Chapter 39 Section 13

Chen Zhe came back, the bridesmaid who fled to Xiamen to study for graduate school before Liu Xiaoya's wedding. She didn't come back at He Lin's wedding, but she wrapped a red envelope of 500 yuan and asked her cousin to let her boyfriend who was a makeup artist in the TV series give it to her. The bride put on a very colorful makeup for free.Such a good friend, of course we want to get together.Chen Zhe accompanied his mentor back to Beijing to participate in a news project.Friends were a little surprised to find that she had an unusually close relationship with her mentor, a man who was at least forty years old.This guy who is still a female student took a debit card to Taibai to buy himself a not-so-cheap platinum necklace and an emerald jade bracelet, like buying Chinese cabbage.Generally, you need to calculate when you spend your own money.

"Whose card is it?" "Hmph, someone else's." "Who is the other person?" The girl flung a big wink and pouted her small mouth, "It's from my tutor." The three of them sat down at Shangdao Coffee, ordered a pot of Longjing, and drank to their heart's content. Xiaoya sighed, "Zhezhe, you have changed. You haven't changed in a year. I don't want the original Shanghai authentic man. I've fallen in love with your mentor. What's so good about an old man?" Chen Zhe laughed, "The old man is a ready-made stock, a mature stock. You two should cultivate your potential stock slowly. I'm not that patient. Ten thousand years is too long, just seize the day."

He Lin asked carefully: "Does he have a wife?" "Have!" "Yes, what's the matter with you?" "Give him time, let's get married and divorce slowly. Anyway, I'm young and I can afford to wait." "If he doesn't leave for five, six, seven or eight years, what are you going to do? Wouldn't it be delayed by him? I kind of look down on this old cow who eats tender grass. At such an age, I'm afraid of him It may not be that I really want to leave, but I am not willing to let my body degenerate and become old like this, so subconsciously grasp the tail of youth!" Among the three, Xiaoya is the one who is well-informed and has a reasonable analysis of things.

"Ha, five or six years from now, my girl will only be around 30, and she will still be in her late adolescence. At that time, the old guy will know his fate. If he wants to marry me, I don't necessarily want to marry this old coffin. Time stands For my side, there is no rush, as for the delay or not, maybe we will continue to work hard, after finishing the master's degree, go to the Ph.D., what does it matter to be a "Master of Extinction", and then follow the Ph.D. supervisor, ha!" "You live so chicly. You are so focused on your mentor. The more you know, the more rebellious you become, and the more educated you become, the more reactionary you are!"

"Hey, that's, let me tell you, no matter how this society develops and how feminism prevails, women look for men from the top, like the two of you, and actively cultivate the type of talented people from poor families. It is estimated that there will be ### No good end!" Xiaoya He Lin's face changed suddenly, but she laughed and scolded this straightforward girl with crow's mouth.Xiaoya retorted first: "I can't count on cultivating my husband. He came back from studying in Japan, and his starting point is higher than mine! I just graduated from a vocational high school, and I haven't completed my undergraduate degree yet."

"It has nothing to do with academic qualifications, and it has nothing to do with whether you study abroad or not. When it comes to dedicating to your family, do you dedicate much more than him?" Xiaoya froze for a moment. "Buy a house, you pay the down payment, most of the time you pay the loan, you take care of his mother for him, you do most of the housework, and you go to work to earn money, so what does your husband do?" Xiaoya said in a low voice, "I bought a house for myself, and I wrote it in my parents' names." "Buying a house for yourself is like a sneaky thief. Fang Hongjun transfers the joint property of the husband and wife openly! How many men are married now and hand over their salaries to their mothers for safekeeping?"

He Lin raised her hand, "Me. Although my family didn't hand in the card, it's basically the same. My husband basically spends all his salary on his natal family." "Promoting men!" Chen Zhe poured tea for everyone and continued to peddle her theory, "It's best for women not to do such stupid things as supporting men. What do men do? A man's mission is to actively work hard and be an ox. His family provides life security! How are you guys? Let’s be your own cows and horses to ensure the safety of the family first. Where is the dignity of a man? Don’t think that if you pay, you will be rewarded. There are many businesses that lose money these days! Husband and wife relationship , interpersonal relationship, it does not necessarily obey the law of conservation of energy..."

