Chapter 66 Section 7

Ding Yi has been reluctant to tell his sister about this, not wanting to spoil the peaceful Christmas atmosphere at her sister's side.But the next day, my sister called. She heard Christmas music in the background, which was very soft and holy. Thinking of her unlucky Christmas, her throat choked up. The older sister didn't know, and asked cheerfully, "Sister, how is your Christmas? Didn't you go out to buy something today?" She didn't want to disturb her sister's happy mood at first, but she was so panicked in her heart that she couldn't help it, so she told all about what happened yesterday.

My sister was a little surprised: "I really didn't expect such a trouble yesterday. When you called me, I was fine." "It started when he came back for dinner." "Actually, it's good to talk about it, at least you now know exactly what kind of anger he is getting at." "I don't know which black hearted guy actually wrote him an email to report my black status." "It may be written by one of your classmates, pink eye disease, I didn't find a job, and I wanted others to follow their bad luck. They must have tried to pick it in J state, but it didn't work, so they came to pick your husband and wife again. relation."

"Was that email written by Wang Li? Or was it written by Ding Ning?" "You find a way to ask Xiaoman to open the email and have a look. I will teach you a way to find the sender's IP." "What's the purpose of checking IP?" "If you find the IP, it is possible to find out who sent the e-mail. You can sue him. First, you can wash yourself off, and second, you can punish the wicked. If you don't punish this kind of person, he will get worse and cause harm. other people." "But I don't know if Xiaoman will let me read his email."

"Tell him well, he should show you, and it won't hurt him if you look at it, why doesn't he show it to you?" She said impatiently, "Then I'll go find him now!" "Now? Go to his lab? What about Tintin?" "I can lock the door." "No, that's too dangerous. Just call him and ask him to forward that email to you." "Can forwarding also see IP?" "Also." She immediately called her husband and asked him to forward the false accusation letter to her. But he said, "I've deleted it." "Why did you delete it?"

"Why don't I delete it? Leave it there to dirty my eyes?" She talked about it, moved it with emotion, and understood it with reason, but he insisted that he had deleted it, so she had no choice but to hang up the phone and report to her sister: "He said he deleted it." My sister was a little disappointed, but Kuan explained: "Delete it. If it was a sinister and sophisticated guy, he wouldn't foolishly use his own computer to send that email, and he would go to any public computer to send it. It would be difficult to find out. No. It’s impossible to find out at all, but it’s not necessarily worth spending so much money and material resources.”

"Is it possible that it was sent by Xiao Wen?" "It's possible. If Xiaoman wants to find fault and make trouble, he can post one himself. But I still tend to believe that he is not so scheming, but Xiaowen and your classmates definitely have this ability and this motivation." "I want to know who did it, and I will never forgive you!" "No matter who sent the email, it's just an excuse for Xiaoman. Didn't he say that he wanted to divorce a long time ago, but because of the vow of thundering all over the world, I'm embarrassed to bring it up first, so check The person who sent the email was just to prevent such a villain from going unpunished, but it may not change Xiao Man's mind."

She said sadly: "It's really boring to think about it. For more than ten years, I have never been as sweet as other couples. In the end, I ended up like this. My life is really not worth it." "Don't talk about whether it's worth it or not. All couples in the world are similar. If there is no such contradiction, there will be that kind of contradiction. People, after being together for too long, the relationship will become weak, and the contradictions will increase. Many couples There is nothing sweet in between, but you don't know it." "But they are not as bad as me."

"It's not too bad for you. How many couples have never lived a peaceful life. They quarreled from marriage to divorce, and some even quarreled after divorce. They also have to live. You are just lucky recently. Not good, encountered such a turmoil, if it hadn't happened, wouldn't you have lived in peace?" "It's getting to the point where I can't tell. I don't believe his innocence, and he doesn't believe in mine either. If we are both innocent, but we get divorced because we can't prove our innocence, it will be clarified later. , I must be very sorry."

"Don't regard divorce as irreversible. Divorce is just a separation from a legal point of view, but it doesn't mean that two people will be strangers from now on. If it can be proved that both of them are innocent one day, it is not impossible to remarry." "What kind of marriage? He may have been married to Xiao Wen at that time." "If he marries Xiao Wen after divorce, it means that your divorce is not due to misunderstanding." She sighed: "Well, actually, I don't care if I remarry or not. It's not interesting to be with him. It's just that I have such a husband in name. In other respects, it's the same as having no one. He's not at home all day. I’m not there, I don’t do any housework, I don’t care about me and Ding Ding, and I don’t understand the style, I can only be regarded as a machine to earn money to support my family. It’s only because I was blind at the time that I found such a piece of wood.”

