Chapter 8 Scene 6 Incident

On Wednesday night, as is customary, the woman and her group of eight girlfriends partyed outside.This has been her habit for many years.There are about 12 of them in their group, but not all of them come to the party every time.Usually, when it's party night, the woman and her girlfriends pass the time drinking, chatting, having dinner, and sometimes the group goes to a nightclub together.Occasionally, one or two other men would join their group and try to get one of them to hang out elsewhere.This group of women looks forward to chatting with their girlfriends like this often, and on the other hand, they must also secretly expect to be asked out by men.Most of this group are already in long-term partners, but they still share this non-public affair.

Tonight is finally the woman's turn to be asked away.By coincidence, the man who walked into the bar happened to be her ex-boyfriend.They met the summer of her high school senior year.During her first year of college, men used to be her weekend lovers.Their relationship lasted for several months.Tonight they recognized each other immediately, and then, for most of the evening, they sat and talked, each telling each other what had happened to them since that last squabble.The woman knew from the man that he was working at the other end of the country, that he came to this city on a business trip this time, and that he was staying in a nearby hotel.The man is almost 30 years old this year. He has one or two girlfriends, but he has no fixed partner yet.

The man still maintains a strong physique, and at the same time, his attitude of flirting and cynicism is the same as before.Although the woman was recognized as his girlfriend, the two broke up after she found out that the man had betrayed her and had betrayed her with many women.During that period of extremely fragile feelings, what women need is a man who can be trusted.But now, she has come out of the gloom of the past. At this time, when she meets the former man, the woman feels that many past feelings are resurfacing.However, that night, the woman finally returned to the group of girlfriends.

At noon the next day, the man showed up at the woman's office, and he invited her to have a simple lunch.All through lunch, the two talked about having dinner that night.Since it was Thursday and it was the woman's spouse's turn to go out with his boyfriends that night, the woman felt no need to tell her spouse about her plans, and she didn't feel that she would gain anything from telling her spouse about her plans. benefit.What's more, according to her analysis, nothing will happen that night, so it's not worth mentioning to your spouse at all.However, in order to avoid being bumped by acquaintances, the woman took her lover to a restaurant far from the city.

That night, the man's behavior throughout the night showed that he was looking forward to taking the woman back to the hotel bed.He was thoughtful and pushy, and he found opportunities to touch her body from time to time.The woman never even considered having sex with him.Although she still found him attractive and excited by his touch, the man's intense desire for sex made her uncomfortable, and she even became defensive.So, throughout the night, the woman behaved extraordinarily indifferent to him.And men also noticed her attitude.In the end he had to give up his efforts and send the woman home.On the way home, the two did not continue to talk in depth except for joking with each other.

Until the time the woman is about to get out of the car, what the two talk to each other sounds like they will never see each other again.But at this moment, the woman is surprised to find that she suddenly feels a warm nostalgia for the man, and there may be some guilt in it.This feeling made her unable to resist kissing him on the cheek.Then, what surprised her even more was that she not only kissed the man on the cheek, but also kissed the man on the lips.This sudden enthusiasm made the woman flustered, she jumped out of the car in a hurry, said "I wish you happiness" to the man, and went into her own home.

An hour later, the woman's spouse returned.The woman had gone to bed by this time and pretended to be fast asleep.Her spouse drank and soon began snoring loudly.The woman now remembered everything that had happened that night, and her thoughts and dreams kept chasing those exciting moments.I don't know when, although the woman didn't fully wake up from her sleep, she clearly felt that she had reached an orgasm. All day the next day, the woman was in the office recalling the scene of last night. She spent the whole night with the man, but nothing happened, and no one knew about it.The whole thing seemed to her incredible.The woman's hands were working, but her head was constantly thinking about the man, that night, what they talked about, their kisses, and even the sex life she shared with that man when she was young.These memories kept her subconsciously excited.All day long, her panties were damp.She even went to the bathroom to masturbate once.