"How can there be so many high-level men to find?" "You train! Ha, listen to me, my mentor also came from poor people like 'dog leftover' and 'iron egg'. His yellow-faced woman did a lot to support him when she was young. It is said that without Huanglianpo’s strong support back then, he would not have the authority and achievements in journalism and academics today. So what, as a negative teaching material, I have not taken it for granted! But don’t worry, your good sisters are not It’s not that shameless, let’s put it this way, it’s not me, it’s someone else, their emotions are more than 20 years later, the degree of fragmentation is beyond your imagination! Like my family is becoming more and more elegant and knowledgeable Comrade mentor with enduring charm, eating young grass is the choice of history, it is the choice of human nature! He is old and fading, youth and vitality are gone, but the old woman who bears children for him gradually withdraws from the stage of history, it is the survival of the fittest The result is also the result of the choice of human nature. When men are weak, they still talk about conscience and morality. Once they become strong, their strength and instinct speak. I am the result of the choice of strength and instinct. What are you?"

He Lin and Xiaoya looked at each other. Xiaoya said: "I am the result of love's choice." He Lin said, "Me too." A phone rang, it was Yang Yuying's "Love You for Ten Thousand Years", Chen Zhe pouted and went to the bathroom to answer the phone, probably it was from the tutor. He Lin was surprised, "People go through eighteen changes, and the more they become uglier, how did Zhe Zhe become like this?" Xiaoya sighed, "It's changed since the year she was admitted to graduate school. Do you think our old demon just made her so angry that she quit as a bridesmaid and ran away after leaving her picks? During those years in college, she and Changfeng were good. , you love me and you are about to become one person, both of you are going to die or live, you marry me, and the families of both sides also gave their blessings early-hey, this one in Beijing and one in Shanghai are both middle-class families, which is in line with what my aunt said. It’s still a lot of trouble, Changfeng’s family has a lot of money. His father is an engineer in a large state-owned enterprise, and his mother is in the tax department. Every year, the gray income goes to the sea. He also admires his daughter-in-law in Beijing so much that he even bought them a house. .”

"How wonderful, I heard that they have been talking about marriage for a long time..." "What you haven't heard is that Changfeng's parents are so nice that they insisted on buying a house for their son and daughter-in-law. They have four houses in Shanghai and let the daughter-in-law choose whatever they want, but Zhezhe doesn't like to go and insists on setting up their home in Beijing. Changfeng's mother also agreed, and she is going to spend 300,000 yuan as a down payment to buy a small three-bedroom or a big two-bedroom in the second ring road. It is a pre-marriage room. She is going to write the names of Changfeng's mother and Changfeng, and let Changfeng pay the month. Confession. Zhezhe was furious, and had a vicious fight with his future mother-in-law, and Chang? Excuse me!?

