Chapter 33 Scene 31 Bisexual love

The woman wanted to see her face more clearly, so she reached out and wiped the water vapor off the mirror.This is the fourth time she has looked in the mirror tonight.She toweled herself dry as she examined the fading pimple on her chin.She is twenty years old this year and still has acne.She thought, she must say goodbye to pimples quickly.As the woman hung up the towels on the radiator, she noticed that the carton of tampon swabs on the ledge was nearly empty.She couldn't help smiling. "Who's going to buy new swabs this month and come back and refill that box?" she thought.They both had their periods just over a week ago.What a coincidence, both of their periods always start at the same time.This time neither of them had time to put away the carton.The woman felt a tightness in her throat as she dusted the powder on her body.Even though they have been living together for a year, she still gets very excited every time she wants to have sex with her partner.She had been waiting for this moment all day today.And now, she could already feel the tremor between her legs.

The woman walked out of the steamy bathroom naked and walked to the warm and dry bedroom. Her female partner was already lying on the bed waiting for her.The female companion is ten years older than her and already has a young child, but she still maintains a very good figure. "How wonderful to lie with a woman!" she thought.A soft, smooth, submissive and obedient woman is much better than a muscular, impatient and selfish man. The woman got into bed and immediately embraced and kissed her companion.As they kissed, they moved their hands skillfully back and forth on each other, prodding and caressing gently everywhere.From time to time, the two took turns fondling each other's breasts, nipples, and gently stimulating each other's pubic hair.They kissed and licked all over each other heartily, and both of them repeated on each other what they most wanted each other to do on themselves.After a while, the young woman turned her face towards her older female partner's legs, then knelt on the female partner's face, bent down and began to lick the female partner's thighs and genitals.At this time, the woman is still raising her buttocks, trying to put her genitals in front of her partner's tongue, which is her favorite action.Whenever she wanted an orgasm, the action never let her down.The warm, moist tongue licked, touched her cock, and then gently rubbed against her clit, and the woman felt it was exactly what she'd been waiting for all day.Both women were on the brink of orgasm at this point, but both were willing to continue enjoying the state of excitement.Both want to go on like this for a few more minutes, never to climax like this.While both a woman and her partner know how wonderful oral sex can be, they seldom achieve orgasm with oral sex alone.

Finally, both of them reached the point where they were on the verge of breaking out.The woman changed her position and lay down next to her companion again.Although her concentration was temporarily interrupted, the woman immediately focused all her energy on experiencing orgasm from the moment they began to kiss each other deeply.They tasted each other's juices on each other's tongues, fingered each other's wet pussy lips, and rubbed each other's clitoris.They all know exactly what to do.The woman felt hot waves go through her chest, throat and face, and she saw the same reaction in her lover.Their breathing gradually turned into gasps, their pulses accelerated, and the voices from their throats became louder and more urgent.At that moment, they both fell into a wonderful dizziness, and they both reached orgasm almost at the same time.The whole day's anticipation finally came true.After the orgasm, they hugged each other as usual, and kept stroking each other's body tenderly with their hands.The woman wonders, as she falls into a deep sleep, how skilled the two have become at bringing each other to orgasm since they lived together!

Usually, they will take a short rest after making love, and they will only sleep for about 15 minutes each time.But today when the woman woke up, she found that she had slept for more than an hour.Her companion was still asleep, and it seemed cruel to wake her up at this time.However, women are already starting to feel a little restless.She had to get dressed and be on the other side of town within an hour.To be honest, there was no time for her to hesitate any longer, so she got up to get out of bed.The female companion also woke up immediately.Sleepily, she asked the woman to stay a little longer, and suggested that it would be all right to be a little late for the meeting.As she slid out of bed to find her clothes, the woman told her companion that she wished she had stayed longer, but she really didn't want to be late for three weeks in a row.

The woman walked into the bathroom, her older female companion complaining loudly behind her that she seemed to be out every night lately.Then, the girlfriend reminded her that when they first got together, they never went out alone with each other. "That was a year ago," the woman replied equally loudly.Later, however, she went back into the bedroom and reassured her companions that they would be back to normal when the exams were over, but she couldn't make any mistakes now. Before the woman went out, her female companion told her: "Don't come home too late." The woman promised that she would try her best, but she added that after the meeting, she might be taken for a drink.After speaking, the woman left home.

