Chapter 61 Section 19

He Linxin said that this was the fourth time he threatened her with a divorce, and the first time he killed her because of something wrong with his mother.Standing in front of the window of her aunt's house and looking down, she had a thought, if she was pushed down by the old witch like this, she would die twice, would Chuanzhi kill his mother?For the first time, I felt that what the child wanted was not at the right time, and the little life in her belly became the biggest reason for her resistance and silence.She suddenly felt unspeakably tired and disdainful, and once again confessed honestly to this man that she really shouldn't have married so early, at least not with him.In their hearts, they are not the same. She is a warm individualist, and can easily get along with the people around her in her own way; but he is just the opposite. Under the appearance of honest collectivism, there is a selfish, utilitarian, indiscriminate personality. Heart.Because of a misunderstanding, they walked together, and slowly through understanding, she felt the horror of things, this man has not grown up at all, his thoughts and family values ​​are still confined to the framework instilled in him by his mother in childhood and adolescence, he He is a vassal of his big family, a tentacles protruding from that big family's progress. He has an essential mission and an essential responsibility, so he is responsible for salvaging his mother's big family from the bottom of the countryside instead of pushing himself The little family moves forward.To some extent, he does not have himself, at least not a complete self, so at the most critical moment, he will not reach a compromise with the other party in the marriage to form a peaceful and warm situation, but to intensify the relationship and let himself regain Returning to the warm corner outside of marriage, it seems that that is the most peaceful destination in his heart and should be found.

He Lin also realized that it might be useless to give him respect, warmth, and status. He would easily get these in his other big family, so he might not be grateful to her and carry her through his life.Because of that invisible dependence and relationship, she thought that she would be jealous with his big family for the rest of her long life, fighting a lifelong war for a man. She was bored, tired, tired. As soon as she relaxes, a strange psychology appears, and she is not nervous or concerned about her mother-in-law's running away, disappearance, or even the death in fantasy, but when she just ran out of the house, she still felt a little guilty, and even prayed that the old lady would run to Huzhou. Grandma cursed her to go.

She thought, if you get divorced, you can leave. If you are in trouble, you can rely on blessings, and if you are blessed, you can be subdued by misfortunes.For the first time, whether to leave or not to leave, in the depths of my heart, I am evenly matched, and the only thing I love is the fetus in the womb and the house. Wang Chuanzhi frantically searched the train station, the morning market, street parks, and every place his mother might go, and called thousands of times to tell his eldest brother in his hometown that if his mother came back, he must call in time.But the phone never rang, and Chuanzhi didn't close his eyes all night, and often heard the door knocking downstairs, thinking that his mother had come back from sullenness, and every time it was nothing.Finally, after ten o'clock the next day, I couldn't hold back and called my hometown again. Subconsciously, I felt that my mother bought a train ticket and went back to my hometown.If the subconscious mind is right, the mother has arrived home.

Sure enough, I called my eldest brother's mobile phone, and my eldest brother was a little unhappy, and said in a muffled voice, "It's here!" Chuanzhi immediately became angry, "Why didn't you tell me when we arrived? Just wait for me to call and ask?" The inside was not to be outdone, "Is it easy to earn some money at home? I have already made long-distance calls! You should make this call. If you can get our mother out, you will be called wrong if you make an extra call! Let me tell you, don't Douzi who thought that becoming a Shangguan would be able to do it. I don’t know what my surname is. My mother is your mother, and she is your mother everywhere! From now on, you have to send living expenses, and no child is raised for nothing. What should you do, yes People like you can't be polite! You spend so much money for your schooling, you stupid thing can't even be a wife's house, let us come back angrily..."

Turning off the phone, although a little depressed, Chuanzhi's heart still fell to the ground, the worst didn't happen, there was only a small disturbance, but the worst was said.Now he is going to He Lin to solve the second problem.When I called my father-in-law's house, my mother-in-law answered, saying that He Lin hadn't come home, and she didn't seem to know what happened here.Then it might be at my aunt's house.Chuanzhi found out that since the auntie intervened in the last family crisis, He Lin has been very close to her, and even talked with her about some sesame seeds, but she has gradually become stiff, prickly, and unreasonable. Come.People are social animals, and it is easy to follow whoever they are. Chuanzhi hopes that his wife will behave like a mother-in-law, open-minded, open-minded, cheerful, sparse when she should be, and close when she should be close, instead of being sharp and disturbing like her sister-in-law. He is meaner than a tiger, and his teeth are exposed, so he is afraid that the world will be less chaotic!