"Hehe, this piece of wood was also a beautiful piece of wood at the time. Could it be that you were looking for that little thing back then, would it be better than looking for Xiaoman?" She thought about it, and almost couldn't even remember Xiao Jin's last name, but she still remembered that even at this point, she still had no interest in marrying someone like Xiao Jin: "Xiao Jin was even worse, there was nothing I could do at that time I liked it, let alone now. Well, Xiao Man, I liked it at the time." "That's right, it's just that there are too few high-quality men, and there is nothing to choose. You chose the best one at the time, and you have lived a stable life these years. You have such a smart and beautiful daughter, and he even took you Going abroad, even if it is very good.”

"From a material point of view, he really didn't treat me badly. I have always been in control of the family's money. But emotionally, he owes me too much. When I think about it, I don't think it's worth it! My whole life has passed like this, and I have never tasted romance. The smell of love." "Where does a lifetime pass? It's not even 40, and there are at least 30 years to find romantic love." "Thirty years? Sixty or seventy years old and still looking for romantic love?" "Why not? My boss is over 60 and has just started a new relationship. He is very excited every day. He always shows us a picture of his girlfriend and says, 'Look, my girlfriend.' We also He often mentions his girlfriend on purpose, and every time he mentions it, his eyes glow with excitement, like a little boy." "Anyway, I'm not in that mood anymore." "Of course I'm not in the mood now. I'll be in the mood when this matter is over." "But I'm always afraid that divorce will be bad for Ding Ding." "Ding Ding was raised by you. Xiaoman is not in Ding Ding's life most of the time. It doesn't make any difference to her whether you divorce or not." "But it's better to have a dad than no dad, even if it's just a dad in name." "Divorce is not the severance of the relationship between father and daughter. Xiaoman is still Ding Ding's father. Anyway, divorced or not, he has not fulfilled any father's responsibilities. He is only a father in name. What's the difference? Besides, you don't have to do it at first. Tell Ding Ding about the divorce. You are going to J state soon, and Xiaoman won't follow anyway, as long as you don't tell, how will my daughter know that you are divorced?" She thought it was a good idea. If she didn't tell her daughter, she wouldn't notice any difference at all. After talking with my sister for a while, she was much more calm about the divorce, otherwise she would always feel abandoned. Although she said the word "divorce" first, but that bastard said that he wanted to divorce a long time ago, so why not? To get ahead of her, did he abandon her? If she only considered face, she would write the divorce agreement in one go and ask him to sign it, but she didn't want to make the divorce a firm deal for the sake of face, because she didn't really think about divorce, she just said it out of anger. Don't you talk about "divorce" dozens or hundreds of times when couples quarrel? But that bastard still hadn't forgotten about it, and urged her, "You haven't written your divorce agreement yet?" "Why are you panicking?" "If you don't take advantage of the present to finish this matter, don't you come back to get a divorce after it's over?" "Have you found your next family? Are you in a hurry to divorce and marry again?" "Think what you want." His indifference hurt her more than his rage, and she also said coldly: "I checked on the Internet, our state allows 'no-fault divorce', if the husband and wife have no dispute over the conditions of the divorce, they only need Download a form from the Municipal Court’s website, fill it out and hand it in, and the court will make a decision.” "Why do you need a court decision?" "Those with underage children like us must go through the courts." "How much will that cost?" "If you don't hire a lawyer, it won't cost you much." "Then don't hire a lawyer." "I can't fill out this form alone. We have to negotiate all aspects of the arrangement, financial aspects, child custody, child support, etc." "You can figure it out. You can do whatever you want. I don't understand these things." Seeing that he was so determined to get a divorce, she didn't have any thoughts of redemption, and began to prepare those forms seriously. When she bought the house, she only paid a small down payment, and now she can't sell it for any price, so let's just leave it there.But when she thought that the hostess of this house would be Xiaowen or some other woman, she felt angry.How much effort has she put into this house, looking for a house, inspecting a house, buying a house, decorating it after buying it, and taking care of the flower beds and lawns in front of the house and behind the house, all of which are not handled by her.It's all thanks to her that the house is what it is today, but now it's going to be his love nest with other women, can she feel comfortable? My sister said comfortingly: "Don't worry, no matter which woman he is with, he will be a piece of wood, because he is such a person. A person like Xiao Wen will definitely not be able to stand him. He is not married yet. I don't think so. I don't have the right to complain, when I really get married, they will quarrel." "I know that I should hope that he will be happier with others, but I just feel sorry for