Chapter 2 Second, parents are so pretentious

Jian Ning returned home with a frown all the way.On the way, her husband Jiang Xin still thoughtfully called to ask where she was and when she would be home.Jian Ning didn't care about her image in the taxi, and hurriedly told Jiang Xin the bad news with a pale face.Just as Jian Ning expected, Jiang Xin had no choice but to comfort Jian Ning instead: "Why do we have to go to that kindergarten? Isn't it just a name? What's the big deal? We won't go, can't we go to other things? ?” Jian Ning was so angry that she yelled at him on the phone: "It's all over now, I'm going to other places, and the other places are already full. If you don't believe me, go to each kindergarten to ask. If there is still a place, I will write the name backwards! "

When Jiang Xin heard that his wife was angry, she quickly coaxed her, saying that she would be home soon, and we will figure out a way when we get back, so don't worry.Jian Ning said in her heart, I'm not in a hurry! When she got home, Jian Ning saw Jiang Xin looking up kindergarten information online.Originally, Jiang Xin had prepared a lot of words, but she didn't say them herself.He checked the situation of the city's kindergartens on the official website of the education system, and the kindergarten in their community was really among the best.The parents of this kindergarten on Baidu also set up a post bar, went up and looked, oh, the children in the family home learned roller skating at the age of three, piano at the age of three and a half, swimming at the age of four, and calligraphy at the age of five.Some parents said gratefully that putting their children here really saves money. It costs the same money to learn three things, which is much cheaper than just hiring a piano teacher and roller skating coach.

The more Jiang Xin looked at it, the more he felt guilty. Before seeing Jian Ning busy going to kindergarten for Shuai Shuai, he thought it was unbelievable.To say that he himself is half a Beijinger, his father is from Beijing, and his mother is from Chengdu. He grew up in Chengdu and received education information from both the north and the south.He claims to have never been to kindergarten, but grew up beside his grandma's cooking pot.Fresh ginger and red pepper were Jiang Xin's snacks when he was a child. He didn't experience nutritious meals or preschool education, which didn't prevent him from going to Peking University.Jiang Xin feels that her own growth has reference value for her son, and Shuai Shuai can definitely grow up like this.But in Jian Ning's case, this theory doesn't work at all.Every time this was mentioned, Jian Ning would look contemptuous and said: "You didn't catch up with the good time. You can have today, half of it is talent, and half is luck. I don't want to be handsome and live by luck in the future, I want Let Shuaishuai enjoy the best education."

Before having a child, Jiang Xin's buddies told him that once he had a child, his wife would no longer be yours.Her thoughts are all on the child, and she must let the wife have the final say on matters concerning the child.This is the law to maintain long-term peace and stability in the home.Jiang Xin kept the advice firmly in his heart, and he found that Jian Ning operated in this way, and he soon discovered the benefits of this rule, how much peace of mind he has.Since the full moon, Jian Ning has found a nanny by herself, and flatly rejected his kindness to bring her mother to take care of the child.Jian Ning has no other intentions, the child still has to manage it by himself, once the next generation stays at home, the impact on the child will be all day long.Grandma takes her grandson, it's strange if she is not used to it.

At first Jiang Xin felt very awkward, he thought that Jian Ning did this because she didn't want to get along with her mother-in-law.Later, he was relieved, because he knew that Jian Ning had a carefree temper, said what she thought, and would not hide it, and she would definitely not say anything.Moreover, his mother-in-law and Jian Ning's own mother were also rejected by her daughter, which further strengthened Jiang Xin's judgment.It's not that Jian Ning hates her mother-in-law, but just wants to take care of the children by herself. This idea was established when Jian Ning was pregnant.Jian Ning graduated from university at the age of 22 and joined a film and television company as a director.In less than half a year, he was entrusted with the important task of being the main editor-director, then editor-in-chief and producer of a column distributed nationwide. At the age of 24, Jian Ning met Jiang Xin when she was the editor-in-chief.A heartless encounter, one group is from a film and television company, and the other is from a TV station.Because of the cooperation with the TV station all the year round, the column team invites people from relevant departments to dinner.Jiang Xin graduated from Peking University, and was assigned to a TV station to do programs for two years, and then went to the editor-in-chief's office, responsible for the macro arrangement of the channels in the station.Because Jiang Xin was in charge of this channel, and this channel was the "landlord" of Jian Ning's program, so the two met.

At the beginning, I ate very vulgarly, and I started to drink while I ate.The reason is that Jian Ning's team is full of little girls, and an older editor-in-chief girl leads a bunch of chattering little editor-director girls.There are many men on the TV station, Jiang Xin's colleague Dong Li wanted to stir up the atmosphere, so he took the initiative to tease him, looked at Jian Ning and said: "Mr. Jian, we have been working together for more than a year. It is rare that Mr. Jian invites us to dinner. No matter what Have a drink!" A group of people started booing.Jian Ning was confused and said, "Ah! Do you still want to drink?"