He Lin also said: "The future mother-in-law's help is a double-edged sword. It not only solves your immediate problems, but also lays the groundwork for your future conflicts." "No, there is no such thing as perfect. After enjoying the benefits of her in-law's family, she has to accept certain restrictions from her in-law's family. Zhe Zhe just doesn't want to enjoy the benefits of her in-law's family, nor does she want to be subject to that restriction..." Just as he was talking, Chen Zhe came back happily, "Hey, you have a bad face, what kind of bad things did you say about Sajia behind your back?" "Said Changfeng's mother bought you a house in Beijing." "Ha, bah!" Chen Zhe snorted angrily, he didn't want to mention what he meant back then and couldn't explain clearly, "How can you buy me a house? The abacus is too loud, and I was surprised! We all discussed it. Well, I will get a marriage certificate next month, and my mother will send the money this month to burn my ass and rush to buy a house. The real estate certificate has his mother and his name written on it, and Changfeng will pay back the monthly payment for 20 years. It does not mean that after marriage I'm still working hard for his pre-marital property!" "But the law stipulates that the part that Changfeng will return after you get married is also half of yours!" "Why do I want this house that is less than a quarter of my property! Changfeng worked a year earlier than me, and saved a little money in a year. I asked him to save it, otherwise we would all spend it all." ! As a result, all the money I saved was put into house decoration!" "But that's Changfeng's pre-marital property!" "I don't care about pre-marital property, but my mother is thinking about my future husband's income! I have overdrafted part of my future family's income for 20 years in advance. Now that the house price can't wait for it to rise every day, I can still count on living in the future for the rest of my life." Our own house?" "Isn't this house for you to live in for a long time!" "I'd rather rent a house! I don't expect them to help me, but I can't be so depressed! Isn't it obvious who is eating who?" "How is Changfeng now?" "It is said that a girl full of pimples is now living with her. The girl urged him to get married several times, but he didn't move. It is said that his family is not satisfied - the girls agree to increase the value of his family's property. He and his family are not happy to make contributions for twenty years! Compared with others, how can they look so cheap!" "Okay, let's not talk about it, it's probably the result of love choice." "Okay, let's go see your so-called love and the result now." Xiaoya and Chen Zhe were children, and He Lin entered this small circle because she and Xiaoya were good friends.Originally, Xiaoya and Chen Zhe had discussed that they were going to meet Xiaoya's mother-in-law. Although it didn't achieve any results, she was still angry with her.Especially Chen Zhe, a new and new human being who is not afraid of anything, is willing to do anything for his friends, and he doesn't care who he offends.As for He Lin, she can go or not, but when she thinks of facing so many people at home, especially with her mother-in-law, and Chuanzhi blindly treating his mother with a low brow, she gets so annoyed, so she makes up her mind and goes to watch the fun. That day He Lin was driving her mother's car, and Professor Yu went out to give lectures.A group of three rushed into Xiaoya's home, which she hadn't returned to for three months. Xiaoya's mother-in-law, Mrs. Zheng, opened the door and was immediately taken aback. She had just taken a nap, and watched three young and beautiful ladies enter the room one after another, wondering, "Why are you back today?" "Oh, Grandma Zheng, isn't it normal for a daughter-in-law to go home for a meal on weekends!" Chen Zhe stepped forward, grinning. Mrs. Zheng glanced at Chen Zhe, who had a hippie smile, and was a little disgusted, "You still called me aunt last year, but this year you will be upgraded to grandma?" "Ha, this year I'm blind. When I met Xiaoya, I thought I was called an aunt. My skin was wrinkled and dull, and there were crow's feet in the corners of my eyes. I didn't expect Xiaoya, who was always juicy, to age so quickly. Marriage makes people grow old! Alas, this Aunt Liu's mother-in-law is of course called grandma." Mrs. Zheng is in her fifties, what a shrewd person, she saw at a glance that the three visitors were not kind, but she smiled and said: "My Xiaoya is worried, she works a lot of night shifts, and she doesn't pay attention to drinking water. She is boiled. If you have time, give it to me." She makes up for it." Xiaoya sneered behind her back, she was better at talking about face-saving than anyone else. "It's really Xiaoya, why do you work the night shift? It would be nice to be transferred to the day shift. Besides, is it necessary to destroy yourself like this for work? Look at Grandma Zheng, no, Aunt Zheng, her skin is so tender and rosy, Full of luster. Why don’t you just stop working, Fang Hongjun’s salary is so high, it’s not natural to support his wife, it’s a piece of cake! Marry a man, marry a man, dress and eat!” Wow, He Lin admires Chen Zhe's eloquence and courage. If you want to confront the meticulous Zheng, you have to turn your head quickly, put your face down, and have the ability to smooth things over. No wonder he got a master's degree , also journalism major. Mrs. Zheng smiled slightly, and brought sweets to everyone, "Xiaoya's salary is not high now, and I probably don't have enough to eat. You guys are just trying to persuade her to stop doing it and go home to raise her body and have a baby. I'll pay her back." Waiting to hold a grandson!" Xiaoya found a gap to fight back, "It's expensive to have a baby now, and I can't afford to have one!" Chen Zhe immediately looked back at Xiaoya in surprise, "No, sister, you've been working for so long, and now you earn one dollar a month. Qian Dayang, what about the money you earned last year? Besides, your dear husband also spends so much money every month, where do you spend it? Dare you say that you have no money and can’t afford to have children?!” Xiaoya immediately raised her hand and swore: "The sum of my two cards is less than 1,000 yuan." "Lie! Why are you crying poor, and I won't borrow it!" "Lies are puppies!" Chen Zhe looked at He Lin again, "Beauty, do you believe it? These two guys with high salaries actually said that they can't afford to have children, and they can't afford to support them!" He Lin was categorical: "Don't believe me! My husband and I's income is only a small fraction of yours. I have saved 20,000 to 30,000 yuan a year, and