Chapter 12 Chapter 10 Conversations Between Couples

"Section Head, your wife is here." The deputy head of the class, Imai Tsuyoshi, leaned over and whispered in Ohara's ear, and Saeko's figure had already appeared in the office. "Hey, hey, is my dad there?" Saeko's tongue seemed to be half-shorted, and a delicate tone came out from her nasal cavity.Whenever Ohara heard this sentence, he always felt it was an unbearable humiliation. Even Imai, who has become his confidant, sees Saeko's carefree look, with contempt and dissatisfaction in his eyes.What's more, the colleagues in the company are not happy that they have climbed this noble family. They don't know how to look at themselves, but they only feel a thorn in their backs.But no matter how unbearable the humiliation was, it had to be endured.This is the price that must be paid to seek "world".No, even if you can't win the world, it's not bad to be able to climb to a considerable high position.At that time, all the hard work will be rewarded, and all the humiliation will be washed away.Only then will Saeko, a woman, understand the weight of the word "company".Ever since he recognized Ogata Daisaburo, who is the most popular heir to the manager in the Ogata family that holds the power of Nippon Kasei Corporation, as his father-in-law, he has almost regarded the company as his own home, and regarded the employees as the servants of the family. .

Saeko's natural beauty made her even more arrogant.The demeanor of swaggering in the company is like a proud peacock.But this Saeko immediately took a fancy to Ohara.Ohara, a nerd, has top-notch attendance records in the company, and he has nothing to say in terms of education and family status.Saeko's parents originally wanted to find a son-in-law who was the director's son in a first-class company, so they did not object to her choice, and of course agreed to Ohara's marriage.Saeko was originally a proud princess with a golden job.The marriage was settled without a hitch. As soon as he got married, Ohara was promoted from the sales chief of the fertilizer department to the chief of the gunpowder sales department in charge of selling various industrial explosives.Nippon Kasei Corporation's business scope is very large, from explosives, plastics, raw materials, caustic soda to chlorides, fertilizers, synthetic resins and other chemical products; among them, gunpowder products account for 60% of the company's sales, which is a major product, accounting for The largest proportion.Ohara has entered this heart department, and his age is only about to "stand".Became the head of the class at the age of twenty-eight, which is a leap forward promotion.In most companies such a promotion is impossible without a considerable contribution to the business.

Nippon Kasei Corporation is a company ruled by a blood family, which means that the company's "royal family" directly participates in the company's "royal family" and is closely connected with the "royal family".It can also be said that Ohara has acquired the status of "royal family". However, this is naturally opposed by the staff, while other colleagues have to climb up the high, long and dizzying ladder step by step along the high, long and dizzying ladder of seniority and business contribution.Seeing Ohara's leap, their eyes showed jealousy and disgust.But since he has become a member of the Ogata family and is the son-in-law of the alternate manager, he is worth a lot, so all these resistances are useless.Moreover, all this was brought about by Saeko, no matter how much humiliation he had to endure, he could never be contemptuous of his wife.Although he was dissatisfied with his wife in his heart, he didn't dare to express his anger. He looked like he was afraid of guilt and catered to his wife in everything.

After work, as long as there is nothing special to do, Ohara always goes straight back to Nakano Nakakai's house.Saeko's father also paid for the construction of this mansion.Not only the house, but also the furniture and daily furnishings were purchased by the Ogata family, so Ohara came here naked.It turns out that there is a common saying in society, "a wife who brings only one package", which is applied to Ohara. On the contrary, it is "a son-in-law who only brings one package". The wife still uses the surname Ohara, but this kind of marriage is self-evident, and the man is almost deprived of the right to speak.After Ohara left the company, he went home immediately, not because of the attractiveness of this small family, but because he was "trained" to be like this.

When he got home, the exquisite style of the house far exceeded his status as a mid-level employee.The lawn in the garden is covered with velvet-like fine grass; the iron plate of his surname is nailed on the doorpost; when you walk into the house, you will find a house that is too spacious for young couples, color TV sets, air conditioners and other large electrical products, until There was a small pen on the study table that was supposed to be prepared for him, all of which had nothing to do with Ohara.All in all, until the small items he uses belong to Saeko, and he can only use them with Saeko's consent.Although the house owner's surname is Ohara on the door plate, under the control of the owner (Saeko), everything in the house is treated like a diner, not close to Ohara.

