Chapter 35 Thirty-five. How to heal a frustrated man

It is said that "men are not bad and women don't love", Wen Jiajia thought, this is probably because bad men are difficult to control, like a mystery, while good men are too meek and reliable, lack of variables, and it is difficult for women to feel a sense of accomplishment. In this way, strictly speaking, Lao Zhong is probably the best of the bad guys, and Frank is definitely the new good guy. Therefore, on the issue of "women", Lao Zhong is always at a disadvantage, wandering among women, proud of his career and love; while Frank will hand over the fruits of victory to women after hard work, and together with his children and Together with the house, he even lost the real meaning of coming to the United States - to give up his prosperous domestic career just to fulfill a woman's ambition? !

But whether it is a good man or a bad man, there will be women who know how to appreciate it.For bad men, it is love and hate; for good men, it is love out of pity.The former are two extremes, and the latter is the play of maternal love. It can be seen that women are very malleable in their ability to "love". No wonder it is said that women take love as their career.Is it because women are extremely talented in love, coupled with acquired practical learning and skill strengthening, can they become immortals? How can a woman like Frank's ex-wife be considered a great fairy, who can make a man torment her like a ghost?

Wen Jiajia feels that her ability to deal with men is far inferior to that of Julie's mother.This is not because Julie's mother is superior in skills, but if it were Wen Jiajia, she would definitely feel that meeting Frank was a gift from God, and she would cherish it very much, so she would not be willing to kill him. But fate only arranges for Wen Jiajia to meet Lao Zhong when her father's life is at stake, so she is doomed to be a single and unmarried mother. Before Wen Jiajia stopped Frank's car, she never pre-planned his destination. At most, she just thought that he was also suffocated by the gloomy atmosphere she created, so she drove out for a drive to relax.

So Wen Jiajia never imagined that Frank could be such a good person, not to mention being abandoned by his ex-wife, and being used to the end by the other party to the best of his ability! It is really intolerable! The car stopped in front of a bridal shop, Frank pulled the handbrake and said, "Wait for me..." Wen Jiajia stopped him: "Wait, what are you doing here!" She couldn't believe that a man would be frustrated while choosing a wedding dress for the next woman, unless he had a split personality. Sure enough, Frank explained: "Helping her mother pick up the altered wedding dress, she is on a business trip for two days."

This is simply appalling, there is no lower limit to how good this man is! Wen Jiajia's eyes widened and she exclaimed, "Wow, let me tell you something about you, you're like an angel!! Wait, I'm going too, I want to see what she's wearing!" Frank's conscientiousness and Julie's mother's many evils made Wen Jiajia have a strong curiosity about this woman's aesthetics. Naturally, Frank didn't know what Wen Jiajia was planning. When he walked into the store, he was greeted by the staff who greeted him warmly. The clerk was a relatively neutral man, and the earrings on his ears added a bit of softness to him: "Hi, how can I help you?"

Then, the clerk noticed Wen Jiajia with her big belly, and said in an exaggerated tone: "Wo, con...gratulations, we have clothes that suit you...we can also make tailor-made clothes for you!" The professionalism of the clerk quickly kept him calm, and he quickly searched for a wedding dress that Wen Jiajia could wear in his mind. Wen Jiajia said politely, "Thank you, may I try?" The clerk hurriedly led the two into the fitting area, but Frank frowned first, expressing his puzzlement at Wen Jiajia's behavior. Wen Jiajia raised her chin: "What's the matter, I ran so far with you, can't I delay you for a few minutes? Besides, I'm here, it's okay to try on the wedding dress with me!"

Where is she running? It is clear that she is in the car and he is driving. Frank twitched the corners of his mouth, crying and laughing without saying a word. The clerk led them to a huge metal door, turned the wheel on it, and turned around and asked, "Are you ready?" The heavy metal door was slowly pulled open, and the first thing that caught the eye was a top-quality wedding dress that was shining enough to blind any dog's eyes, and it was covered with diamonds. Wen Jiajia was dazzled by it, but she knew she had nothing to do with it, so she muttered, "Diamonds... diamonds... who would wear diamonds on their body!"