I'm going to have a baby next year." Mrs. Zheng smiled disdainfully behind everyone's back, "Daughter-in-law can't afford it, and a grandma won't stand by, after all, grandson is not! When people get old, they will be relatives from generation to generation. Daughter-in-law has no money to support, and grandma will take care of it!" Chen Zhe was very surprised, and said in an unbelievable tone, "Auntie, you are really extraordinary. You use your pension money to support your grandson. What will you do when you are old and have no money! Although your son and daughter-in-law are yours Dear relative, after all, it is another family, and you are always busy with blood transfusions for another family. Old man, my admiration for you is like a torrential river, you must go to heaven!" He Lin saw Xiaoya giggling. After all, people are old and wise, and they are afraid that they will not be able to explain clearly on this issue, and they will suffer losses.Zheng changed the subject, "Zhe Zhe, you are so eloquent, what kind of in-law's family can calm you down! Ordinary people are not afraid of you anymore!" "Hehe, don't introduce ordinary people, those who are capable." "How about I introduce you to one?" "Okay, Auntie, please worry about it. I don't have too many demands. The other party has a good job and a high income. I don't need to worry about paying for the house. Just marry a man, marry a man, dress and eat!" Mrs. Zheng wrinkled her nose, "Don't you look at the character of the other party?" "What's the use of character, money is king!" Mrs. Zheng sighed, feeling that the world is going downhill and people's hearts are not ancient: "The young people nowadays are really realistic, they don't care about anything, just live a good life." "Originally, if you don't ask about two lifetimes for a lifetime, what's the use of having a good character, if you can't earn money, you can't put it in your hands, you don't even dare to raise a child, you have to ask your mother-in-law to raise it, and you live in fear all day long. No matter how good a man is, he has to throw it away, he lacks a sense of security!" He Lin sighed in her heart, it turned out that Chuanzhi should also be thrown away. Mrs. Zheng said solemnly: "You children don't understand at all, and everything is based on money. The relationship between these two lives is fundamental, and nothing else is bothered." Chen Zhe's well-trained brain immediately counterattacked: "Auntie, you are too old-fashioned. These days, a man can do anything you want with him, but you can't want him to be nice to you! You can try to gain power and power, You can take money from him, and you can share all of these. If you just want him to treat you well, one day, he will take it back for some reason, and if he doesn’t treat you well, what can you fall into? Even the joint property of husband and wife may be a liability! So Well, my boyfriend should have other added value besides feelings, of course it’s better not to have parents, I can’t stand someone who is noisy all day long to share this man with me!” Zheng's face changed suddenly, "This man is the son of his parents first, without the selfless dedication of his parents, how could his son have a good life later! The current daughter-in-law is so selfish, even the man's parents are not allowed to repay him!" At this time Fang Hongjun opened the door and entered, saw a room full of people, and greeted with a smile.Chen Zhe admitted his mistake, "Auntie, I'm sorry, a son should be filial to his parents. It's not easy for parents. It's understandable to put parents first, but the daughter-in-law is also someone else's daughter, and she happened to be raised by her parents. The couple , the man and the man's parents are of the same mind, and the woman is of the same mind as the woman's parents. Why are these young couples still getting married in a serious manner? The "Marriage Law" was promulgated for nothing! So, I think it is better to be single, and being filial to your parents will not hurt you. The interests of others. If my boyfriend and I get married, not only will he not support me, but I will also eat and sleep with me and give birth to a child for free as a paid nanny!" "Let's talk, I'm a little tired." Mrs. Zheng walked into the room with a flick of her sleeves, and the door slammed shut. Everyone looked at Fang Hongjun's face intentionally or unintentionally, and this gentleman looked uneasy. Chen Zhe burst into tears immediately, "Brother Hongjun (Xiaoya He Lin laughed out loud in surprise), I'm so sorry for you, just now my aunt introduced a boyfriend to me for my own good, and he just said what was in his heart Come out, I don't want to hurt my aunt's heart, she is too mentally retarded, has no EQ, is too careless, Brother Hong Jun, you must forgive me..." Playing obediently and foolishly, pretending to be silly, not to mention, men really like this, Fang Haigui, who was complaining just now, immediately relieved, and in turn comforted the "crying" little sister. This scene gave Xiaoya and He Lin a lot of insight. Men, it doesn't matter if they are sympathetic to the weak.This tolerant man put aside his sulking mother, and personally accompanied the three beauties to the street for dinner. During the dinner, Chen Zhe talked about her ideals and philosophies. He never wanted to act too much, but aroused suspicion. . Afterwards, Fang Hongjun and Xiaoya said when they were alone: ​​"My wife, I understand how you feel, please give me a little time, can you please? The husband you married cannot wholeheartedly satisfy all your conditions due to his own special reasons, can you be patient for me? " "How long do you want me to endure?" "After all, we have a lifetime to live." "Do you want to endure until your mother dies?" "Wife, you knew my situation before you got married. This is my fate! If you love me, please accept this fate! Because I have no choice, my mother is a part of my life, and so are you, please don't tear me apart!" After eating that day, Chen Zhe originally wanted to go to He Lin's house to perform, but considering that Xiuhua was five months pregnant, in case something unexpected happened... He Lin refused. She hasn't properly digested a nutritious meal, and it's not time to borrow external force to hedge her family's affairs, and she has enough patience and wisdom to win this defense battle.As long as she uses it properly, she firmly believes that she can win. Compared with Xiaoya's mother-in-law's recklessness and her husband's cunning, her own mother-in-law is a rural illiterate, and Xiuhua said that she has five major advantages. When I received a call from Xiaoya at night, I felt weak, "...I messed up, my heart is jumping down from the window!"