How can you be so heartbroken towards this kind of family?For men, home is a haven of rest.However, it is difficult for Ohara to find a chance to take a breather in this family.To put it harshly, it can also be said that the only place where I can be free is the time when I take the train back and forth between the company and my home.Ordinary employees, in addition to non-stop hard labor, can only catch a little breath on the tram to and from get off work. Only then did he truly realize that during the most precious time of Ohara's life, he was as thirsty as if he had crossed a deserted desert, so he recalled the time when he abandoned Kasumi and bid farewell to the life of ordinary employees. Set foot on the road of life struggle.This is a tough and muddy road, just like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat, and you can't stop even if you want to stop.We have to be like pawns crossing the river, striving forward, there is no room for retreat or compromise.Wasn't this precipitous path chosen by him?Therefore, it is not allowed for him to rest his feet and take a rest.

As a result, he lost his right to rest forever. However, it is impossible for a person to be in such continuous tension forever.He gradually realized that he was losing precious things.But it's too late now, it's irreversible.He embarked on a road of no return.He has no choice but to force himself to ignore the value of what he has lost. Let's start with a cup of tea. On a weekend night, the couple sat by the fire in the dining room, watching TV in such a good mood for a long time. "I want to drink some tea." Ohara muttered inadvertently.The words were indeed spoken unintentionally, not because they were thirsty and wanted to drink tea.He picked up the small teapot on the stove, felt that the teapot was very light, and blurted out.

"Liangzi!" Saeko shouted.Ryoko is a servant girl.There was only a young couple, and they didn't have any housework, so they had to hire a servant, but Saeko said that Ohara was not at home, and she felt deserted by being alone, so she had to hire someone. At that time, it was past ten o'clock, and Ryoko went back to her sleeping place. "You don't need to call Liangzi for a cup of tea." Ohara said with a pleasant face.It was an affected expression, though, but one that had become so familiar lately that it seemed like it was part of his nature. "So, you want me to pour the tea!?" As soon as the words fell, Sae's thin voice yelled, and Matsuya's atmosphere suddenly became quite tense.Ohara asked at this moment, unable to understand the reason for Saeko's sudden anger, he stared at his wife dumbfounded.

"Oh, it's just a cup of tea, is it worth it?" "That's why she was hired!" "Isn't it enough to light the gas fire?" "Then listen to me," Saeko's face suddenly changed. "You just want to drink a cup of tea, but for me, this TV show is interrupted. You love to watch this show, and I also love to watch it. Let's drink tea." "Okay. Don't talk about it." "No, I can't. It was the most exciting time on TV just now, and you just took this opportunity to make things difficult for me." "I didn't think so."

"No, you can't be considerate at all, so you don't care about the situation, so you just send people to do things." Ohara thought: "Speaking of conscience, please do something decent, today is the first time!" However, this sentence can only be swallowed.You can't talk back to Saeko, this is also the result of learning to endure through setbacks, and it is also a manifestation of incompetence. "It's just a cup of tea, and it's been brewed long ago during the time of the fire. And there's a lot of complaints, saying it's out of date, and it's not considerate, saying this A lot of nonsense, the best content on TV has already been played on the screen. For the staff, this time on weekend nights is the most precious. Ignoring this prime time, the wife finds fault with her husband , Do you still look like a wife? Isn’t it you who said you were inconsiderate?” Ohara retorted in his heart.

