Chapter 47 Section 5

After attending the barbecue party organized by the Koreans, Ding Yi drove home.Her family has two cars, one is a second-hand car, which her husband is driving; the other is a new car, which she is driving.I came out as a guest today and drove a new car. Before she came to the United States, her husband bought a used car.But my husband was reluctant to spend too much time learning to drive. He only learned how to drive to work. He had never been on the highway, never been to Chinatown, and it can be said that he had never been anywhere except his workplace. When she brought her daughter to the United States, her husband still asked a friend to drive to pick up the plane. Later, her husband took the mother and daughter to go shopping and to see her daughter’s school. They drove with trepidation and often took the wrong road. And almost ran into someone.

She looked at him and felt that he was extremely useless. How could he look like a man?He can't even drive a car well, so it seems he has to do it himself. She proposed to learn to drive, but he didn't even dare to teach, and he didn't have time to teach, so he found a friend to teach her to drive.But friends can only give time to other people, and they can't bring their own cars to her to learn to drive, so at that time, friends drove to the place where they lived first, then drove their cars to send their husbands to work, and then returned to use them. The car taught her to drive.

The advantage of having a wimpy husband in the family is that the wife has a lot of opportunities to drive.If the husband is not a wimp, he will cover all the driving. The wife will never even think about driving on the highway. At most, she will get a driver's license, and then she will only drive in the town. Everything on the highway will be done by the husband. monopoly. She learned to drive very quickly, and got her driver's license in a week. Later, she drove her daughter to school, then her husband to work, and she had to pick him up at night.She also fumbled by herself, drove to Chinatown to buy vegetables, and after a few trips, she became one of the best female drivers among the local Chinese.

Later, she proposed to her husband to buy another car so that she would not have to wait until late every day to pick him up. He agreed. She also proposed to buy a new car and pay in installments, but he disagreed: "Why buy a new car? Don't old cars drive the same?" The main reason she wants to buy a new car is that she feels ashamed to drive her daughter to school in a ten-year-old car.Those children who don't take the school bus have a little money and a little time at home. Their parents drive a better car, and they have the ability to leave the family alone without going to work.

Because she is studying, she doesn't have to go to work from 9 to 5, so she is more free.But her family's old car seemed too shabby. She had always wanted to buy a new car, but she was afraid that he would disagree, so she never dared to mention it. As a result, one day, when she was driving in the middle of the road to send her children to school, the car turned off and she couldn't make a call no matter what, she had to call 911.It was the police car that took the child to school that day, the police car that took her home, took her husband to work, and towed their car for repairs.

This strongly justifies the need for a new car, and the husband agrees to buy a new car. After buying a new car, she has been driving it, and her husband still drives his old car to work.If you go out as a guest or travel, you will drive a new car. Naturally, she will drive it, because he has never driven a new car and can't drive it. He learned it with that old car when he was a dogmatist. Can drive that old car. It was eight or nine o'clock in the evening when he came out of the Korean's house, and he still wanted to go to the laboratory: "Take a turn on the road and take me to the laboratory."

She disagreed: "Still going to the lab now?" "There's a lot to do." "Go and drive yourself. If I send you there now, I have to pick you up later." "You don't need to pick up later, I can ask Xiaowen to take me home." When Ding Yi heard the word "Xiao Wen", he became annoyed: "Xiao Wen will also go to the laboratory tonight?" "Should go." "No wonder you are running to the laboratory in such a hurry, are you in a hurry to date Xiao Wen?" "What date should I have with her?" "You didn't have a chance to be together all day today, did you get overwhelmed?"

"What nonsense are you talking about in front of the child?" "Am I talking nonsense? You think I'm blind and can't see anything? Even the Koreans in your lab can see it." "What did she see?" "I see that you and Xiao Wen have a hand." "She's talking nonsense." "If one person says it, you can say it's nonsense, but if everyone says that, can it still be nonsense?" "Everyone says that?" She choked, it felt like everyone was saying that, but if I really wanted to give an example, it seemed that only Koreans were saying that.She said forcefully, "Even Xiao Wen himself said so."

"what did she say?" "She said the Koreans wanted to use her against you." He smiled disapprovingly: "You girls just love to talk nonsense." "Then why don't you drive them away? Why keep them? Keep them so they can talk nonsense about you?" "Do you think it's so simple to drive someone? You can drive whoever you say?" "You are the boss, it's not easy who you want to drive?" "There must be a reason, right? Fire someone for no reason, and you're not afraid of being sued? You can't get through with the personnel department, right?"

"You have no reason to fire them? Don't they both do a good job?" "My scientific research fund can get the second phase of the money because Xiaowen has produced the results we want. Otherwise, I will stop this, and the funds for other scientific research projects have not yet been approved. Trouble." She was taken aback, she didn't expect Xiao Wen to be so powerful and play such a crucial role. According to this, Xiao Wen is still her benefactor. If Xiao Wen fails to produce the results her husband needs, her husband will not be able to get the second installment of the fund, and won't he be unemployed?She believes that her husband can still find a postdoctoral job, but it is so useless, he is tired, and there is little money. Her family's house will not be able to afford it immediately, and her family's new car will not be able to afford it. I can't pay my tuition fees anymore, isn't that completely over?

