Chapter 15 envy

For women, this may be a thriller story.However, there are men who experience this regression after their wives give birth.It's ridiculous to be jealous of your own children.However, human beings are basically a black box, completely unable to predict how they will respond before being caught in a certain situation.There are two children in my family.Babies are really unbelievable. The day before, they didn't exist in this world, and one day, they suddenly popped out.They stay at home semi-permanently, and everything cannot be repeated.Moreover, they are born with their own personalities and preferences, completely disregarding their parents' ideas.This is the incredible thing about life.Recently, sons have become a thorny social issue, and I think it is a good experience to have children.Of course, there are those who choose not to have children (in fact, it is a quieter, more comfortable life).Still, having a baby at least provides a sense of how casual and irresponsible parents can be.How about it?No need to think too much.

Yuichi and Zhixiang are married in love.Yu Yi was engaged in research work in a foreign computer company, and was transferred by the company as a marketing engineer two years ago.With her salary unchanged, her husband has become more sociable again, making Chihyang happy about the change.When Yuichi was engaged in research work, he dressed casually at work every day. After being transferred to a marketing engineer, he would wear a suit and tie at work. Zhixiang likes to see men in suits. In the fifth year of marriage, the matter of having children has become the center of conversation between the two.Although they didn't decide to become Hakkas, there was no good news. They didn't want to be too deliberate, so they didn't intend to go to the obstetrics and gynecology department for examination.At the same time, I am also worried that if it is found to be a problem with one party, it will affect the married life.It's not that they don't have sex, and they enjoy the joy of fish and water regularly every month, but it hasn't blossomed and borne fruit.

Every time Zhixiang sees cute things such as palm-sized hats and shoes, she will buy them and keep them at home to welcome the baby at any time.The same goes for Yuichi, who often buys toys and plush dolls for newborns.Little ones who haven't yet appeared already have their own space in their bedroom closets. Make it a special night to celebrate your wooden wedding anniversary.They came to a familiar Italian restaurant near the station, Yu ordered champagne as an aperitif, and Chika ordered grapefruit juice. "What's wrong with you? Are you feeling unwell today?" Zhixiang usually likes to drink wine.She put her hands on her flat belly.

"Recently, I feel that I have no taste after drinking. I am a little worried, so I went to the hospital for a checkup this afternoon." "Is your stomach bad?" Zhixiang said with a smile: "No, it seems to have." Yu Yi's expression changed. "Are you pregnant?" Zhixiang nodded. "Yes, the doctor said, nine weeks pregnant." Yuichi looked very excited.He blushed and drank the champagne in one gulp. "Great. Although I didn't tell you, my parents have been very worried. I heard that the fifth anniversary of the wooden marriage is to commemorate that the husband and wife have merged into one and become a tree, so it is called a wooden marriage. Such a Come on, our family finally has a new member."

What her husband said made Zhixiang very happy.She is very grateful that Yu Yi is different from those men who have an Oedipus plot nowadays, and is willing to be a shield to protect herself. That night, Zhixiang was intoxicated just by drinking fresh grapefruit juice. Happiness is not the result of hard work, but a sudden appearance like the ever-changing wind.Children are a gift from heaven.The young mother reveled in the sweetness and gratitude of the words. For the next eight months, Yu and his wife were considerate.He leaves work early every day to take care of the housework for his handicapped wife. He has never helped tidy up after meals before, but he is happy to wash the dishes. He does not let his wife lift heavy objects, and he also vacuums the floor himself.Today's obstetrics and gynecology department will not tell pregnant women the sex of the fetus, so there are more and more clothes and toys in the closet that are suitable for both male and female babies.

Zhixiang saved her healthy daughter in early spring, which is the most suitable time for childbirth.Yuichi left work early and accompanied the delivery when entering labor.He holds the video camera, tears blurring his vision. Their daughter took the name "Cui", which both of them like very much and is also suitable for this season.One week after giving birth, Zhixiang returned home smoothly. Taking care of a newborn girl is even harder than what I saw in parenting books.During the day, Zhixiang's mother will come to help take care of her, but at night she has to come by herself.Although Cui was very petite, her crying voice sounded like an alarm.No matter which room of the three bedrooms and one living room you sleep in, you will be woken up by her.Moreover, he cried exactly every two hours, as if he had calculated it with a stopwatch. Zhixiang was groggy all day long due to lack of sleep, but Shan still worked hard to take care of the baby.The time spent with Yuyi is getting less and less. Yuyi, who used to love Cui, stopped visiting her daughter by the crib three weeks after the mother and daughter were discharged from the hospital. He only poked him and her face when she was asleep. , as if to confirm whether she is still alive.

