Chapter 26 Scene 24 Alternative Mistakes

"Are you there?" The man gasped, propping his upper body with his arms on the woman. "Almost there," she replied mildly. "I thought I was almost there. But the feeling went away and never came back." The man slowly withdrew his penis and collapsed beside the woman, a little dejected. "I thought you'd be here when I arrived." The man was still panting, his tone mixed with disappointment and irritability. "No, really not. But I think it's very good. It feels so close to you." The two hugged each other as usual, each lost in thought.The man couldn't figure out what the problem was, and he really tried his best today.He'd put in a lot of foreplay, and she'd been turned on, no doubt about it.Maybe it's because she's not as wet as usual.But she was flushed with excitement.Just a few more seconds of stimulating her clit and she'll be there, he knows, she'll be there.She was interrupted as he penetrated his penis.The woman visibly cooled as the man got on his stomach and penetrated her with his penis.Her excitement dropped by level 20 in the blink of an eye.But the man still tried his best to help her regain that feeling.He prolongs the penetration as long as possible and delays the ejaculation as long as possible.Really, even though he knew by then that there was no getting back, he did his best.The man feels that the woman is not only no longer excited, but also begins to feel bored and impatient.In the end, he had to give up trying and concentrate on getting himself to ejaculate.A man wants a woman to show him that she had an orgasm before he ejaculated.Rather than saying that this kind of thinking is his ignorance of the facts, it is better to say that this is his fantasy full of expectations.Or it could be said that he wanted women to lie to him at all.

From a man's point of view, he thinks the problem is with the woman.About a year ago he had an affair with a young girl.The girl can orgasm almost every time, even if he only gives her a little foreplay, and as long as she doesn't ejaculate too quickly, she can have an orgasm.It was as simple as that, and his spouse rarely had an orgasm during intercourse.If he's lucky, maybe once or twice a month at most.No matter how hard he tried, he couldn't come up with any magic tricks.The last time they had sex was a week ago, just before his partner's period came and she had an orgasm.In fact, tonight he did it exactly the same way as last time.Last time he got her very excited during the foreplay first, and when she was just a little bit close to orgasm, he quickly penetrated her inside, moved a few times, and she was there.But tonight it didn't work.And sometimes the man omits the foreplay altogether, and she can climax, but sometimes, she complains that he has omitted the foreplay.

The woman is lying on her back next to her spouse, feeling very disappointed in her heart.She didn't want to make love to him at all tonight, and now, she wished he hadn't made love to her.The woman was very depressed, she tried so hard to cooperate with him, but after the foreplay, he couldn't figure out what she wanted.There were times when she really wanted to have a penis inside her and it didn't matter if she didn't get an orgasm, but there were times when she wanted both.What she really wanted tonight was an orgasm, and would he ever figure that out?Although she was happy to have sex with him, what she wanted most was the feeling of orgasm and emotional comfort.And she almost got it.Just give her a few more seconds of foreplay and she'll have it.Why couldn't he wait a little longer before inserting her inside?If only he had been more considerate to her and continued to concentrate on helping her to climax, she would have gladly accepted him inside her.

But in fact that is not the case at all.All he knew was that he wanted to penetrate, and he didn't think of her at all.Later, he stopped stimulating her, and at the same time changed his position. At that moment, the woman knew that her upcoming orgasm would disappear without a trace.The sensation was gone when his cock was inside her.Every time she wants to reach the climax, she always needs a subtle force to concentrate all her energy, but the feeling just now suddenly disappeared.All feelings of excitement run away.By the time he started to jerk back and forth, she hadn't felt anything.

Women envy other women.She has always been convinced that there are many women who can make countless bed noises and orgasm instantly with just a few pumps of the penis.Sometimes, she found herself standing in the supermarket looking at other women while imagining what they would look like when they climaxed.Like this morning in front of the payment counter, a woman with short black hair stood in front of her, and that woman's eyes looked wild.As she waited patiently in line, she imagined the woman naked on the bed having crazy sex with the man, her messy hair draped over her shoulders, her mouth screaming with pleasure.And for her, intercourse always brings infinite disappointment.If she was lucky, she could have an orgasm during intercourse once a month, but it was tedious and nothing like the orgasms she got during foreplay or masturbation.

