Chapter 70 Twenty-one, hard to let go

After Yixue came back from Beijing, she was in a bad mood. She didn't believe that Ding Nengtong would be a flirt, because she always thought that in his mind, no one could replace her.She kept herself bored at home and cried for a whole day, and made up her mind to divorce Ding Nengtong. Ding Nengtong was always worried about Yixue, so he had to call Yimei and told the truth about what happened in Beijing. Yimei didn't believe that Ding Nengtong was innocent. After she scolded Ding Nengtong on the phone, she promised him to persuade Yixue . After getting off work in the evening, Yixue rode a bicycle straight to Yixue's house. Yimei had the key to Yixue's house. When she entered the house, Yixue was lying on the bed disheveled, looking at the ceiling and crying silently.

"Xue'er, that bastard Ding Nengtong called me, and I scolded him, don't cry, it's nothing serious." "Sister, I want to divorce her, but he dares to talk to other women behind my back. I'll let him do it, and I'll make way for him." "Bullshit, you think divorce is a child's play, leave as soon as you say, you know how hard it is for my sister to get divorced." "I think you're fine living alone." "What a fart, Xue'er, you can't act emotionally. Which man doesn't flirt, let me see that the men who don't flirt are all useless. Look at the great men in history, which one can get entangled with women? Back then, your brother-in-law Flirty, I also got divorced in a fit of anger, in fact, I should give him a chance to correct his mistakes, but I didn't give him a chance at all, he begged me so much, but I didn't give it to him, but I forgot, I didn't give him a chance , just don’t give me a chance. Men are animals first, and then men. You see, those male lions own a large group of female lions; those male monkeys also own so many female monkeys. Yes, it’s the same as urinating when you’re holding back, you have to find a place to urinate if you’re so full of urgency, you’re just finding a urinal temporarily, and you’ll pull it down after urinating, it’s nothing to do with love or hate, you really let him marry those women Don't do it! Xue'er, women should be more generous and magnanimous. If a woman is narrow-minded, it will be herself who suffers. It is not easy for Ding Nengtong to drift in Beijing alone. Unavoidable, you should visit him more often, care about him more, and you should also look for problems from yourself."

"Sister, according to what you said, he is still reasonable. To forgive him is to indulge him. Will he still have me in his heart?" "Xue'er, you were wrong. You forgave him, and he was so ashamed that he would restrain himself. If you didn't forgive him or give him a chance to correct his mistakes, he would run away in fright. Xue'er , if you don’t love him in your heart, it’s okay, let’s make a clean break with him, the question is can you let him go in your heart?” "Sister, I just can't accept him being nice to other women!" After speaking, Yixue lay in Yimei's arms and began to cry.

"Xue'er," Yimei said affectionately, "I will tell you a story. This story is about my sister who was in great pain after divorce. My colleagues saw that I was suffering, so they invited me to a bar. There was a card on the table that said Yes, after my sister read it, she thought a lot and finally understood who is the most important person in your life." Yixue had never seen Yimei so solemn, with piercing eyes, she slowly raised her head and listened carefully. "In a university in the United States, when the class was about to end, the professor said to his students: I will play a game with everyone, who is willing to cooperate with me? A girl came up to the stage, and the professor said: Please write on the blackboard The names of the 20 people you can’t let go of. The girl did as she did, and she wrote a list of the names of her neighbors, friends and relatives. The professor said: Please cross out the one you think is the least important person! Girls cross out She crossed out the name of one of her neighbors, and the professor said: Please cross out another one. The girl crossed out another friend of hers... Finally, on the blackboard, there were only four people left, her parents, husband and child, The classroom was very quiet, and the students looked at the professor quietly, feeling that this was no longer a game. The professor calmly said: Please cross out another one. The girl hesitated, making a difficult choice... She held up She crossed out her parents' names with her hand, "Please cross out one more." The professor's voice came again, and the girl was stunned. She raised the chalk tremblingly and slowly crossed out her son's name. Then, she burst into tears, looking very painful. After the professor calmed her down a little, he asked: "The closest relatives to you should be your parents and children, because parents are the ones who raised you, and children are your own, and your husband You can find it again, but why is he the most difficult person for you to let go? The students quietly looked at their female classmate, waiting for her answer. The girl said slowly and firmly: "With time As time goes by, my parents will leave me, and my children will definitely leave me when they grow up and become independent, and the only one who can really accompany me through my life is my husband!"

After Yimei finished speaking, Yixue was silent for a long time. The room was so quiet that she could hear a needle drop. Obviously, Yixue was deeply touched by this story, because she couldn't let Ding Nengtong go. If you want to divorce, it's just out of anger. "Sister, I'll listen to you, but I'm asking him to apply for immigration for me and my child. I'm really going to immigrate to Canada. How can I rest assured that he's messing around in Beijing all by himself?" "Xue'er, you have taught him a lesson this time, at least he should restrain himself."

"Sister, how is the matter between you and Shi Cunshan going?" "Shi Cunshan still can't let go of the dead Duan Yufen in his heart. Maybe it will be better if the case is solved and the murderer is brought to justice. It will take some time between me and Cunshan." "Sister, he can't let go of Yufen in his heart, which shows that he is a kind and righteous person, unlike Ding Neng, who is always in trouble. You have to grasp this fate!" The two sisters seldom have such a heart-to-heart talk. In the past few years, Yimei has lived alone with the child, and her heart is very bitter. When it comes to marriage, her biggest regret is that she gave up in a fit of anger. She doesn't want her sister to go her own way. Be tighter, because there are no cats that don't eat fish, not to mention that there are many women who take the initiative to pout. If you really find that a man is wrong, turn a blind eye, close one eye, be more tolerant, and maybe everything is over. This is the life of a woman.