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Chapter 2 On Marriage and Family

The family is the cell of society. Only with sound cells can there be a sound society and even a sound and strong country. A family is firstly made up of a husband and wife. The relationship between husband and wife is the closest and longest-lasting kind of human relationship. The relationship between husband and wife is a marriage relationship, and a marriage without love is immoral! Falling in love should not only pay attention to "talent" and "appearance" emotionally, but should rationally notice the like-mindedness of the two parties (the "will" and "Tao" include love for the motherland, love for the people, love for labor, etc.), and then they are like-minded (This "feeling" and "meaning"

Including living habits and hobbies, etc.). After a not-too-short time test, family organization can be considered. A family should be responsible for a healthy cell to the society and the country, because there are tens of thousands of cells around it. A family has to live in the relationship between the two parties for a long time.Not only should one raise one's own children, but one should also take care of the parents of both parties, and one should also live in harmony with relatives, friends, teachers, students, etc. of both parties. Marriage is not the grave of love, but the beginning of a more intimate love that unites soul and body.

"When two people are of the same heart, their sharpness can cut through gold" is the crystallization of the wisdom of the Chinese people for thousands of years. The road of life, in the end, is less flat and more rugged. On the flat road, when walking hand in hand, there is a warm spring breeze around and a clear autumn moon above.The two hearts fully enjoy the quiet and smooth music of "Qin Se Harmony". On the bumpy road, when walking with support, we must endure our respective grievances and pains, and on the road full of thorns, we should comfort and encourage each other and help each other.

Surrounded by loyal and sincere love, there will never be any artificial "clearing the boundaries", such as divorce and running away, there will be no family ruin, and there will be no destruction due to extremes, weirdness, injustice, and anger. Children of the social order. On the road of life, there are not only "family difficulties" but also "national worries", as well as world wars and star wars. But the tens of thousands of families composed of healthy and happy love and marriage can face all these bravely! Morning of January 17, 1986
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