The woman did not have sex with her spouse on Friday night.However, they had sex on two consecutive days, Saturday and Sunday.On Saturday night, the woman insisted that her partner let her climax before penetrating.She rarely orgasms during intercourse.She also never expected an orgasm.Usually, when she wants to orgasm, she must let herself orgasm during foreplay.The woman masturbated again in the shower on Sunday morning, then walked into the living room naked and encouraged her spouse to have sex with her on the living room floor.During a few orgasms over the weekend, or even just during foreplay, the image in a woman's mind is not her spouse (and not just this weekend, these days, it's not her spouse).A woman's mind is full of the scene when she has sex with her lover, some real and some imaginary.

Women secretly enjoy this burst of sexual activity and excitement all weekend long.However, she had no intention of risking this escapade other than fantasizing about it alone.But by Monday morning, when the woman returned to the office, her mind had changed.Her lover will be gone on Thursday, and she may never see him again.At this moment, a thought emerged in the woman's mind, and this thought gradually turned her excitement into anxiety.Maybe, she thought, she should see him again.It was easy to arrange to meet him.She could spend a night with him on Wednesday nights as long as she didn't go out with her girlfriends.All she had to do was pick up the phone and call him.It's really that simple.

The thought excited and frightened her at the same time.The woman was so preoccupied with it that she did nothing all Monday.On Tuesday, she finally worked up the courage to call the man, but no one answered.The woman lost her courage again in an instant, and could no longer pick up the phone to make a call.By Wednesday morning, the woman's mood had changed again, and what had been a feeling of fear and guilt had turned into a kind of confidence.Why can't I see him again?she thinks.Isn't he her old friend?And, tonight might be her last chance.What's more, the last time they spent a night together, didn't nothing happen?She really didn't need to feel guilty or nervous.Of course, there may be no need to tell anyone about this idea.

