Chapter 15 Chapter Fourteen Angle Questions

Her: "The problem is that we all think complicated when we grow up." Me: "Is it normal?" She: "No, this is paradoxical. You see, adults use their own attitudes to educate their children, but what about educating children? Things after they grow up, right? So can children accept it? Or when adults express Can you explain clearly? What if the expression is wrong? What if the understanding is wrong? Then the child who receives the knowledge will be affected for a lifetime. But, the question comes back again: what is correct? " Me: "Now there are so many children's education..."

She: "Wait a minute, let me tell you my own point of view." Me: "Well." She: "The vast majority of people who are engaged in children's education don't understand children. Need an example?" Me: "I need it very much." She: "Okay, let's give an example: I have read some articles for children, such as saying "Go out in the morning", and I will say in a child's tone: the sky is blue, the sun is beautiful, the trees are green, the air is fresh, etc., yes wrong?" Me: "That's right, this shows the purity of the child."

She smiled: "Then let me tell you what I know. I have asked no less than 100 children about what to watch when I go out in the morning. Do you know what the children are watching?" Me: "Isn't that what you just said?" She: "Absolutely not. They are not as tall as us, so they are not interested in seeing so much, so far, and so macroscopically. They are closer to the ground than us, and the ground is what attracts them the most. They can see bugs; they can pay attention to walking The stones kicked up; they will pay attention to the reflection of the accumulated water; they will see the coins half buried in the soil; they will carefully study when they step on it to make the unique creaking sound of stepping on the snow; they will observe the pattern of the bricks under their feet... ...They pay too much attention, but few look up at the sky, look at the morning sun, and say that the air is fresh.”

Me: "You mean that many children's books are actually read from the perspective of adults?" She: "It's like this. When we read this kind of text, we will find it very fresh, but children will find it boring. Children are very smart, but they don't express themselves very well. They can only directly respond as: they are not interested." Me: "Since when did you pay attention to your child's attitude?" She: "4 years ago? Probably. It was when I went shopping with my brother and sister-in-law. The little nephew kept making troubles, but he didn't want to be in the mall. At first I thought he wanted to do something else, but later I found out that it wasn't. When I squatted down to tie his shoes, I looked around and realized that the mall is not fun at all in the eyes of a child. There are all kinds of legs, shoes, pants everywhere, which is very boring."

Me: "So..." She: "That's why I realized that I have forgotten those views when I was a child." Me: "So you are living this way now." She nodded. Her home is set up like a kid’s room, with all those brightly colored decorations, all the furniture with rounded edges, fluorescent dots on the ceiling that would reveal a galaxy if the lights were turned off — which she gave me Demonstrated.Even the cups that give me water are cartoon characters.The most interesting thing is her computer desk, which is in a small tent, and the outside of the tent is decorated like a grass slope, with wild animals on it...

She: "In fact, many of the things we take for granted have their own problems, but no one has discovered them." Me: "I still have to give an example." She smiled: "Have you noticed the beef jerky or the sausage in antiseptic packaging in the supermarket? There are also the spicy duck necks sold outside." Me: "See, why is that abnormal?" She: "Once I was shopping in the supermarket, a little boy stood in front of the shelf and looked at the beef jerky in horror. I thought his expression was very funny, so I went up and asked if he was hungry? The boy said: The cow is very brave. I Curious, I asked him how he knew the cow was brave? He pointed to the large package of beef jerky on the shelf and said: Look, that cow held up his own meat and told everyone that it was delicious. I couldn’t help laughing at that time, it’s really It was like that. Then I noticed a lot of meat packaging, and found that they were all like this—a few ducks (pay attention to the distinction) holding a duck neck and sticking out their thumbs; ; A cow happily introduced how the beef is so attractive; a few fish happily held the canned fish on the plate...too many."

