Chapter 27 Section five

When the "threesome of girlfriends" reunited, Xu Xin couldn't wait to pour out the bitterness. "You say, is Du Yibei out of his mind?" The narrative ended at this point, Xu Xin complained vigorously, while Gu Xiaoying and Duan Fei nestled on the sofa watching her speechless. "I think her state is a bit like when you first got married." Duan Fei looked at Xu Xin and said to Gu Xiaoying. "How could I have been so neurotic?" Gu Xiaoying refused to admit it. Xu Xin, who was treated like air, was very dissatisfied: "Don't digress, I'm talking about Du Yibei now!"

"Du Yibei is pretty good," Gu Xiaoying said flatly, "According to the law that man A finds woman B, man B finds woman C, and in the end both woman A and man C are left, Du Yibei and you actually belong to class A. Male and female. He can see you, which shows that he is mentally healthy and his aesthetics are not superficial, how rare!" "Besides, you are not young anymore, you are not fresh, and you are not as energetic and beautiful as those born in the 90s..." Duan Fei added. Xu Xin was blown into a rage: "The post-90s are only nineteen this year! According to the Marriage Law, they are still under the age of marriage!"

"Hehe, so you plan to get married?" Gu Xiaoying smiled openly, "You're making pretty fast progress." "That's right," Duan Fei nodded gratified, deeply moved, "Actually, we are all the same kind of people, and we are stronger. If we decide to do something, we must do it well. As a result, not only will I be tired, but the man will feel that he is looking for something. This kind of woman is too scary. I also know now that women have to show weakness at critical moments, not because there are some things they can’t do by themselves, but because there is no need to do everything by themselves. So the value of men is here, they can do many things for us , and you only need to boast a few words and express your admiration, and life will be harmonious."

"Not everyone knows what contentment is." Xu Xin first thought of Jiang Yueyang for Duan Fei, "But Mr. Jiang, I think it's okay, he's a good person." "Hello, don't you want it?" Duan Fei glared at Xu Xin. "We are not the same people at all, sister!" Xu Xin rolled his eyes, "He is a steady and down-to-earth type, I like the sunny and cheerful type! Besides, Mr. Jiang's mental age is at least ten years older than mine, and we don't get along at all! I'm surprised Now, you said Mr. Jiang has such a character, how could he come to the Art Academy?"

"Guan Tong said that Jiang Yueyang injured his leg playing football the year he graduated, which delayed his search for a job, so he was recruited when our school recruited counselors," Gu Xiaoying broke the news, "Listen to what Guan Tong said, Jiang Yueyang also I didn’t intend to regard our school as my destination for the rest of my life.” "Then where else can he go?" Duan Fei was curious. "It's hard to say, maybe I'm waiting for an opportunity. I heard from Guan Tong that last time Jiang Yueyang wanted to take part in the provincial cadre selection exam, but he didn't pass the exam because he didn't have enough grades. Now that he has also taken the deputy director level, there should be more and more people." The more opportunities there are," Gu Xiaoying thought about it, "Anyway, whether it's Jiang Yueyang, who is steady and prudent, or Du Yibei, who is bright and bright, they are all diamond-level. If you ask me, you can't let any of them go."

Duan Fei smiled: "Actually, when I reach my age, I will know that as long as the man around me can respect you, appreciate you, and cherish you, and the external conditions are reasonable, even if there is no such a proud family background and strong wealth , a promising career, he is already a big shining diamond." "That's true," Gu Xiaoying nodded, "Actually, on the basis of mutual affection, if this man is still a little motivated, the couple will walk forward with support and support, and they won't go well." Xu Xin thought for a while and said: "Actually, I just don't like 'proud family background, strong wealth'... I used to dislike the high threshold of Du Yibei's family. But now, I think Du Yibei is more One of the biggest advantages is that he doesn't dislike me for earning more money, but in fact he is quite capable himself, so he is neither humble nor overbearing."

"Why do people feel inferior?" Gu Xiaoying glanced at Xu Xin, "He is a doctor! Do you understand? Doctor!" "Meng Xu is still a doctor!" Duan Fei glanced at Gu Xiaoying again. "University teachers are a high-risk industry," Gu Xiaoying sighed, "Especially male teachers, there are too many temptations..." "Going off topic again!" Xu Xin knocked on the table, very angry, "Can you concentrate! You are talking about my problem, saying that Du Yibei, an idiot, betrayed me without my knowledge!" "Isn't this very sincere, I brought you to meet the parents." Duan Fei said while standing up and going to the bedroom to see if Guoguo had put on the quilt.