myself. How can I be inferior to others? Why does he treat me like this?" "He is the best for you. Although you are not satisfied, he still uses his housekeeping skills. The problem is that his housekeeping skills are only those. What can he do? Maybe he is still wronged Quite: I am so good to Ding Yi, but she is still looking for someone outside, my life is really not worth it." When she thought of his expression, she was really aggrieved. She had nothing to say, only a wry smile.Everyone feels that they have suffered a disadvantage.For a creature like a human being, the most unbearable thing is to suffer a loss, especially a loss by oneself.If both parties suffer, if everyone suffers, people will not feel so uncomfortable. Her car has not yet been paid, and she is going to pay in one lump sum without leaving a tail, because she has to drive the car to J state, where there is no car. Her family didn't have much savings, and after paying the car payment, there wasn't much left.She thought it was the money he earned, so she wasn't going to ask for it. When my sister heard that she didn't want to deposit, she persuaded her: "The deposit should still be shared equally, and you should even share a little more, because the child is with you. Although he earned the money, you also have a share. There is no less work, if he hires a maid to cook for her, clean up the house and take care of the children, he will pay more. Sharing the deposit is not to take advantage of him, but to share the property reasonably and legally.” But she was still embarrassed to share his savings: "Forget it, after paying for my car, he doesn't have much left, so let's treat that car as the labor fee he paid me for working as a maid all these years. " Until she gave him the form to sign, she still hoped that he would panic and say to her like he did a few years ago: "Bao Yazi, don't brag to me." As long as he is willing to say this, she will forgive He withdrew the divorce agreement, let the past go, and just lived like this. But he didn't say anything reluctant, found a pen, and signed it. She asked, "You didn't see it clearly, so you signed it?" "What catches your eyes?" "Aren't you afraid that I'll take all your money away?" "What money do I have? I'm a poor man, you just take it all away, just a few dollars." "There is also Ding Ding's child support. According to the regulations of this state, I set 20% of your salary until she graduates from high school. We share her college expenses equally." "As long as I have money, I will give you as much as you want. But if one day I have no money, then I have nothing to do." "I didn't give you a fixed time for visiting. You can come and see her whenever you want." "I will come to see her when I have time, but if I don't have time, there is nothing I can do." "The house market is not good now, so I won't sell it. If I want to sell it, I will definitely lose money." This matter annoyed him: "I told you not to buy a house at the time, but you didn't listen. Renting a house is so easy, but you still want to buy a house." She exposed his old background: "Did you say you would not buy a house? You never said that at all. Did you forget who was so happy to treat guests after you bought a house?" He fell silent. She said sourly: "Why sell the house? Wouldn't it be good to leave it for you and your new wife?" "I don't have a new wife." "Not now, but after we divorce." If he said, "I'll never have a new wife," she would throw herself into his arms and beg him not to divorce.But he said: "If you really marry a new wife, people will not be willing to live in this house." She was completely desperate. He urged: "While you are here, sell this house. I don't understand these things, and I don't have time to do these things. You sell the house, so I can save myself." "I've already told you that you will lose money selling the house now." "If you lose, you lose. If you sell it, you don't worry." "It's easy for you to say, you lose when you lose, but what money do you use to lose?" He obviously didn't understand the mystery, and asked blankly: "Can't I sell the house cheaper? Why do I have to lose money?" She patiently explained: "When we bought a house, we borrowed money from the bank and paid it to the seller in one lump sum, which is equivalent to the house that the bank paid for us, and we returned it to the bank bit by bit. Now you want to sell For the house, one has to return all the borrowed money to the bank, and also have to pay thousands of house selling fees.” He cried out, "Why do I have to pay thousands of dollars in house selling fees? To whom?" "To the government, to the realtors." "Why should I pay a real estate agent?" "You asked someone to sell you the house, and you didn't pay them?" "I didn't ask him to sell the house for me, I asked you to sell it." "I have to find a real estate agent to sell. I can't find someone to buy a house by myself." "I don't care. You bought this house by yourself, and you have to be responsible for selling it to me." She couldn't explain clearly to him, and she didn't bother to talk about it anymore. She found a real estate agent to sell the house as an agent.The real estate agent suggested that she renovate the house first, so that she can sell it for a better price, but she was not in the mood: "Forget it, I will go to work in another state soon, and I don't have time to renovate the house, and we don't have the money to do it." The house. Help me find the best price to sell it, as long as it doesn’t fall behind.”