I scratched my head: "But it's all like this? Don't let the big bad wolf hold up the sausage to promote it?" She looked at me with a half-smile: "Is it really like this? In fact, I just gave an example. These packages are just like this. When we get used to it, we get used to it, but children don't see it that way, they will find problems, they It’s going to feel abnormal, they’re going to question it, they’re going to have new ideas. But, we’re not, just because: used to it.” Me: "Your job is an illustrator, you can treat it with that attitude, but everyone else has to make a living and live, and it's impossible for everyone to be in that state."

She: "No, you are wrong. When I work, I am working. From my attitude to the method, I am working because I am making a living. This is why work is only given to adults. But once I let go of work, I It will be a child, because I like this new world, not the accustomed world. Everyone has the right to choose what they like, instead of having to look at it with the same attitude as others.” Me: "Well...it makes sense, I agree with that." She: "So, it's not surprising that I live like this. As for whether I want to say this to everyone, this is my right. If I don't want to say it, then I won't say it. How do others think of me? It's not my problem, it's their problem. Like that friend, who thought I was weird and abnormal, so she asked you to contact me, right? I think she is abnormal, not me."

Me: "Glad you told me this." She: "No, you should be happy that you also have the attitude of liking the new world. If you are not such a person, I won't tell you. I told you that you don't understand, or you distort my thoughts, right? ?Like these friends I’m not interested in telling. She’s nice, she cares about me, but she doesn’t understand my attitude, so I won’t tell her that.” Me: "Well...so should I tell her these things about you?" She: "It's up to you, you make the decision." Me: "Well, I'll decide then." Her: "OK."

Me: "Then will you be tired doing this?" She: "Tired? Can't talk about it? This is something I like, so I don't feel tired. When people are doing what they like, they will be very devoted and crazy, and they will find problems and find solutions by themselves." Me: "I admit it." She: "Survival and interest are always the best motivation. Of course, everyone is pursuing material life now, and there is nothing wrong with using that as motivation. Many people, in many different ways, do many different things. For example, if you want to have a big house, a good car, and a beautiful wife, then you work hard to earn money. Another person wants to live a life of a savage, who doesn’t want to be tied to money, and wants to live like a wolf; there are still people who want to change their minds around the world Travel, earn some money and go out to play... Then you put yourself in your shoes and say, 'You're all idiots, you're all sick. Don't give a shit about money!' And they'll laugh at you for being crazy about money, Or ignore you at all. Actually, what is this? It’s a matter of values. To put it bluntly, it’s a matter of perspective. One more thing: What do you think the emperor pursues for longevity? In fact, because he is already an emperor, what else can he pursue? It’s my own. In the past, the field of alien creatures hadn’t been expanded, so I couldn’t think of conquering it, and my materialistic understanding of nature was even less than it is now. But I want to stand on a higher perspective, so I only have…”

