Chapter 4 Section 4

He Lin vomited and diarrhea when she got home, her face was sallow, and the cat was under the bed. According to her own words, she was waiting to die. Her mother asked curiously, "What have you been eating?" "I didn't eat anything, I drank five bottles of mineral water on the train." "Five bottles? Have you never seen water?" "I'm thirsty!" "Chuanzhi's hometown is suffering from severe drought and lack of water?" Ouch, this professor's mother.He Lin said angrily: "His toilet is too dirty, and the pot for boiling water—who knows what it is used for? In two days at his house, he ate two bowls of egg soup, one piece of chicken, and two eggs!"

While shaking his arms around the student's paper, Yu Huaming sighed: "You are too delicate, you can stretch but not bend. Although your mother and I were also born in a small town, your grandma and grandpa are real farmers! I went back to my hometown a few years ago, and lived with you. The uncles and aunts in the distant house eat, I eat what they eat, and the guests do as they please. If you want to get along with others, first of all, you can't separate the food, and you can't make people feel that you are special and superior to others." He Lin was so wronged that she wanted to cry, "I don't think anyone is superior. I also think his family is not easy. It's just that they don't eat much. Objectively, they save money!"

"Okay, I've read it, and it's enough to know that people are good people. You don't have to worry too much about being poor or rich. As long as you have the ability, you don't have to worry about making money. Anyway, you won't live with your mother-in-law in the future, and you won't go to the countryside to live. Go out for a walk, don't lie down all the time, you will get sick when you are not sick. Let your dad cook a delicious tonic at night." After Yu Huaming finished speaking, he took him to school, and he had classes in the afternoon. Lying in bed is comfortable, like heaven.Thinking about the experience of the past two days, I actually shivered, the humble country bungalow, the primitive living environment, the simple life, the cobweb-like relatives, the sticky and rough relationship that is constantly being cut and messed up, the sharp mouth, and the extraordinary ability An ordinary future mother-in-law, a sister-in-law with a vague face who is respectful and far away, a mature little girl who knows everything, a sister-in-law who can speak well and is considerate of her family's interests, a black and strong brother who can only laugh, crawling around on the bed Yelang God, the open-air hut and the maggots crawling around with weapons on their backs, the sound of glass smashing in the middle of the night, and a passionate little Jingba who can't find a partner to vent their anger on. It's like an ultra-modern movie. She can't believe it's her. Everything in person.How can there be any shadow of rural poetry and evening pastoral that are taught in textbooks?These people will have a relationship with themselves in the future.And that outstanding man, classmate Wang Chuanzhi, who is out of the ordinary, has been tempered through so many procedures and incredible environments!

In the evening, He Zhongtian came back, and came back earlier to cook for his beloved daughter.The first half of his life was done for his wife, and the second half of his life was done for his children. He is a gentle and elegant man. His neighbors say he looks like a Shanghai man, but he looks tall and honest.The gnats shook the big tree, one thing dropped another, Yu Huaqing said that Yu Huaming had brought He Zhongtian down.Yu Huaming is smart, excellent, and informal. She is a knowledge-based career woman. She is honored as "Professor Yu" and "Dr. Yu" in school. Like a businessman, he behaves well in the business field, goes home to serve his wife and children conscientiously, and is honored as "He Tou" and "Old He", but he is also happy and at ease.

As soon as Lao He came home, he saw Wang Chuanzhi at the door.Wang Chuanzhi said shyly to come and see He Lin, but He Lin didn't answer his phone or open the door for him, so he had to wait. Lao He admired Xiao Wang's honesty and sincerity, and let him in.Wang Chuanzhi pushed open the door of He Lin's room, and He Lin pretended to be asleep, sleeping soundly.Chuanzhi just sat on the edge of the bed in a daze for a while, then went out quietly, seeing Lao He busy in the kitchen, he went up to help him with a wink. When Lao He asked about the situation of returning to his hometown, Xiao Wang said guiltily: "The conditions at home are not good, and He Lin has been wronged. My mother even apologized to He Lin when she came here, and asked her to forgive me."

These two sentences erased the doubts in Lao He's heart.The future Weng and his son-in-law talked more and more. "What are your plans for the future?" "I'm preparing to take the national civil service exam. There are a few places that I can stay in Beijing, so I can fight for more. The civil servants are stable, and the salary is lower, but the benefits are good." "As long as you pass the exam, we can help you figure out a way." "Well, I have been preparing. My major is good at taking exams (laughing awkwardly)...Anyway, civil servants are not too busy. If I can get in, I can do a part-time graduate student in the middle and earn more money. I can do it in the future. For the house."

"The house is so expensive now, there are not many houses in the third ring road that cost more than ten thousand and one square meter." "It can't be helped. The house price is rising every month. I still have to live. If I pay for twenty years, I will only be in my forties. I am younger than you, Uncle He, haha." The young man's optimism made old He Long happy, and now his hesitating thoughts became more and more firm: I can't let my daughter and son-in-law work so hard, don't they have several houses?But you have to get the nod of the professor's wife first.