However, it would be better to say that Ohara is the biggest fool.It's just asking for a cup of tea, and you have to put on airs to be poured. Isn't this just asking for trouble? "I'm sorry, I'll just pay attention next time, don't be upset, just watch TV, it's almost over." Ohara said humbly. Saeko stood up sullenly, and after a while, filled the pot with boiling water and came back.As soon as he poured boiling water into the teapot, he immediately poured the water from this teapot into Ohara's teacup, which still had a little tea left.During the operation, Saeko never said a word. "Thank you." Ohara wanted to break the deadlock, and thanked him affectionately, but Saeko's resentful expression hadn't thawed yet.The tea that is poured from the kettle into the teapot and poured out immediately is as bland and tasteless as plain water.Ohara sipped his tea with relish, and couldn't help but compare it with the tea Kasumi brewed in Harajuku's apartment in the past. ——If Kasumi...would have brewed the tea before she said she wanted it.I am very picky about drinking tea.But she was very thoughtful and specially called the well water to make tea.When it is cold, warm the teapot and cups with water in advance.In order to let the tea brew out the taste, it is always brewed a second time.It's just a cup of tea, but it's filled with feminine tenderness and sincerity.Men can go to work with all their strength.After work, in order to relax the tense nerves of the whole body, it feels like immersing the whole body in warm water and being rubbed.That's all he asked for.Originally, a man's rest is also based on a woman's gentle service; Kasumi always regards being able to serve a man as her greatest pleasure.She said: "I am an old-fashioned woman." As a woman, she worked hard to serve, and it was her greatest pleasure to remove the armor wrapped around the body and mind of a man and stretch it freely. —— "Xiangcheng heard that I wanted to drink tea, she will definitely feel bad for her negligence." Ohara drank the tea made by Saeko and had a strong smell of tap water bleaching powder. Suddenly, he felt that he had abandoned the irreplaceable and most precious thing. thing. At the end of March, Daxiong returned to Tokyo.It was in mid-April last year when I went to Kiyosato on a business trip, and it took me nearly a year to come back. Early in the morning, I took the morning train in Kiyosato to Kobuchizawa Station, then changed to an express train and arrived at the noisy Shinjuku. It was already afternoon when I got off.Stepping from the quiet plateau at the foot of Yatsugatake to the bustling big city, I feel dizzy.Maybe it's because of a year of lonely life, I couldn't restrain the excitement in my heart. "I'm still from the city!" Daxi murmured as he walked into the underground passage with the crowds from the train. I am used to seeing the leisurely and indifferent expressions of the people in the countryside, and inadvertently feel that the expressions of the bustling people are a bit serious, but I feel familiar and close.People's brows and eyes are stiff and severe due to the tense life, but the clothes are gorgeous and colorful.Crowds mingled with noise, light, and dust in dizzying eddies.This is the big city. Over the past year, Onishi has been trapped on the desolate plateau, busy developing undisclosed weapons, and he seems to feel that the loneliness of this year is irreparable. "Never." He shook his head, as if trying to get rid of the restlessness that sprouted in his heart.He was a little hesitant about going straight to the company, or going back to his home on Omiya Street for the time being.It's not that I have to go to the company today. The wife I haven't seen for a year and the child born last year who haven't seen each other are waiting at home.To go home, go through the underground passage to the platform of the Keio Line; to go to the company, turn to the state-owned tram platform in the middle of the underground passage.Onishi couldn't make up his mind.The faces of my own child, Manager Ogata, and Director Ono that I saw in the photo overlapped before my eyes.At this moment, there was a rumbling sound above my head. It may be that the Yamate or Chuo Line state-operated trams came into the station. —never! ——This is the voice from Onishi's heart, although it is the same as before murmured, but it confirms that his year's hard work has not been in vain.After his mood stabilized, he walked onto the state-run tram station, cast a somewhat nostalgic glance in the direction of his home, Suginami, and took the tram on the Chuo Line to the company. It was almost eleven o'clock at night when Onishi returned to his home on Omiya Street.For safety's sake, the barking sound of the purebred German shepherd dog made Xiangzi walk out of the gate to meet her husband.Although I knew in advance that my husband would be back today, I was still very excited when my husband appeared in front of me. "You're back." It's been a long time since I said this, and my voice seemed hoarse.Originally, she wanted to behave calmly in front of her husband, but in front of her husband whom she hadn't seen for a