Chapter 26 chapter 2

Ding Yi knows that the girls in city A are relatively strong, and they become housekeepers as soon as they fall in love, and they control all the money from their boyfriends. this pattern. But the girls in City A are in charge of the money of both parties, and they don't spend it on their own, but use it for marriage expenses, so this is not only a money issue, but also a relationship issue.If the man refuses to hand over the money to his girlfriend, it means that he has no intention of marrying and living with his girlfriend. Like her, she has already lived with her boyfriend, but she hasn't grasped the boyfriend's money bag, or even subsidized the money. If she talks about it, people will laugh out loud. They will definitely think that she has lost her money, or there is something wrong with her. , was caught by her boyfriend, so she was so emboldened.

She has always paid less attention to money, but she doesn't feel that she is short of money.She has worked for two years and saved a little money, and now she has monthly living expenses for graduate students. Her parents have only one daughter, and the money is saved for her, and her sister, every birthday and holiday, will send The money comes back, although I don’t send much, it’s only one hundred or two hundred each time, but it can’t stand the holidays and birthdays, and the money sent back every year is also a lot, and it’s even more impressive when converted into RMB. The money is stored there for her to get married. use.

Her parents are people who take money very lightly. When they got married, they had nothing. They moved into the same room and put their quilts together, and they became relatives. But she knew that it was not that era anymore, when people were poor, and there were many people who got married as soon as the two quilts were closed, and it was even a kind of honor.Now that people's living standards have improved, it is no longer "poorer and more glorious". If you still have two quilts together, you will be married, and people will definitely think you are crazy.Even if you don't care, you have to think about your children, right?If your child is born in a family with only two quilts, how miserable it is!

Humans are social animals, and many things are beyond your control.If you don't think about it, people will think about it for you; if you don't discuss it, they will force you to discuss it;If you post back, people will think that you have lowered the price, and they will guess 10,000 reasons for you. For example, "Bao Yazi" took fellow villagers to the hospital for treatment and hospitalization. What's the matter with Xiao Li and Xiao Wang?But they just want to intervene and force you to take measures as soon as possible, as if "Bao Yazi" used their money.

But to people like Xiao Li and Xiao Wang, it is useless for you to be angry. They are all for your own good, and what they say is the universal truth that is common in City A. You really have nothing else to do except listen honestly. method. She knew that she should talk to "Bao Yazi" about helping fellow villagers, but she still couldn't muster up the courage, and he didn't use her money, and he didn't even mention marriage, how could she tell him this? thing?If he says "I don't use your money, you don't want to see me, don't be my girlfriend", or "I didn't say I want to marry you, so why do you care about my money", then she still doesn't care. Shame to jump into the river?

She could only escape, and when she went to play with him, she stopped going to the cafeteria with him to get food, and hid in his dormitory, letting him bring the food back to eat, so as not to bump into those little nurses.The ears don't listen, the heart doesn't bother, how they talk about her behind her back, as long as she can't hear, it's just as if they didn't say anything. The "ostrich policy" seems to be quite effective. Now she doesn't take him to her classmate's reunion, and doesn't go to the hospital cafeteria for dinner with him. The two of them just get tired of being together and live a peaceful life.

One weekend, "Bao Yazi" came to her house for dinner as usual, but unlike usual, he wanted to stay with her overnight: "I won't go back tonight." Although she locked herself in her bedroom every weekend to have a tryst with him, she hadn't been exposed to her parents, let alone showed her feet in front of the neighbors.Her parents never asked her about this in line with the principle of "people don't sue, officials don't investigate".Neighbors saw "Bao Yazi" coming in the morning and leaving at night, but they didn't make any gossip.

She knew that in the eyes of her parents' generation, young people should get married first and then have intercourse. After all, unmarried cohabitation is not so pleasant, especially the children of university teachers. Some people must criticize her parents with words like "being a teacher", and Especially for girls, some people will definitely call her "cheap", so she will call "Bao Yazi" back after every weekend party, and send him downstairs in person, so that the general public can see that he is not at her house overnight. But today he proposed not to go back, she was a little bit difficult to deal with: "Why not go back?"

"I let someone else live in the dormitory." "Who will live in it? Is it a fellow villager who came to see a doctor?" "Well, from the Bai family." "Have you met before?" "Unfamiliar." "Then how did they come to find you?" "Listen to someone else's introduction." She felt that the scope of care was too wide. If "introduction" continued like this, people from all over the country could introduce him to him for help.Of course, if you just borrow a room, that’s fine. I’m afraid that you have to pay for the medical bills for others, which will be troublesome. The people in Manjialing, Manjiagou, and Baijiafan, just these three places, I'm afraid it will cost tens of thousands?If everyone wants him to pay for it, he can't go bankrupt?