The woman who remained in the room also got out of bed at this moment and played some music.She was naked and walked aimlessly around the room.The notice on the bookshelf jumped into the eyes of the woman, and she felt a burst of fear. The letter told her to do a new pap smear tomorrow-abnormal cells?Will it be serious?The woman tried hard to let herself forget about the notice for a while, and she reached out to pick up the photo frame on the bookshelf.Inside are photos of her and her lover taken on vacation last summer.Both were very tanned and had been drinking, and both appeared to be in a very good mood.Next to that frame is a picture of her with her young son.The son is only ten years old this year, but she hasn't seen him for months.The father has insisted on caring for his son with his new partner since she and her current lover openly lived together.He also claimed not to let her see her son.What would happen to him if he knew that the child was not his?woman thought.She was almost sure the child wasn't his.He wasn't home then, and the baby was the result of a wild night in a hotel room with two men and a woman.Now recalling the scene of that night, the woman felt the familiar tremor between her legs again.Although she had only had an orgasm an hour ago, the feeling was reawakened now, and the woman knew she was going to masturbate again tonight.

While the older woman was thinking about the past, the younger woman got off the bus and walked into the restaurant.She was late, and she knew she shouldn't want to have sex before going out.But all day long she looked forward to an orgasm.The woman looked around, wondering if the man was still there.Although he had asked her out several times, today was their first real date.A woman doesn't want to deliberately cheat on her girlfriend, especially at this juncture.The woman's inability to see her son and the fact that she had abnormal cells in her cervix that required further testing were stressful for both of them.However, she was dating a man, which was different from dating another woman, and she didn't feel too strongly guilty about it.

A woman hasn't had sex with a man in over a year.In fact, because she is so content with her current gay relationship, she even begins to think that she doesn't want to have sex with men anymore.Women know they are bisexual from a very young age.As a child and adolescence, whenever she could, she would try to convince her female partner to undress and have sex with her.The woman also had sex with a man by chance when she was a teenager. At first, she was just out of heterosexual curiosity, but after she had a few intercourse experiences with men, the woman felt that she, too, could have fun.And what makes her most happy is the feeling that she can control a man during sex.Whether it is the boys she associates with at the beginning, or the many mature men she met later, they are more likely to be hooked than her female companions, easier to be controlled by her, and deceived by her, so women feel that they cannot respect from the bottom of their hearts those of the opposite sex.Also, men are clumsy and selfish in their sexual behavior.Every time she wants to have sex, she is almost 100% sure that he will help her orgasm if the partner is a woman, and when the partner is a man, if she wants to have an orgasm, she almost always has to do it at the end. At the critical moment, she has to do it herself, and she can only achieve her goal after stimulating herself.So, why did she come to this restaurant today to have a secret date with a man?Women really can't tell why.Perhaps she was looking forward to a new experience.Besides, this man is really attractive.At this time, someone at the dining table in the corner was waving at her.The woman also shook her hand and walked towards the dining table.

While the couple were having dinner in the restaurant, on the other side of town, the woman's partner was lying naked on the bed, having just orgasmed on her own.The woman got up and went to the living room to drink a bottle of wine, then listened to music and read, trying to relax herself, but she still felt restless.In the past few days, her young female companion has behaved abnormally, which makes her feel very upset.The woman suddenly started to look for the phone number of the bar.The bar where the female partner often goes with friends after every meeting.The woman called and asked someone in the store to call her girlfriends to answer the phone, because she planned to join them immediately.She had done the same thing before.But the person on the phone told her that neither her girlfriend nor her friends had been there.The woman tried to refocus on the book in her hand.They must have gone to another store, she thought.

It was not too late for the young woman to return home, but as soon as she entered the house, a questioning session ensued from her female companion.The young woman explained to her lover that after the party, friends suggested that they should try a different bar.Although the older woman finally believed her companion's explanation, when they went to bed, there was a strange atmosphere between them. In fact, the young woman did not sleep with the male partner that night.The two of them actually had sex a week later.After a few more weeks, their relationship became more and more intimate, just like when a woman thought she could only have sex with the same sex, at this time, she began to feel that she could only have sex with the opposite sex in the future.Women also find themselves increasingly wanting to spend more time with their male partners.Because of this, it also seemed increasingly difficult to keep the affair hidden from her gay lover.She could no longer justify herself to her girlfriend.On the other hand, she also felt guilty because her older female partner was worrying about many trivial matters in life, and instead of being able to help her, she brought her even more troubles.The female partner received a review of the pap smear, and as a result, other abnormal cells were found.As a result, the female partner fell into a state of tension again.She went for further tests and is waiting for the results.But the bad luck didn't stop there. Not only was she banned from seeing her son, she also lost a chance for a promotion because of rumors in the office that she was gay.

