People always ask what is the purpose of writing a certain work. In fact, compared with the purpose of writing, I pay more attention to whether I let readers understand my expression. When I was young, I hated preaching when I was young. There were too many reading barriers in the long texts. After the teachers and elders gave me earnest education, I still forced myself to keep reading. Unfortunately, I was so tired that my eyes were sore, and I was still foggy. I don’t know. So said. Some people say that some good books require the right age to read and cherish them.Maybe it was because of the wrong age.

In the lonely and confused youth, I once hoped to come across such a book: What it shows is the life I live in front of me.Friendship, love, family affection; study, life, entertainment. It is best not to be too preachy, and there must be no dyslexia. The content should be concise, powerful, and have the power to direct people's hearts. Of course it cannot be simple, empty, absurd, bizarre, or simply tell a story, and of course it cannot be required to have too much depth, but at least in the process of reading and after I read, there is a feeling that I want to open and reopen at any time. The urge to read it again.

It makes you can't help but pick up the pen, draw wavy lines on the sentences that deeply touch you, and read them repeatedly.Copy them down in a journal.Send it to QQ space and use it as a signature for QQ and MSN. It makes you think deeply. ——The life you have experienced in front of you: friendship, love, family affection; study, life, entertainment...all of which arouse your deep thinking. Put it in a backpack, wait for someone, take the bus, in the subway... all the free time is accompanied by it, and every time your fingers touch it, you will feel a great sense of fulfillment and satisfaction.

Put it next to the pillow before going to bed, turn it over several times before going to bed, with a smile on the corner of your mouth, and fall into a sweet sleep peacefully. When I go to the bathroom, if I don’t find it, I won’t give up even if my face is flushed with anxiety, until I sit down on the toilet with it, I feel that the whole world is in my arms. In my lonely and confused youth, I was eager to come across such a book. If not, then I really want to write such a book.Although it is difficult to achieve, but for this, I am willing to do my best. This is a novel with the theme of love.

Yes, I like to write about love. I have too many things to express about love. I don't know, once, you who are reading this text, have you ever had the same confusion as me when I was young and ignorant—— I encountered a beautiful love. But. However, I don't know how to start. For a while, I wrote a column for "Reader" magazine, and I often received letters like this: "I'm in love with someone, how can I make him fall in love with me?" "A boy confessed to me, and I have a crush on him, but how can I tell if it's love?" "Someone I like asks me out to hang out, what should I do next?"

"She invited me to celebrate with her on her birthday, does that mean she likes me?" ... He has star eyebrows and sharp eyes.He is imposing.He looks handsome. She is elegant and generous.She has a noble temperament.She is otherworldly. No, maybe he's just a layman among all living beings. She is just an ordinary person thrown in the crowd and never found again. None of this matters or matters. The point is, I love him/her so much. However, I don't know how to start. I don't know how this supposedly beautiful love will start. Love is really a wonderful thing in the world.

But these are the most superficial, basic, and simple, and at the same time the most profound, important, and complex, which are related to our future quality of life, our mental health, and our working conditions, future, and direction. No one has ever told us the main points and precautions of the science of love: how to find out the best way and make the most wise choice in the fastest and most effective way from person to person? ——I think, this is actually the collective confusion of our generation. When the ancients reached the appropriate age, they simply settled major life events by relying on the words of matchmakers and the orders of their parents.With the continuous development and progress of society, modern people have more human liberation, freedom and rights, but due to various reasons, most of today's teenagers have love views that are overwhelming from the book market. I get it from various romance novels, I get it from domestic and foreign film and television dramas, and I get it from imitating people who are older than me or my peers around me.

China, which is striding forward on the road of modernization, seems to have stagnated in the cultivation of young people's concept of love for decades. Of course, we can't blame our parents for this matter, their parents' parents' parents... are more feudal and conservative.After several generations, they certainly don't have a mature view of love, so when it comes to their children, they are strictly suppressed before university and must not affect their studies. But, will it be a little late... There are many friends around me, some are depressed because of failed love and have no interest in anything; some are severely hit because of a girlfriend’s change of heart and have been expelled from the university for a long time because of a girlfriend’s change of heart; There are those who are seriously injured and their parents pay hundreds of thousands of yuan...

Of course, there are also many excellent combinations of talents and looks, living together happily. However, I think that if major colleges and universities can offer "love" as a compulsory course, then will love, a knowledge related to the quality of life, mental health and life direction of everyone in the future, be due to it? Opening, so many tragedies have been avoided, and many beautiful loves have been achieved? Those students who are fascinated by the great cause of love. Will many people completely change their lives because of this? Of course, maybe, this is just my ideal.

At the end of this novel, I specially did a small survey on Weibo and found that everyone has different opinions on comedy and tragedy. People who like tragedies say: How come there are so many comedies in life. But where did so many tragedies come from?Where can people die?Where are there so many conspiracies and tricks?The vast majority of people like lovers to get married, but does getting married count as a comedy? Individuals have their own happy life and pain and loneliness, and the various frictions in life bring about gains and losses. Only the parties involved know it. Writer Wang Hailing said that a novel is a combination of many real fragments.

I think that is indeed the case.In this novel, you will find shadows of many people, yourself, friends, classmates, and even parents... Whether it is Nie Shuang, Zhou Qianyi, Ji Cheng, Bai Mushan, Jiang Xiaoguang, they must be in this world exists. It is you, the life that is about to experience, is experiencing or has experienced. In the process of writing, I tried my best to intersperse my own understanding and views on love while telling wonderful stories, such as: "The reason why love is love lies in the people who are willing to fall into it - who grew up in different family conditions and family environments. Started from different directions. Formed their own different personalities. Fall in love with different people. Have suffered different injuries. Possess and accumulate different wisdom and ways of thinking. Seize or miss different opportunities. Wear, consume, and accumulate their own abilities and responses to actively love and be loved. Experience different lives. With different They grow up in different ways... All these factors that cannot be actively controlled affect and restrict everyone's love." "Love is the most unreasonable thing in the world. It is not a reward from God, and it is not that you will get 100% return through hard work and dedication; it is not a math problem. As long as the calculation method is correct, you will definitely find the right direction. And the exit, to find the right solution; it requires two people to agree with each other and work together to continue - but because of the unilateral abandonment of either party, it will be weakly paralyzed to the end. No one can tell what it is. But, you Got it. It's there, it's there." ... However, there are many questions, I am still very confused.Maybe you have an answer? Why don't we discuss it together. This is my first published novel after I published it.Thank you readers for your patience and support. Hope it doesn't disappoint you. I hope it is a book that you are eager to encounter in your young and beautiful years. If not, then, well, even if there is only one paragraph that makes you think to a certain extent, I think it is also a success. When writing this manuscript, it coincided with my pregnancy.I have been worried that the baby will be born early, but the baby is very good, and seems to be waiting for me to finish writing the novel.Here, I would like to especially thank you baby! ^_^ Two books will be published one after another, one is a collection of essays on novels "Who Makes You Deviate", and the other is "A Tiger Cub in All Love 3 Houses".The publication time is probably in February or March of 2011. Well, see you then! ——To all who are silently hurt in love You who also grow silently