The woman picked up the phone for the third time and called the man, this time he answered the call himself.He looked both happy and surprised when he heard the woman's voice.The man said he was too busy with work to discuss the details with her, so he asked her to call him at his hotel that evening.The woman agreed.For the next day, she was in a state of excitement.She first told her colleagues that she would not be able to attend the routine meeting that night because she was going to her sister's house.The woman told her spouse when she left the house at 7:00 this morning that she would go to a nightclub with her girlfriends in the evening and would probably come home later.Her spouse complained a few words, but not much. When the woman walked into the hotel, she felt her whole body tense up.For the first few minutes, both she and the man were too nervous to know what they were talking about.However, after their first drink in the hotel bar, the two seem to be back in the past.The six years since their breakup also seemed to have never existed.The woman's mood and behavior tonight are completely different from that of Thursday night a week ago.After they had another drink, the woman leaned her knee towards the man's knee as she spoke.She stretched out her free hand, constantly looking for opportunities to touch the man's thigh and arm.At this time, the man suggested, "in order to avoid running outside in such a cold day", and eat dinner in the restaurant of the hotel.The woman immediately agrees.After dinner, the man said he "had to go upstairs in the room" to show her the picture.The woman said she "had always wanted to see what the hotel room looked like", so she followed him to the man's room. As a result, the man didn't show her the photo at all.They kissed almost as soon as they closed the door, and the two helped each other undress.Before the woman had a chance to catch her breath, they were lying naked on the floor, and the man was already inside her and ejaculating.The woman was unprepared for the man's impatience, but she didn't want to slow him down either.Men don't think about condoms or creampies from start to finish.It never occurred to the woman to make such demands of him.The woman's vagina is already very wet because she has been expecting it all day.When she entered the man's room, her pussy filled with lubricant.The man penetrated the woman quickly and easily, and in the blink of an eye, he was ejaculating. After the intercourse, the man apologized to the woman and said that he was so anxious to have sex with her because he had always loved her and he thought she had been thinking about it for a long time.The man then assures the woman that if they are not on the floor but in his bed, he will satisfy her.And men really do what they say.He spent a full half hour fondling the woman's body.A woman feels that he knows her body in a way her spouse never made her feel.After the woman reaches orgasm, they hug each other to rest.Then, the two of them started all over again.The man was still quick to penetrate the woman's body, but this time he was less eager.He took a long, slow piston motion.The woman climaxed during his penetration this time.For women, orgasms are rare.Just seconds before the man is about to ejaculate, the woman has an orgasm at almost the same time. They hugged each other again and fell asleep.However, this period of peace did not last long.After the whole night, the woman suddenly felt guilt and fear hit her heart.It's getting late.The woman's heart was filled with guilt in a blink of an eye.She must hurry home.The man asked her to stay overnight and suggested that she find an excuse and call her spouse.But the woman didn't listen to his suggestion at all at this time.She felt that she must go home.In the end, she escaped from the man's bed with the excuse of going to the bathroom.She refused to go back to him, and proceeded to dress.The conversation between the two became illogical.The woman was beginning to get bored with the man at this point, and she didn't even make a fuss about saying goodbye before jumping into a taxi in a hurry.By the time the woman arrived home, the "reflux" had just flowed out of her body and wet her panties.But the woman is completely indifferent to recalling the time represented by the "return" at this time, and her mind is full of thinking about what to do after returning home. The woman walked into the house quietly, she was afraid of waking up her spouse.She undressed first, washed her whole body, and then climbed into bed.After a woman goes to bed, she directly stimulates her spouse with her hands to wake him up.Before the man was fully awake, his cock was already erect.The woman then takes the initiative to straddle her spouse, sending his penis into her vagina.It took her a while, shaking her body hard, and she finally managed to get her partner to ejaculate inside her.In the trance, the man only felt that his partner's vagina was very wet, but he didn't think much about it.At this moment, he just wanted to concentrate on enjoying such labor-saving intercourse.The next day, the woman's lover was on his way home.They have never seen each other since.The third day is the woman's ovulation day.Soon, she became pregnant.For the next three weeks, the woman had sexual intercourse with her partner almost every day.When she found out she was pregnant, the image of what she had done with her ex-boyfriend that night had become very blurred in her mind.The woman almost forgot about the guilt and fear she felt at the time.She even felt that what happened that night never happened at all.The woman gradually convinced herself that the child in her womb was born to her and her spouse.Because this month she and her spouse had sex a total of 16 times, and she and her lover only had that one night. Nine months later, the woman gave birth to a daughter.Two years later, she and her spouse gave birth to a son.Three years later, the woman gave birth to her second daughter.Her eldest daughter grew up to resemble her mother more and more.Compared with the other two children, the woman's eldest