The clerk quickly told Wen Jiajia that this wedding dress had already been booked, and then led them through the metal door very efficiently, and introduced Wen Jiajia two dresses that she could wear. "I picked two pieces for you, they are perfect! This one is for a wedding, and this one can be worn for a party." While talking, the clerk motioned for Frank to accompany Wen Jiajia to the fitting room. Frank was a little hesitant, but Wen Jiajia was generous, and said to him: "You can fetch clothes for your ex-wife, and pretend that my husband will die for a while!" Frank's "home service" varies from person to person, which makes Wen Jiajia extremely upset.

Frank was also silenced by Wen Jiajia, so he had no choice but to accompany her in, and sat on the chair in the corridor of the fitting room by himself, waiting for Wen Jiajia to get a result. In the fitting room, Wen Jiajia was in a dilemma. She liked both dresses very much.One long style and one short style, she can tell just by looking at them, and wearing them on her body will only give her extra points.But when she looked down at her belly, she decided to pick up the long one first. Before Wen Jiajia came out, she deliberately tied her hair up, put on some lipstick, and took a deep breath before she dared to go out, when she saw Frank's surprised expression.

Wen Jiajia felt a little unconfident, and consciously interpreted Frank's expression as "scared", and asked, "It's so ugly, isn't it?" Frank shook his head quickly, but he was not good at words. The clerk exaggeratedly said: "Oh, it's so beautiful, perfect! You should really thank God for giving you such a beautiful wife! Oh, wait, wait..." The clerk ran away for a while as he spoke, and quickly took back a Polaroid camera: "Our store's tradition is that every couple who visits here must leave a photo. Come, come closer..." Whether such a tradition really exists, Frank and Wen Jiajia don't know.But Wen Jiajia subconsciously believes that it must be rare to meet a pregnant bride like her, and it is worth a shot.