Gradually, the older woman began to suspect that her young lover was having another affair, and the two argued more and more.In one of the worst altercations, each accused the other of faking an orgasm.But even so, the older woman was never able to catch evidence that the female partner had found a new love. However, the last moment finally came when the young lover announced that she was pregnant.Upon hearing the news, the older woman at first tried to persuade her lover to raise the child with her, but the young lover insisted on moving out to live with the child's father. After this, stress and loneliness made the older woman seriously ill.She lost her job and started contemplating suicide.Just when she was at her worst, a woman met a man who had just been abandoned by his spouse and family.They listened to each other's stories of their misfortunes, and within a few weeks the two decided to live together.A year later, the woman gave birth to a daughter to the man.Not long after that, she had a hysterectomy.The operation was a success.Since then, she has lived a smooth life. The son born to the woman and her former spouse has grown up, and he comes to find his own mother.Unaffected by his homophobic father, the boy soon became part of his mother's family and developed a close relationship with his mother and half-sister.The woman was only in her sixties when she died. On average, she died young, but she still enjoyed 15 years of good life with her children and grandchildren. We have already shown how homosexual behavior helps men pursue reproductive success.Now, let's move on to the effect of the same behavior on women.Thanks to the previous explanation, we can explain it in a simpler and clearer way here.On the other hand, it's also because there's so much in common between male and female bisexuality, and so little difference between the two. What's more, even if the bisexual behavior of men and women is slightly different, the difference is only a difference of degree.For example, on average, there are fewer bisexual women than bisexual men in society as a whole.The same trend can be seen in many other animal societies.In all human societies, bisexual women are usually about one-third or half the number of bisexual men.In large industrially advanced societies about 6 percent of men are bisexual and about 2 to 3 percent of women are bisexual.In some human societies, while all men behave homosexually, only 30 to 50 percent of women behave homosexually.This discrepancy in numbers means that if we want to identify bisexual women from family histories, we should go "farther back" than when we were looking for bisexual men.However, the so-called "longer" here actually only refers to "one generation", that is, from about 1875 to about 1850 (the author defines "one generation" as 25 years). Not only are there fewer bisexual women than bisexual men, women also start homosexuality at a later age on average.Among bisexual women, only 50% had homosexual behavior before the age of 25; 77% had homosexual experience before the age of 30.Some bisexual women don't even begin their homosexual behavior until they are over 40. There is another difference between bisexual men and women: bisexual women do not have as many gay partners as bisexual men.About 22% of bisexual men have had more than ten homosexual partners in their lifetime; but the same situation can only be found in 4% of bisexual women.Likewise, lesbians are more likely than men to be in long-term one-on-one relationships.The most common pattern, as exemplified in this scenario, is that bisexual women switch to heterosexual relationships after being in homosexual relationships for one to three years.Female bisexuals, on the other hand, like the older woman in this scene, usually only enter into a regular homosexual relationship between two long-term heterosexual relationships. There are few differences between intersex people of both sexes, and relatively many important similarities between the two.For example, most women who act homosexually are actually bisexual.In any society, less than 1% of women are fully homosexual throughout their lives.In addition, 80% of the women who have homosexual behaviors are also the same as the two women in this scene, they will also behave heterosexual behaviors at the same time.There are bisexual women in all human societies, and their bisexual behavior is not only inherited, but also passed on to future generations.Besides this, like some of the other traits we have stated before, female intersex behavior is widespread in a wide variety of mammals, birds, and reptiles.In fact, there is even a species of lizard with only females and no males.The female lizard does not start laying eggs until another female lizard climbs on her back for pseudo-copulatory mating. There are many similarities between intersex people of both sexes, but few differences between the two.On this basis, we can make the same explanation for bisexual behavior in both sexes.As long as the reproductive outcomes of bisexual and heterosexual women are compared, it becomes clear that bisexual behavior does offer women a realistic and valid choice in terms of pursuing reproductive outcomes. Simply put, bisexual women have children earlier than heterosexual women, but they also face other greater risks: contracting diseases and premature loss of fertility.Female bisexuality, like male bisexuality, has the greatest absolute benefit when there are fewer people in society expressing it.Because of this, the proportion of bisexual women in all societies reflects a balance between the costs and benefits of such behaviour. We know more about the costs and benefits of bisexual women than we do about bisexual men.This is because it is easier for us to find out how many children a woman has had at various stages in her life than it is for men to check.Especially if the man has had many different partners.For example, as far as we know, four times as many bisexual women than heterosexual women have had children by age 20; and as many bisexual