Chapter 24 Scene 22 Pointing to heaven and earth

After the woman said good night to her young daughter, she closed the door of her room.She went back to her room, undressed and changed into a bathrobe, then went downstairs and poured herself a cup of coffee.Her spouse was away and the house was very quiet.From now on, at least two hours belong to her alone, a leisurely and rare two hours.The woman turned on the TV, picked up a magazine, and casually flipped through it.It was such a happy moment, she thought. Fifteen minutes passed, and the TV made a faint sound, which sounded like background music on a stage.All her attention was on the magazine, but it didn't take long for the magazine to become a background decoration just like the sound of the TV.The woman flipped through the magazine mechanically, her eyes would occasionally stay on the photos and titles, but in fact, she was always immersed in her own fantasy.Thoughts are like flying butterflies, constantly dancing in her mind, and constantly passing through her heart.

She couldn't figure out how it started.Is it fantasy that makes her think she can give it a try?Or was the tremor between her legs alerting her?Anyway, the idea suddenly came to her mind.That's a good idea.However, will it be interrupted?Several minutes passed.She put down the magazine and stared at the fire.Might be worth a try, she thought.She drank the last drop of coffee in the cup, then stood up and walked upstairs.When she passed by the phone, she picked up the receiver and put it aside.The woman quietly passed her daughter's bedroom, walked into her own bedroom, and closed the door.

For a while, she jokingly planned to come and play something different today.Maybe we could bring out those treasured pictures for fun, she thought.But I can't remember where I got them.Or, she could try to find something to put in her vagina, but she couldn't think of anything that could be used immediately.Two or three years ago, she tried on the handle of her husband's ping-pong racket, but for days afterward she worried that debris and bacteria would be left in her vagina.Someday, she thought, she would buy herself an electric vibrator, if only she could find a safe place to hide it first.

After thinking about it for a long time, she decided that she didn't need to bother, and just followed her own routine.The woman lay down on the bed, loosened the belt of the bathrobe, and let the clothes open.Her left hand went to her right nipple, her right hand got a little saliva in her mouth, and then to her clitoris between her legs.This is how the woman begins her masturbation. At first, it is difficult for women to concentrate.Non-sexual thoughts kept interfering and interrupting her efforts.She tried all sorts of fantasies, the old fashioned fantasies at first, where she was undressed and being hugged and licked by another woman, and then two men were about to make love to her.But all these fantasies come to nothing.The woman concentrated on stimulating herself, and after about five minutes, a scene entered her mind, and this fantasy scene finally excited her.She imagined her spouse having sex with her girlfriend.Lubrication began to fill up between her cock and fingers.Her breathing became rapid, and her heartbeat gradually accelerated.At this moment the fantasy scene disappeared, and all her mind was concentrated between her legs, and her fingers were constantly wandering in that part.The woman rubbed her clitoris, fingertips getting stronger and stronger, and she changed the pattern from time to time, touching it this way, rubbing it that way; first in one rhythm, then in another.Finally, she felt an electric current run through her chest, throat and face.The muscles of the woman's whole body tensed up, and she was on the verge of exploding.At this time, she only touched the wet and swollen clitoris lightly, and she immediately reached the state she wanted.The woman greeted her orgasm in silence, her thighs and genitals spasming, jerky and brief at first, then gradually longer.She finally felt relaxed all over her body, and it was all over.

That's nice, she thought.If calculated by one hundred points, this orgasm can be scored seventy points. After the orgasm, the woman lay on the bed as if her whole body was paralyzed.It took several minutes before she stood up, refastened the belt of her bathrobe, and walked down the stairs.She put the handset back on the phone first, and poured herself another glass of milk.Then go back to the warm living room and turn on the TV.She sat in front of the fire, warming herself, remembering how she had felt the last time.She doesn't masturbate very often, only about three or four times a month.The last time seemed like 10 days ago.Every time she masturbates, she gets a great orgasm.And certainly better than what her spouse gave her.Occasionally, her partner can make her orgasm with his fingers, about 5 times out of 10, but only with his penis, about 2 times out of 10.In fact, it should probably be said not once in 10, since she rarely had an orgasm during intercourse.

