible for me, not to mention working hard for the next generation, I am not even willing to work hard for myself.If the Chinese people have my awareness, the population problem will not become a burden on our country, and the per capita values ​​can also rank among the top in the world, but in this case, men have to give their reproductive systems a buckle or give their wives Put a ring there, or actively buy rubber products, which poses a severe test to the rubber industry. Maybe after a few years, doctors in obstetrics and gynecology will switch to growing rubber. Zhou Zhou said that a perfect family is only when there are children, they will have the happiness of a family, and they can provide for the elderly. I said that parents will never understand what will happen to their children when they grow up, and they are lucky not to be abused by their children. Zhou Zhou said that we have raised children, so we have to enjoy his gratitude in return. I said it wasn't necessarily true, Yang Yang didn't thank his parents for their kindness in giving birth, he always believed that he was a product left by his parents inadvertently looking for fun. Zhou Zhou said, well, if you don't want it, then you don't want it. If you really want to have a child, love will be a distraction. Now having a husband is enough. On whether to hold the ceremony, Zhou Zhou and I also reached a consensus: no. My reason is that drinking fake wine mixed with cold water and black tea, and clinking glasses with my buddies, I can't do it.Either don't drink it, drink it if you want to drink it, but I don't have enough alcohol to drink with everyone, so the ceremony is skipped.And I never wear a suit, and I don't think it's a big deal to appear on stage as the protagonist of the wedding with a big vest, but my mother definitely doesn't do it, it makes people think that she doesn't buy clothes for me. Zhou Zhou's point of view is: it's not interesting to go around Beijing in a borrowed Cadillac Rolls-Royce. It's better to save some crude oil for the country.If you really want to be beautiful, work hard to earn money and buy a car of your own.When they arrive at the scene, the bride and groom have to participate in all kinds of mentally retarded games, like being played like monkeys. The key point is that the marriage is for themselves, and they have to drink a cup of wine in front of everyone, tell each other promises, and why do they do that show. In the end, Zhou Zhou and I put forward the slogan: "Marry yourself, let others talk!"