Chapter 40 Forty, Mom wants to resign

It took Jian Ning half a month to rent out the house. Although the monthly rent of 3,000 yuan sounds like a lot, it is still far from recovering the cost.Jiang Xin was very happy, and said that we didn't think about making money, the main reason was to be handsome.How nice it is, and solve the problems of Shuai Shuai's household registration and schooling, and complete another investment. This is killing two birds with one stone. But Jian Ning was not too excited.Ever since she was so busy going to kindergarten, looking for a house, buying a house, renting a house, registering for a household registration, Jian Ning felt that she had entered a strange circle.I am so busy working so that Shuai Shuai can go to a more ideal elementary school and receive a good education as much as possible.Buying a house in a school district is for attending a key elementary school, and attending a key elementary school is for laying a good foundation. If you want to lay a good foundation, you must develop good study habits, and if you want to develop good study habits, you must pay close attention.But a child is a child, can you expect him to stare at himself?Jian Ning thought about it many times, Jiang Xin can't expect to have time to tutor Shuai Shuai in the TV station; she is in the TV program company, and it is never too early or too late.Now you can board in kindergarten, without the pressure of learning, and you can play with multiple children; what about going to school in the future?Besides, I have already moved Shuai Shuai's household registration to the school district, so living next door to the school means there is no reason to go to boarding anyway, and this doesn't make sense with the school, does it?I can't always explain myself: "We bought the house for the purpose of hukou, and we can't live in it because we only have so much money, and we can only buy such a small house."

It is not realistic to go to grandma's house.Don't think that my mother is very strict with me, but it will be completely different when it comes to the next generation.So who can bear this burden?Jian Ning felt only herself.But with this job, how can I have time to pick up the child and help him with homework?Jian Ning has inquired about it. In the key primary school she chose, the first and second grades end at 3:30 p.m. every day. The school encourages children to study other things outside the school. Jian Ning also read it on the campus website. Basically, all the children They are all using this time to learn musical instruments, Mathematical Olympiad, and English.Jian Ning doesn't want to push Shuai Shuai too hard, but she also doesn't want Shuai Shuai to be different from other children. In that case, the child's self-esteem will be greatly hurt.Jian Ning met a former colleague of hers who had one idea since the child was born: happiness.Other children go to learn roller skating, swimming, piano, etc. at the age of three, but his children follow the "happy and casual education method" and don't learn anything.I went to kindergarten, and I only chose kindergartens that didn't teach anything, so-called "quality education".As a result, after going to school, other children in the class can write their own names, but their children can’t; other children can add and subtract within 20, but their children can’t; No... In his words: "I learned it before going to school, so why go to school?" As a result, the child was looked down upon by the teacher all day long, had no common language with his classmates, and his mood became worse and worse... Later the teacher simply Looking for parents: "Take your child to see it! Maybe he has autism!" This colleague is now regretful.

Jane would rather not be like him, in order to show her own personality, she gave up the child.Once such a mistake is made, it cannot be made up for.Jiang Xin originally thought that the house was settled, Shuai Shuai's household registration was settled, and Jian Ning could sleep soundly, but these days, Jian Ning not only did not sleep well, but even more tossed and turned.Jiang Xin advised Jian Ning not to have something stuffy in his stomach, and told him not to keep himself from falling asleep.Jian Ning thought about it seriously, and said to Jiang Xin: "Honey, I want to resign!"

Jiang Xin was not mentally prepared at all, and didn't know why Jian Ning, who was doing well in her career, made this decision.Jiang Xin asked with concern: "What's the matter? Is the company going to lay off employees? Or are you unhappy?" Jian Ning said: "Neither of them. I'm here to be handsome." Jian Ning stated her reasons to Jiang Xin one by one: the problem of picking up and dropping off after school, the problem of tutoring after school, the problem of attending tutoring classes on weekends...Jiang Ning Xin interrupted Jian Ning with a little excitement, and he said: "Honey, you can't make such a big sacrifice for your child. He has his own life, and we can't sacrifice ourselves just because we love him and take responsibility for him. We didn't have any A parent resigned to pick up their children. I don't want you to do that!"

