Chapter 36 Section 4

"Bao Yazi" was excited about the "world-class publication" for a while, and then turned back to the issue of having boys and girls: "But if we have sons, will they be smarter than daughters?" When Ding Yi heard this, his head grew big. What's wrong with this man?Obviously already intoxicated in the "world-class publications", how can you go back to Manjialing in the blink of an eye?This speed is too fast. She said patiently: "Who said that? Don't you study DNA? Don't you know the importance of heredity? As long as it is your child, both men and women are smart."

It sounded very useful to him, and said modestly: "Actually, you are also very smart." "Of course I'm smart. If I'm not smart, can our children be smart? I heard that whether a child is smart or not is mainly determined by the mother." He grunted, "I haven't heard of it." She joked: "So you have to be lucky that you married me. If you married Mei Yazi, then your child would not be so smart." He was silent for a while, probably thinking about who was the smartest among the women he might marry. She thought he would name a candidate who was smarter than her, such as his college classmates, but he didn't, and his thoughts drifted back to Manjialing: "It would be great if I could have two children, one son and one daughter. "

She was afraid that he would go back to the old cliché of "If you can only have one, then have a son", she quickly said, "If you want to have two, there is a way. Let's go to the United States to have one." "Can America have two?" "Don't talk about giving birth to two, it's okay to give birth to two dozen." "Can we go to America?" "You can go abroad." "Me? Can the doctor go abroad?" "Why not?" She immediately told him several stories about doctors going abroad, some of them were true, some of them were made up, trying to make it up based on his situation.

He seemed encouraged, but worried: "But I'm not good at English." "Why is your English not good? You can understand such difficult professional materials, and you have written letters to English publications, which is better than me who learn English." "But I don't speak well." "What are you afraid of if you don't speak well? You are going to do scientific research, not to act in a movie. You don't need spoken English at all when you go abroad." "Really? That's great. But—if we pass birth in the United States, will we be punished when we come back?"

She was a little uncertain about this, and said casually, "What are we going to do when we come back? We can just stay in the United States." Now he was shaken again: "Just stay in the United States? For the rest of my life? Then what about my parents?" "Take your parents to America." "But didn't you say that only immediate family members can go to the United States?" "I didn't say that only immediate family members can go to the United States. What I said is that if they are not immediate family members, it is too slow to do family visits, but it is not impossible."

"My parents are not acclimatized even when they come to City A, how can they go to the United States?" "Maybe they just don't accept the conditions of city A, and they just accept the conditions of the United States?" She told some examples of not accepting the conditions of China but the conditions of the United States. They were all made up, purely forged data, but she forged it so that her face did not change color. Her heart skipped a beat, because she hadn't heard of anyone who came to the United States and refused to accept the climate there. The two discussed going abroad for a while, and it was obvious that he was very interested. The more she talked, the more she wanted to go abroad, and the more she talked, the more confident she became, as if one foot had already stepped out of the country.

Finally, he made up his mind and said: "I must go to the United States. A man from Manjiagou went to Japan. When he left, he invited people from Quangou to dinner and set up dozens of tables. People in our Manjialing have been pressured by this matter, saying that no one in our Manjialing has gone abroad, and I must win glory for our Manjialing." She found that his "love complex" is really strong, he always thinks about Manjialing in everything he does, and always wants Manjialing to be at the forefront of the world, at least surpassing the neighbor Manjiagou. On or beyond Manjiagou.There must be a hospital in Manjiagou, and the people in Manjialing, in order to show that they are not in favor of Manjiagou, may not go there for treatment if they are sick, and would rather go to the county town or die of illness.

This made her deeply moved. She wondered how the men on Lingshang carried out the love education, and how could they cultivate such a group of people who loved Ling with all their hearts? Seeing that the seeds of going abroad had basically taken root in Bao Yazi's mind, she said slightly threateningly: "That's it, we'll go to the United States to have a son. If you force me to make this child Get rid of it, or change the way to get rid of this child, I will divorce you and hate you for the rest of my life." "I'm never talking about killing kids again."

That night, for the first time ever, the two of them slept on the same bed, and she slept soundly on his arm. She thinks he is not a bad person, he loves her very much, cherishes her and their marriage, in his way, of course.His only problem is that he hasn't completely got rid of the customs and habits of Manjialing. It cannot be said that these people are cruel, only that they are ignorant. After this conversation, she felt that he would not think about getting rid of the child anymore, because he had already figured out how to have a son. Even people in Manjialing did not completely refuse to have a daughter. There was no family planning policy before. Didn't his family give birth to a large group of daughters at the time?It is only because of the one-child policy that no more children are allowed, so the people in Manjialing will play tricks on girls.