Therefore, a woman never expects to have an orgasm during intercourse.It was a bonus in case it happened by chance, but she never thought it was worth the trouble.What's more, her and her spouse's efforts always end in failure, and both of them will inevitably blame each other.She prefers her partner to give her an orgasm when she wants, and then he penetrates her.She needs an understanding mate who is alert and able to judge if and when a woman needs it.Does she have to tell him what she wants every time?The man lying next to her really didn't know how to make a quick decision.

Women's reactions to intercourse are really diverse.Some people experience orgasms almost every time during intercourse, while others never experience it.This difference accounts for a considerable part of the whole range of human sexuality.On this point, we have a detailed description in scene 6.For all women, it is usually more difficult to achieve orgasm with the penis inserted into the vagina.According to average figures, during the various stages of routine intercourse (from the beginning of foreplay to discharge "reflux"), only about 60% of women can achieve orgasm.None of these women orgasmed during intercourse, but during foreplay (about 35%) or afterplay (about 15%).In fact, according to surveys, only 10 to 15 percent of routine intercourse with the penis in the vagina results in a woman having an orgasm.

We mentioned several issues related to the female orgasm in this scene.One of them is the confusion of men: Why can a man get his partner to orgasm sometimes, but the same method doesn't work at all the next time?The second is men's ability to observe during intercourse: Why are their lovers more likely to orgasm during intercourse than their spouses?The third question is why a man would prefer his partner to climax during intercourse rather than during foreplay?These few issues will be discussed later, now, what we want to explain is why women usually cannot achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse?Does this phenomenon reflect some sort of lapse?Is it a successful reproductive strategy that women subconsciously adopt?Or a sexual behavior trait that actually improves reproductive outcomes in women?

During sexual intercourse, when the foreplay begins, the female body performs at least a few preparatory movements.These natural responses have been associated with dream orgasms as well as masturbation orgasms.When you climax, your cervical mucus filter either gets stronger or gets weaker.Regardless of the effects of orgasm, a woman's body needs certain conditions for sexual intercourse: resistance to germs, constant vaginal lubrication, cervical mucus filtration, and a healthy flow of water in the female genitals (fallopian tubes, fallopian tubes, The uterus and cervix) hold a considerable number of sperm (from zero to millions).If a woman's body can correctly predict what she is about to face, her cervical mucus will adjust to the ideal state with the above conditions, and this change will make the woman get the most benefit from her future sexual behavior.As for the state of cervical mucus to have the most ideal filtering function, it all depends on the physical condition of the woman.

For example, the ideal state of cervical mucus is not only influenced by a woman's menstrual cycle, but also by whether a woman is planning to engage in infidelity.Assuming a woman is about to have intercourse with a man other than her mate, the ideal state of mucus filtration described above changes.Whether she wants to favor or disadvantage her lover's sperm in the impending sperm wars, her cervical mucus filtering will change accordingly.However, no matter how the filtering function of her mucus changes for a woman in a certain situation, the basic principles we will explain below will not change.To make this basic principle easier to understand, let's refocus on the woman in scene 24.