The meal was ready, and the young man got out, saying that the company worked overtime, and he only had one hour of tailoring time, so he was relieved to see that He Lin was fine.Lao He gave him half a flatbread, a piece of bacon and a salted egg. "He Lin, baby, you smelly girl, come out and tell me how your future in-law's family treats you?" Hehe, as soon as he heard this movement, he knew it was Yu Huaqing, the loud aunt who came over.If she was still lying on the bed, she had to come and lift the quilt.He Lin simply took the initiative to swing around the living room wearing a big blanket. "I haven't woken up yet."

When the loud voice saw his niece's disheveled hair and disheveled face, he rushed forward and rubbed her hair, yelling: "Oh, stinky girl, have you been starving at your in-law's house? Did your mother-in-law show your face? Alas, we mentioned so many good things to curry favor with others, why didn't they cook you a delicious meal as a reward?" It's quite thoughtful to remove the ironic tone of this statement.He Lin felt sour in her heart. Yu Huaming is not like his younger sister's character who is thick, delicate, and short-tempered. "Don't talk about her. You are spoiled in our house. After two days in the countryside, you will be so hungry. Find the reason yourself! It's useless."

"Heh, what do you expect her to do? Back then we both came out of a small place and struggled for most of our lives, but it's the same as it is today, and it's the same with the stinky girl!" The younger sister ignored her elder sister's tricks, "Baby, auntie will call you Why doesn’t your vaccination take effect? ​​If you don’t see it, turn your head and leave! You can’t wrong yourself when you go to your in-law’s house. Don’t listen to your mother, you are blind and arrogant, that is to say, luck is good. If you meet a good old man like your father, she will be replaced by someone else. But I don’t necessarily have a good life today. When I am happy, I think that there are no unfortunate people in the world. Who the hell, bah!”

