Chapter 33 Thirty-three, kick him hard!

When Jian Ning got home, he received a call from his mother, and scolded him: "Where have you been? There is no one at home, and the phone is not connected. I can't find Jiang Xin, and the phone is not in the service area!" Jian Ning hurriedly asked: "What's wrong with you? What's the matter at home?" Mom said: "It's fine at home. It was Shuai Shuai who called you in the kindergarten. The child asked the teacher to call you, and whoever was not there. Fortunately, the child still remembers the number of grandma's house. What should I do?" Jian Ning was in a hurry, and said to her mother: "Can you tell the important point, what happened to Shuai Shuai in kindergarten?"

My mother said: "What's the matter? You were bullied by other children! I told you not to send you any boarding, but you didn't listen! Our family is so handsome and honest, and we live in the kindergarten every day. What kind of bastards are in that class?" No? You are really relieved..." Jian Ning had no choice but to interrupt her mother and said, "Did the teacher say anything? Do you want me to pick it up!" My mother said: "Of course the teacher said it's all right. To say that Shuai Shuai is in a bad mood and wants to talk to Mom and Dad! What! You go and get Shuai Shuai back quickly, don't let him suffer! I asked, our building There’s a new kindergarten opening right here, so let’s go here! I can pick up and drop off every day!”

Jian Ning hurriedly said: "Okay, okay! I can go to the kindergarten first. Let's talk about the transfer to the kindergarten later!" Putting down the phone, Jian Ning went out. Jiang Xin was at a loss after listening for a long time. up?Quickly ask, what's wrong, something happened to the equipment.Jian Ning said quickly: "Shuai Shuai was bullied by other children in the kindergarten and cried, so he insisted on calling us. My phone is on silent and I didn't receive it; your phone is not in the service area. Just call me Mom is there, maybe crying on the phone, my mom is in a hurry, let me pick him up now!"

Jiang Xin said, "Isn't the teacher here? What did the teacher say?" Jian Ning said: "My mother didn't make it clear. According to her, the teacher said it's okay, just to appease Shuai Shuai and let Shuai Shuai complain about his grievances. I'll go first." Jiang Xin said: "Wait, I'll go with you! Ask about the situation before we talk about it! Maybe it's not as serious as you think, if it's really serious, the teacher will have to come to us directly!" Jian Ning was a little anxious, and said: "It's not a big deal! Our son is really useless. I said last time that he didn't dare to tell the teacher when he was pushed. This time it's okay. Let's get bullied and cry even worse. If it doesn’t work, I’ll really transfer him to another garden. I have to see why the unlucky kid is so bad!”

Jiang Xin knew that Jian Ning was in a fit of anger, saying nothing would help.Besides, Jian Ning's self-blame is beyond words, Shuai Shuai will definitely complain to his parents when he is most wronged, but at this time he is not with his children, Jiang Xin is a calm father, and he feels very uncomfortable in his heart, not to mention Jian Ning, who is soft-tempered up. The two rushed to the kindergarten, and they didn't speak all the way, Jian Ning was so angry that she didn't want to say anything; Jiang Xin was thinking about what to say after seeing Shuai Shuai, so that Shuai Shuai felt that this was not a big deal, but Let him vent it, don't keep it in his heart.When she arrived at the kindergarten, Jian Ning made a round of phone calls in the reception room before finding the teacher.The teacher leading the class is not allowed to answer the phone, not even the landline.Calls can only be made to the office, and the office will send someone to call before the teacher can come to answer the phone.Shuai Shuai's teacher knew that Shuai Shuai's parents were coming, so he went straight to the reception room and met the two of them.