Dong Li said: "That's not true! I heard that Teacher Jian invited us to dinner, we didn't even drive the car, just to have a few drinks. Even if all the beauties you come here today, it's fun!" Jian Ning said: " Okay. Then let's have a drink with the teachers. But I came here by car today, and I have to see off the girls in our group later. There are also people who live in Tong County. Let our beauties drink with the teachers Right. But don't bully us!" The men on the TV station started to smirk and said, "That can't be that, that can't be."

Dong Li said: "That's it, you one and me two. Is that okay?" As soon as the words fell, a beautiful woman beside Jian Ning stood up, poured a full glass of beer, held it in both hands, and said timidly to Dong Li: "Then, Teacher Dong, I will do it first." Then, dong dong Boom, finished drinking.He looked at Dong Li without changing his face. Dong Li was stunned for a moment, and someone beside him laughed and said, Dong Li hurry up, all the little girls are fucked.You two, don't hold back. Dong Li also thump, thump, did it; Another beautiful woman stood up, blinking her eyes, and smiled at Dong Li: "Teacher Dong, I would like to toast you too. But I'm not very good at drinking, let's take a small cup." Jiang Xin looked at Le, this time he served it It's white wine.

Dong Li made no mistake, and drank two more glasses of white wine.Then another rose, and another rose.Fortunately, there were only five people in Jian Ning's group, except for Jian Ning, every girl had a drink with the people from the TV station.According to the principle of 1:2, before the round is over, someone will fall down on the TV station.Dong Li's tongue was so big that he went to the toilet three times when he went out, and the waiter brought it back the last time.Jiang Xin handed Jian Ning a business card while she was still awake, asked for Jian Ning's phone number and saved it in her mobile phone.After doing this, Jiang Xin was basically confused.

That night, I basically don't remember how my brothers got home, but fortunately everyone is safe.The next day, all the men who went to the dinner party slept until noon before appearing on the stage. After meeting, they laughed at each other. Whoever drank the second round would die, and whoever went out hugged the big tree and vomited for a long time , so-and-so sat at the door of the restaurant and didn't leave... Anyway, they only remember others, not themselves.In the end, Dong Li said: "Brothers, we're grown up now." Yes, Jiang Xin tried hard to recall, those girls seemed to remain unchanged in every way, as if after they got down on the ground, they still met Go to karaoke.You're really young, you can't accept it.However, Jiang Xin clearly remembered that from the beginning to the end, Jian Ning didn't drink a sip of wine, it seemed that when the girls said to go to sing, Jian Ning also said that she would not go.This beauty is a bit interesting.