He Zhongtian and Yu Huaming were amused.As long as she comes, the house is guaranteed to be lively, and she often gives everyone great lessons on secular etiquette with her sharp tongue and shocking words. "Tell me about the smelly girl, how about your future mother-in-law?" "Well—it's okay." "As the saying goes, buy a pig and look at the pen. This is an old principle. You can listen carefully. This pen is not very good, and ordinary pigs are not good. Even if they are good, they are mostly pretended. Like parents, like children, No two kinds of dates can grow on the same tree!" He Lin sighed loudly: "Oh!" "Did your mother-in-law hit you with fake polite words inside and out? You have to listen to the undertones." Yu Huaming: "What does she know? A child who just came out of school and knows whether to eat or not to be hungry." "So, parents need to keep their eyes open for major marriages, otherwise they will regret it! Since ancient times, mother-in-law has not been an inconspicuous role in marriage. She is indispensable in the oil and salt. I would rather have a troublesome father-in-law than a troublesome father-in-law. The mother-in-law, the bad thing is out of ten ### is bad on her. So experienced parents, when marrying a daughter-in-law, first look at the character of the other parent. Generally, the parents are upright, generous, and educated, and the children will not go wrong , the so-called dragon begets dragon, phoenix begets phoenix, the children of mice can make holes, although it is not absolute, but it is 100% reasonable. The children follow whoever they are, follow the example, and you can't go wrong." He Zhongtian said at this time: "I think Chuanzhi is a good kid. He is honest, hardworking, honest, and self-motivated. It is not his fault that he was born in the countryside and his father passed away. It has not been a few years since his father passed away. Go to a single-parent family." Yu Huaming added another sentence: "If you were born in the city, these advantages might disappear. The living environment is too superior, and you don't know how to fight hard and the opportunities are rare. He Chong is not a living example. He still doesn't know how to come back. He makes friends every day. , eating, drinking and having fun, not doing business. Zhongtian and I are considered honest parents, and the pigsty is not bad, this little piggy is really pissed off! Most of my students who have made great achievements are children from the countryside. They have known since childhood Struggle is the only power to change destiny!" "You can't say that. What's wrong with He Chong? He's a pretty good kid. He hasn't been cheated, kidnapped or stolen. He doesn't eat, drink, prostitute, gamble or smoke. He's more worry-free than his two cousins. Isn't he just a little playful? Boys can't Too honest, submissive, if you can't hit a boring fart with a stick, you are still worthless! He Chong is so smart, I am optimistic about him. In the future, don't make He Lin's mistakes in He Chong's marriage. Find the right one..." "You're too old-fashioned!" He Lin protested, pouting. "Whether it's old-fashioned or not, my old ways are very effective. I don't know if I'm right or not, but there's nothing wrong with it! My two daughters-in-law were selected according to their families, and they've lived their lives honestly so far. See you I am respectful, no one dares to blow the floating soil to find a crack in the ground!" "Just now I said that I would not look for an evil mother-in-law, but you are a standard and powerful mother-in-law!" "Still splashing! Splashing mother-in-law." Yu Huaming followed his daughter. "How about being powerful? So what about being violent and evil? Let's be reasonable! You can walk around the world with reason, but you can't walk an inch without reason. Both daughters-in-law live in my house, and I don't need them to pay a penny. Gu each family, I didn’t search for them, we still wait on them during the confinement period, if you don’t wait, you will pay the confinement wife’s money, and there are red envelopes for the grandchildren during the Chinese New Year and holidays. It’s hard to find such a worry-free mother-in-law like me with a lantern in the world! Smelly girl, can you guarantee that your future mother-in-law will be like me, able to do 70% of me, usually wandering around the periphery, and when encountering things, she is able to contribute her strength and money? Usually we still have something to say, because we can talk! What to do We have done it, and we are not afraid of the shadow being crooked! Your two cousins ​​don’t dare to show me face at all, and I dare not borrow their guts! I go to their house occasionally, and I have to treat them with food and drink Under normal circumstances, I don't go. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is far away and near smelly. What is bothering is the face and the lack of self-knowledge. Besides, they all go to work, which is quite tiring. Only by being considerate to each other can the relationship be improved." "That's right, there is a rationale for being well-matched," a university teacher agrees, "at least the cultural background and living habits of growing up are similar, and the attached outlook on life, values, and views on things tend to be the same; the economic base is roughly the same, The differences that cannot be adapted are omitted. He Jing often said these things in her emails. My students often encounter this kind of situation when they are abroad. They are in a cross-border relationship, and they are about to break up in less than three to five years. They have different cultural backgrounds and different living habits. The sex is too big, and the two sides can't compromise, they can only go their own way, and the divorce ends." "These marriages related to agriculture are no less than cross-border love. Now rural people do not have subsistence allowances and basic medical insurance. They are completely poor. After a serious illness and returning to the old society, they finally get a college student. It is like a mountain valley. A golden phoenix flew out of the sky, and the whole family and even the three aunts and six wives are counting on them to get rid of poverty!" Yu Huaqing stared directly at He Lin, "The Chuanzhi family has many children, five! They will not all be your burden in the future! I will never die You!" Then he glanced at his sister and brother-in-law, "We are a good girl in the city, I can get what I want, find such a poor boy, have a lot of poor relatives, no matter how much he earns, it is not enough to fill the hole-poor couples are sad, No matter how good the relationship is, it can't resist the friction caused by poverty and poor relatives stretching out their hands!" "According to what you said, rural people and poor people don't want to marry a wife. Marriage is run by two people. Why do you always mention money, money, money in a vulgar way! Is there still love in the world?" "It's vulgar to talk about love and money, but it's not vulgar to talk about money when you talk about marriage. If you get married, you don't have money to drink the Northwest Wind? At any time, the two of you live with the economy as the main thing. Without love, life is the same. Without money, you live like you What do you mean? Tell me, did your future mother-in-law give you a meeting gift?" "Yes." He Lin pursed her lips and stretched out five fingers. "Hey, it's only five thousand!? It's really stingy, at least ten thousand and one, one in a million!" He Lin's father, He Zhongtian, said: "There are so many things to pay attention to. His family is in the countryside. There are many. After all, he will live here in the future, and he will not live with his in-laws." "What are you talking about brother-in-law? This is your precious daughter!" Yu Huaqing was very dissatisfied, "Of course you value us if you give more! If you don't like me, it means you don't like it or look down on you! You will suffer in the future Eat, a mother-in-law with many children is eccentric, don't underestimate her influence on her son!" Yu Huaming also said: "His family's financial conditions are not good, and five thousand is not bad. In the future, when He Chong's girlfriend comes to the door, I will also give five thousand, just to make sense of it. The future will not be good, it all depends on character fate." "Tut tsk tsk -" the younger sister "humiliated" her older sister repeatedly, "Stingy and beat you to death! You are also a professor, it would be strange to give five thousand to your wife to look at you! You don't know how to understand the world, and you are short of five thousand! I'll make it up for you! Why do people point their backs and make trouble? Marry a daughter-in-law with your head down, and a girl with your head up. You have to figure out when to put on airs and when to lower your eyebrows to give people face! He Lin, you have to put Putting on airs, it’s not that we covet our faces and climb up to others, but that we marry! We can’t marry into their family and be angry as a young daughter-in-law! Isn’t the mother’s family the backing of the daughter? Everyone's lady is still Xiaojiabiyu, we have to support others with our face! We don't want to hold it, who told us to marry a wife? A living person came to our house to give birth to our son!" What he said made Lao He and his wife stare wide-eyed and speechless. He Lin is uncomfortable, it's because the future mother-in-law doesn't value herself!