"It's really overkill for a diabetes expert to show people a cold." Gu Xiaoying's thinking never took the usual path, "I don't know if I don't need to register when I go to the traditional Chinese medicine hospital, and go directly to Du Yibei's father's place." Just see an expert." Just as Xu Xin was about to pick up a pillow and throw it at him, suddenly the doorbell rang.Duan Fei went to open the door, only to see Jiang Yueyang walking in with big bags and small bags familiarly, and said as he walked, "I'm going home to attend my cousin's wedding, this is a souvenir I brought back."

When he looked up and saw Xu Xin and Gu Xiaoying, Jiang Yueyang was stunned for a moment, and smiled: "Yo, you two are here too!" "It seems that we can't call him 'Teacher Jiang' in the future, right, little fly?" Xu Xin shook her head and sighed, looking at Gu Xiaoying. Gu Xiaoying grinned and nodded, and put her hands on the side of her face: "Hi brother-in-law!" Duan Fei blushed: "No one thinks you are dumb." Jiang Yueyang didn't speak, just coughed and turned around, leaving everyone with a pair of red ears. Gu Xiaoying and Xu Xin laughed maliciously together.

So happiness is really an uncertain thing. Gu Xiaoying later thought: In the eyes of onlookers, Xu Xin has been lonely, Duan Fei has lost her love, and only she, Gu Xiaoying, has been stumbling on the road to marriage. Although there are constant frictions, it is a happy ending anyway. However, in her own eyes, lonely people will wait for companionship, and they can find love if they lose it. On the contrary, she who wants to have children has a lot of fate: she knows very well that Jiang Mingbo asked her to have a baby. The reason for doing ovulation monitoring this month - because this month, it was abolished again.

