Chapter 33 Section 1

Ding Yi himself has no objection to the fact that husband and wife live in separate rooms, because now she puts children first in her heart, and she agrees with anything that is good for children.But she was very afraid that her parents would find out, mainly because she was afraid that her parents would mistakenly think that they had a bad relationship, so they separated.If she explained that it was Manjialing's custom, and she was afraid that they would not believe it, it would be better not to let them know, so as not to worry them. She instructed: "Baby, on Friday, remember to change the quilt and sheets in the small bedroom, and bring all your things to the big bedroom, lest my parents come and see you living in the small bedroom."

"why?" "Lest they know we sleep in separate rooms." "Isn't it okay to sleep in separate rooms?" "What's the matter? We've only been married for a few days, and we sleep in separate rooms. I thought we had a conflict." "Didn't your parents sleep in separate rooms at that time?" "no." "Ask them, they're sure they are." "I still have to ask? My parents only had one bedroom at the time, where would they split the room?" He grumbled, "That's because there is no room."

"What do you do if we only have one bedroom?" After a very unimaginative daze, he said: "We have two rooms." "If you have two rooms, you have to live in one room? What if there are three rooms? Split you in half?" Apparently he couldn't imagine what it would be like to cut him in half, and after thinking in vain for a while, he said, "I'm afraid I can't bear to sleep with you." "If you can't bear it, don't bear it. It's been the first three months now, so it should be fine." "No way." "You are a medical student, why don't you believe in science?"

"Who says I don't believe in science?" "You believe in science, why don't you believe that you can have intercourse during pregnancy?" "That's science?" "It's clearly written in the book, why isn't it science?" "What's written in the book is science? Isn't the article I asked you to translate for me last year also in the book? It's not scientific." She was afraid that it was a problem with her own translation, so she hurriedly said, "Maybe it's my translation that's wrong?" "You made some mistakes, but I didn't use your translation. I read the original text. There is a problem with their data."

"How do you know there is a problem with other people's data?" "Because I can't achieve their results even if I die." "Is that your own mistake?" "No. I wrote a letter to the publication sending my data and they wrote back and said I was right." She was taken aback. "Did you write to that publication? It was an English publication." "Ok." "Your English is so good?" "My tutor helped me correct my grammatical mistakes." God, what a master!Think of her as an English graduate student who speaks English all day long and has never written a letter to a foreign publication, but he has written a letter to a foreign publication without saying a word, and they replied to the letter, saying that he That's right.It is true that people cannot be judged by appearances, and sea water cannot be measured!

After what he said, she didn't dare to trust the "Handbook of Pregnancy Health Care" completely. Who knows if the data in it were compiled? She explained: "It's not that I'm begging to sleep in a room with you. I'll sleep in a bed alone, and it's more spacious. I don't have to worry about you kicking our child. I'm afraid that if you stay like this, something will go wrong." "I'm not suffering." She acted coquettishly: "Then you—how on earth—solved it? Tell me, tell me, if you don't tell me, I will suspect that you are having trouble with other women. "

"I solved it in a dream." She suddenly realized, but she was still not reconciled, and wanted to find out the source: "How can I dream?" "When you accumulate too much, you dream." "Did you dream about me?" "No." "Then who did you dream about?" "I dreamed about the exam." "Exam? You're in the exam room—what are you doing?" "I didn't do that, I just dreamed about the exam, I couldn't do the questions, and I woke up when I was in a hurry." "What happens when you wake up?"

"Change your underwear when you wake up." She thought it was fun, giggled, half-believing. But from then on, when she was doing laundry, she liked to check his underwear, and one day she found something slippery on his underwear, and she couldn't help asking him: "Did you dream again last night?" gone?" He honestly admitted: "Yeah." "What dream? Another exam?" "No, it's an operation." "What about the surgery?" "The knife edge is stitched and then split, and the stitch is stitched and split." "Woke up again in a hurry?"

