Chapter 58 Chapter 3 Fighting a tiger is easy, but rejecting a sister-in-law is hard

By this time, Wu Song completely understood Pan Jinlian's heart.He had to lower his head. Pan Jinlian pressed forward step by step, although Wu Song fought every step of the way and resisted stubbornly, but at this point, Wu Song had lost his armor and armor and was routed. He had no way to deal with Pan Jinlian. On Jingyang Ridge, facing the roaring tiger, although he was frightened, he did not lose his composure. At his elder brother's house, facing Yingsheng Yanyu's sister-in-law, he was upset, and he already lost his position. Now, Pan Jinlian was about to drive straight into Dragon City.

Pan Jinlian got up and warmed up a pot of wine again. When she came into the room, she pinched Wu Song's shoulder blade and said, "Uncle only wears these clothes, isn't it cold?" If it is said that the previous verbal teasing is still probing, this gentle pinch on Wu Song's shoulder is a direct fire detection.As Wu Song gradually lost his initiative and resistance, Pan Jinlian became bolder. Wu Song was already six or seven points unhappy, and he didn't respond to her, so he just lowered his head and used the torch to light the fire in the brazier. why not?Because Wu Song has no countermeasures and doesn't know how to respond.

Seeing that he didn't respond, Pan Jinlian snatched the fire chopsticks and said, "Uncle, you don't know how to start a fire. I will start a fire with you. As long as it is as hot as a brazier, it will be fine." From double cups of wine to constant heat in the fire, plus the coquettish behavior of splitting hands and grabbing chopsticks from the fire, Pan Jinlian is so talented. Wu Song was eight or nine points anxious, so he just kept silent. Yes, Wu Song only has the impatience of helplessness.From six or seven points of unhappiness to eight or nine points of anxiety, Wu Song felt that he was so incompetent in front of this gentle beauty.

Why don't you make a sound? Because you can't tell the other party. Why are you restless? Both because of the other party's rudeness, but also because of his own powerlessness. Pan Jinlian's attack became more and more daring. She poured another glass of wine, took a sip, and left most of the glass. Looking at Wu Song, she said, "If you have the heart, eat the half of my wine." This is no longer ambiguous, this is coercion!It's a showdown! It should also be noted that Pan Jinlian called Wu Song "uncle" before, but now it suddenly becomes "you".

This change shows that Pan Jinlian is trying to break the ethics of uncle and sister-in-law, trying to change the established social relationship between the two! In fact, Pan Jinlian was also forced by Wu Song: It has been more than a month, how much meticulous care, how much attentive care, how much care, how much love, how many glances, how many love words, you have been accepting these while pretending to be confused , Are you intentional or unintentional?You give me an understanding! Now, the problem is in front of Wu Song, and it is not difficult to solve it, but it is also difficult.

Wu Song refuses his wife, and feels sad for Wu Song to fight the tiger. Why?To fight a tiger is to kill it. Rejecting sister-in-law, but not simply rejecting it. The difficulty lies in adhering to moral ethics while comforting Pan Jinlian so as not to intensify the conflict.There are three reasons: First, Pan Jinlian is a sister-in-law after all, a member of the family. In traditional Chinese families, there is a saying that "the eldest sister-in-law is the mother", especially for brothers like Wu Da and Wu Er whose parents both died. .In the following, when Pan Jinlian scolded Wu Song, he clearly mentioned this sentence.Second, it angered Pan Jinlian, which not only broke the relationship between uncle and sister-in-law, but more importantly, how will Wuhan University deal with itself between his wife and brothers?Thirdly, and more importantly, Pan Jinlian will inevitably turn her anger on Wuhan University, will inevitably hate Wuhan University even more, and the relationship between husband and wife will inevitably be unsustainable.

In fact, love can be sublimated as well as transformed.Handled well, love can be transformed into a long-lasting and constant mutual understanding and concern, and transformed into an emotion close to family affection.But if it is not handled well, love will breed hatred and turn into deep-seated hatred. Rejecting Pan Jinlian's love requires Wu Song's morality.And how to turn Pan Jinlian's love for herself into family affection instead of hatred requires Wu Song's wisdom. Does Wu Song have such wisdom? At least until now, no matter what the purpose is, Pan Jinlian treats Wu Song very well.No matter how Wu Song understood it, Wu Song had always accepted Pan Jinlian's attentive care of him.

It should be said that Wu Song has a good foundation for handling the relationship between him and Pan Jinlian. However, what we saw was a very embarrassing and disappointing scene. Wu Song snatched the wine glass from Pan Jinlian, threw it on the ground, and said, "Sister-in-law, don't be so shameless!" Pushing his hand, he almost handed Pan Jinlian over. Wu Song opened his eyes and said, "Wu Er is an upright man with teeth and hair, not some kind of pig and dog who corrupt customs and inhumane! Sister-in-law, don't be so shameless. If there is any trouble, Wu Er will recognize it as sister-in-law. But the fist doesn't recognize her sister-in-law. Don't come here again!"