The mother-in-law said: "You all come to eat at home tomorrow." Chuanzhi cautiously asked, "Where is He Lin?" "The notice has arrived, come with her aunt." In the evening of the next day, Chuanzhi went to his mother-in-law's house with vegetables and fruits, intending to occupy a place in the kitchen, to show his best without talking.The tradition of the mother-in-law's family is to show mercy to the working people and forgive them leniently. It was time to hope that things would come true, and that day I actually got a transfer with a Shanghai man, my son-in-law became the chef, and my father-in-law started a fight.Chuanzhi hung an apron on his waist, and he started frying, boiling, frying and grilling meat in a serious manner.

The barbecue was halfway through, when He Lin and Yu Huaqing arrived.He Lin was grinning. My aunt took a few sticks of celery in her hand. When she arrived in the living room, she threw the celery on the cupboard, and the three of them chatted with each other.First, Yu Huaqing yelled into the kitchen in a rough voice: "Chuanzhi, I heard that your mother has gone back?" Chuanzhi quickly responded: "I'm back, I can't leave my family." Then I heard my aunt's voice in the living room, which was not very small, and she seemed to be talking to herself, "Oh, did you make your mother tired? Your mother also suffered a lot, but He Lin is also so thin. Hey, this couple Children seem to be born with each other! It’s good to go home, but if we stay together for a long time, it’s hard to guarantee that it won’t be fresh, and if we stay any longer, we might end up fighting with cats and dogs.”

Chuanzhi listened intently, for a moment he was trembling and prepared to be scolded and hurt, scolded face-to-face, then thrown into a frying pan until the outside was scorched and the inside was tender, and at the end of hearing, um, everything was expected.Hey, He Lin has become better and more sensible, she just told others about everything, and she just let go of her heart. Chatting in the living room and talking about the rising stock market. Chuanzhi poked his head and saw that there was no shadow on He Lin's face, and was very happy. He thought that arguing with her mother-in-law and driving her out of the house was a very serious matter, and she was too embarrassed to be angry.

The barbecue and sauce were brought to the table, and when she sat next to He Lin, she found that He Lin's eyes were alienated and she didn't like to talk to herself at all. She was a little depressed, so she was angry!Fortunately, the other three people at the same table didn't know anything about it, and no one troubled him. They felt that his wife was mature, she didn't talk about things, and she digested them internally, and suddenly she was a little moved. Yu Huaqing also anxiously said to the young couple: "Hurry up and save money to buy stocks, a bigger bull market is coming!"

Lao He said to his sister-in-law: "I don't need you to teach me, I will guide you. I am better at stock trading than you, so you just follow the trend. If you follow the right way, you will make money. If you follow the wrong way, blame others. I have analyzed it from the real evidence. .” "Then I'll take out 100,000 yuan and put it in your hands. As long as it is more profitable than mine, I will give you half of it!" "I think it will work." The Shanghai man turned to his wife, "The food money at home has been settled." When going back at night, He Lin didn't go wrong and wanted to stay at her mother's house, but followed her husband out as if nothing had happened.Chuanzhi wanted to hold her hand, but He Lin avoided it, not deliberately, but naturally.The two walked very close, but their hearts were far away.Until going to bed, He Lin remained alone, occupying one-third of the right side of the bed, facing outwards, and fell asleep peacefully.

