Chapter 3 Schoolgirls of "The Age of Destruction and Construction"

The three words "female student" are new terms that have appeared in recent decades.The society regards these three words differently, observes them differently, and treats them differently.It can be roughly divided into three periods. (1) The period of worshiping female students.This period is around the time when the wind is beginning to open. Words such as "freedom," "equality," and "revolution" pervade the hearts of ordinary young people.At the same time, terms such as "female students", "women's participation in politics", and "openness to men and women" also entered China.At this time, the "female students" and "model models of female students" observed by the society were the "model models of female students" in Europe and America. We saw how civilized, noble, and socially approved they were, and how female students What kind of plans to "participate in political elections" and "open men and women" are all envious and amazed.As a result, many "Chinese female students" were born. Their "purposes", "thoughts" and "actions" all completely imitated the "models" of European and American female students, and they also tried their best to "participate in political elections", "Openness between men and women" overthrows the old morality of Chinese women and breaks the barriers of Chinese etiquette and law.All kinds of arrogant speeches and behaviors can actually be appreciated by some "people who don't know the outside world".As a result, more and more of these female students appeared, causing all sorts of pitiful and ridiculous facts, which were greatly despised and reviled by the old society.Those newcomers also saw that the speech behavior of "European and American female students" was very different from that of "Chinese female students", so they also ridiculed "Chinese female students", saying that they were unqualified and worthless.The word "female student" has become an alias for the most undesirable elements in the female world. This is the darkest era in the Chinese female academic world.It also makes the society's attitude towards female students turn into a period of disgusting female students (that is, the second period).In this era, since the reputation of female students has plummeted, there are many fewer girls who are enrolled in school.Because no matter whether they are new or old, they all feel that this girls' school is a "women's sin-creating place", and they don't want their children to be contaminated with such bad habits and ruin their own reputation.Poor those who sincerely want to study are dragged down by bad elements and have to continue to receive the "education of the old family".The ray of dawn of Chinese women's education in this era is already faltering.However...if there is no "black" in the world, "white" cannot be displayed; if there is no "evil" in the world, "goodness" cannot be displayed; "The third period of female students" of social attention.

As I write this, my heart is full of joy and hope. I want to write, sing, sing and dance, and shout out to the society: "The female students you hate have passed away! The female students you admire have gradually come out!" Because The "purpose" and "thought" of the "female students in the third period" gradually changed from empty talk to reality; their "speech" and "behavior" gradually changed from indulgence to regulation; their "attitude" gradually changed from The hustle and bustle tended to be stable. The past of the "first period of female students" cannot but make them thrilled and determined to become stronger. They must try their best to restore the society's dislike of female students, to create a new foundation for Chinese girls' education, and to guide countless girls into the light in the future.They are also in destruction, and they are also in construction.They have to attract the attention of the society, because what they are responsible for is the great happiness of twenty million women forever.This happiness can be lifted to the sky by them.Or be pushed to the ground by them.This is hard work.This is a promising cause.Look!How solemn and splendid such a career is!

How can such a business be accomplished?It is to win the belief of the society.How can we gain the faith of society?We cannot do without our own self-cultivation. Writing this makes me very ashamed.Because I am also a "third period schoolgirl" myself.I haven't completely removed the "negative conditions" mentioned below.The "positive condition" has not yet been fully implemented.How dare to speak out and ask others to adopt it? I no longer have the courage to "stretch the book straight".Suddenly I remembered the two words of Confucius: "If you want to be established, you will establish others; if you want to achieve yourself, you will achieve others."These two words "desire" are really interesting to use.Because the word "desire" is nothing more than willingness and hope, and it does not say that you must do it yourself before you can advise others. Otherwise, why didn't Confucius say "If you can establish yourself, you can establish others, and if you can achieve yourself, you can achieve others"?

Since Confucius said these two sentences three thousand years ago to save me, I can't help but stop writing. The sections mentioned below should have been divided into entries, but I don’t want to use the “entries” to restrict my thoughts, and because I just think of a meaning, I just write a paragraph, so there are no “entries” up. 1.I often see some female students, in the place of entertainment and banquet, their decorations are very eye-catching, neither Chinese nor Western, neither new nor old, that kind of flamboyant and coquettish attitude, still has the "first-period female students" color.This is the color that can most defeat the "social faith", and it is the most dangerous color.Because society judges our personality by our clothing, we must be restrained in our social clothing.That is, the color of the dress should be "stable" and "elegant", and the style should be "ordinary" and "simple".The same is true for jewellery, except for useful ones such as watches, other glittering and translucent pearls, diamonds and jades are enough to devalue the value of our female students, so it is better not to use them or to use them less.

2.We must also avoid those remarks that are "highly ambitious" and "not suitable for the national conditions". Because of this kind of speech, the society has been tired of hearing it from the mouths of "first-stage female students".And feel worthless.Not only will it not be able to change the eyes of the society, but it will provoke the contempt and ridicule of the society.Therefore, we should choose the "practical" and "stable" topics such as "family hygiene", "common sense of life", and "women's career" to enlighten those women in society who have not acquired knowledge.Not only can it be effective, but it is also a positive solution to the root cause.