Frank stopped moving forward: "Maybe my wife can take better pictures alone." The clerk stopped, frowned at him, and pouted to express his dissatisfaction. Except in the professional field of medicine, Frank can't be expected to show any personal courage. At this time, he can only rely on others. Therefore, Wen Jiajia sighed secretly, walked over and took Frank's hand, smiled at the clerk, as if ready to enter the country at any time, and then said to Frank: "Smile, maybe I will never have the opportunity to wear a wedding dress in my life gone." Her gentle policy and self-pity made Frank put away all his refusal words. He stopped talking, put his arms around Wen Jiajia as if he was real, and smiled at the camera. The tacit understanding of this scene, absolutely no one will question its authenticity. "Perfect! So perfect!" the clerk repeated, flicking the photo that had slipped out of his Polaroid, as if in his career there had only been "somewhat perfect" and "very perfect." In the end, Frank explained why he came here: "I'm here to pick up Ms. Linda's wedding dress." The clerk handed the photo to Wen Jiajia: "Ok, Ok, please wait a moment, let me check. Oh...Linda...Linda? Oh, my God, Ms. Linda ordered that diamond wedding dress just now!" Wen Jiajia decided to completely hate the name "Linda" from today onwards. That night, Wen Jiajia was in a surprisingly good mood, which was the first time in recent days.She was leaning on the bed and fiddling with the wedding photo taken with Frank in her hand, no matter how she looked at it, she thought it was perfect. Ever since she followed Lao Zhong, Wen Jiajia knew clearly that she had given up her legal right to take wedding photos. Even if she deceived herself and dragged Lao Zhong to take photos, it was meaningless. Of course, she has also fantasized about taking wedding photos with her beloved man many times. Like every bride-to-be in the world, she cares about her figure even if it is not perfect.According to the clerk, the bride-to-be wants to show her most perfect side. This "perfection" of course includes perfect makeup, perfect figure, perfect wedding dress, and perfect husband. It's just that Wen Jiajia's experience is a bit different. First of all, her makeup is not perfect, but the result of rushing to work quickly. Secondly, her figure can already be called "the most perfect pregnant woman", and the big belly that is about to give birth makes her already thin figure even thinner. Thirdly, no matter how perfect a wedding dress is in this world, it will never appear on a pregnant woman's body. Its prerequisite must be to wear it on a model with bumps and convexities.This bulge naturally refers to the buttocks, not the abdomen, otherwise women would not try their best to tighten their lower abdomen in order to show a perfect figure. As for the fourth, he is naturally the perfect husband.This man is perfect, almost perfect and impeccable, which makes Wen Jiajia sometimes hate his good character.Just like most women's thoughts, they hope that their men will always treat them well. There is no lower limit for being good, but this individual is limited to themselves.So what Wen Jiajia hates is that this perfect husband is not her own. However, there was a woman who first got the "perfection" that other women dreamed of, but chose to abandon it.At this point, Wen Jiajia only thinks that Linda has evolved too much on the road of "love", and she will regret it sooner or later. Wen Jiajia was staring at the wedding photos so far, and was interrupted by a knock on the door after an unknown amount of time. Frank's voice came from the door: "Have you rested?" Wen Jiajia quickly put away the photo: "No, come in." Frank opened the door and came in with a bowl of soup in his hand and two dresses hanging on his arms. Under Wen Jiajia's questioning eyes, Frank handed over the soup first: "Winter melon pork ribs soup can relieve your edema." Wen Jiajia got up to pick it up, but Frank stopped her quickly and put a pillow under her feet, which could also relieve the edema.Relief of edema is what every pregnant woman needs. A pair of formulas immediately appeared in Wen Jiajia's mind: good man + good doctor = Frank, bad woman + money = Linda who threw husband.So in the duel with Linda, Frank must fail.This is probably the disadvantage of being rich. It changes the quality of a marriage and a woman. Seeing Wen Jiajia drinking the soup, Frank didn't leave, but stood in place in a bit of embarrassment.If she hadn't been familiar with his inner beauty, Wen Jiajia would have thought that she was about to be confessed. Wen Jiajia asked suspiciously: "What's wrong with you? What's on your arm?" Frank said embarrassedly: "Tomorrow is Julie's mother's wedding... Which of these two is better?" His embarrassment came from the fact that when his ex-wife remarried, what should he wear so as not to lose face of his ex-wife? Wen Jiajia almost spit out a mouthful of soup: "God, Frank, you are so cheap!!" Frank said: "I can see Julie tomorrow, I don't want her to see that I'm not in good spirits." It turned out that he was not because of his ex-wife's beauty, but because of his daughter's overly sensitive. Wen Jiajia stopped talking, looked at him for a while, and then said, "Open it and let me see." Frank unfolded the two dresses. Wen Jiajia looked up and down, as if analyzing which of the two works of art was real and which was fake, and finally got up and got out of bed, pulled one of them and went straight to the ironing board. Frank hurried to help: "I'll do it." Wen Jiajia also immediately put on the standard gesture of a teapot: "Sit down! Do you know what's wrong with you? You're just so nice! You're so nice! Do you understand that men