Chapter 16 March 19

The days are moving forward in a staggered way, sometimes sad and sometimes happy.Joy is always short-lived, long-term pain.The long pain makes us cherish and pursue it more when we recall happiness. Today our department staged another martial arts exercise.In the end, all 110 came. 110 does not work now, the main thing is to separate the opposing sides, and then ask us to sacrifice a little, with the river crab as the most important thing. When this patient came to us, he complained of headache, and the X-ray showed hemorrhage of brain epithelial cells.We advised him to stay in the hospital for observation, and to be discharged if the condition did not deteriorate, and to be operated on if it deteriorated.After staying for two weeks, the bleeding point did not increase and the condition did not deteriorate, but the patient's headache did not relieve. We suggested that he go to the rehabilitation hospital below our hospital for further observation, which is also in line with the two-way referral system.Because the hospital beds here are going to be transferred, and there are people who are more serious than him coming in.

He didn't want to go to the hospital below and went home by himself.He went to another tertiary hospital for another diagnosis every few days, and the doctor there operated on him.The blood clot in the brain was taken out, and the symptoms disappeared, so he came to us every day to argue about quack doctors, Mongolian doctors, doctors who cheated money, and no conscience, and asked us to refund him the 10,000 yuan examination and hospitalization fees. Patients take curative effect as the sole criterion for judging.Their own feelings are the most accurate. They have been suffering from headaches for two weeks here.After the operation in the third week, the pain disappeared, so the treatment in the first two weeks was ineffective.Recalling the old joke, when one person eats steamed buns, he is not full after eating six buns, but the seventh one is full, so he said that he would have known that he would not eat the first six.

To be honest, we still insist on our own judgment, thinking that it is not the most suitable time for him to have surgery.It will take a month for the blood stasis in his brain to melt, and it can only be removed by surgery at that time.Now the operation only takes out part of it, and the remaining part of the stalk is blocked there, which may cause a second cerebral infarction.That's why we advised him to keep watching.We did not drive him out of the hospital, but suggested that he change to another local hospital for further observation if his life was not in danger, and come back anytime if he has any problems. This is not our irresponsibility, but a manifestation of our responsibility to more people.Specific to each patient, they will feel that they are being treated unfairly, but on the whole, it will be more fair, which is the meaning of the law.

It is impossible for us to refund the medical expenses to him. If we retreat, everyone will agree that our skills are indeed inferior to others.Our department's brand is about to fall. The doctor in that hospital couldn't be said to be wrong in his treatment of the patients, because he did relieve the suffering of the patients in a short period of time.Although there is still the possibility of opening the 73rd.Of course, I don't know if they have informed the patients. Science allows discussion and academic disputes. As long as the treatment plan makes sense, it is not an accident or malicious injury.But now you insist on us admitting that he was right and we were wrong.we can not accept.

Even if we go to a medical institution for appraisal, even if we go to court, we dare to stand on stage and debate openly. But what we are most afraid of is that you will pull up a banner to tell everyone who does not know the truth that we are morally corrupt, only care about making money, and the unscrupulous doctor will stage smashing glass, smashing doors, and beating us. You stripped us of our dignity, you put a sock in our mouths at the start of a debate. Before the start of a boxing match, we were bound hands and feet. We only have the power to be beaten, not to parry. In the past, my friend told me about the Japanese underworld, saying that the Japanese underworld is very orderly and orderly in Japan.They thought they were good at it, and went out to compete with others for territory. When they went to other parts of Asia, they were beaten to the ground. The reason was that the Japanese underworld also practiced the spirit of Bushido.Which level to pose (posture) and what pose determines the scale of this battle.When they arrived in Hong Kong, the two sides hadn't connected, and even before they had time to bow, the other party would beat them up, throwing axes, hammers, blades, guns, sticks, pots, lids, and bricks. The Japanese gang was so frightened that they ran away and suffered heavy losses.Since then, I have shrunk to the boundaries of Japan and never went out again, because the world is in chaos.There are no rules and regulations at all outside of Japan.

I laughed out loud, thinking that this metaphor is very vivid for us.Sometimes disputes start for no reason at all, and you are judged to be the loser in public opinion before you start the war. six six: Another side of the story: The story is true and I saw it with my own eyes. If I judged as an outsider, I think this hospital is really immoral.People spent 10,000 yuan for the inspection fee, from X-ray to CT, and from ordinary experts. After half a month, nothing was wrong. After seeing it in another hospital, it was done.Isn't this a Mongolian doctor?Isn't this cheating money?

After receiving so much information like this, the psychological feeling of most of us is: the current doctors have extremely poor medical ethics and medical ethics, and they simply ignore human lives.Money is in command of everything, and even human life is not spared the possibility of exploitation.This is one of the reasons why we as a public don't trust doctors. Do not trust, but depend on. Be on guard but flatter. If you want to grab information, you have to rely on your own judgment. The days we were wary of each other were on tenterhooks. Is it more than just a hospital? When we enter the supermarket, we need to deposit our bags.Supermarket managers also know that thieves account for less than 10% of the world, and 90% of people are good citizens, but just to guard against the 10%, they will fight for the remaining 10%. Ninety are fenced.This is a lack of trust.

When we saw an old lady fall on the road, we instinctively wanted to help her up, but we were also afraid that she would touch the porcelain and blackmail me.If there are passers-by to testify, leave relevant information and mobile phone number before you dare to come forward to help, otherwise good people would rather not do it.Why should basic goodness be tortured?Don't you dare to reveal your normal conscience?Because of lessons learned.The famous Peng Yu case in Nanjing is a very scary case, let you know that good people try not to do it lightly.People struggle between good and evil. You don't know whether people are originally good or evil.There is no public moral standard in society, so all behaviors have to be measured by your own judgment at the time.

When driving at night, if you see someone lying on the road, will you stop?Or take a detour? If it were me, I choose to bypass.I have to live by myself first to ensure the happiness of my children and my family, and I can continue to contribute energy to this society.If I was robbed, blackmailed or even killed by a group of people because of my kindness, I would be irresponsible to myself.There have been many such cases, and I have learned from the past. Most people in this world are kind, and only a small part of them are vicious.And because of the influence of this small part, most people wrap up the kindness and anger in their hearts.

After I left, I may have a bad conscience for a long time, and I have to endure the torture I have done to myself. And this kind of torture has been going on for a long time, and I think it's normal.My empathy is dwindling. I rarely give change to beggars with missing arms or legs on the roadside. I know that there is a beggar organization, and it specializes in kidnapping and maiming children. If it wasn't for the people around me, or a huge natural disaster, I don't want to donate anymore.I can't figure out what's real and what's not, and the pain is too much for me to cover with one hand.

I am now even coming to a huge natural disaster.If it weren't for basic humanity and blood is thicker than water, I wouldn't even want to donate money.I keep seeing reports of luxurious government buildings being built after disasters, and reports of buying luxury cars for work units.There are no follow-up reports on the quality of schools under construction. It only takes a few years or ten years to destroy trust.It will take thousands of years to build this trust. Empathize with all those whose trust is lacking.