The woman in the scene had just finished her period.Her next ovulation will occur in 7 to 20 days, in other words, the intercourse she just finished in this scenario will not make her pregnant.But the sperm injected into her body during this intercourse will affect the sperm injected during the next intercourse, and from the perspective of time, the next intercourse is likely to make her pregnant.But following the inferences we stated earlier, the woman may not be unfaithful during her next ovulation.On the other hand, as we have said many times, "probably not" does not mean "impossible".So, even though the intercourse in this scene took place in the non-fertile period, the intercourse itself was of great significance to the woman because it allowed her to have the right amount of sperm in her body, and when a woman's body is ready for her child These sperm most likely played an indirect and influential role in the blink of an eye when choosing a father. All the woman needs is to get a small amount of fresh sperm from the intercourse and deposit them in the sperm reservoir of the cervix.This stockpile of sperm will make the most of her body's adaptability for the next few days.Over the next few days, the woman has all the necessary conditions in her body to adjust the cervical mucus to the ideal state for the next sexual intercourse (if there is no sperm in the cervical reservoir at this time, she can take adaptation strategies are limited).And the fresher the sperm she gets now, the longer the resilience she has will last.Of course, while a woman is seeking fresh sperm, she must, as usual, try to avoid the risk of infection. Before this intercourse, a woman still has a strong filter of cervical mucus because she still has residue from her previous period in her body.There had been a lot of sperm left in her body from the intercourse a week earlier, most of which had been carried out by the menstrual blood.There may still be some infertile sperm in the woman's fallopian tubes, and there may be some very old sperm in the cervical reservoir.In her current condition, although the cervical mucus still retains its filtering function to a certain extent, if she loses some sperm at this time, it can actually bring her benefits.Therefore, when many women encounter this stage of the menstrual cycle, they will achieve orgasm through masturbation or sex dreams. These two orgasms can not only help women expel the menstrual residue left in the cervical mucus of the previous month, It can enhance the lubrication of the vagina and clear out the old sperm in the cervical storage.The above two orgasms can not only improve the lubrication in the vagina during the next sexual intercourse, but also slightly enhance the filtering function of cervical mucus, especially in the next sexual intercourse, which can strengthen the resistance to the invasion of germs.In addition, those old and less viable sperm are also expelled from the body. The woman in scene 24 could have had a dream orgasm later that night as well.If this is the case, her body will adjust the filtering function of cervical mucus to the optimal state according to the actual needs of the time.But before all this happened, she and her spouse unexpectedly had intercourse first. When the man started foreplay, the woman's cervical mucus had not yet adjusted to the ideal state.Of course, she can also refuse foreplay from her partner and wait until her body has adjusted the mucus filtering function to an appropriate state before making love to her partner.In any case, a woman has a choice, and she chooses to have sex with her spouse at this time.But because the woman doesn't have time to have a dream orgasm or a masturbation orgasm before this unexpected intercourse, her body is working hard to get an orgasm during foreplay. The orgasm caused by foreplay and the orgasm caused by sexual intercourse or masturbation actually have the same function. For the woman in scene 24, the orgasm caused by foreplay is actually a substitute for orgasm during sexual intercourse.From a strategic point of view, her choice of intercourse at this time will run into a problem for her, that is, she must seek the cooperation of her partner to achieve orgasm.At some stage, she needs him to provide stimulation.More importantly, she also needs him to give her time to orgasm.But in this scene, the woman's spouse fails to do that. We will explain in Scene 25 why the woman's spouse did not give her enough time.Simply put, a woman's orgasm during intercourse will benefit her spouse more than a foreplay orgasm.This phenomenon makes it impossible for both men and women to obtain consistent benefits during sexual intercourse.In fact, it's so common that if a woman's body decides to orgasm during foreplay, she can't always rely on a man's assistance.The woman in scene 24 is almost on the verge of orgasm during foreplay.This is a woman's body's ideal plan for the upcoming sexual intercourse.Yet she misses the opportunity at the last second, and the best remaining option for a woman is not to have an orgasm at all.This is the factual background in this scene. If a woman does not have an orgasm during intercourse, the sperm in her body will continue to be in the state before intercourse, both in quantity and composition, all of which are governed by the filtering function of cervical mucus (as in her resistant to the invasion of pathogens).If a woman's body can correctly foresee the future, the above-mentioned mucus filtering function should remain ideal for the next few days, so as to maintain the sperm count and composition in her body.And if a woman doesn't orgasm during intercourse, it's a signal from her body: "Stay as it is, don't change anything. Your cervix is ​​at its best right now. Let him ejaculate inside you. The rest Leave the task to the cervical mucus." In this scene, a woman's cervical mucus is not in the ideal state when her partner ejaculates inside her.So her body can't follow the best strategy, and the woman has to fall back to the second-best strategy: avoiding orgasm during intercourse.Her pursuit of orgasm was unsuccessful, but she achieved another result.We'll explain why in the next scene.Let us continue to observe this pair of men and women.