Chuanzhi put down his posture, and was about to hug her, and even intentionally harassed her swollen tits. He Lin didn't care as much as before, that is, no matter how much you put on your face, you don't pay attention to it, making you ashamed .Sure enough, Chuanzhi was boring, and he sighed in his heart, thinking that maybe his mother had done too much, and her mother's aggressiveness and nagging might really upset the pregnant wife, otherwise how could he say that kind of thing? He Lin gradually realized a kind of inertia from her husband, that kind of hidden deep ductility and compromise, like mud, it can become whatever it is rubbed into, and in addition to being stubborn, it will also reflect from the outside world. And adjust your approach and posture.He will also doubt himself, correct himself, and pay the price for the consequences he caused.But this kind of price can be negotiated. If he repays it voluntarily, he may choose the one with the least cost, make a smile, say a good word, or do a few good-looking actions, hoping to level the gap.He Lin does not want to make you pay more. The increase of the price makes you reflect on the mistakes you have made. It is not a trivial matter of a dime. Now it is not enough to make up for 300,000, so you have to understand The corresponding catalog behind the 300,000 yuan may not stand up to what you think is correct or taken for granted, and you have to pay a price to correct it. There is also a suspicion of overcorrecting, anyway, He Lin will unknowingly give some strong medicine to make you thoroughly reflect.Not forcing you, just ignoring you!All these situations are of your own making! Not to mention, this is very effective for Wang Chuanzhi. He is a mirror that can reflect others, and others are a mirror that can illuminate himself.He made corrections in a down-to-earth manner, and honestly acted as a good person in front of his wife, such as cooking. The objective reason was that his wife had a long way to work and earned a lot of money. As a man, he did it when he had the time and energy. It's no fault of outsiders—not now, I will definitely cook this meal!Of course I do!I should do it!Even if my wife has time and energy in the future, I will ask for it!Because I made a mistake once and made her angry and sad, I want to make up for it!Cooking and tidying up the house should naturally be in my name. I also want to use the washing machine, so I have to wash the clothes so that I feel comfortable!One day my wife is willing to wash it, well, let her do the work for me, I have to be grateful! I have to pour water for my wife to wash her feet.It's not a big deal, it can make her fully trust me, and feel that it's really different without me!I'm willing to do everything for her, who made her sad and disappointed if I didn't do well enough in the critical period! He Lin could see Chuanzhi's sincerity of concentrating on saving the remedy with a low profile, and also understood that the toughness of compromise, like a rubber band, would not last if it was stretched too long. A modern slave cannot rely on self-reflection and self-awareness. In the long run, you have to give him the sweetness and hope to turn over.Besides, the reason why he is acting so honestly now is that she is pregnant, and the visual deformation of the pregnant woman's body will affect the psychology, and it is easy for him emotionally to accept a wife whose body is slowly deforming There are other abnormal behaviors, so some inferiority complex and stubborn temperament factors in him have no counterproductive effect. In a certain aspect of the subconscious, pregnant women are weaker than him and need to be accommodated and protected. In order not to cause her husband to rebel during the reflection and rescue, He Lin tried to forgive him and gave him some carrots.For example: after washing her feet, her wet feet will turn up because she is waiting to dry them, and they will turn up on his face; when sleeping, she will wait for him to pull the quilt to cover; when eating, it is best to wait for him to hold a piece for her The lean meat... These small actions are not necessary for others, but as a gesture of intimacy, dependence and even ambiguity, it reflects the need for a man's little effort. You are troubles and complacent troubles. Being needed can easily give birth to a sense of responsibility and pride. .You have taken the trouble to do this little thing, and you are even more responsible for the bigger things. In this way, He Lin educated and subtly influenced Chuanzhi.Many times, she thinks about her parents and their life patterns.The way her parents get along has had a profound impact on her. She used to be very annoying to her parents and wanted to run away, but now she realizes that it was an enlightenment for her about the family. When she encounters problems, she will subconsciously solve them in the trajectory of her parents' marriage.In the relationship between Lao He and his wife, Professor Yu is relatively simple, childish, and stubborn to a certain extent. He is the simplest one without a city. On the contrary, his father is very careful, rational and quite artistic. Solved one life problem after another.Lao He is like a master of Tai Chi, who can dissolve it invisible without showing any traces, and complements his wife and children with a tough masculine technique of "combining hardness and softness". He Lin is always referring to her father's methods and ideas, and feels that her father is too powerful, a mature professional manager like a housekeeper. At this time, He Lin may not have realized that she and Wang Chuanzhi have fallen into a dog-tooth relationship, entering a compromised and stable situation in the midst of biting each other.Just like two boulders put together for a long time, the wind and the sun will burn off their edges and corners, slowly enter into each other, and grow into each other.The process of entering is a process of confrontation, compromise and mutual adaptation. When you have me in you, and you in me, and understand each other's constraints, and each other's left hand is this right hand, tacit understanding, tolerance, and harmony will also emerge together. A few days later, Chuanzhi went to Guangzhou to marry his younger sister.As soon as he left, He Lin sent a text message to Hongxia: Your brother is leaving, and I asked him to give you five thousand yuan, don't think it's too little, a little kindness from my sister-in-law, I have a baby, I will leave it for myself. Hongxia immediately burst into tears, subconsciously, everyone in the family was pumping water endlessly, and now it turned out that her sister-in-law gave her a large sum of money, but she had never met her sister-in-law! He Lin just wants to cut herself off from her in-laws' family, not to get involved with them, and not to let them get close to her, not to resent them, not to share face with them, just not to mess with them!