"Ok." Now she doesn't worry about him anymore, there is no way out, and the creator always has a way. When she was more than six months pregnant, Dr. Zhou arranged for her to have a B-ultrasound, saying that it was time to do it now to see if there were any abnormalities in the fetus, such as congenital heart disease, neural tube defects, absence of limbs, congenital cleft lip and palate, and so on. She lay down on the diagnosis bed in the B-ultrasound room with anxiety. Dr. Hu in the B-ultrasound room smeared a greasy thing on her belly, and slid it back and forth on her belly with a mouse-like thing. , and then told her: "Everything is fine."

She was finally relieved. After getting out of bed, the doctor pointed to the screen of the instrument to let her see the baby. She saw a little person curled up in a ball, as if eating her fingers. She was so excited that she shed tears. The sex of the fetus could not be seen on the screen, and she didn't ask the doctor, because she didn't care about it. What she cared about was the health of the fetus. Since the doctor said everything was normal, that was enough. But she was afraid that "Bao Yazi" would ask Dr. Hu, so she specifically asked: "Doctor Hu, if my Xiaoman asks, please don't tell him the gender of the child."

Dr. Hu seemed to be insulted: "Why would I tell him this? This is not allowed by our professional ethics. The hospital clearly stipulates that if anyone tells the sex of the fetus to the pregnant woman or the family members of the pregnant woman, he will be punished. You might even lose your job." She was relieved and explained: "I'm sorry, I was afraid that he would come to ask you." "Ask me and I won't tell him. I hate those patriarchal people, what age, and these feudal ideas. The last time your family Xiaoman came to contact you for B-ultrasound, I warned you Pass him: What B-ultrasound are you doing so early? Do you want to check the sex of the fetus? I won’t tell you the result.” She was completely relieved of Dr. Hu, said her goodbyes politely, and turned back to Dr. Zhou to explain: "Doctor Zhou, don't tell my Xiaoman the results of today's B-ultrasound, I mean tell him the gender of the child." "Doctor Hu told you the gender of the child?" "No, no, your hospital stipulates that you cannot tell pregnant women or their family members. How could she tell me?" "Then why would I tell your Xiaoman? Am I not from the hospital?" She heard that Dr. Zhou was very upset, and she was afraid of offending Dr. Zhou, so she had to betray her husband: "I know you are from the hospital, and you will definitely not violate the hospital regulations. I am afraid that our Xiaoman will take advantage of his position to ask you .” "He is a surgeon, and I am an obstetrician. What is his position?" She was so embarrassed, but fortunately, Dr. Zhou didn't chase after him, but asked with concern: "Doctor Man's family is from the countryside, right? Rural people prefer boys over girls. Well, it's mainly the customs there, but you can't hide it." All his life, if it is a daughter, he will know sooner or later." "Now that the child is still young, I am afraid that if something happens, the child will be lost. When it is born, I don't think he can do anything to the child." "Well, feudal thinking kills people. Don't worry, I won't tell him." Although she didn't ask Dr. Hu about the baby's gender, and Dr. Hu didn't take the initiative to tell her, but she didn't know why, after this B-ultrasound, she was very sure that the baby in her stomach was a daughter, and she couldn't help but think of her sister's love for "Bao Yazi". "Analyzed by the Manjialing people, he immediately became a hundred times more vigilant. I don't know if it was because she was too vigilant, but in the next few days, she felt that "Bao Yazi" seemed dull.Of course, he was not a very active person, and his personality can basically be described as "dull", but those days seemed to be particularly dull. She couldn't say anything about it, but she just had the feeling that he was depressed, went out early and returned late every day, made no noise when eating, and fell asleep when he got home, as if someone owed him two hundred oceans. She seized the opportunity to ask, "What's the matter with you these days? You seem unhappy." He buried his head in his meal and didn't answer. She was annoyed: "I'm talking to you, why don't you say anything?" He let out a groan. She couldn't laugh or cry: "You really just said nothing? I was asking why you didn't answer me." "Answer what?" She earnestly taught him: "We are husband and wife now, you and I are the closest people in the world, don't worry about