daughter appeared more charming, more energetic, and more lovable.However, the differences between these three children are not too obvious, almost the same as the differences between other siblings. Years passed, and a woman's spouse never suspected that when a woman conceived her first child, she also had another man's sperm inside her.Of course, even the woman herself never understood what was going on inside her body during those critical days.In fact, a woman and her spouse will never know that at the moment she conceives her eldest daughter, it is actually her lover's tiny sperm that penetrates her egg... We illustrate the beginning and course of the sperm wars in the two scenes at the beginning of this chapter.In fact, among these two scenes, only the one described above is related to "people".The next scene (scene 7) is not really a story at all.Since scene 7 is describing the actual conditions of the sperm wars, the scene itself is an illustration.Scenario 7 thus becomes the only section of the book without additional explanation. What we describe in Scene 6 is a representative story of an affair.The behavior of the three protagonists in the scene had an impact on "Who is the biological father of the eldest daughter?"One thing worthy of our attention is that the woman's ex-boyfriend was a flirtatious and cynical man, and the eldest daughter born between the woman and this man showed more similar characteristics. Not available.In addition, it is worth noting that the number and timing of a woman's orgasm.The orgasm referred to here includes two types: the orgasm caused by male stimulation; the orgasm caused by female self-stimulation.This point (referring to the two types of female orgasms) will be explained in a later scene.In this scenario, we'll focus on the affair itself, and we'll discuss why a woman is more fertile with a lover's sperm than with a mate's.Obviously, the outcome of this scene will have a major impact on the reproduction of the offspring of the three protagonists. We mentioned earlier that women tend to have routine intercourse with their partners during the non-fertile period after ovulation.But women have no such tendency at all when they have affairs.Women, on the other hand, are more likely to have sex with men other than their spouse during their conception.Moreover, in the above-mentioned circumstances, women are also less likely to use contraceptive measures with the partner of the affair. In this way, since we can conclude women's cheating behavior patterns based on survey statistics, there must be some kind of cycle in women, and this cycle will have an impact on women's emotions and behaviors when they have an affair.Regarding this point, we can not only find some clues from this scene, but also from the scene where the couple (referring to the long-term couple in this scene) first appeared.During the first month we started observing the couple, the woman did not conceive.She was fertile at the time, but she had no interest in having sex with her partner.We interpreted her inability to conceive as something in the woman's body (rather than the couple's fault).Because at this time, the only man around a woman who can have sexual intercourse with her is her spouse, but her body makes a judgment (this judgment has nothing to do with brain consciousness), thinking that the spouse is not suitable to be her first wife at this time. father of a child.A woman's body also acts according to its own judgment. In this way, even in the period of conception, she feels that she has no "sexual interest" for her spouse. And this month, the woman met her former lover.This means that women have the right to choose the father of the first child.What the woman chooses is exactly the person her body likes. This woman and her lover had two chances to have an affair.The first time is on Thursday, followed by the next Wednesday.But the woman only chooses one of them.The date on Thursday was initiated by her boyfriend, and the woman was not fertile at the time.So the woman's body doesn't feel a strong desire to have sex with her lover.On Thursday night, although the lover wanted to have sex with the woman, her cold attitude kept men from approaching her.By the following Wednesday, however, the woman's mood had changed.Because the woman entered the fertile period from Monday of this week, the idea of ​​wanting to see her boyfriend again began to linger in her mind.But until Wednesday, the motivation behind the idea hadn't reached its final climax.Because Wednesday is the most fertile day for women.But including herself, no one knows this secret. The whole mood and body language of a woman on Wednesday night is very different from the previous Thursday.The behavior of the two of them that night was still dominated by the man. Although the woman had clearly expressed no interest in him a week ago, this night, the woman readily cooperated.After the two entered the hotel room, the woman further expressed her willingness to cooperate with the man in order to obtain the man's sperm.With little to no foreplay, a woman is willing to let a man penetrate her and immediately ejaculate inside her.During this process, the woman did not consider the issue of pregnancy at all.Maybe she will rationalize the situation afterwards: she was dazzled by the momentary excitement and passion before she did that thing.But the truth was simple: Her body was about to ovulate in two days, so she was desperate to get her lover's sperm.The woman then asks the man to ejaculate inside her again, and the reasons for the second intercourse we leave for later.And after a woman gets a man's sperm, she immediately doesn't want to be with a man anymore.For her, the next thing to do is to go back to her spouse immediately. Why does a woman's body suddenly change emotionally towards her boyfriend subconsciously?There may be two main reasons.One of them stems from her consciousness (although a woman may find other explanations for herself).Because the subconscious basic strategy of a woman's body is: no matter who the father of the child is, the most suitable person to