She murmured, "I can't see that Xiao Wen is still so capable." "I saw it when I hired her," boasted the husband. She was sour when she heard it: "Is what she made amazing?" "Of course, this is a major breakthrough, the first of its kind in our field." She didn't understand what their lab was doing, but she could understand it "for the first time". She immediately felt that Xiao Wen had become her husband's treasure, and she had already lost the battle. If she let her husband stand between her and Xiao Wen now If you choose one, your husband will definitely choose Xiao Wen.What is she good for?He can only cook, wash, and take care of the children, but Xiaowen can help her husband overcome technical difficulties, and her husband can continue to be the person in charge of scientific research projects. What is she doing? She has always felt that Xiao Wen is a threat to her, because Xiao Wen is younger than her, although she can't be said to be prettier than her, but at least she is thinner than her. People who are thinner take advantage of her, look younger and look better.Now she feels that Xiao Wen is a threat even more, because Xiao Wen is still so good at doing experiments, isn't this the all-round development of morality, intelligence and physique?Then what else does she have better than Xiaowen? I always hear the term soul mate. It is said that it is the highest state of a couple, but now it seems that it is not as good as a laboratory mate. What is the use of just being a soulmate?They are all illusory things, how do you know where his soul is and what it looks like?Maybe you don't even know where your soul is, so why talk about a soul mate? Lab Mate!One can come up with brilliant ideas, can apply for scientific research funds, and the other can turn the other party's ideas into experimental results, that is the kingly way! If I had known this was the case, I should have followed my husband's profession and become his indispensable right-hand man in the experiment, then their marriage would have been secure. Her "big tits" arrogance suddenly went down a lot, and she cheered up and asked: "What about the Koreans? They also made a major breakthrough in your field?" "She didn't, but she is a doctor, and she will be mainly engaged in clinical practice in the future, and scientific research is not her ultimate goal at all." "Then what do you want her for?" "Where did I ask her to come? It was introduced by a research association." "I didn't say you asked her to come, I mean why didn't you fire the Korean?" "Such a good workforce, why fire them?" "Labor? Do you still need to do physical work?" "I don't do physical work, but she can do a lot of basic work. Those experiments that are not high in technology but require time and energy, I leave them to her. She works hard and is serious, and others have to delay. The experiment that can only be completed in a week, she did it in two days in the morning and in the dark. You said, why don’t I want such a coolie that doesn’t cost money?” She didn't insist anymore, since Xiao Wen was an indispensable talent in her husband's laboratory, and Xiao Wen kept her husband's job, so she had no reason to ask her husband to drive Xiao Wen away.And since Xiaowen can't leave, there's no need to get the Korean away. It's better to let the two of them involve each other and supervise each other, which is better than Xiaowen staying with her husband all day long. She asked, "Will Koreans go to the laboratory today?" "have no idea." "Should she go?" "how do you know?" "Because she said that she would supervise Xiao Wen for me. As long as Xiao Wen stays in the laboratory, she will go to the laboratory to stay, lest Xiao Wen drag you into the water." He laughed: "You're talking nonsense again." She got angry: "Why do you keep saying I'm talking nonsense? The child is here, what kind of impression do you leave on her by saying this?" He gave his daughter another difficult problem: "Ding Ding, do you think mom is talking nonsense?" I don't know if Ding Ding understood their conversation, but Ding Ding replied very simply: "No!" She was proud: "Did you hear me? My daughter knows that I'm not talking nonsense. Really, Koreans really say so. Her husband betrayed her, got married to a nurse behind her back, and divorced her, so she really hates it." Men who cheat on their wives." "What does it matter to me who she hates?" "Why does it have nothing to do with you?" "I didn't cheat on my wife, why should she hate me?" She was taken aback by what he said, thinking that this guy is getting better at talking, and every time she said something, he would wait there, as if he had done enough homework and thought out the answer for every word she said. It made her more suspicious. "How do I know if you're cheating on your wife?" she challenged. "I told you a long time ago that people in Manjialing don't like cheating." "I also told you long ago that there are cheaters in your Manjialing." "But not me." "Then who knows?" He fell silent. She felt that if there was no outside interference, he would not have cheated, but if that little Wen was determined to seduce him, it would be hard to say.Especially tonight, he had a drink at the party. The problem is that Koreans may not go to the laboratory tonight. For those who love to be tidy, the room they live in is messed up by this group of men and women. Why don't Koreans stay at home and clean it up? She wanted to follow him to the lab and stare at him, but she felt tired and didn't want to make it so exaggerated. Besides, she had a daughter who couldn't arrange it, so she had to send her husband to the lab and drive with her daughter go home. After returning home, she urged her daughter to take a bath and go