women have had children by age 25 , twice that of heterosexual women.For example, the woman in scene 31 gave birth to her first child at the age of 20, and then gave birth to her second child at the age of 31.However, bisexuals have fewer total children than heterosexuals during a woman's lifetime reproductive years.For example, according to a survey conducted in the United Kingdom in 1980, female bisexuals gave birth to an average of 1.6 children, while female heterosexuals gave birth to an average of 2.2 children.Compared with heterosexual women, bisexual women had children earlier but fewer overall, a trend that balanced the reproductive rates of bisexual and heterosexual women. As with the older women in this scenario, we briefly mentioned that bisexual women, despite having children earlier, tend to have fewer total children over their lifetimes, in part because disease may make them premature loss of reproductive capacity.Bisexual women are also at high risk of contracting STDs just like bisexual men.Bisexual women were more likely than heterosexual women to have a genital infection before age 20; they were more likely than heterosexual women to find abnormal cells in a pap smear before age 25.There is even data showing that bisexual women are more likely than heterosexual women to develop uterine cancer before the age of 30.But how much is the risk of contracting diseases like the ones mentioned above directly affected by bisexual behavior?We don't know for sure yet.For example, herpes, or venereal diseases such as genital warts, can be directly transmitted through sexual behavior between women of the same sex.But in addition, we can also explain the risk of infection caused by female bisexual behavior from other perspectives.This is what we will explain below. There are far fewer female bisexuals than male bisexuals, and evolutionary biologists have hypothesized about the fact that women gain less from bisexual behavior than men; or that women must be more bisexual than men Bisexual behavior pays more; or both (i.e. women both pay more for bisexual behavior and gain no more from it).But the reality is just the opposite of this assumption.Female bisexuals are not paying a greater price.For example, bisexual men are not only more likely than bisexual women to contract diseases, they are also more likely than bisexual women to experience violence from homophobic individuals.This may be because gay women are far less of a threat to straight women than gay men are to straight men. Taken together, we can conclude that since bisexual women do not pay more for their behavior, they must benefit more from bisexual behavior than bisexual men few.This is not a surprising conclusion.We have already said that men have to learn more sexual skills than women before adolescence.If both sexes can properly have homosexual experience during this period, it will help to acquire precocious sexual skills.This advantage is especially evident in men.However, if women don't actually need to learn as many of the early basic sexual skills as men do, what exactly does early homosexuality do for bisexual women?On this point, we must explain from the beginning. What women most need to learn from sex are the skills to get the most out of long-term partnerships.They especially need to learn the skills of finding an affair and cheating.At the same time, women must also know how to make good use of their orgasms, and try to control the overall situation in the sperm war as much as possible. The deception technique that women will need to engage in an affair is better for a woman than practicing it with a man first.Ideally, practice in long-term "one-on-one" partnerships with people of the same sex.This is one of the main features of lesbian behavior.A woman who can cheat a long-term partner of the same sex by secretly having an affair or fake an orgasm will find it easier for her to deceive a partner of the opposite sex.Once a woman has mastered the above-mentioned deception skills, she can get the most out of affairs such as affairs or mastering sperm wars, and the costs of these actions will be relatively reduced. The sooner bisexual women learn how to make good use of long-term relationships and how to lead the sperm wars, the sooner they learn how to use these abilities to their full potential.Bisexual women are fertilized by men just as many times in their lifetimes as heterosexual women.However, bisexual women were more likely than heterosexual women to have more than two male partners at the same time, or to have intercourse with two men within a short period of time (short enough to cause a sperm war). Not only are bisexual women often in charge of the sperm wars, but they also know how to control the amount of sperm and the outcome of the sperm wars (although we don't have specific data on this).In addition, bisexual women are more likely to masturbate than heterosexual women, and masturbate more frequently.Also because of this, female bisexuals have a stronger cervical filtering function; they are also more likely to reach orgasm during sexual intercourse with men.However, this relatively easy "mucus channel orgasm" will reduce the filtering function of the cervix. Orgasm is a woman's greatest weapon in the war against sperm.In fact, many of the responses women have during orgasm do not require a man to participate.Because the physical response to orgasm is easily learned from self-practice in lesbian relationships.These bodily responses even include various orgasms in heterosexual relationships, such as orgasms before, during or after sex.Because the stimulation that lesbians give each other during sex is very similar to the stimulation that men give to women during foreplay.The most common form of stimulation used by lesbians is touching or rubbing their genitals, especially the clitoris.Second, in order, techniques commonly used by lesbians include: stimulating and rubbing breasts, licking or sucking nipples, oral sex, squeezing and rubbing each other's genitals. For example, in some societies