Me: "Only ask immortals to ask, make alchemy and take medicine." She: "That's it. By the way, have you noticed? Children are more in awe of nature than adults." Me: "Your thinking is really jumping... Is it the child's lack of material knowledge?" She: "I didn't jump around, I crossed a topic, but I will come back to it; what I said just now is not a problem of cognition, but that sometimes children can see through the essence at a glance." Me: "Hey, this is a bit outrageous, the child's experience and experience are not enough." She: "Because of these deficiencies, children's instincts are stronger. Many children will get close to people who like children and alienate people who don't like children, but they didn't need to communicate and test before. Why? Although there is no communication, but Children can always capture some clues, feed them back directly to themselves, and form instincts, and this is still in the unconscious state of the brain." Me: "Well, it seems that there is such a situation." She: "Let's talk about it again: When we look at things, we often use objective cognition to understand, and we all say: that's it! In fact, many objective cognitions are just assumptions, and many things have not been explained clearly." Me: "Let's take an example." She smiled: "Let's talk about trees. Children think that trees have thoughts, but they just stand there and don't speak. We will say that's impossible. If trees can talk, why can't I hear them?" Me: "I understand what you mean. To communicate, you have to speak? Even if a tree speaks, you have to be heard? Can you understand? I didn't realize that it was such a spirit?" She laughed: "Yes, that's how it is. And if there are adults who really study it, many people will say: Is it sick? Is it full to eat? Knowing that trees can talk, is it useful? It can make money ?" Me: "Well, use a value to measure everything." She: "That's right! But I sometimes think, maybe the tree has deep roots and really knows where buried treasure or something of great monetary value? Is it because after a successful example, everyone goes crazy Heartily research what the tree said. Because there are the most direct economic results.” Me: "Well, really! I suddenly want to develop in this direction." She was still laughing: "You are very economical, haha. Okay, let's talk about it again." Me: "No, I think the last topic is very important!" She laughed and said, "Don't make trouble, let's talk about it. You see, we need so many possibilities to understand whether trees can communicate, but children don't. They think very directly and simply: Trees must be able to communicate." Speaker!" Me: "That's right, adults will need evidence or something." She: "Yes, let's talk about evidence. Evidence is a very interesting thing. For example, you went 1000 years ago, and you said that the earth revolves around the sun, and the solar system is a very small galaxy in the Milky Way. Others said: OK , if you prove it to me, I will believe it. What do you do?" I:"……" She: "And now, if you ask someone to prove it to you, they won't bother to talk to you. But what's interesting is: the person who didn't bother to talk to you, really saw the position of the solar system in the Milky Way? Can really explain Is it clear that the earth revolves around the sun? It is definitely not clear, but he learned it in general when he was in school. Although he was about to fall asleep or already asleep in that class, everyone thought so, and he naturally thought so. " Me: "But with math formulas and some calculations..." She: "That requires a lot of basic knowledge, right? Most people can't do it. It's just a general understanding." Me: "Well, it makes sense. I remember that I read a novel, which said that a person went back to the past and showed his power. In fact, it is impossible. Even if he really went back to the past, he would do everything. No, just an ordinary person. Or an ordinary madman." She: "Well! That's what happened. In fact, from the perspective of modern people, we are a group, and many things have become a recognized reality. They don't need to be explored or have been ignored. They can't attract our attention. But Children don’t know that, they will be curious, and they will get to the bottom of everything. You tell your children about photosynthesis, and your children will ask you to explain it in more detail. When you explain it in detail, you will find that the most fundamental cause or how it appeared in the first place, you don’t know. I don’t know. Moreover, many professional scientists don’t know the cause, they can only tell you in a general way: it came from evolution, and the specifics need archaeological evidence—do you understand? The topic has returned.” Me: "It seems like this..." She: "That's it, so I think the existence of religion is still very necessary, and it simplifies many things. Why are there human beings? God created them. How did they create them? You don't care, God is omnipotent, Want to create." I laughed: "Interesting." She: "In fact, it can be said that religion can always explain the weirdest, most bizarre, and most inexplicable things. If you study religion, you will find that everything can be explained by religion." Me: "So that's it! God is omnipotent, and you can tell even the most outlandish things. If you get it right in the future, it's just God's foresight; it doesn't matter if you don't, it means you haven't reached that point yet. To this degree, it is passed down from generation to generation, and there is no proof of death, and it will always be the greatest god." She: "That's right. In fact, many cult organizations take advantage of this to survive. I think religion is good, at least people are good. Cults love whoever they want, anyway, there are a lot of fools. The leaders all have the same idea : Believe it all, believe it all! If you believe it, everyone will ascend to immortality together. Before ascending to immortality, why do you want money? Give it to me, I am willing to be the last..." Me: "I think you are not sick, very interesting, and very active in thinking." She: "It's still a matter of perspective. If we don't talk this afternoon, it's hard to say what you think. We talked, and you understand my perspective, and you accept my behavior. It's as simple as that." Me: "I suddenly thought of a terrible thing: If you are really crazy and I was driven crazy by you, what should I do?" We all froze for a moment, then burst out laughing at the same time. When I left that day, I felt very fulfilled, happy, and happy.Really don't understand how anyone would think she's mentally ill.Or that the person who thought she was abnormal was actually abnormal? It's interesting to think about this kind of thing.Well, yes, the angle issue.