A week after the dinner, Jiang Xin made up her mind to chase Jianning.The reason why he hesitated for a week was because Dong Li had inadvertently talked about Jian Ning, saying, "This kid is very knowledgeable, so capable, it can be seen that he has a background and a city mansion." Jiang Xin recalled the scene of the dinner that day, and also felt that Jane Ning is not simple.He took a few little girls and captured everyone, and he still looked innocent.But to give up, Jiang Xin felt unwilling, whether it would work or not, she had to give it a try. Jian Ning received Jiang Xin's call in the computer room. Jian Ning was showing the film to the director, and was trying to tell the director how to cut the film in a rhythmic manner.Jiang Xin listened to the noisy background on the phone, so she knew that she was in a computer room, so she had to raise her octave to tell Jian Ning who she was.When Jian Ning heard the word "Jiang Xin", she couldn't think of it for a moment, so she politely replied, "I'm sorry, I forgot, you are Jiang...Xin...." Jiang Xin is so angry, what kind of memory does this person have?It's only been a few days, I don't know each other anymore.No way, he had no choice but to introduce himself: "I'm Jiang Xin from the editor's office of the TV station..." Jian Ning felt as if he had just woken up from a dream, and he was terrified: "Ah! Teacher Jiang, is there something wrong with our film?" Jiang Xin is so anxious. : "No, no, I just want to ask, do you have time tonight?" According to Jiang Xin's thinking, when most lesbians hear this question, they will first ask: What's the matter with you?Judge after hearing something.If the other party doesn't hate you, you may agree to the date invitation; if you don't like it, or if you have a girlfriend, you will politely decline it.In that case, Jiang Xin would not bother.But Comrade Jian Ning's answer was: "Tonight? I'm not free." Jiang Xin was stunned all of a sudden, this is a grand refusal!Is she annoying herself?But listening to the tone just now, it is clear that he is not in his mind, so does he have a boyfriend?Fortunately, Jian Ning added another sentence: "I'm going to the Film Academy to take classes at night." Jiang Xin never said what she wanted to do with Jian Ning, because Jian Ning never asked.Jiang Xin only asked what class he was attending, and said goodbye politely.After get off work, Jiang Xin couldn't let it go, she didn't know if Jian Ning pretended to be confused, or if she really couldn't understand what she meant.Attend class?It's a good excuse to reject people, and it sounds good-sounding.Jiang Xin said to herself, if she fights it out, won't she be tricked?Once in the ages, it was her.Jiang Xin went to film school right away. At around 6 o'clock in the evening, all the beauties studying acting left the film academy, and all the lesbians who came in were eager for knowledge but not too beautiful.Of course, there are men too.Jiang Xin came in without too much effort, he was not in a hurry to find Jian Ning, as long as he thought about it, Jian Ning was probably not here at all.Maybe Jian Ning came here to attend class sometimes, but she must use the clean campus as an excuse tonight.Then why is he here?In his heart, Jiang Xin wanted to expose this little girl and tell him that she was just downstairs in the teaching building of the Film Academy to see how this girl would end up. After thinking about the steps, Jiang Xin sent a text message to Jian Ning, it's very simple, I need to find you, I'm downstairs at No. - of the Film Academy.After sending, Jiang Xin thought of how Jian Ning was dumbfounded and organized his words when he read the text message, and was amused. Seeing the text message, Jian Ning was puzzled, what's the matter?Do you have to chase after school?Why didn't you ask clearly on the phone?Fortunately, it was a big music appreciation class, Jian Ning sneaked out of the classroom, she was even more confused when she saw Jiang Xin, because Jiang Xin opened her mouth wide and pretended to be stupid and said: "Why are you really here?" Jian Ning was very angry and said: "Mr. Jiang, you came all the way and called me out of class just to see if I was here? Didn't I tell you in the morning? I want to go to class!" This time it was Jiang Xin's turn to be dumbfounded and organize her words.He stammered and said that he thought Jian Ning was lying to him.Jian Ning became even more angry and said, why should I lie to you?Is there any advantage for me to lie to you?Jiang Xin quickly covered her mouth and said, no, I thought you just made up an excuse for not wanting to see me?Jian Ning said confidently: "I don't want to see you, so there is no need to make excuses. That's right, why do you have to see me?" Several years later, this joke is still good material for Lan Yun and Zhao Xiaorou to attack Jiang Xin.When Jian Ning told this to her two girlfriends, Zhao Xiaorou pointed at her and laughed, and Lan Yun also happily said: "Jian Ning, you are so stupid, he is chasing you!" Jian Ning said aggrievedly : "He didn't say anything, who knows. When my ideal man appears, he should stand in front of me holding a bouquet of flowers, and then gently tell me that from the first time we met, I like him You are my girlfriend, okay? He is not like him at all." Zhao Xiaorou said: "If you don't like it, kick him and stop his thoughts." Lan Yun said: "I haven't met him yet. How do you know who he is? If he really likes you, maybe there will be a big romance that day, which is beyond your imagination!" Jian Ning started dating Jiang Xin with the intention of waiting for a "big romance".At the beginning, Jiang Xin felt that Jian Ning was scheming, but after the first "date", he felt that this girl was really heartless. Later, he got to know Jian Ning, not because she was careless, but because she had to express her thoughts , The mouth and the heart are consistent.She doesn't need to say it, but as long as she says it, she must think so.Accustomed to watching people fighting each other on TV, Jiang Xin sincerely thought that she had found a treasure. But it's this treasure, there is no difference after getting married, except for the things on the show, Jian Ning keeps his promises in the group, and when he comes home, Jian Ning is happy with whatever Jiang Xin arranges.From what to eat to what movies to watch, and where to buy a house, Jian Ning felt that as long as she expressed her opinion, it would be fine, and Jiang Xin would definitely consider it.You don't have to be a "parent" yourself.Lan Yun told her not to delegate power easily, but Jian Ning said: "I am not as meticulous as you, and I know how to live. Jiang Xin has southern blood, and I think he is much better than me. Our family will make the best use of their talents, so let Jiang Xin arrange it. Anyway, he is also in charge of macro deployment at the TV station." Jiang Xin's macro deployment is useless when he is transferred to Shuai Shuai.From the day the child was born, Jian Ning's motherhood was fully stimulated, and if the mother became self-willed, she would be domineering.Jian Ning made a series of growth plans for the child, and when he told Jiang Xin, Jiang Xin felt dizzy.He persuaded Jian Ning earnestly: "A child should grow up freely, and make him feel comfortable and at ease. The most important thing is for him to be happy. Don't let him be tied up before he goes to school. Look at me, I ran out of the bluestone field in Chengdu when I was young. , Didn’t I go to Peking University too? Didn’t I meet you too? No…” Jian Ning stopped Jiang Xin’s theory of “No Ye” and said arrogantly: “Our family has two men and I am a woman. Make me happy That's the most important thing, Shuai Shuai was born by me, so you have to listen to me." Jiang Xin didn't know whether to laugh or cry. He once thought that after a woman gave birth to a child, she would return to her childhood after a long period of time. She would be capricious, arrogant and unreasonable.He thought about stopping it, but Dong Li told him: "Brother, it's best to listen to others. My wife vomited a little with me after giving birth, and she suffered from depression for half a year. She almost left the child and ran away from home." I heard that this woman is more or less depressed after giving birth, so don't recruit her." It was just that small, just in time for a woman to jump the subway with her baby in her arms the next day.Although she was rescued by the subway staff, her husband, her parents and in-laws were all scared to death, and her mother-in-law had a heart attack.It was published in the newspaper that the woman suffered from postpartum depression three months after giving birth.This news made Jiang Xin completely shut up.He comforted himself and said, seek common ground while reserving differences.