She can no longer sum up her hardships in the past six months or more in words... But when she went to the forum on the Internet, she found that it was only six or seven months, and it was still early! A sister said in a forum: "My husband and I have not used contraceptives for a year, but we still haven't gotten pregnant. The doctor suggested that we do a radiography to see if there is any problem with the fallopian tubes. What does the radiography feel like? Simply put, it means that you feel that you are dead. It’s more comfortable than doing an examination—the pain is really unimaginable: you call your mother and husband’s name in pain, but it’s useless, it still hurts! During the examination, you first do a skin test, and then you have to do a skin test on your thin, buried area. Putting a tube on the fallopian tube deep in the body! Then you will put on your pants and sit in a wheelchair to the radiology department to wait for the imaging-think about it, dragging a hard-inserted tube in your body, the pain is really unusable Describe in words! The principle of radiography is this, that is, the outer end of the tube connected to your body is controlled by another person. This person needs to push the contrast agent in little by little, while the doctor observes through the instrument Your fallopian tubes, judge whether your fallopian tubes are unobstructed according to the development of the fallopian tubes... Sisters, this is really not a crime of human beings! After pulling out the tubes, I waited for more than an hour to get out of the wheelchair. My husband said that my complexion It was all white and white... At that time, I was so miserable, I just thought, why is it harder to have a child than to build an atomic bomb?" Seeing this passage, Gu Xiaoying was about to burst into tears. Followed by a series of comments - 1st floor: I did the radiography after 14 months of trying to conceive with no results, and it felt okay, although it was uncomfortable when the tube was inserted, but the feeling was not strong when I added the medicine. It's just that after coming out, I feel that my stomach is bloated and uncomfortable, like the feeling when I come to menstruation. Floor 2: I did it too, and it was more than a year when I was trying to conceive. Because I had a miscarriage, I suspected that the tube was blocked because of it.I personally feel that the level of hospital is different and the equipment is different, so the degree of pain will be different, so I suggest that sisters go to a big hospital for the treatment, and the pain is small. 3rd floor: I want to grow a little longer. I have been trying to conceive for two years.I don't want to mention the mood of preparing for pregnancy, it's too sad, but the feeling during the radiography was not so miserable. Although it was a bit painful at the time, it soon eased over.Later, I went home by bicycle, so don’t be too scared! Floor 4: I also had radiography. Although I didn't feel as deeply as the landlord, it still hurt.I don't understand, isn't it a common thing for a woman to have a baby?But why is it so difficult when we come here?Those who have never experienced it may really be unable to understand our despair and pain for the rest of their lives. Floor 5: It's not easy being a woman!Why can men not have children? Floor 6: Didn’t it be mentioned in the TV series?To truly achieve equality between men and women, men have to have children too! ...In this way, a medical topic finally evolved into a big discussion on social issues.In front of the computer, Gu Xiaoying stared fixedly at the computer screen, feeling a thousand emotions in her heart. She didn't dare to ask Guan Tong: If I can't give birth to a child, do you still want me? Based on what she knew about Guan Tong, he would probably have two ways of answering. One is the reprimand and reprimand type answer: What are you thinking about? The second is a theoretical and academic answer: the child is just a "symbol"... But no matter what it is, she knows that this is a fluke tolerance before the final judgment comes.Once she is really judged to be the one with problems, her own parents will probably be very sad, and his parents, especially Guan Liming, who pays so much attention to the succession of the family, will turn their backs? In order to have a baby, she didn't know how many tricks she had thought of - she cooked a lot of dishes for Guan Tong that made people angry, which was food supplements; she bought sexy pajamas, which was visual temptation; she lit incense, Essential oils, romantic candles, this is the atmosphere; summoning Guan Tong to take a "mandarin duck bath" together, this is a form of innovation; even seduce Guan Tong to watch porn together and do it... In short, the most embarrassing thing in this life, she will Done. However, it still failed. It's not unexpected—according to her understanding of Guan Tong, twice in three days is okay, three times in five days is a challenge, and four times in seven days is nothing at all! Of course, she herself is also responsible, and she also knows that she is too impatient, but if it drags on, she will be thirty, and the pressure from the surroundings is so great, she can't calm down even if she wants to! On the day when she failed again, Gu Xiaoying didn't cry, she just put on her pajamas silently and turned over to sleep.Guan Tong felt very guilty and frustrated, and didn't want to talk, but he also felt that not expressing anything was inappropriate, so after a while, he turned around and took Gu Xiaoying into his arms, and sighed sullenly. Gu Xiaoying didn't speak, she didn't even sigh, she was as calm as if she was asleep.But Guan Tong knew that she was not asleep, so he reached out and touched her cheek to make sure that she was not crying, so he was slightly relieved. He was afraid of crying. Because it’s okay for a person who cries every day, but it’s a serious matter for a person who cries every day. He thought about it, but was still a little worried, so he patted Gu Xiaoying: "We will continue tomorrow." Gu Xiaoying hummed, but said nothing. Guan Tong scratched his head, leaned over to hold Gu Xiaoying down, and coaxed her: "Don't be angry, maybe it's because I'm old..." "Thirty-four is considered old?" Gu Xiaoying turned her face sideways, opened her eyes and stared at Guan Tong, "Guan Tong, do you know that you make me feel like an unattractive woman, so you don't even have desire when you see me." After she finished speaking this sentence calmly, Guan Tong widened her eyes in surprise: "What did you say?" "I've thought about it, in fact, it's good if you don't have desires for me, because then you won't have desires for other women." Gu Xiaoying's eyes were still frighteningly calm, "I've realized it now, just slow down , it is better to have a child later than to divorce earlier if you have an affair." Guan Tong was completely stunned. After a while, he regained the willpower that had been blown away, grabbed Gu Xiaoying's shoulder and yelled in a low voice: "What are you thinking about?" "Isn't that obvious?" Gu Xiaoying yawned, her tone perfunctory as if she was describing something that had nothing to do with her, "You worked overtime all day when you first got married, but what was your state then? Now that you're married It's only been more than two years, and you've been separated in two places, but what's your state every time we meet? Let me tell you, just like Liu Xiahui with your reluctant appearance!" Guan Tong didn't know whether to laugh or cry, thinking how could a generation of moral models become heinous in this context? But this accusation was too irritating, completely beyond Guan Tong's imagination, he didn't know how to refute, he didn't know what to say when he opened his mouth, and after thinking for a long time, he pushed Gu Xiaoying slightly angrily, sat up and said: " I don't!" "Yeah, that means you see that I don't have desires..." Gu Xiaoying yawned again—after tossing and tossing for so long, although no "84 disinfectant" came out, people were not less affected. "I'm not saying this," Guan Tong was angry, "I'm saying that I don't have desires without seeing you! I'm normal! You're normal too!" "Well, okay, everything is normal." Gu Xiaoying was so sleepy that she yawned again, patted Guan Tong and said perfunctorily: "Go to sleep, you have to go to work tomorrow. If I had known that it would be so difficult to have a baby when I was older Struggle, I should be married and want a child, according to the frequency at that time, I can't even think about getting pregnant..." The voice gradually became low and could not be heard. Guan Tong turned his head and saw that Gu Xiaoying fell asleep so quickly! Guan Tong felt a little stuffy, so he got up and went to the bathroom, drank a few more sips of water, and finally suffered from insomnia, and he tossed and tumbled until the middle of the night before falling asleep. Before he fell asleep, he thought aggrievedly: Isn't it just to give birth to a child, how can he force the two of them to turn against each other?