"Do they have public health care?" she asked. "No." "Then what to do?" "Pay cash." "Who pays? You pay for them?" "I paid the deposit for them." "What about the rest?" "Pay it when you leave the hospital." "What if they can't pay it?" "The hospital deducted from my account." She couldn't help shouting: "Why do you want to deduct it from your account?" "Did I guarantee it?" She felt that this matter was very difficult, and if she said it too seriously, she was afraid that he would be unhappy, if she said it lightly, she might not understand, and if she didn't say it, she was afraid that he would be in debt, so she said vaguely: "It's not right for you to help people pay medical expenses like this." One thing, how much money do you have? How many people can you help? Maybe someone knows your way and doesn’t pay for it even if they have money, so let you pay for them.”

"Someone begged to come to the door." Seeing that he was very upset, she didn't want to tell him about it anymore, because she didn't know what was going on with Bai Jiafan, so she might as well check it out by herself tomorrow. She told her parents that "Bao Yazi" was going to stay at her house, and the parents were very cautious, and specially cleaned up her father's study room, so that "Bao Yazi" could spend the night in the study room.Seeing her mother's posture, I really wish I could broadcast it in the corridor: "My daughter's boyfriend sleeps in the study, please don't get me wrong." The next day, she went with him to see the fellow who lived in his dormitory, and found that he was not as honest and honest as Man Dafu, but smart-looking, well-dressed, and he looked like a businessman.The man introduced himself that his surname was Bai, and his name was Bai Changgen. His son had a bump on his leg, and he came here for surgery. She asked, "Are you working in City A?" "Selling cookies on South Street." "The business must be booming, right?" "Hehe, I ask you for auspicious words, prosperous, prosperous." "You are here to take care of your son, who will take care of your cookie stand?" "My daughter-in-law will take care of it, and I also hired a guy so that business will not be delayed." "South Street is quite far from here, why don't you visit the hospital over there?" "Doctor Man is highly skilled, and we came here for his fame." "You knew Doctor Man very well before?" "I'm not familiar with it. It was introduced by Master Man who opened the noodle shop at the entrance of your hospital." A few people chatted for a while, and went to Master Man's noodle restaurant together. They ate a bowl of noodles and bought an extra bowl to bring to Bai Changgen's son. The money was received as expected. This made her feel very unhappy. This master Man, who is Ding Ding and Ding Ding and Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding fellow, but recruit some more distant fellow villagers to take advantage of "Bao Yazi".This Bai Changgen sells sweet biscuits, which are the classic breakfast for people in City A, can they still make money?Have you taken "Bao Yazi" as a "public house"?If you don't wipe your oil, don't wipe it for nothing? She couldn't help it anymore, and privately warned "Bao Yazi": "It's fine if you don't get back the deposit you paid for Bai Changgen, but you must never pay the rest for him. Let him pay it himself. Definitely pay for it." He said in a muffled voice, "You said you wouldn't test me." She retorted: "I am not testing you, but I am afraid that you will be fooled. People like Man Dafu are really poor. I have no problem with you helping him, but people like Bai Changgen are fake poor. He wants you to help him." Paying for medical bills is taking advantage of you." "Who said he was fake poor?" "I said he is fake poor. At least he is not poorer than you. His son is wearing a brand-name sportswear, can you afford it? He can still afford a guy, can you afford it? You have to help him pay for his medical expenses, That's fine, don't marry me, marry him." She thought he was going to lose his temper this time, but he didn't, instead his eyes lit up: "Bao Yazi, will you marry me if I don't pay his medical expenses?" She was taken aback again, not knowing how to answer, if this was used as a condition for marriage, it seemed almost like a threat. Fortunately, he asked again: "Are you willing to marry me?" She punched him: "I don't want to marry you, will I be with you?" He giggled silly: "I thought you asked me to help someone break a red girl." She punched him again: "You mention the red girl again? I'll beat you to death." He shrunk his neck and smiled grinningly: "You didn't hurt at all from the beating." "If it doesn't hurt, you are not allowed to say 'Broken', 'Red Girl', etc., or I will blow it to you." "I promise never to say it again." She said coquettishly: "Why don't you propose to me? Do you want me to be a girl to propose?" "I'm afraid you won't agree." "Agreed, buy me a ring quickly." He smiled silly: "Buy, buy, I'll buy you whatever you want, and I'll go home and get the money right away." "Look at you, if you put money so far away, you have to go back to get it if you want to use it. The men in our city A always hand over the money to their girlfriends." "My money is also entrusted to you." "You handed over the money to me, and it's easier to deal with your fellow villagers. In the future, if someone asks you to borrow money, you can tell them that the money is all with your girlfriend, and you can discuss it with me later."