to bed, saying that she would get up for school tomorrow. When her daughter fell asleep obediently, she couldn't help calling her husband's laboratory, and Xiao Wen answered it again. But this time she was already mentally prepared, she wasn't surprised, and said calmly: "I'm Ding Yi, can you call my husband to answer the phone?" "Wait a minute." Her husband came to answer the phone, and she said according to the pre-typed belly script: "I just want to see if you need me to pick you up. Since Xiao Wen is there, I won't pick you up. Go to bed first." "OK." She asked casually, "Are the Koreans there?" "Hey, what's the matter, you want to talk to her?" "Oh, just say a few words now, mainly to thank her." The husband put down the phone, and after a while, the Korean picked up the phone: "Hello." She said in English, "I thought you weren't going to the lab tonight. You've been busy all day and you don't want to take a break?" "Of course I'll come, you know." She smiled knowingly: "Thank you, thank you for your hospitality, and...you know." Both women laughed. She then called her sister again, talking about today's events, and said triumphantly and puzzled: "I don't understand what they both like about Ding Ding's dad. He's not romantic, doesn't understand life, and only works in the laboratory, how could they like him?" My sister said, "Hehe, it's best for you to answer this question." "For me, it was forced by the situation. At that time, there was no man who was stronger than him." "Then the two women you mentioned are not the same? Xiaowen is almost 30 and has not found a boyfriend yet. The range of choices should be very narrow. And the Korean, is he almost 40? Divorced again, They don’t have much choice. They only see Xiaoman in the laboratory, but not Xiaoman at home. Xiaoman is still very attractive in the laboratory. It’s their head. He has strong scientific research ability and good looks. Of course, he is attractive. They are. In fact, if you really want to get it, it may feel similar to yours." She said frankly: "Actually, based on the performance at home, I really can't find a reason to love him. But seeing so many women like him outside, I feel that he is precious again. Am I a little too vain? ?” "It's human nature. Doesn't he treat you the same? It's not unusual to watch it every day at home, but if you take it outside and hear everyone's praise, you will feel that you are a treasure." She sighed and said, "Oh, it's a pity that we women are getting old fast, and it's really getting harder and harder to compete with those younger ones." "Do your best. If you win the fight, fight it; if you can't win it, forget it. If he wants to like those women outside, there's nothing he can do. Let's see through it ourselves. Look at those big stars, husband Didn't you betray them? Aren't those women outstanding?" My sister cited several examples of Hollywood actresses, all Oscar winners, but they all divorced because of their husbands' betrayal.After hearing those stories, she couldn't tell if she felt better or worse.Maybe it's better, after all, the Oscar winner did not escape the fate of her husband's betrayal, which means that it is the husband's fault, not the wife's fault, and it's not that as long as you are beautiful, the husband will love you honestly for the rest of your life; but looking at it this way, I also feel that life is really meaningless. She asked: "How is brother-in-law? Are there any such flowers and plants?" "I don't know, I haven't caught him yet. He's not as good as your Xiaoman, and he hasn't been hired as a project leader until now. He's just a researcher, so there are fewer flowers and grasses on his own initiative." "Then how did he treat you?" "Hasn't it faded away a long time ago. Little sister, the relationship between husband and wife is like this. It is impossible to be so enthusiastic for decades. If it is so enthusiastic for decades, you can't bear it yourself." She admired her sister very much, as if she had never been so anxious and anxious like her.She has always asked her sister for help when she encounters problems, and her sister has never asked her for help with any problems.Moreover, my elder sister has a good job and earns more money than her brother-in-law. She has two children, a son and a daughter, and she is in good shape. Once the whole sister's family came to her house to play, she secretly compared the husbands of the two sisters, and found that the brother-in-law had begun to look old, his hair was thinning, and his belly began to show, while Xiaoman looked much younger than the brother-in-law. But her sister didn't look old at all. Although she was well-dressed, in line with her age and status, her upper arms were not thick and her abdomen was not bulging. She lost several years in one go. She asked her husband privately, "Does my sister look younger than me?" He couldn't answer, so he asked blindly, "How old is she?" She asked again: "Is my sister more beautiful than me?" He thought for a long time, and replied: "Too thin, no buttocks." She chuckled: "Isn't it too thin?" "No, it's tasteless when you pinch it." "Have you pinched?" He hurriedly declared: "How could I pinch your sister?" "Then how do you say it tastes bad when you pinch it?" He couldn't answer. She laughed, knowing that he just said such a sentence based on imagination, but he just didn't know how to say "I can imagine it", or maybe he was afraid that she would hold on to it after saying that sentence: Okay, you are in the imagination. Already pinched my sister's ass? She got into his arms and asked, "Why do you men always hold him comfortably?" He still couldn't answer, so he just pinched her buttocks for a while, and then he was about to do that.