Chapter 3 Living together in Changganli, the two little ones have no suspicions

joy and sorrow Who planted the first peach tree on the river bank?That year, you came riding a bamboo horse with a pleasant posture.Seeing you, the green plum in my hand hangs down quietly, just like me, with soft eyebrows. The concubine's initial payment, the drama in front of the folded flower door.Lang rode a bamboo horse to make green plums around the bed.Living together in Changqian, the two little ones have no suspicions.Fourteen is a gentleman's wife, and she has never been ashamed.Bow your head to the dark wall, and call it once a thousand times.At the fifteenth day, I raised my eyebrows, wishing to share the dust and ashes.How can you go to the husband's platform if you keep the letter of holding the pillar?The sixteen monarchs traveled far away, Qutang Yandui.May is untouchable, the sound of apes mourns in the sky.Walking late in front of the door, green moss for a lifetime.The moss is too deep to sweep, and the autumn leaves fall early.In August, the butterfly turns yellow and flies to the grass in the west garden.Feeling this hurts my concubine's heart, sitting and worrying about my beauty.Get off the three buses in the morning and evening, and pre-order the books and newspapers home.It is not far to meet each other until Changfengsha.

——"Long Gan Xing" Li Bai In stories about love, what I love most is perseverance; in chapters about marriage, what I love most is loyalty. In ancient China, many things were expressly prohibited, such as not giving and receiving privately without permission, not being in love at will, not yearning for people who are not in the same family as you, except for early marriage and early childbearing in marriage, many children and grandchildren, by the above Since then, I have always held a laissez-faire encouraging attitude. That's why there are so many stories about childhood sweethearts and their fingertips getting married.The boy and the girl met each other when they were young, and they met each other while playing. They thought they were playmates, but unexpectedly they were arranged to grow old together.Destiny is so decisive, it doesn't matter if you don't allow resistance.When I become an adult, I have refined my eyes to look for them, but I may not be able to find them well.

I believe that people who are destined are destined to be destined. Not all arranged marriages are sad and resentful, just like the couple described in this song "Long Qian Xing".There are many Li Bai's poems, heroic, exciting, unconstrained, clear and simple, it is not necessary to list them all.This song "Long Gan Xing" is a song I love very much.At the beginning, I loved it for its childishness and fun, but gradually I loved it for its meticulousness and profoundness, expressing the secret romance in my heart. "At fourteen, I am a gentleman's wife, and my face has never been ashamed. I bow my head to the dark wall, and I don't answer it once a thousand times. At the fifteenth, I raise my eyebrows, and I wish to be with dust and ashes."——Before I finished a word, my heart was secretly moving, and I was confused. Doubt, this emotion progresses layer by layer, going deep into the skin.Such affectionate and ruthless words, as a man, where did he get the hint, such a precise taste and expression, it really makes a woman ashamed!

"Long Gan Xing" is essentially a poem of memories. In the tone of a woman, she recalls the experience of living with her husband from childhood to the present. A woman's life is all in one poem.Fourteen is a gentleman's wife, and I don't understand human affairs. At the fifteenth, I raised my eyebrows, and I first realized the joy and shame of the amorous feelings. At sixteen, when I parted with the monarch, I already had the faith to swear to live and die together... Both men and women are growing up, and their youthfulness fades year by year.Time goes by, in exchange for maturity.

"Long Dry Journey" describes a warm, secure, and lasting marriage state. At the beginning, men always appear mature.Although the age difference is almost the same, the man is calm and patient.Obviously, at the beginning, he was more adaptable to the change of identity than she was. Maybe, she was the one he liked since he was a child, so he had the patience to wait for her.A person, awakened in the protection of another person.It seems that when I wake up, I see that person by my side, and my heart is peaceful and calm—happiness should be a state where silence is better than sound.Just like the rough branches of a peach blossom, it supports the beauty of the flower.Without the support of a man, it is impossible for a woman to grow up smoothly, and it is impossible to feel the happiness of marriage.

It is undeniable that the existence of a man is very important. Even a good girl who sings "The Peach is Yaoyao, Burning its Blossom", surrounded by majestic blessings, and married back home, cannot grow up overnight and quickly enter the role of a wife , Become the woman of the Yiqishi family.Women need time, patient encouragement, and gentle inclusion.Just like a peach blossom in spring, it can only bloom and bloom when it is blown by the warm wind. Relationships are deep and slow, need opportunity to establish, and patience to maintain.A long married life does not necessarily bring endless pain.It will be painful if the time is not right and the person you meet is not human.

Meeting when I was young, getting married when I was young, and getting along after marriage.Life is right in front of you, and every link is seamless.Later, it was the woman who followed, becoming mature and determined, as if she wanted to repay all the affection her husband had bestowed for many years.She learned gentleness, humility, and perseverance in getting along day and night, and at the same time, her warm personality has never faded away. "From the beginning of the fifteenth, I wish to share the dust and ashes", and the emotional attitude has changed from passive to active.Even if you turn into ashes and dust, don't be separated from you.Although the poem does not directly describe the situation of the two people's vows, it can be seen that the two have a deep relationship, and they are definitely not the kind of couple who barely get along.The two are like glue, believing in each other's steadfastness, the woman firmly believes in her husband's sincerity, and vows not to separate, how can she be as hopeless and miserable as the woman who has turned into a husband's stone?

