Chapter 71 etiquette

The leader of the cottage is also a human being. Weddings and funerals, welcoming and sending off are indispensable. He is as awesome as Wu Song, and he also follows others. Lu Zhishen, a fool, happily rushes to help. Zhu Wu once expressed his emotions about gift giving, that gifts are reciprocated, and gifts are "shang" reciprocated. Once a person is born, no one can break free.To put it bluntly, didn't beggar Liu from the front street also give two big steamed buns when beggar Wang from the back street got married?Speaking of nobility, when the emperor celebrates his birthday, which minister would not rush to attend the ceremony?

Even people who have jumped out of the Three Realms are not unavoidable. Elder Zhizhen of Wenshu Monastery, on the 70th birthday of Elder Zhiqing of Daxiangguo Temple, didn't he send congratulations from thousands of miles away? When you were born, others gave gifts to your parents, when you gave birth to a son, others gave you gifts, when you died, others gave gifts to your son?The cycle goes on and on, who can avoid the vulgarity? Dynasties change, etiquette remains the same, five thousand years of civilization history is five thousand years of etiquette history.Which leg a new daughter-in-law gets out of the sedan chair first, and which direction to turn her head after death, are all particular.

Red and white weddings, pay attention to the excitement, passers-by are well known.I asked Zhu Wu, why such a big scene?This guy thought hard for a long time, and said that there were two reasons: first, one person couldn't lift the sedan chair; own wife. Gift-giving is a profound knowledge. Although everyone has learned it, most people only know the superficial knowledge, and few people can grasp its essence. Gifts must be just right. What can be done with ten taels of silver, if you give three taels to a disgusting person, giving nine taels will fall short of your success. Sending twenty taels is obviously not worthwhile.

There are three levels of gift giving, the highest level: giving charcoal in the snow, the middle level: icing on the cake, and the lowest level: counterproductive. To send charcoal in the snow is to give what is lacking, to send a rope by falling into a well, and to send wood by falling into the sea, he will definitely remember it in his heart, this is the highest state, it does not cost money, but it can make the other party appreciate you for a lifetime.According to Zhu Wu, there is only one person in ten thousand who has reached this level, and he only knows one person, that person is Gao Lian, who is now a Taiwei, in charge of the deployment of troops and horses across the country.

The icing on the cake, if others give Nvhong, you also give Nvhong, if others give dog meat, you also give dog meat, if you give it, it means you don’t get it, it’s nothing new, it’s just familiar.Most people can only stay in this state, and it is difficult to break through in a lifetime. It was just the opposite, the child’s front foot was torn off by wolves, you went to give candied haws on the back foot, and the old lady was just kidnapped by a monk, so you went to give it to the chastity archway, and emphasized that it was pure gold, emerald ones were useless!This is a typical type of looking for something to do, and Lu Zhishen is this type. I couldn't remember your name, so I took the initiative to post it.

After listening to it, I was greatly inspired. It is really better to listen to your nonsense than to read ten years of books. Gifts should be given sooner rather than later. Think about it, how many people does the leader have to welcome and send in a day?They're not gods, so how can they remember all of them, but sending them off early is also risky. Last time, Mrs. Chao was pregnant in eight months, and Chao Tianwang ran to Hu Sanniang's house every day for nothing. Mrs. Chao was so angry that she had nowhere to vent her anger. The cow's butt was kicked by Lao Huang and aborted.

Mrs. Gu, who came back to help, told Erniang Sun halfway up the mountain, she had a miscarriage, and she was still a big fat boy, how pitiful!Yang Zhi was passing by, didn't hear the first sentence, heard the middle sentence, and ran away in a hurry, didn't hear the latter sentence clearly, but judging from what happened later, he probably didn't hear it. This fellow led a few men, carried two baskets of eggs, and ran to the gate of Chao Tianwang's house, beat gongs and drums, set off firecrackers, and made Chao Tianwang's face turn green with anger. Yang Zhi is well-known, skilled in martial arts, and well-born, so he should have been promoted to a department-level cadre a long time ago, but Chao Gai suppressed him and refused to promote him, and now he is still standing still at the department-level position.

deserve it!Let you brag about your ancestors again! deserve it!Let you always run ahead of me in giving gifts!