Masturbation first brought a sexual dimension to her life when she was a teenager.At first, she didn't get any orgasm, just a little stimulation.And she rarely had an orgasm, at most once in 10.She didn't have regular orgasms until after the age of 20, about 7 out of 10. A woman's spouse does not know that she often masturbates.In fact, the only person who knew about her masturbation was the girlfriend she saw in her fantasy having sex with her spouse.The two of them had known each other since before they got married, and they had been friends for many years. When I was 20 years old, once, two people chatted drunk, they talked about masturbation.When a woman admits that she "sometimes" masturbates, she really feels afraid to look up. Who knows, her girlfriend actually said that she does it almost every night.After hearing this, she felt extremely depressed like a deflated ball.Her girlfriend also said she couldn't sleep at night without masturbating.What surprised the woman most was that her girlfriend was suffering from chronic cystitis at the time.The germs had spread to the left kidney, and the condition was so serious that it was difficult to cure for a while.

A week after their chat, the woman planned to have a short-term with her girlfriend, so she repeatedly masturbated for several nights.However, two nights in a row seemed to be her limit.Even the second night was hard work for her.So naturally, she resumed the previous frequency of once a week. When the woman's spouse came home that night, she was curled up on the couch watching TV.They exchanged a few jokes and got ready for bed.After the two lay down together, the woman feels that she wants to have sex.The feeling of the penis entering the vagina really made her heart flutter.She tried to tease him lightly, but in return she was extremely impatient and angry.So she knew this reaction meant "hopeless" tonight.The woman shrugged mentally, turned her back to her spouse, and fell asleep within a few minutes.

Among the topics related to human "sex", the female orgasm may be the most difficult part to understand.Sexual experience has a considerable impact on a woman's orgasm.Some women never experience an orgasm in their entire lives.There are also women who never have an orgasm during intercourse.On the other hand, some women experience orgasms almost every time they have intercourse.Obviously, orgasm is a natural phenomenon related to sex, but female orgasm (unlike male ejaculation) is not a necessary condition for pregnancy.Even women who have never had an orgasm can get pregnant easily.

When discussing female orgasms, one of the main topics is the variety of female orgasms.Every orgasm is somewhat similar to all orgasms; most orgasms are somewhat similar to each other and also somewhat different from each other.Not only that, but no two women will experience orgasms to the exact same degree, frequency or shape.As for when a woman can have an orgasm?How can I get an orgasm?Or how many orgasms can you achieve?In these issues, women are completely different from men. In the five scenarios in this chapter, we'll explore the types of female orgasms, as well as another topic that's as important as orgasms—avoiding orgasms enables women to enhance their reproductive efforts.Some women may find a scene in this chapter very familiar, while others may find it completely incomprehensible.But no matter what the circumstances, the function of the female orgasm is the same.However, when do women use this feature?How often do you take advantage of this feature?On this point, the conclusion is different from person to person.The differences in orgasm between women are really interesting, and we will discuss this part in scene 36.In the 5 scenes in this chapter, we will mainly explain the impact of orgasm on female reproductive results according to the various situations of orgasm.

In many ways, it is not a simple matter to generalize its function from an unpredictable and diverse behavior.It is also for this reason that many people believe that the female orgasm does not serve any function other than pleasure.However, as we have already stated, pleasure is not a function in itself, it is only a by-product of the function of orgasm.Basically, when the body intends to engage in a certain behavior, the body creates an urge to complete the behavior.The feeling you get when this urge is satisfied is pleasure.The female orgasm is satisfying because it has a function in itself.When a woman's body judges orgasms to be productive for her, she feels the need to orgasm; when her body judges orgasms to be detrimental to reproductive success, she doesn't feel the urge.It may come as a bit of a surprise that we are not discussing orgasms during intercourse in this chapter.Now, first let's discuss orgasm from masturbation.