long time, the young wife couldn't help being agitated. "I'm back." Daxi's voice couldn't help but look a little unnatural. When young couples reunite after a long separation, they are not very affectionate at first, but rather shy. "Why is it so late?" Shoko said while taking the not-too-heavy carry-on luggage from Onishi.At this time, there seemed to be the sound of the car sent by the company returning. "I went to the company to report, and met with the manager and the executive one by one, so it was late." "Have you been to the company?" Xiangzi's voice was clearly dissatisfied.This husband, who was regarded as a treasure by the company, had to think of the company first in everything.Even so, it's over if you call the company.No wonder being a wife feels unhappy.Onishi didn't hear Xiangzi's complaint, and Xiangzi didn't want him to realize his unhappiness. "have you eaten yet?" "I've eaten. It's a treat for the manager and executives. However, in that kind of scene, I don't seem to be full. Is there anything to eat? Hey, where's Kenichi?" Onishi seemed to casually mention the last sentence.Kenichi is the name of the child Xiangzi gave birth to last year.Onishi seemed a little apprehensive about what his father should say first, so he said it by the way.Xiangzi also heard the man's shy mood, and couldn't help smiling.Onishi also had this kind of demeanor in the past. "He's already fast asleep, do you want to see him now?" "That's right, this is the first time father and son have met!" Daxi smiled shyly. "This way." Xiangzi was about to take Onishi to Kenichi's bedroom when he suddenly felt that Onishi's warm breath approached the back of her neck.Turning around, Onishi happened to hold Xiangzi's cheeks with both hands, and kissed him passionately naturally.Shoko's tongue was sucked into Onishi's mouth almost torn apart.After a while, I heard Daxi whispering in my ear: "Is your body fully recovered?" Xiangzi realized the meaning of these words, and couldn't help blushing with shame. "Now we finally have enough time, don't we?" Xiangzi's long-lost love for her husband was rekindled in Xiangzi's heart.In a small adjacent room separated by a paper window, the sound of healthy and even breathing of children came; and the sound of male and female sex broke the surrounding tranquility.That kind of indulgent attitude, recalling it later, really makes people feel ashamed... Even though he has withdrawn from the joy and doesn't want to move, he is still intoxicated by the pleasure just now.That's why Xiangzi's voice carried a feminine shyness. "No, it's a pity that I can only stay for two or three days." On the contrary, Onishi's answer was cold.It wasn't that Daxi's voice was cold, but that there was an empty timbre in it, and Xiangzi felt a chill when he heard it. "Only two or three days?" Xiangzi didn't want to hide his dissatisfaction this time. "I'm so sorry." Onishi said apologetically. "I came to Tokyo this time to discuss some technical issues, and I will go back immediately after the matter is over." Onishi's words made Xiangzi suddenly feel a constriction in his heart. He said "come to Tokyo" and "go back" in his words. Going back to his home means "coming to Tokyo", but going to the desolate Yatsugatake plateau where there is no home is actually "going back".Daxi's words were said unintentionally, and because it was unintentional, it also revealed that the root of his life is not here.So, what position does Kenichi and I occupy in his heart?Questions are like cold water waves, swaying in her heart.At this time, Xiangzi's body intoxicated with joy seemed to have fallen into an ice cave.He heard the even snorting sound of his own child in his ears, and he couldn't help but become alert to himself who was indulging in joy, from the shyness of a woman to the guilt of being a mother. "Okay, don't do this." Xiangzi gently pressed her husband's hand that was kneading her, and pushed his hand away suddenly. Onishi, who is on fire for the second time, is surprised by his wife's sudden attitude.But it was still explained that this was his wife's concern and kindness, and it was to let him rest earlier. "Should I get up early tomorrow?" Xiangzi tried to speak softly, not wanting her husband to peek into her thoughts. "Not afraid." Daxi's tone was also unquestionable.This time, Xiangzi only felt a shudder which was quite different from the previous time. "You can come back a little earlier today." The next morning, the couple hadn't had breakfast together for a long time.After breakfast, Onishi said flatteringly to his wife. "Can't you take a day off today?" Xiangzi said expressionlessly. It's rare for Onishi to go back to Tokyo, and it's not impossible to take a break. The company always gives three or four days off.However, he is not an ordinary employee. The products he develops are related to the future of the company. Of course, it is impossible for ordinary employees to have the opportunity to take a leisurely vacation.Even if the company grants leave, he will never approve it in his heart.This is what distinguishes him from ordinary people.But it's useless to Xiangzi. Women are self-centered