in Melanesia, lesbians only use their mouths and hands when having sex.But elsewhere, lesbians sometimes use objects to stimulate the clitoris or penetrate the vagina.The objects referred to here, in addition to the reindeer juvenile muscles used by women in Siberia, there are also bananas, sweet potatoes or wooden dildos used by women in other parts of the world.Of course, commercially available vibrators or dildos are also used in large advanced industrialized countries.However, penetration of the vagina with fingers or objects is less common among lesbian stimulation methods.A survey report conducted in the United States showed that only 3% of lesbians said that they often stimulate same-sex partners by penetrating during sex. As for the "success rate" of orgasm, women are more likely to reach orgasm when they are stimulated by the same sex than by the opposite sex. The success rate of the former is about twice that of the latter.Not only that, women of the same sex are more likely to give each other orgasms during each other's fertile periods.We have already introduced that scene 31-beginning is the most sexually active period of both women, which is exactly one week after the end of their menstruation.Their ovulation days may be on those days this month, so both women are fertile at this time. Interestingly, just as human lesbians experience peak orgasm during their fertile period, many female animal homosexuality also clusters around their fertile period.According to our studies with cows, mice, and guinea pigs, these females all like to climb on each other's backs during conception.Experiments have also proved that this kind of behavior is related to hormones. If the hormone content in animals is changed during the menstrual cycle, the period when animals climb each other's backs will also change, and even stop this behavior.On the other hand, when lesbians take the pill, their peak orgasms in the menstrual cycle disappear.This suggests that human women, like those animals, are motivated to orgasm with same-sex partners by their hormones, not their brains. It turns out that lesbianism is nothing more than a practice between women and people of the same sex in order for women to individually derive maximum benefit from long-term heterosexual partnerships.This is exactly what we have concluded about the interests of bisexual men.It's just that male bisexuals mainly practice with many women in order to obtain reproductive results.The difference between women and men is that even though they have more sex with more men, their reproductive success does not increase.Therefore, women have to resort to alternative means.In other words, they changed to a more careful and strategic way of choosing the men around them in order to get the most benefit from them.In this light, homosexual behavior can benefit bisexual women because they learn early on the ability to lead the sperm wars and take full advantage of long-term affairs.However, bisexual women, like bisexual men, carry higher risks from their reproductive strategies, such as diseases that predispose them to early death or shorten their reproductive years.So, in terms of reproductive outcomes, there isn't much difference between female bisexuals and female heterosexuals.It's just that the two achieve their results in different ways. There is another feature in scene 31 that we haven't mentioned until now.That is, when many women live together, they often start menstruating at the same time.Not just between lesbians, but between mothers and daughters, nuns, prisoners, nurses or schoolgirls, wherever they live together, it happens. In a series of extremely interesting experiments conducted in the United States in the early 1980s, women who participated in the experiments agreed to have another woman apply her armpit secretions under her nose every other day for several months.As a result, each volunteer's menstrual cycle became fairly consistent with the menstrual cycle of the woman who provided the discharge.This phenomenon suggests that there is a chemical in the underarm secretions that makes the menstrual cycles of two women who have lived together for a long time become very consistent. Recently, there has been a lot of opinion expressed as to whether this menstrual cycle variation is a real phenomenon.The latest survey shows that some studies have obtained the opposite results, and some women's menstrual cycles in the test groups have become consistent, while others have become completely different.But all the results are not by chance.A major factor in determining whether the menstrual cycles of the women tested would become consistent was how many women in the group were able to ovulate normally.Women in a group tend to have more consistent menstrual cycles if none of the women in the group are ovulating, especially if some of the women are taking birth control pills.And if most of the women in the group happen to be able to ovulate normally, the menstrual cycle of the women in the group will become completely different.This phenomenon seems to indicate that women's bodies are trying to stagger each other's ovulation periods as much as possible. The reason why this phenomenon exists is still unknown, but it may also be because a woman's body does not want a man to see her fertile period.If all the women in the same group are ovulating at the same time, even the most insensitive men must be able to sense the behavioral changes that come with this fertile period.And when a woman is alone, even if she has occasional changes in mood or behavior, it should not be difficult for her to hide these changes from her mate. Both women in scene 31 started their periods at the same time, which means that neither of them ovulated in recent months.And for women who lack a male partner, this is actually a very common response.When the young woman finds a male partner and begins heterosexual activity, we can predict that first she will start ovulating, and then her menstrual cycle will become completely different from her female partner.