Soon, the man went out with the merchant ship to discuss life, while the woman stayed at home in fear.Life domineeringly cuts off the two people's desire to stay together peacefully.Leaning on the door and looking at the side of the road he walked, green moss has grown sadly.The moss is deep and the leaves are falling, and the yellow butterflies fly in front of the window.The woman who stays alone in her empty boudoir is secretly frightened by the change of seasons and the rapid passage of time, but also worried that loneliness makes people grow old and youth is perishable. And what she was most worried about was not her own aging, but his safety.Sailing is difficult and dangerous, and good or bad luck is unpredictable.The place he was going to was going through the Yangtze River to the dangerous Qutang Gorge, where there was a huge reef named Yandui at the mouth of Qutang Gorge.In May of the lunar calendar, the Yangtze River swelled, Yandui was submerged in the water, only a small piece of the top was exposed, and countless people died when they hit the rocks.In Bai Juyi's poem "Sending a Friend Up the Gorge to Dongchuan to Resign", he also expressed deep concern about his friend's future when he mentioned this:

It is said that Qutang Gorge has a slanting root.It is difficult to find the bird's way, and it is almost over the upper dragon gate.The croissant is in the limelight, and the peach blossoms are muddy.The mountain turns like a turtle, and the boat enters like a whale.Kishihe is worried, and Bo jumps and turns over in fear.Lian Jun went here to thank the master for his kindness. This place is extremely dangerous, and ancient ships sailed without early warning and detection measures, all relying on experience and luck.In the past, when the ships came here, they would shudder, just like entering the gate of ghosts. It requires superb sailing skills and the beauty of heaven to escape from death.

Bai Juyi wrote that his friends were willing to take strange risks in order to repay their kindness.The men in Changganli are forced to travel far because of their livelihood.Women have heard people say in the past that all kinds of difficulties make a living difficult.Only when her husband was personally in danger, did she realize that words were not enough to describe the worry and entanglement in her heart. Fear cannot be shared with others: Sitting at home, the roar of the river, the screams of the apes on both sides of the river are like daggers, and bloodstains are cut in the ears, and there is a kind of trance in the heart. Give birth to wings and follow him...

She thought that her relationship was strong and her life was stable, so she would not become a woman on the watchman's platform, but life was still a big joke.Reminiscing about youth in the helpless withering, relying on memories for warmth and strength.Every bit of benefit he gave her has penetrated into the depths of memory. Love is green, old things are tender.But the memory is always cold, no matter how deep emotions one puts into it, they will sink quietly.Touching the rhythm of longing along the woman's memories is a slow, deep and unknown undercurrent.As the characters in the poem grow older, their emotions deepen day by day, and the rhythm of emotions changes from fresh and gentle at the beginning to deep and turbulent. Whether it can be viewed in this way, Li Bai's "Long Gan Xing" has a natural succession to "Taoyao".The praise that was originally vague and floating in the air has become a life that can be caught in the palm of your hand. "Taoyao" reminds people, but "Long Gan Xing" presents the details of married life, entering a more open time, happiness and hard work are real and credible-and it does not make people despair. When Hu Zhenheng discussed the system of Tang poetry, he said: "Singing about what happened is called action." "Changgan Xing" is to use the poet's style to lay out and rehearse what happened in Changgan - this is also Li Bai's " The reason why "Long Gan Xing" is higher than Cui Hao's "Long Gan Xing" is: one is deeper and more detailed than the other. Cui Hao wrote that the young boat girl is passionate and playful with others, she is lucky.Although it has won the charm of folk songs, is romantic and gratifying, lively and true, it is not hasty in comparison, and it is not as intriguing as childhood sweethearts and childhood sweethearts.Cui Hao's poems were full of style and grace only after going deep into the frontier. When the relationship is born, it is as beautiful and soft as a peach blossom at the beginning of joining hands, but later, it becomes deep, long, and even stale and withered.There are also times of withering and sluggishness, just like the wrong season cannot bloom.However, as long as the love is immortal and the intention is endless, there will be a day when the flowers will be full of spring. When she heard the news of the return of the merchant ship, she couldn't suppress her joy and rushed to a distant place to meet her.Waiting is like a deep ocean with no bounds, longing makes people sink, and the sun cannot be seen.She would be anxious day and night because she couldn't see him, but she never regretted it. Marrying him as a businessman's wife, bearing the pressure of short gatherings and frequent departures, turned waiting into a lifelong gesture.This is the arrangement of God, a good fate planted since childhood. When you choose to love someone, since you enjoy the happiness he brings you, you must accept the hard work and suffering of loving him.This is the price of sincerity.