Chapter 53 52. Domestic violence caused by gambling

It turned out that when I was rushing to the game, I could meet gamblers who were down because of gambling every day. Now I quit, and there are crazy gamblers around me. I didn’t ask his name, but I only know that he used to work in a factory. He worked two shifts, sometimes on day shift, sometimes on night shift. .Ever since he became obsessed with gambling, he lost all his savings and owed a whole lot of debt.After he gambled, he often didn't go to work, and was dismissed by the unit because of frequent absenteeism.The family's livelihood is maintained by his wife's little salary as a salesperson in the mall.As for this kid, he would borrow money whenever he opened his mouth, regardless of who he met.Later, everyone knew that he gambled and alienated him.His wife threatened him with a divorce to stop gambling. When he saw that his wife was serious, he became honest for a while.He found a company to work as a temporary worker, and after working for a period of time, he became restless again.He didn't have the gambling capital in hand, so he thought of cheating.There are many ways he deceives people into borrowing money: doing business investment, helping people arrange jobs, helping children to go to college, buying a house, even losing their bank cards, wife having a car accident and needing money for hospitalization, etc., in short, there are all kinds of reasons.Without exception, all the money was used by him to gamble.Of course, those who lent him money also lost their money.People who lent money to him were either lured by his promise of high interest rates, or believed in his lies.I said that those who think about high interest rates deserve it, can they make a lot of money and pay off their debts?He deserves to be asked to help arrange for his children to go to college and find a job, and it doesn't matter that he is still working as a temporary worker. Where can he arrange for others?In the end, the promise to others failed. Someone came forward to ask him for the previous money. Later, he found out that he had been cheated, so he called the police.

Therefore, he went in and squatted for more than a year.Even so, his wife did not give up on him.Begging for help everywhere, borrowing money to repay debts, even going to the prison to spend the night with him at the most relaxed time before he was released from prison (at that time, the prison allowed some prisoners who were about to be released to open husband and wife rooms).It stands to reason that he should have woken up, where can he find such a good wife? After he was released from prison, he also stopped for more than a year, and then he started playing mahjong again for some reason.According to what he said, playing mahjong is fun and does not hurt your health.But he doesn't have a stable job, and his youngest daughter's school expenses, food, clothing and housing at home depend on his wife's little money, how can it be enough?As for him, he went to play mahjong after get off work all day long, and didn't even come back all night, just spent time on the mahjong table.Later, his wife saw that it was not a problem, so she quarreled with him.

Originally, he and I were running on two different roads, and I didn’t know him. It was my wife Crab who knew his wife’s sister, so I knew his story intermittently.His wife's younger sister is our neighbor, she lives on the same floor as us, and we have contacts with each other.It was past 10 o'clock that night, and she suddenly came to knock on the door, saying that her sister was fighting at home, and she didn't want to live anymore, so she wanted to go over there immediately to have a look.Because she saw my car parked downstairs when she went downstairs, she knocked on the door and asked us to see her off.Her sister’s home is far away, and it’s hard to call a car after 10 o’clock in the evening, so Xie and I quickly put on our clothes and drove her there.

According to her sister's guidance, we came to a family.After knocking on the door, her sister came to open the door, crying like a tearful person.His daughter was so frightened that she hid in the toilet and cried. When she heard the little aunt coming, she rushed out and hugged the little aunt and refused to let go.Her sister cried while talking, pointing to a big bump on her head, which was as big as a four-year-old child's fist, and was made with a wooden vase.Listening to my sister's crying, my neighbor cried at that time, and asked her sister to divorce, pointing to the gambler and said: "Are you bullying that our family has no brothers? Everyone has supported you all these years. How many mistakes have you made?" Forgive me, it’s because you and my sister still have feelings. This time we’ve made a move, we can’t agree, we can’t live this life, we have to divorce. Also, you have to pay the advance payment we helped a few years ago. I have paid back all the money.” The gambler may also feel that he is too much, so he sits with his head drooping and smokes without saying a word.Crab is a fiery person. He touched the huge bump on his wife's head, rushed up to the gambler and yelled, "You can't hit a woman no matter how much you argue, not a woman." If I hadn't pulled her , she could go up and kick that kid a few times.

When I asked the reason, it was because the kid had no money to play mahjong, and when he came back he asked his wife for money, but she didn't give it to him.According to his daughter-in-law: In the past few years, he has not given any money to the family, and he does not do any work. All the expenses for the children's education and insurance are supported by herself.How much can you earn as a salesperson for a month?Where is the rest?There are still people coming to ask for debts.This time, he may have pushed his wife into a hurry, so he scratched her. As for him, he picked up the vase and beat his wife.

Later, my neighbor took my elder sister and little niece to live with her, and tried to persuade her elder sister to divorce.Later, I heard that they really got divorced. This gambler left the house and now lives in the dormitory of the factory where he works.A family that should have been very happy broke up like this.Think about it, it's all caused by gambling.I don't know exactly what kind of gambling that man participated in and lost so much money, but I just feel sorry for that cute little girl.Every time the crab mentioned that cute little girl, he would sigh for a long time.