animals. In her mind, everything regards this family as a small universe, but it can't tolerate the man's magnificent and magnificent ideals and the ever-changing time. Bureau.If you don't revolve around this universe, the woman will feel the boss's unhappiness in her heart. "I can't rest. There are still many things waiting for me to discuss." "That's right." Xiangzi replied feebly.It's not a disappointment with a heartless husband, it's a voice that has lost interest.It was the emotionless voice of men whose professions are monotonous, as we hear telephone operators and telegraph receivers. "Kenichi still awake?" "Just finished breastfeeding and fell asleep again. Don't wake him up." Seeing that Daxi wanted to see the child before leaving home for work, Xiangzi thought to himself: Whether the child wakes up or puts him to sleep, it's all on my hands I have worked hard, even though it is the first time he has seen the child in a year, I have half the right not to let the child see him. Onishi felt dissatisfaction in his wife's words.How can it become so tough?It wasn't like that when I got home last night.When did it become like this?Is it the wife's unbridled frankness with her husband?Or does the superficial tenderness conceal the true character deep inside?There is an "antenna" between husband and wife that is unknown to outsiders, and only two people can sense each other. Although they cover up each other, they can still feel it through this "antenna".It is through this "antenna" that Onishi feels the subtle changes in Xiangzi's emotions.When did this change start?What caused her to change so much in such a short time since she went home last night? What's more, I only came back after going out for a year, and I have to leave this home soon. I don't know when I will come back, and I won't stay at home for a long time. In such a short and precious time, I can't let my husband get comfort and comfort. It's really "unpredictable women's hearts in the world"!Onishi stared straight at his wife, wearing a very fitting and cute kimono with small navy blue patterns, looking dignified and generous.It was as if she was a different person from last night's charming attitude.However, this is an ice-cold temperament.Daxi only felt a burst of resentment in his heart, he stood up abruptly, hurriedly walked towards Kenichi's bedroom, and picked up the sleeping child violently.The child, who was sleeping very peacefully, was suddenly treated roughly, with a wow, his limbs tightened, and he burst into tears with a high-pitched voice unique to babies. "You—" Xiangzi's lips quivered as he wanted to say something, but seeing Daxi's stern expression, he swallowed the words again. This was not the kindness that a young father with a child in his arms should have, but the gesture of an estranged relative who wants to confirm that he has half the rights. Seeing this scene, Xiangzi looked at him reproachfully. Three days later, Xiangzi took Kenichi in his arms and sent her husband to Shinjuku.Except for the extra Kenichi in his arms, his mood was almost exactly the same as when he sent Onishi last year. "Then, please take care of Kenichi. If there is anything, please let me know immediately." What I said at the car window last year was to tell me to be careful that I was pregnant with Kenichi, but today it was changed to tell me to be careful about Kenichi.After a while, after the train has left, I will probably feel the same feeling of ease and loneliness that parting from my husband brings. "You have to take care of yourself." Xiangzi said, and at the same time realized that this confession was also made at this time last year. "Do you still love me?" I have said all the parting words, just waiting for the train to start. At this time, it is the most difficult time for both the sender and the sender. Window's husband asked in his heart. "Do you still love me after all?" Daxi's eyes clearly asked. "I had amniotic fluid in the early prenatal period, and I had a laparotomy before I gave birth to Kenichi. At that time, you didn't come either. At the difficult time when I risked my life to keep Kenichi, you were keen on your own research. Fortunately, both mother and child Safe and sound, what are you going to do if, either of us, no, if both of us are unlucky? Is your love, as you said, true and unswerving? A man's work Is it that important?" "Even if I come back, it won't help. If I were a doctor, it would be another matter. I am a complete layman in this field. What can I do if I want to save you? In that case, apart from trust and communication There is no other way but to entrust it to the doctor. Moreover, when I was notified, the operation had already begun. If I had arrived immediately after receiving the notification, if something happened, I would still have nothing to do..." "Ah, you see things so simply! It is true that you are not a doctor, and you are powerless in medicine. But for a woman, it is completely different whether her husband is by her side when her life is dying. No. In my wife’s heart, there is only the husband’s place. No matter if it’s a brother or sister, or a doctor, it can’t be