The teacher apologized straight to the point, saying that he had made them anxious and that he would make a trip.Jiang Xin rushed to speak before Jian Ning, he was afraid that Jian Ning would say something unpleasant in a hurry.Jiang Xin asked the teacher with a smiling face, what happened to Shuai Shuai. The teacher said, it's actually very simple, that is, Shuai Shuai was pinched by the little girl next to him.The reason was that the little girl took out two pieces of colored paper and asked Shuai Shuai to keep them.Shuai Shuai didn't want to help, but he disagreed. When the little girl got angry, she pinched Shuai Shuai and made Shuai Shuai cry.When the teacher heard Shuai Shuai crying, he came over to ask about the situation, and had already criticized the girl.The teacher said that today's little girls are very good at acting, in front of the teacher and behind the teacher's back.Little boys will inevitably be bullied and excluded by girls in kindergarten or even elementary school.Because the children and parents in our kindergarten are of relatively high quality, very few parents teach their children to "tit for a tooth". Therefore, children who have been bullied are generally at a loss.

Jian Ning couldn't bear it anymore, and said: "From now on, I will teach him to 'eye for an eye', choke someone at the age of 3 or 4, this child will be able to pay back when he grows up!" Jiang Xin pulled Jian Ning back, and quickly explained to the teacher: "We didn't receive a call today, but it was my grandma who told us. She was very anxious, and she didn't know what happened!" The teacher smiled and said, "We understand. It's really not a big deal. We checked carefully. She pinched Shuaishuai's arm. It was indeed a little red at the time, but it was fine after a few minutes. We also asked the doctor in the infirmary to I came to see him, and asked if I need to apply cold compresses. The doctor said it’s okay, it’ll be fine in a while. Shuai Shuai was also emotional at the time, crying very sadly. We specially sent a teacher to accompany him, and the little girl went to apologize to him. He ignored it. He said he wanted to tell his parents, so we took him to the office to call you. He was still sad when the call was not answered. Finally, he said he wanted to call his grandma, and he felt much better after the call. We Analysis, the child just wants to talk about it, resolve it, and release his emotions after speaking. You see, he is building blocks with children in our game area now."

Jiang Xin kept saying, "I've made the teacher bother you. Look, should we pick him up?" The teacher answered Jiang Xin, but looked at Jian Ning, and said, "I really don't recommend that you pick him up. If you pick him up today, Shuai Shuai will feel that the parents will show up when they encounter difficulties in the future, and they will Take him home. In this way, in the long run, he will believe that only his parents can solve his difficulties for himself, he will avoid them, and will not think about how to face and solve them. And he will believe that only going home is the only way In that case, he will resist the kindergarten from the bottom of his heart."

Jiang Xin wholeheartedly agreed with the teacher's statement.Authorities are obsessed and caring leads to confusion. No matter how rational and objective a parent is, they will be confused when it comes to their children.He told the teacher, let's discuss it.He pulled Jian Ning back and said in a low voice, "What the teacher said makes sense. What do you think?" Jian Ning glanced at Jiang Xin, she knew in her heart, of course what the teacher said was right, but now she just wanted to see what was going on with Shuai Shuai.The teacher said it's okay to pinch, and of course you have to see it yourself before you can rest assured.Jian Ning said: "Then I won't pick you up. But you have to look handsome. Otherwise, I won't be steadfast."

The teacher came over and said, "You enter the kindergarten quietly and don't let other children be disturbed. I'll bring Shuai Shuai out, and you just say that you received a call from grandma and come to ask what's wrong with Shuai Shuai, that's all." Jiang Xin said: "Then what if he wants to go home with me?" The teacher said: "I suggest that you must be ruthless in this meeting. Let's think this way, even in day care, children may encounter such problems. Even if they don't go to kindergarten, he will always go to school in the future! He will always contact Society! It is impossible for us to protect him for the rest of his life, especially boys, who may have to go through all kinds of storms in the future. Our hearts are softened today, and he may be hurt even more in the future. We must make him strong."