Jian Ning knew that Jiang Xin would stop her, but she still had to explain her reasons.She patiently persuaded Jiang Xin that a child's growth needs to be constantly corrected. The current society is not the same as when we were young, with too many temptations and too many traps.She said Jiang Xin: "Let's watch "Growing Pains" together, do you still remember? There was an episode where Ben was not good at his homework in middle school and was looked down upon by his teachers. His mother, Maggie, gave him a suspension from school, and the two of them stayed at home. Studying. My mother tutored him in reading and took him to do Jane Fonda's aerobics. We were all very touched after watching it. You also said at the time, how nice it would be if your mother could treat you like this when you were a teenager! Is it the mother's sacrifice? But isn't it worth the mother's sacrifice in exchange for the child's lifelong happiness? Since we have chosen to give birth to the child, we must do our best to help him. Husband, I was young when I gave birth, yes There is absolutely no concept of raising a life. Now I understand more and more that any choice I make today may affect him for the rest of his life. I am not afraid of sacrifice. For women, having a child is a sacrifice. I don’t want to make sacrifices , and failed to help him, then I will blame myself and regret it for the rest of my life.”

Jiang Xin found that in recent years, he has been persuaded by Jian Ning in every discussion related to Shuai Shuai.Going to kindergarten, lodging, buying a house, and registering, but this time, he will do his best for Jianning.Because he knows that Jian Ning belongs to the society and the job of TV.He admitted from the bottom of his heart that Jian Ning's business ability is better than his; when he heard that Jian Ning was going to resign today, he felt sorry for her from the bottom of his heart.There is another meaning Jiang Xin wants to say: "What will you do if you regret it one day? Then go find a job? Or stay at home as a full-time mother for the rest of your life?" If so, Jiang Xin's life will not be easy.It's not that she's worried about the heavy economic pressure, what Jiang Xin is worried about is that after being separated from society for a long time, Jian Ning will become depressed and suspicious. There are many such examples.But if you ask this now, Jiang Xin feels that she is too unkind.He thought about it and said to Jian Ning: "If you can think about what to do after resigning, we can think about it. Actually, I understand your thoughts, but I suggest you, if not, let's change jobs, change jobs that are less stressful. , it doesn’t take so long, even if the income is less, it doesn’t matter. If you are idle all of a sudden, you won’t be able to bear it.”

Jian Ning said seriously: "I've made up my mind. I want to open a store on Taobao." Jiang Xin was really stunned by this series of "unexpected".Jiang Xin tried hard to persuade Jian Ning to give up this unrealistic idea in his opinion. He said: "Open a store? What do you sell? How do you sell it? I have never done business before. What if I lose money? Of course, losing money is still a trivial matter, the key is ...The key is what kind of store should we open?" Jian Ning said: "I just sell clothes! Did you know that we have so many factory stores with off-the-shelf goods, and a piece of clothes only costs twenty or thirty yuan. The places I often go to also have off-the-shelf orders for foreign trade. The Hush Puppies and Reeves I often buy for you are only fifty or sixty yuan. Don’t you look good in your clothes? Every day after I send Shuai Shuai to school, I go to get the goods and sell them online. Sell them I will get the second batch...Anyway, opening a store online requires no rent or shopping guide, and the cost risk is already very low. What do you think?"

Jiang Xin didn't know anything about opening a shop online, and he didn't even have a feeling for clothes. He really couldn't make a judgment.But others felt that it was too risky for Jian Ning to resign and go to sea, he said: "Even if you want to resign, you don't have to do it now! We will have time to resign after Shuai Shuai goes to school!" Jian Ning smiled and said: "My husband, I know what you think. How about this, I will register online in a few days and open the store first. I will use my spare time to do it first. If it doesn't work, I will give up Think of another way, or just listen to you, and change to a less stressful job; but if the performance is good, then husband, I hope you can agree with me to do this."

Speaking of this, what else can Jiang Xin say.In order for Jian Ning to sleep well, and for her to hit the south wall as soon as possible, Jiang Xin had no choice but to agree.