replaced. This place can only be reserved for the husband. When a woman’s life is in danger, the husband will definitely stay in my heart But you don’t come to see me. This is equivalent to giving up your right to occupy this position. From then on, you also lost your position in my heart. It’s not me, but you who abandoned it.” "You sound like a ignorant schoolgirl when you say these sentimental things. You know how intense men's work is. It's a ruthless job, without a single trace of personal emotion. A man does his job to do his job. So it should be above all else. My work is also beneficial to myself, creating a bright future for myself. You are my wife, please understand my heart." "I really don't understand that no matter how stressful and busy a man's work is, he is still a human being in the final analysis. I think no matter how hard he is, he will never lose his humanity." "It's not unkind to do that, it's rational. If I were a doctor, I'd drop everything and come back; but it's not worth giving up work just to take that place in your heart. I I want you to understand me, I am medically useless whether I am on the sidelines or not. Wouldn't it be a shame on a woman as a wife to let a husband lose his job just to feed his sentimental heart ?" "Say I'm sentimental? Is a wife who's wrestling with death not allowed to call her husband to her? Oh, I'm not one of those brave women, what a wretch I am if my husband isn't by my side A weak woman who can't stand it. However, well, no matter what happens in the future, I will never call you again, and I will never disturb your work. I am the wife of Daxiong Xiong. Since you think it is reasonable to do so, I You just have to change your mind to adapt.” "No, no, no, the tension of my work, and the male loneliness brought about by the work, all of which I hope the wife will give me gentle comfort. If you are as calm and sensible as I am, That couple is just in name, the relationship between the two is blunt and stagnant, there is no tenderness between husband and wife at all." "It's better to be a wife than a husband and wife? No matter what you men do or think, you must ask your wife to endure it docilely. This is the wife you want to talk about." "No, that's not what I meant." "It's so sad. This kind of thinking is clearly treating the wife as a doll for the husband." "No, please understand my work and give gentle caress to my tired body and mind. That's all I want." "As a wife, I also want to be caressed by my husband. As a wife, this feeling is even stronger." The two started a dialogue in their hearts through the car window, and this question-and-answer voice would continue indefinitely.They are looking for each other, and no one will give in.Therefore, both parties cannot reach an agreement, and the heart cannot be close to each other.As long as the train doesn't run, this inner conversation will go on endlessly. The starting bell finally rang.Both of them couldn't help feeling that their conversation was finally over. "Goodbye." At the car window, Daxi forced a smile, stood up and pulled down the car window.The falling car window completely cut off the lingering rhyme of the conversation between the two.It was also the sound that separated their hearts. "Only work is on my mind," said the one who had gone to himself. "I only have my child in my heart." The remaining child put his face in his arms. Summarizing the various thoughts in the hearts of the Onishi couple, it can be said that only these thoughts are the same. What does it mean to be married?From countless courtship men and women in the world who are likely to become spouses, a man and a woman who meet by chance are selected, and they become husband and wife.Such a marriage is not an easy thing to succeed.However, why do men and women who are united by such deep emotions often have many tragedies of divorce and separation?Even if there is no such obvious tragedy, there are more people who are enduring a family life that is dissatisfied with each other and has no warmth at all?If the marriage was formed by someone else's blind date, let's not talk about it for the time being.It is precisely that the two parties who chose the object only believed at the time: "I love only him (her)", but the enthusiasm after marriage will cool down at an astonishing speed.On what grounds do they firmly believe that their lover can only be him (her)?What is the basis for this judgment?When they meet and fall in love, when they are chosen as lifelong partners, they will feel "destined" for each other, and they will not doubt their own eyesight in choosing a lover, but as time goes by, they regret that their own eyesight is not good enough. Relying on one's own observation ability, choosing a lifelong partner, hand in hand on the road of life, loving each other, and forming a happy couple is not uncommon, but there are very few of them. There are countless men and women in the world, and their desires are endless. Among unmarried men and women of the right age, there is the possibility of combining with each other, but after all, they cannot try one by one before combining.Therefore, no one can assert