assist her in raising the child is her spouse.This is the most important point in her basic strategy, so that any affair must never be discovered by her spouse.Because women are afraid of being discovered by their spouses, some panic reactions appear in the body, and these reactions are dominated by the subconscious.However, to decide when is the right time to have an affair?And what excuse to use to have an affair?These details must rely on the woman's subjective consciousness to act.In fact, a woman's consciousness and body seem to work quite well together.According to research, an affair like this one is often difficult to detect.Even long-term extramarital affairs have only a 50 percent chance of being discovered.For example, in the example we are talking about here, the woman in this scene has successfully covered up the traces of her affair. The other of the two main reasons above is that there are parts of a woman's body's strategy that her conscious mind cannot comprehend.The woman leaves her boyfriend and goes back to her own home where she spends a lot of time having sex with her spouse.In a woman's consciousness, she will interpret her behavior as "avoiding being checked by her spouse".At that time, as long as the spouse could ejaculate inside her, even if there were damp marks on the sheets or the smell of semen, the spouse would not suspect her.But there's one thing a woman doesn't realize: After getting her lover's sperm, her body feels the need to get her mate's at the same time.In fact, a woman's body has already decided that a lover is a better father than a spouse.However, it is still unknown who will win the battle between the sperm of the lover and the spouse.If the lover's sperm is more fertile and competitive than the partner's, a woman will certainly be willing to let her lover's sperm fertilize her own eggs.And the only way to come to the conclusion of "whose sperm is stronger?" is to let the sperm of two men hold a big fight.In other words, it's the woman's body that wants to start a sperm war between the two men, and this may be her only chance to do it. Whenever the sperm of two or more men enter a woman, their sperm fight desperately for a chance to fertilize an egg.However, a sperm war is neither a simple game nor an ordinary race.The so-called sperm wars are a veritable war—a battle between two (or more) armies of sperm.At the same time, just like all animals are divided into male and female, the sexual characteristics of all men and women living in this world today are also through this kind of war between semen and semen (or semen threatening each other). ) produces results.The frequency of sperm wars, and the importance of sperm wars, far exceed our imagination.According to a British study, about 4% of British people were born into the world through sperm wars.In other words, one in 25 Britons is born from a sperm war - a battle between the biological father's sperm and another man's (or several) sperm's in the mother's genitals.If you think this number is nothing, let us look at it from another angle. This number also means that from about 1900 to the present, one of our ancestors was born from the sperm war.In other words, each of us exists in this world because our predecessors had highly competitive sperm and won the sperm wars. As we said in Scene 6, normally, a woman's body can only make one egg at a time, so there can only be one winner in each sperm war.Occasionally, a woman may also produce two eggs at the same time, at which point she may have a pair of fraternal twins.In this case, the sperm war may have another outcome: a tie between the two teams.In fact, so far, there have been many amazing records showing that some fraternal twins do have different fathers (especially when the two sets of sperm come from different races, the results are most obvious).According to the latest statistics, even if there is no obvious difference in appearance, one pair of twins has a different father among every 400 pairs of twins. We mentioned the critical moment of pregnancy earlier, so let's go back and look at the woman in the scene.When a woman's egg enters the fallopian tube, three sperm arrive near the egg at the same time.They're all lover's sperm.If we take a look at the rest area of ​​the fallopian tube at this time, we can find that there are countless sperms in the rest area quietly waiting to go to the battlefield.At this time, more than 90% of the sperm in the rest area come from the lover's body.The woman's spouse is already doomed to lose in the sperm wars, despite the best efforts of the woman's spouse to maintain an advantage through routine intercourse.When it comes to routine sexual intercourse, as we said earlier, the main purpose of men's routine sexual intercourse is to keep a fixed number of sperm (fertilesperm) in the fallopian tubes of women.In addition to the above-mentioned effects, routine intercourse can also help men's bodies prepare for the war against sperm.The scale of preparations is determined according to the risk of war.A man's body first gauges the likelihood that a mate might have another man's sperm before adjusting the number of sperm ejaculated into his mate during routine intercourse.A man's body determines how much sperm to ejaculate based primarily on how much time he has spent with his partner since the last time he had intercourse.If the two have not had intercourse for more than a week, the man's body will determine the number of sperm ejaculated based on the time he has spent with his partner in the past 8 days. This algorithm may seem simple, but it is quite effective.The less time men spend with their spouses, the more likely the spouses are to have an affair.If a man spends more than 80% of his time with his spouse, the possibility of his spouse having an affair is almost zero.And if men spend less than 10 percent of their time with their spouses, the chances of their spouses having an affair are more than 10 percent.In other words, the shorter the time a man spends with his mate since his last intercourse, the more likely his mate will already have sperm from another