About 80% of women will masturbate to achieve orgasms at some point in their lives, and the vast majority of these women, like the women introduced in scene 22, have masturbated into their Routine activities, but performed infrequently.Generally speaking, the average frequency of masturbation is less than once a week, and the frequency of masturbation will increase slightly in the week before ovulation, and the frequency of masturbation is relatively low in other times.Female masturbation frequency also increases with age, at least until the age of 40. Typically, the most common form of masturbation that women do is to stimulate their clitoris with just their fingers.Sometimes, women also insert their fingers into the vagina, but in most cases, this is only to help stimulate the clitoris, not to replace the penis.Sometimes, a woman may use a penis surrogate to penetrate the vagina, but this is to help stimulate the clitoris.Depending on the cultural environment, the types of these penis substitutes are also all-encompassing. For example, reindeer muscles, fruits, vegetables, and massage sticks may all be used as auxiliary props for female masturbation.Some women also let cats and dogs lick their genitals while masturbating.Even more rarely, some women give dogs or other animals sex, but it's still some form of masturbation. Just as the average person is confused about the function of the female orgasm, the average person is quite confused about the role of the female clitoris.The clitoris is an organ that develops from certain cells in a female fetus, the same cells that develop into a penis in a male fetus.All female mammals have a clitoris.At the tip of the clitoral projection (or, rather, at the tip of its "ball") there are many nerve tips, so the clitoris is a very sensitive organ.In fact, the clitoris is much more sensitive than the tip of a man's penis. In some South American monkeys, the clitoris is almost the same size as the penis.Their clitoris has a slender slit that helps female monkeys to channel urine out of the body like a male monkey's penis.Such huge clitoris also play an active role in their intercourse.Because primates typically have sex from behind, the female monkey's clitoris cannot be directly stimulated when the male monkey inserts the penis and jerks back and forth.But if the size of the clitoris is large enough, the male monkey and the female monkey can easily find the clitoris during intercourse, and can touch the clitoris during intercourse.In this regard, the South American monkeys are really different from most other great apes or humans.Because most apes and humans have a clitoris that is much smaller than a penis, and is usually hidden in creases of skin. A small clitoris is not easily stimulated during rearward sex.Of course, even some primates who engage in face-to-face intercourse (such as some monkeys, orangutans, chimpanzees, gorillas, and humans) do not necessarily have their clitoris stimulated during intercourse.In fact, the clitoris of these primates are all strategically placed, as if deliberately designed so that they cannot be stimulated during intercourse.Moreover, such a small clitoris is still in a semi-hidden or fully hidden position, which really makes it difficult for male primates to find it.Because of this, most people will inevitably think that the main function of such a small and hard-to-find clitoris is just a switch that women use when masturbating. organs. Among female mammals, human women are not the only ones who masturbate.Many other primates have been observed to stimulate their clitoris in a variety of ways, including direct stimulation with the hands, or rubbing the vulva against the ground or a tree branch.Chimpanzees have even been observed inserting twigs with leaves into their vaginas and rubbing them at right angles to act like a massage stick.Masturbation is a more non-female primate behavior.Female porcupines have also been found to run with their legs around wooden sticks, thereby stimulating the clitoris by rubbing the sticks. We really know very little about masturbation and orgasm in female animals other than humans, but one thing we do know for now: female chimpanzees can orgasm when their clitoris is stimulated.Moreover, once a female chimpanzee has discovered this vicarious masturbation, she will periodically show her buttocks and ask humans to stimulate her clitoris.Cows also orgasm when they receive clitoral stimulation.Within minutes of the cow's clitoris being stimulated, we can see her cervix open and vibrate. Similarly, when the human clitoris is stimulated, similar changes will occur in the cervix.In one video, a small camera was placed inside a woman's vagina, where she was masturbating and reaching an orgasm.At the moment of orgasm, the woman's cervix not only opens, but also descends into the vagina.This movement of the cervix is ​​called "tenting", and sometimes a woman will "hold the umbrella" several times during a single orgasm.The "umbrella" action during orgasm is associated with changes in the interior of the cervix, leading to three important effects that are key to