Chapter 3 entertainment

There must be a real master in the operation and storage, and if there is no real master, you will fall when things happen. How can you plant the pillar of the sky and the earth!The application must have a circular machine, and if there is no circular machine, it will be hindered by touching objects. How can it become the economics of spinning and spinning! When dealing with the world, a gentleman should not treat people lightly with joy and anger. If joy and anger are light, then the heart and soul will be peeped by others; If you rely on your talents and play the world, you must guard against projectile insects behind your back; if you decorate your appearance to deceive others, you may have a mirror in front of you.

With a clear mind and body, if you are always in the mirror and still water, there will be no hateful things in the world; if you have a peaceful mind, and enjoy the sunshine and wind, there will be no hateful people in the world.When right and wrong are friends, one must not be less accommodating, and less accommodating will lead to failure to follow the righteousness of the opposite; when it comes to gain and loss, one should not be too clear, too clear will lead to selfishness of avoidance. Flies are attached to the steed, and the victor will be victorious. It is difficult to escape the shame of being behind;Therefore, a gentleman would rather rely on wind and frost to coerce himself than to be a relative of fish and birds.

If the mind of the ugly is too clear, things will not be compatible; if the mind of the virtuous and foolish is too clear, people will not be close.A gentleman must be shrewd on the inside and honest on the outside, so that the good and the ugly can be balanced, and the virtuous and the foolish can benefit from it. This is the natural virtue. Those who observe for clarity often produce darkness because of light, so a gentleman cultivates wisdom with tranquility; those who strive for speed often become delayed because of speed, so a gentleman uses emphasizing and lightening.Gentlemen, who benefit others and benefit things, are actually suitable for living, but not for living in their names, because living in their names will damage their morality; scholar-bureaucrats worry about the country and the people, so they should have their hearts, and they should not have their words, and their words will ruin them.

Those who are restrained in big matters will relax in small things; those who are in the open court for inspection will be relaxed in the dark room.A gentleman just sticks to one thought to the end, naturally facing small things as if facing a big enemy, sitting in a secret room is like sitting on a thoroughfare. It is better to make people have a reputation in front of them than to make them have no ruin behind them; Those who are good at enlightening people's hearts should gradually understand it because of what they understand, and do not forcefully open what is closed; The colored pen draws the sky, the pen does not fade, and the sky is not stained; the sharp knife cuts the water, the knife does not damage the collar, and the water does not leave a trace.Get this idea to stay in the world, feel and respond, and forget both the mind and the environment.

One's own desires cannot be indulged, and should be restrained by the method of rebellion, the way is only the word "forbearance"; human desires cannot be brushed away, and the method of sympathy should be used to regulate them, the way is only the word of "forgiveness".Today, everyone forgives others for the sake of adapting themselves and forbearance to restrain others. Those who are good at observation are not clear, those who can see but not see are called bright; those who are sure to win are not brave, those who can win and be invincible are called brave. If you are good at saving time at any time, it is as if the wind can dissipate the scorching heat; if you can be free from vulgarity amidst the vulgarity, it is like the light clouds reflected by the pale moon.

Those who want to enter the world and do something, must first get the scenery outside the world, otherwise they will not be able to get rid of the filth and filth; those who want to be out of the world without contamination must first understand the taste of the world.Otherwise, there is no way to sustain the bitterness after emptiness. For those who are with others, it is better to be close to the beginning than it is easy to neglect the end; for those who are in charge, it is better to stay in the front than clumsy to hold on to the back. Cruel disasters often arise from negligent people; great achievements are often lost in trivial matters.The old saying goes: "Everyone is good, so we must guard against one person's thinking; everything has merit, and we must prevent one thing from ending."

Fame and wealth, if you look at the end from the point of extinction, you will be greedy and self-deprecating; if you are poor and poor, if you look at the source from the beginning, then you will rest in resentment. We must be responsible for the internal affairs of the universe, but we must also be good at getting rid of them.If you don't take responsibility, you won't have a career in the world; if you don't get rid of it, you won't have the prospect of being born in the world. If you treat others with more than enough, your inexhaustible grace can maintain the heart of the insatiable; if you treat things with more than enough, your inexhaustible talents can guard against unexpected events.

If you set your mind to do your own thing, it's like uprooting the roots but not the grass; escaping from the world and not escaping the name, it's like gnats in the mutton but still gather. The crossbow of the enemy is easy to avoid, but the sword of grace is difficult to guard; the hurdle of hard times is easy to escape, but the trap of happiness is hard to escape. If the mutton is filthy, flies and gnats will swarm, and if the fragrance is fragrant, bees and butterflies will invade.Therefore, a gentleman does not do dirty work, nor does he establish a reputation.It's just that the vitality is full, and the corners of the body are not exposed, so it is a comfortable place to stick to the world.