She decided not to tell her sister about it, for fear that her sister would persuade her to divorce.She felt that her elder sister would definitely persuade her in this way, because her elder sister had already said that if she was not married, she would definitely object to her being with "Bao Yazi", which meant that "Bao Yazi" at that time made her sister very unhappy. Satisfied, now that something like this has happened, sister will let her continue to be with "Bao Yazi"? She felt that her sister couldn't understand why such a terrible thing happened, and she still didn't leave "Bao Yazi" because her sister was very successful in love. Not long after entering university, she was targeted by her talented brother-in-law. The brother-in-law traveled across several departments to pursue his sister who was an undergraduate.The relationship between the two went smoothly. Both families and the general public highly approve of the love and marriage of the sister and brother-in-law. The brother-in-law left the country shortly after graduation, and the sister soon followed.

As for her love, she is not as lucky as her sister. She has never met a man with outstanding talent and appearance. It may be because of her major. When she was in college, there were many girls in her class and few boys. No one chased her across colleges and departments.It wasn't until I started working that I met a barely passable Xiao Jin, who graduated from a prestigious school, but his looks were really not that good, and he didn't chase him too hard. Then there is this "Bao Yazi", who is outstanding in talent and appearance, but why is he so unrefined in love?She has suffered a lot along the way, she has never enjoyed the romance of being chased, and she has to worry about having a boy or a girl. The more she thinks about it, the worse she gets. But she knew that among the people she could meet in this life, "Bao Yazi" was considered the most talented and the one who loved her the most. If she divorced him, she would definitely not find someone better. How should I put it, this is fate, she can't compare with her sister who comes from the same family. She wanted to hide it from her sister, but her sister couldn't help it, and quickly called to ask: "Xiaoman came back from Manjialing, is there anything unusual?" She suddenly felt that her sister's tone was very harsh, as if she had sentenced "Bao Yazi" to death, as if she believed that he would do some abnormal behavior, but he was not up to date, and he did have abnormal behavior, which made her very angry. I don't know if I'm angry at him for being too muddy to stick to the wall, or at my sister for being too shrewd to guess right. She lied and said, "No." "Didn't his master on the mountain teach him some tricks?" "No." "Did he not know that you were pregnant with a daughter?" "Maybe." "Then you have to be mentally prepared to prevent him from finding a way to get rid of the child once he finds out. You'd better move to live with your parents, and say it's closer to where you work." She didn't expect to hide it, so her elder sister mobilized her to live with her parents, so she had to slap her own mouth and said frankly: "Actually, he already knew that I was pregnant with a daughter." "Oh? Then he didn't..." Like a machine gun, she told him everything that happened after he returned to Manjialing in one breath. My sister was silent for a while, and said, "You didn't tell me just now, were you afraid that I would persuade you to divorce?" She sheepishly admits it. My sister said: "Why would I persuade you to divorce? He is not a bad person. He is good in every way and loves you very much, but he is a bit patriarchal. But there are a few Chinese men who are not patriarchal." ? Does your brother-in-law have patriarchal thoughts?" She was taken aback: "Brother-in-law is also patriarchal?" "Why not? He and his family like his son, but he is in the United States, and the pressure is less, because Americans don't mind it. Besides, there is no one-child policy, so of course he doesn't need to think about those crazy ideas." When she heard this, she felt much better. It seemed that she was not the only one who was unlucky, but that Chinese men were too feudal and backward. My sister told me: "Don't tell your parents about this. If they know about it, they will only be anxious, and they won't be able to change anything. Maybe it will make things worse." "I think so too." "But you still have to be on guard. Don't be afraid of ten thousand, just in case." "I know." Talking to her sister on the phone, she was in a great mood, and felt that there was finally someone in the world who understood her.Parents love her very much, but they don't necessarily understand her, let alone colleagues and classmates.She never said "Bao Yazi" to her colleagues and classmates, because there is no benefit, only disadvantages. Those people are either gloating or giving her advice. Only my sister can't gloat and can give her useful advice. She remembered that when she was a child, the two sisters often had little conflicts. For a while, she even hoped that her parents would not have this sister, so that she could monopolize their parents' feelings.For a while, she wished her sister would go to a far away place and not be in the same school as her, lest her sister's brilliance overshadow her. But now, she is grateful from the bottom of her heart that her parents gave birth to this elder sister, so that she has the only true bosom friend in her life.