are not bad and women don't love! Most Women are as cheap as you, and you can't tell good from bad, don't you know!" Wen Jiajia didn't know if she was talking about Linda or herself, but she was pointing fingers at Sang Huai. Frank was scolded stupid on the spot and dared not speak. If one person quarrels and the other doesn't cooperate, this kind of quarrel is bound to fail. Wen Jiajia's eyes were red, she sniffed, turned around to cover up and began to skillfully iron the clothes, the atmosphere in the room was silent to the end. It wasn't until Wen Jiajia calmed down a little that she worried, "What will you do after I leave? You can't just stay here forever." When a woman begins to worry about a man's prospects, it must be injected with emotional components. Frank said: "There are many houses in the United States, I just rent one." Then he pondered for a moment and asked, "What about you, what will you do after you give birth?" When a man starts to think about a woman's future, he must have added some thought. Wen Jiajia also said: "It's a big deal to go back to work." Then she patted her stomach: "We are fighting side by side, I can't starve him to death." In other words, this is a conversation between two unlucky people who have fallen to the bottom of their lives and the difficulties. Frank smiled helplessly: "Your temper is all in your mouth." Wen Jiajia no longer insisted: "Yes, boiled duck. This is very similar to Julie." Frank nodded: "Yes, she is as stubborn as you. But she is not as cheerful as you, she is too stubborn, she is like her mother, I am worried that they will quarrel together..." Wen Jiajia turned around and asked directly, "You want to give up custody, don't you?" Frank's tone seemed to be brainwashed by a lawyer: "Her mother can give her a little more." Wen Jiajia shouted: "Thanks to you being a father for so many years, what do you think children need?!" "Too much money" and "too little love"?Wen Jiajia can hardly imagine how twisted Julie's future growth path will be.At least Julie had a good father before, but now even this will be deprived of life. Julie may become more withdrawn, more autistic, and more cynical, which will carry over and affect her into adulthood. Frank sighed: "She will grow up, she will want to wear new clothes, buy designer bags, cosmetics. Even if she doesn't want anything, she will miss her mother. I have lived with her for so long, her mother is always busy, I It should be enough to bring her up since she was a baby." He can't give Julie a rich material life, which is Frank's most helpless point. His decision is equivalent to making up for this, but at the same time it kills Julie's spiritual life. Wen Jiajia said in a bad tone: "Let me tell you, I have the most say in this matter. The clothes and designer bags you are talking about are bullshit! You should at least ask Julie who to choose." At this moment, Wen Jiajia seemed to be able to see another self in Julie's future, the self who was tormented by emptiness and was going crazy. Frank said: "I'm afraid I won't be able to walk if Julie opens her mouth..." As he spoke, his eye circles were also red. Wen Jiajia was speechless, she didn't know what to say at this moment, and she couldn't bear to rub salt on his wound, so she had to turn around. After a while, Wen Jiajia handed the ironed clothes to Frank, forced a smile and said, "Here, shave and give Julie a handsome dad tomorrow." Linda dresses well because of her second husband, while Frank strives to be as good as he can be, but it's because of his daughter's face. Although helpless, this was probably the only thing he could do for Julie. That night, both Frank and Wen Jiajia had difficulty falling asleep. They were in their respective rooms looking at the night scene outside the window, with complicated thoughts. Frank is a little tense, but this is definitely not because of the loss of his ex-wife Linda's remarriage. It is more due to how he should play the role of a father and a friend tomorrow. Since the relationship between him and Linda has faded, they both have the consciousness to part ways and find happiness again.But at this point, Linda is obviously very well-rounded, and she always knows what she wants, what she wants, and what she wants to improve her status. Frank, on the other hand, is as easy-going as plain water that fits in any container. It's just that this glass of boiled water doesn't know that even if he is uninteresting, someone will care about him.For example Wen Jiajia. Wen Jiajia couldn't sleep because of the wedding the next day, but there was an essential difference between her excitement and Frank's nervousness. Wen Jiajia is used to taking the initiative, even going out of her way. Her life has always been wonderful, and she doesn't need any additives to have enough color, fragrance and taste.So her life is like a taste bud soaked in takeaway food all the year round, often experiencing taste disorders due to changing tastes, and always lacking a glass of boiled water to moisten her throat. Frank is this glass of water, but it is a pity that now this glass of water is too busy to take care of itself, and it emits a slight bitter taste, which makes Wen Jiajia really want to help this glass of water regain its clarity. With such an idea, Wen Jiajia couldn't lie down anymore.She clumsily got up from the bed, found out the paper and pen, just as carefully and meticulously as she made the plan to hook up with Lao Zhong back then, and drew a detailed diagram of the relationship between the characters on the paper, as well as a personality analysis.The next step is to target the opponent's weakness and seek a breakthrough to defeat the opponent. Wen Jiajia thinks her plan is flawless.