Jian Ning didn't speak, Jiang Xin said: "Okay. We will listen to you, and we will go to see him quietly." The teacher said: "You mainly listen to what he says and how he says it. The child's thinking is different from ours." The two of them waited beside the big slide, and the teacher went to lead Shuai Shuai.While waiting, Jiang Xin said to Jian Ning: "Don't talk for a while, I'll ask, let's try to let Shuai Shuai express things clearly." Jian Ning said angrily, "Sew my mouth shut!" Jiang Xin patted his wife's head with a smile, and suddenly felt that she hadn't grown up yet. The teacher led Shuai Shuai over, pointed Shuai Shuai to Jian Ning and the others, the teacher stopped and asked Shuai Shuai to come by himself.Jian Ning thought that Shuai Shuai would run over and cry in her arms, but she didn't expect Shuai Shuai to look calm, he walked over with square steps, and he was completely different from what his grandma described on the phone. Shuai Shuai saw two people and called out "Mom and Dad".Jiang Xin asked Shuai Shuai: "Did you call Dad today? Dad didn't answer, right?" Shuai Shuai said: "Well. Why did you go?" Jiang Xin said: "Do you remember Aunt Zhao? She was sick, and both father and mother went to the hospital. I'm sorry, son, I didn't receive your call. So we came, can you tell Dad what's the matter?" ?” Shuai Shuai said: "Qingqing pinches me. It hurts me. I want my mother to call her mother and tell her mother that she pinched me." Jiang Xin said: "I see. Next time you encounter such a situation, can you tell the teacher? The teacher can tell her mother directly. The teacher can also criticize her directly." Shuai Shuai said: "She is the most powerful girl in our class. Last time she pinched the little girl in our class to tears." Jiang Xin smiled and asked, "Xiaoxiao is a girl, right?" Shuai Shuai said: "Yeah!" Jiang Xin said: "Girls are afraid of pain and are timid. You are a boy, we are a boy who was pinched and cried by a girl, isn't it good?" Shuai Shuai didn't speak.Jiang Xin went on to say: "The more you cry, the happier that Qingqing will be, and next time she will pinch you again. Because you didn't resist! Why did she pinch you?" Shuai Shuai said: "She doesn't put away her own things, so let me keep them. If I don't agree, she will pinch me." Jiang Xin said: "Exactly! This is an unreasonable request from her, and she must not agree to it. Next time she makes such a request, you can tell her, 'You can't even take care of your own things, you still go to kindergarten!' I promise, As soon as you say this, she should cry." Then, Jiang Xin leaned into Shuai Shuai's ear and said a few more words, but Jian Ning couldn't hear her, so she didn't know what the two of them said. When Jiang Xin finished speaking, Jian Ning came over to stroke Shuai Shuai's head and hugged him.Jiang Xin asked Shuai Shuai: "Do you need me to talk to Qing Qing?" Shuai Shuai shook his head and said "no".Jiang Xin said: "Then do you want us to pick you up?" Jian Ning was a little anxious, thinking that you didn't plan to pick him up, so why did you recruit him? Unexpectedly, Shuai Shuai said firmly: "No need. I don't feel any pain anymore." Jiang Xin met Jian Ning with her eyes, feeling a little proud.Then, Jian Ning led Shuai Shuai to find the teacher. The teacher kept watching and saw Shuai Shuai approaching. He went to hold Shuai Shuai's hand and said to Shuai Shuai and Jian Ning: "Shuai Shuai is very handsome. An obedient child, but in the future, when encountering a situation, you must learn to talk to the teacher and find the teacher. In the kindergarten, the teacher is the mother! Right?" Jian Ning nodded his thanks, Shuai Shuai waved goodbye to Jian Ning Jiang Xin, and went back to work to continue building blocks.Jian Ning and Jiang Xin were walking home. On the way, Jian Ning asked Jiang Xin what he said to his son in the end, making it very mysterious.Jiang Xin said proudly: "I told my son, whoever dares to pinch you in the future, you will kick him hard! Don't be soft!"