Chapter 3 February 23

Today is Tuesday, our department's "statutory" negotiation day.All disputes will be resolved on this day without surgery. That family member seemed very honest and didn't say much, but he just said four words: "I don't accept it." Then he sobbed suppressedly. We can't do anything about her.I also sympathize with her, who lost her husband in her prime and has two children who are desperate for food, but we don't know how to make her accept this reality.She said: "I don't accept it." What she didn't accept was the word "accident".

In fact, all patients cannot accept the word accident.They don't know the relationship between the accident and the accident.People can die of illness, that's not our responsibility, but people can't die on the operating table, because that's what we killed.Sometimes I really want to shout angrily: I have no grievances with your husband in the past life, and I have no hatred in this life, why should I kill your husband! I was arguing about this with a layman friend the other day, and he had the same reaction: "It's me, and I can't accept it." He died on the operating table within two days. How do you let the family accept it?"

I had to tell him that I am a human being, not a god.I can never run in front of death.There is an old saying in the past: if the king of hell wants you to leave at 10 o'clock, you will not survive 10 o'clock and one minute.If all the disease doctors in the world can be optimistic, then you can still see Plato and Liang Shanbo dangling in front of your eyes. Do you think the earth can support so many lives? He said, what is an accident?An accident is simply a matter of not being able to find a creditor, and can only admit that it is unlucky.For example, I was walking on the road and was suddenly killed by hailstones falling from the sky.This is called an accident.

"If I am hit by a car when I go out, it is called an accident for me, and it is called an accident for the owner of the car, and he has to pay. I was smashed by the glass upstairs, and the owner of the glass has to pay. I was hit by a wire, and the power company has to lose money. I was in the hospital to see a doctor, and the money was paid. I am your God, your boss of rice, you charged me a large sum of money, and finally told me that there was an accident, and it was gone. Why should I have no money what?" I'm a doctor, not a professional manager of a luxury consumer store.In his eyes, I am actually no different from those women who offer kneeling horses to kill chickens.He came to the hospital to consume, so I have to provide services equivalent to his consumption. I can only succeed and not fail.ridiculous.

He answered me solemnly: "It's not ridiculous at all. You spent 200,000 yuan to buy a car, and before it leaves the factory, people tell you that your car won't work. You asked for a refund, but you still didn't allow it. Who is being ridiculous? You go to the mall to buy a piece of clothing, you pay for it, and you are told that it is out of stock and there is no refund, do you agree?" I refused. "You don't even agree, let alone people's lives? Seeing a doctor is not a small expense. Many people who go to see a doctor at your place are reckless. If in the end, people lose their money, they will blame you for not coming sooner." He said, if he had said he would die earlier, he would have simply not spent the money."

What he said made me understand that it turns out that everyone thinks that going to the hospital is for consumption, and consumption requires buying equivalent products, but we can't provide them, at least we can't guarantee 100% matching of goods.I want to put my position right, I am not as noble as I imagined, and I regard saving lives as my duty.I start by lowering my body and lowering it to the level of hotel attendants and reflexologists. I overestimate myself.If seeing a doctor is no longer consumption or a family burden, will it be easier for everyone to accept the word "accident"?Buying life with money is a transaction in the eyes of ordinary people.

On the 18th floor, there was a billionaire who was in the prime of life and had terminal cancer. He told the director, I will donate one billion yuan to your hospital, and you will be responsible for curing my disease.The director smiled and said to him: "You have misunderstood my profession. If you don't give me a penny, my responsibility is to cure you. If money can buy your life, do you think Rockefeller will die? There are six In a few months, the most important thing you have to do now is not to cure the disease, but to arrange how to distribute the one billion yuan, so that you don’t end up with inheritance lawsuits for your children after death.”