that he (she) is the only one in the world for me.If there is such a person, it is the nonsense that this person said when his love for his lover reached a hundred degrees in a period of time.Some people who can say "I don't belong to you, I don't marry you, I can die for you" and so on, may not be long before they will say those stupid words to another object with the same enthusiasm. Therefore, even if it can be called a happy couple, it cannot be said that he (she) is the only one in the world who can be her husband (wife), and she has full confidence in this; Seventy to eighty percent of self-confidence, and then gradually rose to one hundred percent. No one is perfect.People of different genders, through the life of a couple, as the most delicate contact, become the closest couple for such a long time in the future.However, the shortcomings of the other party are often exposed after marriage, but there are also many couples who are reluctantly married for various reasons.So he (she) also began to doubt their original vision.This is also caused by comparing with all the opposite sex objects around only in appearance. And those happy couples know this very well.They are satisfied with 80% of the objects, and feel at ease that they are 100% perfect.That is to say, they understand that even if they are asked to search for a suitable object in the world, there is no such thing as the only person who suits them, that is, a person who is 100% compatible with their temperament.In real life, it is very difficult to get a lifelong companion, with 70% to 80% like-mindedness. In short, in love, you can only make such identification and observation with your own eyes.However, does this depend entirely on your own vision and discernment in choosing a mate?What's more, this kind of vision is also different from person to person! No, this is not just relying on one's own eyesight, there are also many accidents.Unmarried men and women who are not deeply involved in the world will not have a big difference in their vision of seeking a lover. Whether they can meet a lover who likes them is also a kind of chance.When you reach the age of first love, you will often fall in love with the first opposite sex who appears in front of you.The so-called love is just a kind of feeling that mistakenly believes that he (she) is the only lover among countless opposite sexes. If you happen to meet that kind of 70% or 80% object (subjective opinion), then you are considered to have good eyesight.If you can't reach this percentage, you have poor eyesight.In short, the only lover is just the opposite sex who first appeared in front of him.Or there is a second or third chance, which is just to choose the object from the numerous opposite sexes in order, and there are more chances.Whether it's love or love, to put it a bit more exaggerated, it's just admiration for the first person you meet.Others mistakenly think that love is nothing more than a temporary physical desire between a man and a woman. If the luck is good, you will find 70% to 80% of the lovers who are like-minded among the first encounters; if the luck is bad, you will miss the opportunity to buy important things in your life.In other words, it is not by eyesight, but by luck.Whether your luck is good or bad, it is the same as buying things, you will only know after you buy it (after you choose your hand).So under what circumstances can it be said that you have purchased a satisfactory large item, and can you say that you have found a lover who is 70 to 80% like-minded?Onishi thought about it in this way, thinking that this is what people in society often call "fate".Those who are predestined can direct all dissatisfaction and misunderstandings to good intentions; for those who are not predestined, even a small misunderstanding will accumulate evil and eventually lead to a great tragedy.As for the love of the flesh at the beginning of the relationship (this is a misunderstood love), it cannot be regarded as predestined relationship at all. The breakup and divorce of the couple cannot be blamed on any one party, mainly because there is no fate.After the newlyweds, disgust, resentment, indifference, and even murderous intent gradually arise from the gluey relationship between husband and wife, and all kinds of bad feelings will emerge without shame.It's not that they didn't have vision when they first chose the partner, but that they were unlucky, that is, they didn't have fate. However, Xiangzi thinks it is like the cogs on a machine, the matching between the hearts of husband and wife is not as correct as cogs.If a few teeth cannot mesh, it can still be turned.It didn't fit well at first, but I could barely turn it.But in the end, the inability to rotate was caused by the part that could not mesh at the beginning.Being able to mesh at the beginning is what we call fate, and it can run smoothly, and it can still run to the end if garbage is brought in during operation.In the gears that are meshed correctly, even if some foreign objects are entrained, they can still operate as usual. This is the relationship between husband and wife.美满的夫妻也正如啮合正确的齿轮。而我们却是没有缘份的。