Every time Yu Yi came home from work, he would stand at the door and refuse to enter the house.Especially when Zhixiang is busy taking care of the baby.He will always stand in the porch without taking off his shoes.When Zhixiang helped her daughter change her diaper and came out, Yuichi showed a coquettish expression and said: "Help me take off my shoes." Zhixiang thought her husband was joking at first. "I'm busy, so stop making trouble." Because of lack of sleep, the tone is very impatient.Yuichi's expression changed drastically. "What did you say? You should take care of me. Don't suddenly change from a wife to a mother."

He put one foot on the door frame and said with wide eyes. "Help me untie my shoelaces." Zhixiang sighed, squatted down, helped him untie his shoelaces, and helped her take off her wet leather shoes.Yu stretched his hand down to touch his chest, Chixiang pushed her husband's hand away and said: "No, I'm going to breastfeed soon, and now it hurts." The expression suddenly disappeared from Yu Yi's face, and he walked into his room, that face was like a wooden mask.When Cui grows up, this will be her room, and it is temporarily used as Yuichi's study. Yu Yi's childishness is getting worse and worse, he doesn't want to hug Cui at all.When Zhixiang was breastfeeding, she kept looking at this petite daughter with resentful eyes.When eating, he often does not move his chopsticks and asks Zhixiang to feed him. He really makes a happy expression like a baby.Zhixiang sometimes feels disgusting, but she is still tolerant of Yuichi's behavior.Because, on top of that, he really is an ideal husband who works hard.

On Sunday afternoon, Zhixiang greeted Yuyi and went to a nearby supermarket to buy vegetables.It's almost time to buy some weaning food and, besides, I'm running out of diapers. Yuyi lay on the sofa and read IT-related business books, and casually responded to Zhixiang.Although she only went shopping nearby, Zhixiang was very happy to have time alone. In the process of parenting, the most painful thing is not lack of sleep, not breastfeeding, changing diapers, but being deprived of your own lonely time. After leisurely shopping in the large supermarket, Zhixiang rushed home before evening.That's less than two hours of luxury.

As soon as he stood outside the iron gate of the apartment, he heard Cui's cry.Zhixiang, holding a diaper and dinner dishes in both hands, hastily unlocked the door, kicked off her slippers and rushed into the living room. The scene that caught her eyes made her rush to the whole world to collapse.Cui was thrown on the wooden floor, and her husband, Yuichi, stepped on the belly of the three-month-old baby with bare feet.He stepped up and down rhythmically as if stepping on green bamboo. "What are you doing?" Zhixiang screamed and rushed over, pulling her husband aside.He hugged Cui and wiped away the tears on her face.

Yu propped his hands behind his back, staring blankly at his weeping wife and daughter. a week later.Zhixiang runs away from home with Cui.I went back to my mother's house nearby.Three months later, they divorced.No matter how you communicate.Yu's jealousy over his biological daughter continues undiminished.Not only that, he even proposed that in order to restore the previous married life, Cui should be given to someone else as an adopted daughter. Zhixiang has no idea what love is.Counting the time of their relationship, he and Yuichi have lived together for more than seven years.Yu Yi is not only serious and honest, but also has a sense of humor, so he should be an ideal husband.When Zhixiang had a dispute with her parents-in-law over the wedding, Yuichi also supported his wife. He is a rare independent man who does not depend on his mother nowadays. However, because of the jealousy of the long-awaited child, he fell into madness. He forgot common sense and gradually degenerated, as if he was a different person.How deep do you have to know someone to truly love him?Zhixiang fed her naive daughter weaning food, and was terrified of the inscrutability of the human heart. Now, no matter who she sees, she feels like a black hole with its mouth wide open to the world. A year later, Cui called her "Mom" for the first time, and her daughter still doesn't know the word "Daddy".