Watching things move from a quiet place, and watching people busy from a leisurely place, you can have a taste that is beyond the mundane and refined; sneaking away when you are busy, and being quiet in a noisy place, is a job for you to settle down. It is better to release one person's grievances than to invite the joy of thousands of people; it is better to avoid the ugliness of one thing than to wish for the glory of thousands of things. For those who are down, it is difficult to get together and to be separated;Therefore, a gentleman would rather be afraid of being strong than of being flattering.

Spiritual energy and the world are in harmony, like the drums of the spring breeze, and there should be no estrangement; Although the official career is brilliant, if you often think about the flavor of the forest, you will lighten your thoughts on power;To aid the bow before the harp arrives, and to call for arrows after the rabbit is dead, is not a matter of opportunity; when the wind subsides, the waves rise, and the boat leaves the boat everywhere, that is the craftmanship. A few cold words from the lively scene will wipe out infinite murderous opportunities; use a little warm heart on the road to the cold, and cultivate many businesses by yourself.To follow fate is to send fate together, like dancing butterflies and flying flowers; if things go smoothly, nothing will happen, like a full moon and a bowl of water.

The defense of indifference must be tested in the rich and colorful field; the practice of calmness has also been explored in the chaotic environment.Otherwise, the method is uncertain, the application is not yet perfect, and there is a fear that when the opportunity arises, a high-level Zen master will become a low-level layman. Lian so quit greed.If I'm not greedy, why should I label my name honest, since I've been looking sideways at greedy husbands.Let's stop fighting.If I don't fight, why should I make a concession, so that the thugs bend their bows. When nothing happens, it is only by precaution that you can make up for unexpected changes; when nothing happens, calmness can eliminate the danger in the situation. Wanting people to be grateful in the world is the way to suppress grievances; eliminating harm for others when encountering problems is the opportunity to guide people to benefit. If you hold your body like Mount Tai and the nine tripods, you will have less mistakes; if you respond to things like flowing water and flowers, you will pass away leisurely, and you will have more fun. A gentleman is as strict as a stone and fears that it will be difficult to get close to, and seldom takes the pearl as a monster to press the heart of the sword; When things happen, just keep calm and calm, even if there are chaos, you will be ready at last; treat others without any hypocrisy, even though you are as cunning as a mountain ghost, you are also sincere. The liver and intestines are as warm as the spring breeze, even though they have no money, they still feel sorry for the loneliness; If you seek the cheapness of human affairs, you will suffer the loss of heaven; if you are greedy for the benefits of the world, you will suffer the loss of your nature.Those who are involved in the world should choose it, and be careful not to fall into a deep well for being greedy for a yellow bird, or to flick a bird while giving up Sui pearls.Spending thousands of gold to attract virtuous men is like pouring half a spoonful of millet to feed the hungry; building thousands of jacarandas to attract guests is like repairing a few rafters of grass to shelter the lonely and poor. Those who solve the struggle will help them with prestige, and the anger will calm down; those who punish the greedy will help them with desires, and the heart will become weak.The so-called guiding them according to their potential is also an expedient method to save the time and adapt to the situation. The kindness of the city is not as thick as the reward of virtue.Xue's anger is not as high as humiliation.It is better to escape from fame than to gain reputation.Hypocrisy is not as straightforward as the truth. Those who save a failed matter are like riding a horse facing a cliff, don't give up a whip; those who want to succeed are like pulling a boat on the beach, don't stop once. Xianda laughed and flicked the crown, Hugh lightly flicked his train to Houmen; knowing each other is like pressing the sword, and don't throw pearls secretly from the world. Yang Xiu's body was killed by Cao Cao to reveal his strengths; Wei Dan's tomb was killed by Zhong Yao to hide his beauty.Therefore, most philosophers hide their talents to keep a low profile, and most people are often unbeautiful and fair. Young people don’t worry about being unsteady, and often suffer from being rash and reckless, so they should restrain their impetuosity; mature people, don’t worry about being impatient, often suffer from being cautious and shrink back, so they should be indolent . Looking at the gentry, how can it be like the praise of the humble.A friend who comes to Haiyu is like a heart of flesh and blood. When the tongue is alive, the teeth often die, and the strong and strong will eventually overcome the weak.