3. Places such as "theater" and "amusement garden" all have connotations of "hustle and bustle" and "grotesque", which can most stimulate our nerves and disturb our thoughts.Its impression in the human brain can last for dozens of hours (sometimes it can be extended), and the disturbance of these dozens of hours of stimulation cannot but damage our quiet mind and beautiful thoughts.Therefore, if this kind of stimulation and disturbance comes into contact with us frequently, it is the most dangerous thing.We should be on our guard.Don't go into "improper stimulation".

4.At the same time, "academic lectures", "concerts", "antiquities exhibition" and "gardens isolated from the hustle and bustle" This kind of place is to replace the "theatre" and "amusement garden".Because this kind of place is "righteous", "interesting", and "noble", it can cleanse and disperse our minds, enliven our thoughts, and make our knowledge gain and assist beyond "textbooks".This is the "right stimulus" that formed us and cultivated us, and we must always receive it. 5.When we get tired, we often read books other than "textbooks" at will.So this book has become a kind of pastime that is always close to us.Because since we use it as a pastime, it has nothing to do with it, so there is no strict choice.However, this book "stimulates nerves" and "disturbs thoughts" is higher than "theater" and "amusement garden", and its power is also greater. As a result, it can move our will and change our thinking.I remember that in the past, on my desk, I accidentally put a copy of "Models of New China Youth" and a copy. Sometimes I picked up "Models of New China Youth" to clear my mind. .If you pick it up, the thoughts of this day will be absurd.In the future, I wonder why my thoughts often change?After careful deduction, I realized that these two kinds of books dominated me unintentionally.In the future, I will try to put it in a place I don't often touch, so that this absurd thought will not disturb my mind.Therefore, I am convinced that if we put all kinds of valuable "news" and "magazines" in a close place, so that we can read them as entertainment, the invisible benefits will be better than "academic magazines". "Lectures" and "concerts" are even more limitless.

6.We should always pay attention to the world's "new trends", "new knowledge", "new inventions", "major events in the world and the country", "the trend of modern women's education in Europe and the United States", and "the needs of the women's world in our country today".At the same time, we have to have our own perspectives, opinions, and judgments, and write them down in words.This will be of great benefit to our "thoughts", "words" and future "services".It is also best to have the same notes for "Academic Lectures" and "Antiquities Exhibition" in Article 4 and "News" and "Magazines" in Article 5.

7.The flowers in spring, the moon in autumn, the color of the sunset by the river, the sound of spring water coming out of mountains, and all kinds of things in the universe are all "natural beauty", very magnificent and solemn, and most suitable for women's psychology.At this time, it is also easiest to develop a kind of "feeling" and "understanding" that is out of the ordinary.At the same time, if you can write this "feeling" and "understanding" in words, it will be the "sounds of nature" and "sounds of people" that "do not have a single bit of pretentiousness and are extremely cute".This is not only one of the noblest pastime methods, but also cultivates our habit of paying attention to and studying all things in the universe anytime and anywhere.And it can guide our "thoughts" and "words" gradually to a lively and magical state.The same note should be made for the "concert" and "garden isolated from the hustle and bustle" of the fourth article.

8. "Friends" also have the ability to control our "will" and "thoughts".This topic has been thoroughly discussed by people from both ancient and modern times in China and the West, so it is meaningless to talk about it. 9.We should get close to the society through the "family gatherings", "graduation parties", "concerts" and so on in the school.Because this is "orderly", "spiritual", and also "majestic and beautiful" emotion.It can make the society respect and love.Now there are gradually "group" and "individual" communication between men and women, but if it is not necessary, it seems that there is no need to get too close, because this kind of communication is likely to cause misunderstanding in society.

10.The "purpose" of our business establishment must be "popular", "positive", and "common", such as "popular education", "improving the family" and so on. Therefore, we should always pay attention to "family practice", "child psychology", "women's occupation" and so on.Because if there is no preparation in advance, we will be at a loss when things happen, and what we have learned is equivalent to empty text that cannot be applied.Other occupations such as "art", "music" and so on are not impossible to learn.However, judging from the current situation in China, we have to start with what is most needed. Dear female student Oh!We have already got the attention of the society, we have jumped onto the stage, and there are countless people standing in the audience, watching the results of our progress intently.There are also countless young women behind the stage, waiting quietly in fear.As long as we sang triumphant songs and won thunderous applause from the audience, they will enter the light together.If we fail again... We can also imagine the "feelings", "judgments", and "determinations" of those audiences in the audience and those waiting behind the stage.But what about ourselves?well! Kaiser William, who lived in a small village, and Napoleon, who was exiled to a desert island, their disappointment, their blows, and their deep grief are less than one ten-thousandth of ours.Because what they are planning is their own achievements of hundreds of years, what we are planning is the happiness of tens of millions of people forever.Their failure concerns only themselves.Our failure is related to sentient beings. My beloved schoolgirl!We have to fight against the psychology of the society and restore their disgust.Not only to seek their faith, but also to establish the foundation of the "European and American female students" they worship.The "model model of European and American female students" they admired will be realized decades later.That they may miss us, appreciate us, and sing praises to us.We're going for such huge results!How prepared we should be!How it goes! Dear "Third Period Female Students"!We will fight from today on! We must start fighting against the society's hatred of "female students"! Student Xie Wanying contributed. )