anything, you have to speak it out, and it will be resolved by speaking out." "Go ahead." She was choked by him, thinking to herself what does he mean?Could it be that I am attacking my shield with my spear, telling me to tell the gender of the child, so as not to be bored in my heart? She felt that his irony ability should not be so strong, he should just say it casually, so she said calmly: "Then tell me, are you unhappy these days?" "I said 'no' already." She knew nothing would come out of the torture, so she found a step down by herself: "It's fine if it's not." A few days later, another incident made her suspicious.That afternoon, she felt a little tired, so she lay down on the bed and took a nap.When she woke up, she saw "Bao Yazi" sitting in the living room smoking a cigarette from the open door of the bedroom. This was the first time she saw him smoking. It is said that he used to smoke. All the men in Jialing smoked. If he didn't smoke, he would be laughed at.He learned to smoke at a very young age, smoking yam leaves.When he was studying in Baijiafan, if his father went to school to see him once in a while, it would definitely be to give him cigarettes, because it doesn’t matter if the child is hungry, but if there is no cigarettes, the problem will be serious, and it will become a problem if it is passed back. The whole Manjialing joke. She didn't know who he quit smoking for, and it certainly wasn't for her, because she had never seen him smoke since she knew him.In the past, she was still a little worried about this, and she wanted to let him smoke back. Then she sent a sentence, he quit smoking, which was interesting, and it showed that he quit smoking for her. But since she was pregnant, she hated those people who smoked, for fear that the smoke would ruin her child.Pregnancy seems to have made her temper irritable too, like a firecracker, when she sees a smoker, she can't wait to go up and tear the cigarette from their lips, throw it on the ground, smash it out with her feet, and then put it on Those people were slapped in the face. Once some of his fellow countrymen came to the house to play and sat in the living room to smoke. She walked out without saying a word and told them to put out the cigarettes.He faithfully translated her order to those few people, but they put out their cigarettes in desperation and left immediately. She was mentally prepared to have a big fight with her when he sent the guests away, but he didn't, he didn't say anything, and it just passed. Fortunately, he himself smoked under her nose! She became angry at once, rushed out and said, "Why are you smoking in the house? Have you forgotten that I am pregnant with a child?" He said innocently: "Throw away the waste." She was stunned: "Is your cigarette more important, or our children?" "Just one." "If I want to smoke you, get out and do it for me." He really rolled outside, and rolled downstairs, disappeared, and didn't roll back until very late. She suspected that he had found out the gender of the child from where, so he had these abnormal behaviors.But she felt that he didn't have such a deep scheming, if he really found out, he should say it directly instead of hiding it in his heart. Maybe he smoked because he was not happy at work. I heard that he was being evaluated for his title at that time, and his other conditions were enough to be promoted to the deputy chief doctor, except that he was short of the age limit.He had muttered a few times at home, saying that some of XX's papers were well-written, copied from other places, and published in domestic journals that were not good, but because of the mixed number of years, he could actually submit them The deputy chief physician, and he has such an excellent thesis, but he can't mention the deputy chief doctor, it's too unfair. But no matter what the reason is, it is wrong to smoke in the house. You have opinions on the evaluation of titles in the courtyard. If you have the ability to go to the dean’s house to smoke, don’t smoke in your own home. You still don’t accept criticism. ! The more she thought about it, the angrier she became, she rushed to the door and bolted the door from the inside, so that he couldn't come in, and it was frozen outside overnight. But he never came back, and she couldn't sleep well, thinking about where he went and whether he would come back. Finally she couldn't take it anymore, called his lab and found him there. She asked, "Why haven't you come back so late?" "The experiment is not finished." "Ready to cook overnight?" "It will be fine soon." After a while, he finally came back, and she finally fell asleep with peace of mind.