explaining the function of masturbation. The first effect is that during masturbation, due to the "umbrella" action of the cervix caused by orgasm, the mucus secretion from the cervix to the vagina will temporarily increase.Although cervical mucus usually flows slowly from the cervix at any time, orgasm can make it flow faster.The difference between the two flow rates is like a runny nose and a sneeze.As a woman becomes aroused during masturbation, the glands at the top of the cervix increase the production of mucus, especially when she orgasms.These mucus surges rapidly increase the flow of the mucus "glacier" that flows through the cervix.Initially, the flow of mucus is regulated by the descending cervix.After the "umbrella holding" action is over, the older part of the soaring "glacier" will be pushed into the vagina like squeezing toothpaste.This mucus travels down the vaginal walls, creating a thick, lubricating film that prepares the woman for intercourse. These exuded mucus not only have the function of lubricating the vagina.Because the excreted part is the oldest mucus, which also contains a lot of cervical debris, old advance queue sperm, and the remains of germs.In fact, women's way of fighting infection is very effective.For example, the girlfriend of the woman introduced in Scene 22, when she was suffering from genitourinary system infection, was driven by her inner self to masturbate continuously every night. The second effect is that masturbation can make the cervical mucus more acidic.As the cervix descends, its mucus spreads sideways and creates new pathways, while all material deep in the vagina is sucked in efficiently by the tip of the "elephant trunk" formed by the cervix.The acidity of the mucus deep in the vagina is already high, and during female orgasm, the cervix descends several times, and the acidity spreads between the channels in the mucus, and the acidity in the mucus "glacier" will increase. become stronger.We also explained earlier that after the orgasm, the acidic mucus (which also includes the remains of germs) will flow into the vagina. However, some mucus will remain in the cervix.Whether it is sperm or bacteria, it is difficult to maintain normal activities in this acidic mucus.As a result, for some time (possibly up to several days) after a woman masturbates, the sperm become inert and unable to swim through the mucous channels, making it harder for germs to enter the woman's body. A third effect is that masturbation can alter the filtering function of cervical mucus, and in general, it will strengthen the filtering function.This result is not only due to the increased acidity of the cervical mucus, but also because at orgasm about half of the sperm that was previously in the reservoir are expelled.These old sperm re-enter the cervical mucus and block the new pathways formed in the mucus, thus making the mucus filter better.On top of that, these mucus-rejoining vanguard sperm are mostly at the apex of the cervix, where they follow the mucus "glacier" into the vagina, where the filtering function of the mucus continues for several days as they pass through the cervix strengthen.However, sometimes masturbation may not be able to achieve this effect.What matters depends on how much sperm is left in the reservoir. When a woman reaches orgasm, the more sperm there are in the cervical reservoir, the more sperm flow into the mucus pathway, and the stronger the mucus filter becomes.Thus, masturbation 24 hours after intercourse enhances the filtration of cervical mucus more than 48 hours after intercourse, since there are more sperm in the reservoir in the former than in the latter.As long as there is enough sperm in the reservoir, a second masturbation in the same day will enhance the mucus filtration function, however, continuing with a third or fourth masturbation usually has no further effect up.This may be because after the second masturbation, there is no longer any sperm in the reservoir.Likewise, masturbation does not improve mucus filtration when the reservoir does not contain any sperm for other reasons (for example, more than 8 days have passed since the previous intercourse, or a diaphragm was used during the previous intercourse) Features. We've said that women are more likely to masturbate during the fertile period than at other times.I believe everyone now understands why.Because during this period, a woman's body increases vaginal lubrication and cervical mucus filtration in preparation for sexual intercourse, and these responses will provide her with the highest benefit.Of course, even at other times, women still have the urge to masturbate.Because in the non-fertile period, a woman still needs to fight germs and keep her vagina ready for intercourse, and the cervical filter must also be regulated.In addition, women must also conceal their fertile period from their spouses. Women must fight germs and prepare for the next sexual intercourse, but masturbation is not the only means.There is another way of inducing an orgasm, not as common as masturbation, but one that many women experience (we'll get to that in the next scene).