man during this coitus.In this case, the male body needs to produce more sperm in order to increase the odds of victory for his own sperm team in the impending sperm war.And it's the only countermeasure men can take. According to the various conditions mentioned above, the number of sperm ejaculated by men varies considerably under different conditions.For example, in the affair scene that we present here, on a Wednesday night, the woman comes home and then has sex with her spouse.The man's body has to decide how much sperm to ejaculate this time, and while he's still asleep, his body has figured out that the last time he had sex with his partner was 3 days ago (that's Sunday).Usually, at an interval of 3 days, a man only needs to add 300 million sperm to his spouse.Next, the man's body figured out that he had spent 50 percent of his time with his spouse since his last intercourse, so the likelihood that the spouse was having an affair was only "average" (i.e., not very likely).Therefore, it is enough for him to add sperm to the partner's body according to the average ratio.If in the past 3 days, the man and his spouse have been together all day, the possibility of the spouse having an affair is almost zero. At this time, the man may only need to add 100 million sperm to the spouse's body.On the contrary, if one of the two men leaves on Monday morning and does not come back until Wednesday night, the possibility of the woman having an affair is greatly increased, so the man may ejaculate 500 million sperm. With a woman's lover, on the other hand, the situation is quite the opposite.This is the first time he has ejaculated inside a woman in the past 6 years.And, in the past eight days, he had only spent a few hours with women.The man's body judged before ejaculation (of course it judged very correctly) that the woman most likely already had another man's sperm in her body, so he decided to ejaculate 600 million sperm to supplement the woman's body.Half an hour later, the man's body shoots another 100 million sperm into the woman.As far as this "Affair Wednesday" is concerned, from the moment the lover sends an army of sperm twice as many as his spouse's sperm into the woman's body, the sperm war has already kicked off.In other words, as soon as the war started, the lover's sperm team had twice the advantage (because the spouse only ejaculated 300 million sperm, but the lover ejaculated after 600 million sperm, followed by 100 million sperm ).When the war is at its most intense, the winner of the egg capture is about to be produced. At this time, the lover's sperm team has nine times the advantage compared with the spouse (please recall, we said earlier that women's fallopian tubes rest Among the sperm waiting to be dispatched in the district, the lover's sperm accounted for 90%).In the process of the sperm battle between the two teams, what is the reason that the lover's sperm can take such an absolute advantage?Let's take a look at these sperm soldiers first. Speaking of human sperm, you may immediately think of the most common sperm appearance: sperm cells include a head, neck and a long and thin tail.Each sperm appears to be majestic in shape and lively in movement.The head of the sperm is actually very similar to the flippers of animals. The outer periphery of the head is oval, and the whole head is like a squashed oval with a helmet on it.The helmet contains some important fluid substances.The inside of the sperm head is densely compressed with a whole set of DNA, and after the sperm captures the egg, it will bring the whole set of DNA into the core part of the egg.The sperm head looks a bit like the tip of a lollipop attached to the short, stiff sperm neck.The middle part of the sperm is equivalent to the power plant of the sperm.The energy accumulated here enables the sperm tail to swim.Sperm swim by creating tiny waves with the slow movement of their tails, and the sperm themselves ride the waves and effortlessly complete their journey through the woman's bodily fluids. Many people are very familiar with the above-mentioned sperm image, but in fact, only half of the sperm in the semen ejaculated by men under normal circumstances are similar to the above-mentioned image.The composition of an army of sperm is actually more diverse than we thought.For example, some sperm have very large heads, while others have very small heads; others have heads as small as the tip of a needle. Of course, such a small head cannot hold the entire set of DNA.Some sperm have round heads, others are shaped like cigars, others are shaped like pears, or like dumbbells, and even some have irregular heads that we cannot describe in words.Also, some sperm have two or three, or even four heads (very rare).These sperm are a veritable army of monsters. Sperm diversity is not limited to head shape.In terms of tails, some sperm have very short tails, some have a tail that curls like a spring, and some sperm have two tails, or even three or four tails (relatively rare).There are also some sperm that look like hunchbacks, with the entire middle bent at ninety degrees; and others that carry the entire bag of cellular material on their backs, looking like mountaineers with backpacks on their backs.Generally speaking, only 60% of the sperm in a team of sperm have a familiar image (vigorous and energetic), and the rest of the sperm are far from the general image as we have described above.But in any case, these special-looking sperm also have important tasks in the sperm war. Now let's go back to the scene mentioned earlier. In the sperm war in "Affair Wednesday", the lover's sperm team played the leading role from beginning to end.The battle situation is completely one-sided.The odds of the lover's sperm even improved from 2:1 to 9:1 in the end.In order for everyone to further understand the battle situation, we must enter the female body with a microscope to carefully observe the evolution of the whole battle situation.Now let's go back to that momentous moment - the woman and her lover enter the hotel room, they immediately undress and start having sex on the floor.